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USA: When will street harassment finally be categorized as a crime?

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Brittany Oliver, Baltimore, MD, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

Minister Omonte. (Photo Credit: Ministerio de la Mujer/Flickr)

In case you missed it, Carmen Omonte, Peru’s Minster of Women and Vulnerable Populations, announced her intention to include sexual street harassment in the penal code as a crime.

It’s been reported that sexual harassment and assault on the streets of Peru has recently sparked outrage after actress Magaly Solier was assaulted by a man who masturbated behind her at a bus station. In Peru, sexual street harassment is categorized as a civil offense, not a criminal offense.

While I am all for the idea if making sexual street harassment a crime, how many women need to be harassed before people realize it’s a serious issue? Women and girls experience street harassment every day, so why did it take an actress to be harassed for it to be considered a crime? I truly believe if we just dealt with sexual street harassment in the appropriate manner, we wouldn’t need to wait for someone famous to do something about it.

In Baltimore, I really think we could do a lot better. There’s a lot more we can be doing to protect women and girls from street harassment, and as a whole, we just aren’t doing enough. The only organization I know that’s actively doing work on a consistent basis is Hollaback! Baltimore. They have been doing a great job on educating people on what street harassment is and how people can help to stop it.

Here are a few upcoming summer events on their radar:

June 19 – Hollaback! Baltimore will host a Baltimore Bartenders Safer Spaces Meeting, in which they’ll be chatting with bartenders & bar staff from all over the city face-to-face on crisis response skills and ways to intervene while maintaining a women & LGBTQ-friendly environment.

June 24 – Hollaback! Baltimore will be tabling at the 2014 Baltimore Youth Sexual Health Conference, which is geared towards increasing knowledge & skills among youth to promote health behaviors, especially around sexual health.

June 28 – Hollaback! Baltimore will be co-hosting two “Make Your Own Quilt Square” workshops at the Monument Quilt with FORCE: Upsetting Rape Culture. They’ll be working on quilt squares to add to the public monument to support victims of rape and abuse.

While I appreciate everything Hollaback! Baltimore is doing, I still think there are other organizations that can do just as much advocacy around this issue. Just as Carmen Omonte took a stand to stop street harassment in Peru, I feel that our mayor, Stephanie Rawlings-Blake, should take a stand too. Not only should she develop a campaign to educated people on street harassment, but she should also work on making it a criminal offense.

I certainly applaud Peru for it’s efforts, but I really hope Baltimore is not waiting for a celebrity to experience street harassment to push forward in stopping it. Street harassment needs to stop now because it’s affecting people who have to deal with it daily.

Instead of clearing out the encampments of the homeless and criminalizing youth, our mayor and every other politician in the state of Maryland need to focus their energy on real challenges. And street harassment for women, girls and the LGBTQ community is most definitely one of them.

Read more on Peru’s initiatives to ending street harassment.

Brittany Oliver is a recent graduate of Towson University and works in the non-profit communications sector and supports local anti-street harassment advocacy through Hollaback! Baltimore. She blogs at brittuniverse.wordpress.com and publicly rants on Twitter, @btiara3.

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“They’ve probably forgotten all about it already, but I haven’t”

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The bus was late, as usual, so I was waiting at the street corner when a pick-up truck pulled up and I heard at least one of the three men inside whistle at me. I looked at them, and the whistling turned to kissing sounds. I turned my attention to my phone, but turned the volume down in my headphones so I could keep tabs on them. For a fleeting moment, I considered the fact that there wouldn’t be much stopping them from grabbing me, if they wanted to. I realized that would be highly unlikely, but the thought occurred to me all the same.

They were stuck at a red light, and I was waiting for my bus, so there was nowhere for me to go without risking missing my ride. I just stood there trying to ignore them. Finally, the light turned green and they drove off.

They’ve probably forgotten all about it already, but I haven’t. I feel angry and annoyed. They were so nonchalant about it, but I will spend the rest of my day thinking about what thoughts might have been running through their heads, how many other women they’ll objectify, and whether or not I’ll experience street harassment again today.

Oh, and not that it matters, but I was wearing jeans, a loose-fitting orange t-shirt with a high neck-line, and a grey hoodie. I daydreamed about slapping his puckered lips straight off his face, like a twisted Donald Duck cartoon.

Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

People need to learn that it’s not okay. That seems to be the biggest issue. Men feel entitled to say something or whistle, and they expect us to allow it or even be appreciative. It’s not a compliment. It’s harassment and it’s got to stop. We need to teach our sons better.

– Anonymous

Location: Sherman Ave. & Columbia Rd., NW, Washington, D.C.

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“A growing trend for objectifying East Asian women in Western countries”

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I am young East Asian girl and I experience stares from usually (over 40yrs old, White men) that makes me feel patronized, humiliated and angry. There is a growing trend for objectifying East Asian women in Western countries and many men seem to view Asian girls as some sort of pleasure giving objects. That is exactly the kind of gaze that I get from some men in the streets.

I am not wearing any revealing clothes and don’t have much make-up except eyeliner and it makes me angry to get these stares. It is hard for me to tell others as I am afraid to sound paranoid. Nowadays, if I sense any men trying to approach me in the streets, I would simply walk away, however just few days ago, there was this really old man who just keep standing next to me whilst I was waiting for a bus. I moved away but he would again come to the point where I was standing and just stare at me. I felt uncomfortable so I had to walk to next bus stop. I have been living in London for over 10 years and felt normally safe but these experiences are becoming nuisances to me and I feel not so safe anymore.

– Anonymous

Location: London, UK

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High School Student’s Embrodiery Project Raises Awareness

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Muneera is a graduating high school student who reached out to SSH about her senior project that in part addressed street harassment. She agreed to an interview to share more about it.

SSH: Why did you choose to do a senior project that included street harassment? 

Muneera: Prior to this year, my awareness of sexual harassment was pretty limited. I knew the basic mantras we had learned growing up–don’t let anybody touch you but your parents or your doctor (a luxury, I learned through my project, many girls don’t even have), if you are uncomfortable tell an adult you trust– but I had assumed it was some horrible, distant tragedy that happened to a few, unfortunate, choice girls.

It wasn’t until I became familiar with feminism (through social media and my AP Literature class) that I began to notice something was amiss. “Shrinking Women,” a slam poem by Lily Myers especially pushed me to expect better for myself. I wanted to do a project that would be as important to others as the role of social media has been in my development in how I see myself and the world. The culture that enables street harassment functions entirely on a lack of respect, and I think it is so pervasive that women, including myself, begin to expect it, to make excuses for it.

Sometimes we even try to convince ourselves that we deserve harassment, when the only thing we “deserve” is the right to be respected and to feel safe. If people get anything out of my project, I hope it is the idea that you, your mother, your sisters, friends and neighbors all deserve better, and everyone can be a part of that shift.

SSH: How did you come up with the embroidery idea? Who did you ask to share their stories?

Muneera: Embroidery is something that has been on my radar as of late. I love the fairly recent trend of expressing some not-so-traditional values (Grrl power patches, anyone?) through a very traditionally “gender-safe” activity. Embroidery can be traditional or “confrontational,” and the versatility of it made it the perfect medium with which to express such a universal topic. I tried to embroider the pieces as if I were the girl in each story, which brought about the issue of gender roles and gender appropriated activities. For some girls, going home and working on something intricate may be comforting, for others, it may be too confining. Not only can limiting certain things to certain genders deprive someone of a positive coping mechanism, it can muffle what it is they are trying to express.

I started with just my friends and ended up branching out to many of my classmates. Not one of the approximately 30 female classmates interviewed did not have a story to tell. I narrowed it down to seven stories about quintessential summer activities; the days of the week are supposed to represent the last week of summer. Although I did not discriminate with gender when it came to who I asked, I was unable to find stories to share from any of my male classmates (which does not imply that it does not happen to men, but rather that either my classmates were fortunate or not comfortable sharing their stories with me). Since I did only have stories from people who identified as girls, I decided to do my project from that perspective, hence, Diary of a Girl.

SSH: Would you mind sharing another example of what one of the embroideries is of/the story behind it?

Muneera: Sure! Monday is about a girl walking to a grocery store. When she was crossing the street, multiple men at the stoplight got out of their car and began to make obscene gestures at her. Thursday is about being stalked while walking the dog. All seven experiences happened when the girls were considerably young, nine to fourteen at most.

SSH: What kind of response have you gotten to your project?

Muneera: Surprise. Always surprise. A few tears. I ask people to guess what the project is about from the front before flipping to the back, and you can almost see the flip switch in their head when it goes from quintessential last-week-of-school activities to something just as integral but much more insidious in any girl’s life. It’s not a fun thing to do, but it opens up a discussion about what happened and what can be done to prevent it again, which for now, is more than worth it.

Muneera is from Lowell, MA, a small city outside Boston. She currently resides outside of DC with her cat and plans to attend college in Richmond in the fall. The embroideries were photographed by Ariadna Rigol Prat

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USA: Spokane Talks About Street Harassment

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Lorna M. Hartman, Spokane, WA, SSH Blog Correspondent

Spokane is the second-largest city in Washington state by population, located in a mostly rural area in eastern Washington. Despite its size, to visitors and many residents, it still has a distinctly small-town feel.

Unfortunately, small town or not, street harassment has not passed us by. Fortunately, the discussion about street harassment has not passed us by either. The conversation has at least begun in the Spokane area.

On June 3 our local newspaper, The Spokesman-Review, re-posted a USA Today article by Jaleesa Jones titled “4 Free Apps That Could Help Prevent Sexual Assault.” While the article headline specifies “sexual assault” as a general topic, all four apps listed (bSafe, Circle of 6, Hollaback! and Guardly) were intended to be used as people go about their lives in public spaces—precisely where women suffer street harassment. These apps are useful to anyone out in public who feels unsafe.

The article referenced the recent tragedy of Elliott Rodger’s shootings and the #YesAllWomen hashtag. Jones wrote, “The amount [of] interest in the hashtag points to a blatant truth: Sexual assault and street harassment are far too common.”

Inlander is a local alternative weekly newspaper that publishes news and entertainment pieces for a large geographic area around Spokane. On May 29 it ran a story called “One of the billion tales that yes, all women, can tell about sexism” written by Taylor Weech, a local writer, photographer and radio host. Weech actually began writing her piece on street harassment before Rodger committed his murders, and she finished writing it after the news had spread.

Weech wrote before the shootings, “I felt a lot of pressure from past conversations to pre-empt the commenters in proving that street harassment is not flattering, that it is one of many disturbing expressions of male entitlement to sex and women’s bodies, and that it is part of a continuum of disrespect for female autonomy that too often culminates in severe or even deadly violence…”, citing the new Tumblr site “When Women Refuse.”

After the attacks, Weech wrote, “In an unfortunate twist of fate, the proof of that statement became the most visible news story of the weekend…”

Weech tells several of her own stories of harassment–#YesAllWomen have those stories to tell—and concludes with an appeal to teach our children differently for the sake of both girls and boys. One commenter in the thread of her article wrote of how sad it is that “it takes a man writing a hate-filled manifesto and then going on a killing spree to really make a conversation about this problem hit the mainstream.”

Rodger’s murders, while I give them no credit for anything good, have resulted in a more open discussion of what it’s like to walk around female in Spokane. It hasn’t always been a welcome discussion or a wanted topic—but now it’s out there and it isn’t going back. We will all be better for continually shining a light on it.

SRTC is Spokane County’s designated metropolitan transportation planning organization. The SRTC Transportation blog featured a piece on street harassment back in 2012 called “Website Aims to Stop Street Harassment” and described StopStreetHarassment.org. (I didn’t know SRTC was so plugged in!)

The writer, an unnamed female SRTC staffer, mentions a few of her own experiences with street harassment. She says of Spokane, “Besides being irritating and in some cases scary, street harassment limits people’s mobility and access to public spaces. It is a form of gender violence and makes our downtown and other areas less inviting and therefore less vibrant.” She’s right. People don’t realize how different downtown Spokane would be, particularly in the evenings, if no one ever had to worry about being harassed or followed. It’s an extensive problem, and Spokane unfortunately isn’t unique at all in facing this problem.

Spokane does, however, have the beginnings of action and conversation around street harassment. Even further back, in mid-2011, activists organized SlutWalk Spokane. SlutWalk, you might remember, started after a Toronto police officer participating in a law school campus safety session counseled female students that if they didn’t want to be sexually victimized, “Don’t dress like a slut.” The group’s Facebook page is still active today.

While the reality is still depressing, these lights shining publicly give me hope for the future.

Lorna is raising three young, kindhearted male allies and has worked on rape and interpersonal violence since the 1990s, including serving on the local rape hotline, answering calls, and driving to emergency rooms to advocate for victims and connect them with resources they needed.

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