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Donate for Giving Tuesday, 2018!

November 27, 2018 By HKearl

Where did you first experience sexual harassment?

If I had to guess, I’d say it was when you were in a public space, like a street, store, bus, restaurant, swimming pool, or park.

Our 2018 national survey, funded in large part by our 2017 Giving Tuesday campaign, shows that public spaces are where people were most likely to first experience this type of violation… often as a teenager or younger! Public spaces also are the most common place to experience sexual harassment, period.

This is not okay and we need YOUR help to change this.

Indeed, we work hard every day to change this reality:

  • We run a website for people to share their stories and find resources (nearly 2 million people have visited).
  • We fund the only national hotline where people can find support, run by staff at the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network.
  • We conduct research that informs policy. In 2019, we hope to conduct a five-year update to our 2014 ground-breaking study on street harassment.
  • We mobilize community action globally each spring through International Anti-Street Harassment Week.
  • We work on local efforts, like the anti-harassment transit campaign in Washington, D.C.

This year, we commemorated 10 years of action. Across that time, we have seen a lot of positive change, including more people recognizing that this is a human rights violation and more people and entities taking action to stop it.

With your support, we can continue our important work in 2019, including running the national street harassment hotline, Anti-SH Week, and doing new research.

Most of our funds come from individual donors. With a small nonprofit like ours, your funds literally make the difference between us being able to do programming and not.  Please, take this opportunity to invest in a future where everyone is safe in public spaces!

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16 Days – Day 2: Speaking Out in France

November 26, 2018 By HKearl

Each day across the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, we will highlight a 2018 activism effort undertaken to stop street harassment or a personal story about stopping harassers!

Day #2: Speaking Out in France

A man punched Marie Laguerre in the face in Paris, France, after he verbally sexually harassed her and she told him to shut up. She collected witness testimonies, got the surveillance video from a café near where it happened and filed a police report. He was later arrested and she started a website where women can share their stories. Her publicized experience garnered international attention and outcry, bringing more attention to the pervasive problem of street harassment.

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16 Days – Day 1: Research on Girls’ Safety

November 25, 2018 By HKearl

From sexual harassment and violence in homes to the streets, from schools to workplaces, women’s and girls’ equality and right to be safe is impeded every day by gender-based violence. Today is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women, as designated by the United Nations to recognize this human rights violation and to say ENOUGH. Everyone deserves a life that is safe and free from violence.

What will you do to speak out against men’s violence against women and girls, including street harassment?

Today also marks the start of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence. It will conclude on 10 December, International Human Rights Day.

Each day across the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, we will highlight a 2018 activism effort undertaken to stop street harassment or a personal story about stopping harassers!

Day #1: Research on Girls’ Safety

Plan International released a report, based on interviews with 21,000 girls in Delhi, Kampala, Lima, Madrid and Sydney, that says street harassment is a pervasive problem for them. One researcher said, “The level of danger girls are facing in cities is shocking and we all have a role to play in ensuring everybody feels safe in our cities — whether they are on the street, on public transport or in parks. Individuals, communities, governments and authorities should all be spurred to act.”

Plan International Australia suggests that girls should be involved in planning cities to reduced gender-based exclusion and street harassment. They also recommend “behavior change programs that target toxic masculinity, tackle social norms and address the root causes of gender-based street harassment.”

“We have to have this conversation now. Good men, there are a lot of them, they’re a majority, they have to start speaking up and speaking out and they have to start calling out this behaviour because enough is enough. It shouldn’t be on girls to fix this problem,” said Plan International Australia CEO Susanne Legena.

In another report by Plan International, titled “Girls’ Safety in Cities across the World“, almost 400 experts in 22 cities across six continents discussed the safety risks that girls and young women face. It found that Lima is the world’s most dangerous city for girls to go out alone, while Stockholm is the safest city for sexual harassment and for girls to leave the house alone. “The poll is the first of its kind to highlight the universality of the dangers girls and young women face in cities and public spaces across different societies and cultures, which it says affects the lives of millions and yet remains ignored.”

Lastly, research conducted by Plan International UK found that one in three girls in the UK have been street harassed while wearing their school uniform and 66% have faced some kind of street harassment overall. They found that many girls feel street harassment is “all part of growing up.”

The organization has made several recommendations, including:

  • Public awareness campaigns to spread the message that street harassment “is not OK”
  • Offer training for bystanders on how to safely intervene
  • Support boys and men to change their attitudes and challenge harassment
  • Provide relationship and sex education to young people
  • Training for workers in public places (shop staff, bus drivers) on spotting harassment and reporting it
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Holiday Shopping and Black Friday Deals

November 23, 2018 By HKearl

This holiday season, you can support us by selecting us as your nonprofit of choice when you shop via Amazon Smile! 

STREET HARASSMENT BOOKS
If you want to buy a book that addresses street harassment here are a few: 

  • Stop Street Harassment: Making Public Places Safe and Welcoming for Women
  • 50 Stories about Stopping Street Harassers
  • Stop Global Street Harassment: Growing Activism Around the World
  • Hey Shorty!
  • Not That Bad: Dispatches from Rape Culture
  • Everyday Sexism
  • Sex Object: A Memoir
  • Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women’s Anger
  • The Right Amount of Panic: How Women Trade Freedom for Safety
  • Men’s Intrusion, Women’s Embodiment: A critical analysis of street harassment

SSH SWAG:
If you want any Stop Street Harassment swag, check out the Black Friday deals on Zazzle (a portion of the proceeds go to SSH).

Lastly, our Giving Tuesday page is live if you want to get a head start on your charitable giving. Our big goal is $32,000, but if we can at least raise $10,000, we will be operational next year. 

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“Disgusting mouth and tongue gestures”

November 10, 2018 By Contributor

I do home health care for work. I wear scrubs 99% of the time (today I was wearing scrubs). I walked out of a patient’s house after treating them and got to my car which was parked a very short distance away. I got into my car and rolled the windows down halfway to look up my next patient’s address. As I am doing this, a younger man wearing a baseball cap says hello and asks me something about directions to downtown. I politely say I am not familiar with the area and I am here for work and seeing my patients. He then asks me how old I am, I deflect with a “You should never ask a woman how old they are.”

He is not taking the hint that I have people to see and places to go. He then asks me why I’m in the neighborhood and if I wanted to f**k. Yes that’s correct he just straight up asked me that. My mind went blank for a moment as I was in utter shock at the statement. I said something along the lines of “No. And I need to get back to work.”

He then asked, “Why not? Why don’t you want to f**k?”

Again I said, “I need to go” and “you need to leave.”

He eventually took the hint but made a few disgusting mouth and tongue gestures before he drove off.

I felt immediately angry, pissed off, and frustrated. I also felt like I wanted to take a shower and go home instead of seeing my patients.

– Regina Spehalski

Location: Pasadena, Texas

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