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A Woman is Murdered in Trinidad, the Mayor Blames Her

February 13, 2016 By HKearl

Trigger Warning – Rape and Murder

Asami Nagakiya, a 30-year-old Japanese professional musician. Image via Change.org

Tragically this week, Asami Nagakiya, a Japanese women who attended the Trinidad Carnival celebration as a professional musician, was murdered — and likely raped. Now there’s a petition you can sign calling for the local mayor’s resignation after he blamed HER for it.

Via the Washington Post:

“‘She had a laceration on her elbow and black and blue marks on her waist,’ Adams told reporters. ‘It look like a rape/murder to me.’

Authorities released an autopsy report Thursday stating that Nagakiya had been strangled, according to television station CNC. They have not commented on the suspicion that Nagakiya was sexually assaulted.”

To make matters worse, the local mayor blamed HER for her own death.

Also via WaPo:

“‘You know before Carnival I did make a comment about vulgarity and lewdness,’ Raymond Tim Kee said during a Wednesday press conference, according to local media station Loop. ‘The woman has the responsibility to ensure that [she is] not abused.’

Kee’s cringe-worthy comments kept getting worse, as he tried to link the Japanese musician’s killing to Carnival culture.

‘And my argument was you could enjoy Carnival without going through that routine … of prancing and partying,’ he asked. ‘Then why you can’t continue with that and maintain some kind of dignity?’

‘You have to let your imagination roll a bit and figure out was there any evidence of resistance or did alcohol control?’ he told reporters. ‘Therefore involuntary actions were engaged in, and so on ….

‘It’s a matter of, if she was still in her costume – I think that’s what I heard – let your imagination roll,’ he added, before casting the killing less as an outrageous crime than as an ’embarrassment’ for the city.”

Fortunately, there has been huge outcry over his comments.

“Within hours, a woman had launched an online petition calling for Kee’s resignation. By early Friday morning, it had gathered nearly 7,000 signatures. (That equates to roughly 10 percent of the population of Port of Spain.)

‘Victim shaming is an irresponsible thing for anyone to do, far less a leader in a society,’ wrote Rhoda Bharath, a St Augustine resident who signed the petition. ‘[The] Mayor has shown himself to be both insensitive, preemptive and ignorant. He must go.’

‘Tim Kee is an example of everything wrong with leadership in this country,’ added Ryan Ramoutar, a signatory from Point Fortin. ‘His thinking is archaic and his opinion essentially exonerates the perpetrators of any responsibility. He has, effectively, endorsed murder.'”

Our thoughts go out to her family and friends and hope there will be justice for her death. And we applaud everyone who is calling out the outrageous victim-blaming!

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: Asami Nagakiya, mayor, murder, rape, trinidad, victim blaming

USA: Addressing “Revenge Porn” Beyond the Criminal Legal System

February 11, 2016 By Correspondent

LB Klein, Georgia, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

“Revenge porn” is a euphemism for a form of sexual violence that can also involve harassment, intimate partner violence, and stalking. It involves the non-consensual sharing of sexually explicit still or moving images. These images may have originally been taken with or without consent and may have originally been consensually shared with a partner or stolen via hacking of a personal computer or phone. This “revenge porn” is then often posted on websites, sometimes with the victim’s contact information, social media sites, or address, so that they can be further harassed and humiliated.

There are two commonly proposed solutions for “revenge porn.” The first is the idea that people should just stop taking nude photos of themselves. This solution blames victims and shames people, usually women, for their sexuality. The issue with “revenge porn” is the lack of consent in distributing the images, not in the existence of the images themselves. The root cause is not the existence of bodies or people seeing them but in who has consent to see them and how perpetrators, typically men, leverage patriarchy to shame their women partners to gain “revenge.”

The second proposed solution, while less victim-blaming, is also often quite ineffective: turning to the criminal legal system. While 23 states currently have laws against “revenge porn” and seventeen more are drafting legislation, “revenge porn” is a psychologically and sexually abusive form of violence that relies on community shaming. Like many other forms of gender-based violence, “revenge porn” is rarely addressed in a timely or fulfilling manner by the criminal legal system and victims are often left without recourse and with increased stigma. There are people who will never feel safe turning to the police or the courts for help, even if those avenues are improved. Simply making “revenge porn” illegal is but one step toward true prevention and intervention.

There are six key areas outside of introducing new legislation or advocating for risk reduction can be leveraged to address “revenge porn.”

  1. Increase capacity of sexual and domestic violence service providers.

It is vital that advocates and counselors learn more about the nature and dynamics of “revenge porn” so that they can identify the behavior and possible remedies. As these providers are already working these issues, they can also raise awareness that “revenge porn” is a form of gender-based violence and that its victims deserve support.

  1. Increase public education and awareness without shaming victims.

Due to recent media attention, there is increased awareness that “revenge porn” is happening, but the sensationalism and emphasis on legal intervention does not inspire the public to take responsibility. Educational efforts should focus on what community members can do to aid in prevention by not going to websites, shaming websites that host nonconsensually-shared images, and providing support to friends who are targeted through “revenge porn.” This will give perpetrators less power to leverage shame and survivors more community support.

  1. Include discussion of “revenge porn” in bystander intervention programs.

Bystander intervention is a powerful prevention strategy that centers on seeing all members of the community as a part of the solution for ending violence. These programs should include examples of “revenge porn” alongside other forms of interpersonal violence. These programs can emphasize the need for perpetrator accountability and the power of active bystanders to shift the culture that emboldens “revenge porn” perpetrators.

  1. Engage with leaders in the technology field to develop innovation solutions.

While “revenge porn” is simply a form of gender-based violence facilitated using new technology, social media and the idea are relevant points of consideration when uncovering solutions. By marrying violence prevention expertise and technological prowess, we can design new solutions that can adapt to changing times. Technological interventions might make it harder for abusers to disseminate “revenge porn” or might help survivors quickly get images taken down.

  1. Fund further research on the impact of revenge porn and the effectiveness of current legislation.

As legislation is so commonly proposed as the solution for “revenge porn,” the effectiveness of said legislation should be evaluated over time. This research should include both the number of cases that are successfully prosecuted versus those that are not as well as interviews with survivors on how the processes are or are not serving them.

  1. Explore restorative and healing models for accountability.

As we continue to assess the efficacy of criminal legal models of accountability for “revenge porn,” it is also critical to explore restorative and transformative justice models that emphasize healing. It is also important to consider how to change the attitudes and beliefs of men who facilitate violence on the internet by shaming and harassing victims, even though there are rarely laws that address their behavior. It is vital to consider what the survivor wants from accountability processes and to build their restoration into our measures of success.

“Revenge porn” is a new manifestation of a pervasive endemic public health issue: gender-based violence. It relies on a patriarchal culture in which even well-meaning individuals abdicate responsibility. This leads to the perpetuation of a myth that criminal and civil legal systems work to provide justice and restoration to victims or that further shaming and limiting the sexualities of women is prevention. Because these are false promises, we must consider new solutions that are rooted in communities, address power and privilege, promote education, empower bystanders, and use innovative technological practices. Only through leveraging interdisciplinary expertise and listening to what survivors really want will we see a shift in a culture that enables “revenge porn” and excuses those who host and post it.

LB is an Atlanta-based researcher, advocate, and educator dedicated to ending gender-based violence, supporting survivors, and advancing social justice.  You can follow her on twitter @LB_Klein.

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Filed Under: correspondents Tagged With: laws, revenge porn

#CarnivalSemAssedio Campaign in Brazil

February 9, 2016 By HKearl

CarnavalSemAssedio‬ campaign in brazil, feb 2016Via Telesur TV:

“A campaign against street harassment during Carnival is gathering steam in Brazil.

The campaign is using the hashtag ‪#‎CarnavalSemAssedio‬, or ‪#‎CarnivalWithoutHarassment‬, to help dispel the myth that harassment during Carnival is somehow more permissible.
“Unfortunately, sexual abuse figures increase in this period for many reasons and many men justify their abusive behavior as a normal attempt to ‘flirt’,” Heloisa Aun, one of the campaign’s founders, told Forum magazine.

According to the campaign’s materials, the goal is to “combat violence and machismo, promoting discussion that harassment is harassment no matter the time of year.”

Organizers are calling on women and men to break the silence and speak out against harassment during carnival, using the hashtag to document cases of harassment.”

Good for them!

I’m wishing all who celebrate it a safe & fun Carnival and Mardi Gras!

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews, News stories Tagged With: brazil, Carnival, festival, street harassment

Video: Doggie Harassment

February 8, 2016 By HKearl

The ladies in this video show how inappropriate street harassment is, including when it’s directed at dogs.

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“These unfortunate samples of human existence do not deserve to get the better of my calm”

February 5, 2016 By Contributor

It was around 5:30 in the evening and I was walking down an alley which had houses on one side, however, there was a street light knocked out right above the spot where the three harassers were sitting. I was walking along and one of the guys, in a sing-sing voice called out for his dick to be sucked. I immediately stopped in my tracks, turned around to face them and made a stern face and looked them in the eye for about 5 seconds, and one of them asked “What?” in a very surprised tone.

After I’d stood narrowed my eyes at them for a while, I began walking away, with my heart racing, hoping they wouldn’t follow me. I could hear one of them justify amongst themselves (or maybe it was for me to hear) how he had said the phrase only as the lyrics to a song. I felt like I should’ve made them apologize. It’s just that these unfortunate samples of human existence do not deserve to get the better of my calm but the scenario of an ideal response keeps bothering me.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Build a person’s conscience and morals in the private space to ensure safety in the public space.

– S.R.

Location: Kolkata, India, on the way to a departmental store

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