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2013 Report on SSH’s Work – Thank YOU!

December 20, 2013 By HKearl

With only 11 days left in 2013, I took some time today to reflect and calculate and feel grateful!!

Listed at the end of this post are 100 people and groups who gave substantial time, work, ideas, expertise, and/or money to Stop Street Harassment (SSH) in 2013 because they, too, want to live in a world where everyone can safely navigate through public spaces.

As many readers know, SSH is my passion project that I do after and between my paid work. Funded only by in-kind donations of time and skills and some monetary donations from people like YOU, I am so proud of all that SSH has achieved this year, thanks to SSH’s board members, volunteers, interns, donors, correspondents, blog contributors, mentees, collaborative organizations, and media allies. THANK YOU.

10 Stop Street Harassment Achievements in 2013:

1. Correspondents: In January SSH launched a Blog Correspondents Program with two cohorts of 30 people total from 9 countries and 5 continents who collectively wrote more than 100 articles across the year. They illuminated street harassment issues in their community and raised awareness.

2. #EndSHWeek: In April, around 150 groups from more than 20 countries and 6 continents participated in SSH’s annual International Anti-Street Harassment Week. It raised an incredible amount of attention with rallies, marches, events, sidewalk chalking and online activism.

Wrap-up report | Photo album | Storifies from the five successful tweet chats.

SSH & CASS meeting with Meeting with Bare Escentuals in May 2013.

3. Stop Trivializing Street Harassment: In April we launched an on-going list of “Campaigns against Companies that Trivialize Street Harassment.”  In collaboration with groups like Collective Action for Safe Spaces, this year SSH was instrumental in pressuring Lego, Bare Escentuals, and Skirt Sports to drop offensive products, marketing, or messaging.

* Add your name to the 32,000 signatures in our current campaign asking YouTube to remove Simple Pickup’s YouTube Channel – it’s an instruction manual for men to learn how to street harass women.

4. Celebrating 5 Years: In late May/early June, we celebrated our 5 year anniversary with a successful Happy Hour in Washington, D.C. where we honored community leaders, activists, and organizations who’ve addressed street harassment in important or unique ways, including D.C. City Council Member Muriel Bowser and the Metro Transit Police. We also hosted an online auction fundraiser.

Awardees at the SSH Happy Hour

SSH Board Members

5. Mentoring Activists: In July, we launched a Safe Public Spaces Mentoring Program. Across several months, we worked with activists as they implemented their proposed plans: workshops in high schools in Afghanistan, focus groups and a community event in Cameroon, and three short films and a community event in Chicago.

* Make a tax-deductible donation to SSH to help us expand to 10 mentoring sites in 2014.

Afghanistan school workshops

Cameroon seminar with youth

Chicago activist filmmakers

6. #50Stories Book & Tweet Chat: In September, I released a short, fun, empowering book, 50 Stories about Stopping Street Harassers, with stories submitted to or featured on the SSH Blog. SSH held a very successful #50Stories tweet chat, managed by SSH social media volunteers & interns, that trended briefly in the USA and led to many news articles on the topic.  

* Buy the book in paperback for $10, or Kindle for $6.99. 50% of the profits will help fund SSH’s work.

7 . Know Your Rights: In December, SSH launched a state-by-state toolkit, Know Your Rights: Street Harassment and the Law. We held a briefing event in Washington, D.C. where the lead author, SSH intern Talia Hagerty, presented an overview of the toolkit and its purpose.

 

D.C. Briefing, Talia & Holly

8. National Study: SSH continued to fundraise for the first-ever national survey on street harassment (cost: $47,000). I also conducted four focus groups in NY, CA, and DC with demographics like queer women of color and men in the LGBQTI community. The focus groups will supplement the survey and both research findings will inform a national report.

* Make a tax-deductible donation to SSH to help fund the study.

Brooklyn, NY, Focus Group

Queer Women of Color FG

Los Angeles, CA, FG

GBQTI Men FG

9. Rallies, Events, Campaigns: SSH was involved in LOTS of events and collaborative activism this year, including:

Rally for Trayvon Martin/Racial Equality

a. Rallies and Marches:
*
SSH joined thousands of groups in more than 200 countries on Feb. 14 for One Billion Rising.
* SSH staff marched in both New York City and Washington, D.C. to support racial equality and to demand justice for Trayvon Martin.
* SSH tabled at the Rally Against Rape in Arlington, VA.
* SSH hosted a sidewalk chalking event in Arlington, VA.
* SSH spoke and tabled with Collective Action for Safe Spaces at SlutWalkDC.

b. Talks: At the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women in NYC, I presented on sexual harassment in schools for my day job and moderated a panel for ActionAid. I gave talks on street harassment at a high school in NYC (x2), campuses in WI and NY, bookstore in PA, a Veteran’s Administration Hospital in PA, an event for summer interns in Washington, D.C.

c. Conference Presentations: I presented on street harassment at the National Conference for College Women Student Leaders, the International Coalition Against Sexual Harassment, the National Sexual Assault Conference, with co-presenter FAAN Mail. 

d.    Key Meetings:

Feb. meeting with WMATA, CASS, SSH

i. In Feb., SSH and Collective Action for Safe Spaces met with the transportation authority in Washington, D.C. to discuss next steps in a campaign to stop sexual harassment on the transit system. The meeting was part of a global day of action when grassroots women and women’s organizations in 50 cities met with government

ii. In Feb., SSH joined Hollaback Bmore for a meeting with the Baltimore Health Department to discuss collaboration around the issue of street harassment.

Holly and Rochelle from Hollaback! Philly testifying

iii. In Nov., Hollaback! Philly organized a city council hearing on street harassment and SSH board members Nuala Cabral and I testified. In a meeting afterward with Councilmember James Kenney, he pledged it was not “a one and done day,” but that he was committed to collaborating with them.

10.  Blogging, Articles and Media Coverage: 

a. There were 550 posts on the SSH blog, including personal stories and highlights of street harassment news and activism

b. I wrote 16 published articles related to street harassment for outlets like Ms. (both their blog and print magazine), Bitch (both their blog and print magazine), Women’s Media Center, Fem2Pt0, Feministing, and BlogHer.

c. SSH received tons of media hits, including: Washington Post, Guardian, NPR, MTV, Salon.com, Slate.com, Feministing, HuffPost Live, Ebony Magazine, LOOK Magazine (UK), Bridget Magazine (Germany), and the Smithsonian’s Blog.

* SSH Board Member Relando Thompkins joined me on the Talk2Q radio show to discuss street harassment, racial profiling, and victim-blaming. Download the podcast of the show.

THANK YOU SSH Community —

Board Members:

Anna Bavier
Liz Bolton
Nuala Cabral
Mark Hutchens
Zabie Khorakiwala
Layla Moughari
Jennifer Scott
Relando Thompkins

Interns:

Talia Hagerty
Rickelle Mason

Contractors:

Amy Mistrine
Whitney Ripplinger

Safe Public Spaces Mentees:

Phaydra Babinchok
Masooma Maqsoodi
Zoneziwoh Mbondgulo
Zeinab Noori
Ali Shahidy

Crucial Online Helpers:

Soraya Chemlay
Zerlina Maxwell

 

Blog Correspondents:

Carla Avenia
Claire Biggs
Sean Crosbie
Angela Della Porta
Lauren Duhon
Maggie Freeleng
Nikoletta Gjoni
Levi Grayshon
Tilly Grove
Salidat Hamilova
Delia Harrington
Aikanysh Jennbaeva
Pallavi Kamat
Taylor Kuether
María Paulina López Cataño
Lauren McEwen
Saniya Mujahid Ali
Adriana Pérez-Rodríguez
Britnae Purdy
Gcobani Qambela
Molly Redding
Allison Riley
Sara Schwartzkopf
Terris Schneider
Lisane Thirsk
Natasha Vianna
Talia Weisberg

Volunteers:

Katie Broendel
Kate Farrar
Michelle Garrett
Meagan Harlowe
Alan Kearl
Julie Mastrine
Carlynne McDonnell
Erin McKelle
Yasmine Nagaty
Richelle Perry
Maya Pincus
Raquel Reichard
Maria del Rio Sanin
Maggie Rosenbloom
Takeallah Russel
Beckie Weinheimer

Assisted with Focus Groups:

Brenda Bethman
Evette Cord
Charla Harlow
Melanie Klein
Thomas Lotito
Ben Merrion
Patrick Ryne McNeil
Anthonine Pierre
Kelly Rifenbark
Shira Tarrant
Claire Tighe

Key organizations with whom we worked in 2013:

Key Collaborators:

Brooklyn Movement Center
Collective Action for Safe Spaces
Defend Yourself
Everyday Feminism
Everyday Sexism
FAAN Mail
Feminist Teacher
Girls for Gender Equity
Harlow Project
Hollaback chapters all over the world –
especially Hollaback! Bmore, Hollaback! Philly
and Hollaback! LA
Marty Langelan & Associates
Masculinity U
METRAC
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
Pixel Project
Prevent Connect
Pro Change

Donated Space or Food for SSH Events:

Alliance for Justice
Trader Joe’s
Vinoteca

Key Media Allies:

Bitch Magazine
Fem2Pt0
Feministing
Ms. Magazine
MTV Act
Women’s Media Center

 

 

 

 

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“I’m sick of feeling vulnerable and scared”

December 20, 2013 By Contributor

I’m 17 years old, and I’ve received ‘unwanted attention’ from men almost everyday since I was about 13, which is the same for an unfortunate number of girls I know. Up until now, it’s never really affected me. I’ve brushed it off, or shouted something offensive back if possible.

A couple of months ago, I was walking home from sixth form with a friend, around 4 p.m., and as we approached her street, a man in a white van drove past screaming, “GET YOUR ASS OUT.”

There was something so aggressive about it that made me feel both terrified and physically ill. After seeing my friend to her house, I had a good ten minute walk to mine, the entirety of which I spent on the phone to my boyfriend trying not to cry. I’m sick of feeling vulnerable and scared every time I leave the house and being treated like a slab of meat with tits. I want to be able to live the rest of my life without worrying about being grabbed at by a sorry excuse for a human being. It’s not okay.

– DWM

Location: Calcott Road, Bristol, UK

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USA: Empowering, Educational Event in Chicago

December 19, 2013 By Contributor

By Phaydra Babinchok, Chicago, IL, USA, SSH Safe Public Spaces Mentee

In addition to creating three short films as part of the Stop Street Harassment’s Safe Public Spaces Mentoring Program, we created a fun event for screening the films. With the $250 stipend provided I was able to book a performance space at Studio Be a nonprofit theatre. The screening was held on the afternoon of Sunday October 13.

I wanted to create a comedy event about street harassment. Because it is such a serious issue I feel it needed a light-hearted touch to make it a more approachable subject. My friend Alicia Sowisdral is a feminist comedian and host of Pop Goes Alicia a live monthly pop culture show about gender. I reached out to her and she gladly agreed to be the host for the event.

Stop Calling Me Baby, a comedy event about street harassment, still needed a few performers before it would be complete. The lineup was rounded out with two stand-up comedians and a spoken word performer. As I said before, I feel it is important to include men in the discussion so one of the stand-up comedians was a man.

The stand-up comedy was interspersed with a powerful spoken word performance. The performances ended with a hilarious stand-up set about street harassment by Marla Depew. Who knew street harassment could make one laugh so hard.

Then it was time to debut the films. They were projected onto a large screen and I stayed behind the curtain during the screening because I was nervous that the films wouldn’t go over well. I had anxiety that the films might possibly upset people because we are in a way making fun of a serious issue. However, my anxiety was quickly alleviated by the audience’s laughter.

Once the films were done screening Alicia led a Q&A with the audience and writers of the films. Again I was nervous that there would be a critical or judgmental question about the films, but the audience really liked them. We were able to talk with the audience about how street harassment is a daily issue that most women have to deal with. People in the audience shared personal stories of experiences of street harassment.

Overall, the event turned out exactly as I had wanted. It was empowering, educational, and fun for all.

Phaydra Babinchok is a feminist activist based in Chicago. She is the Director of SlutWalk Chicago and Chapter Leader of Chicago’s Women, Action, and the Media. She works at Sarah’s Circle, a program that helps homeless women.

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USA: Spoofing eHarmony Commercials

December 18, 2013 By Contributor

By Phaydra Babinchok, Chicago, IL, USA, SSH Safe Public Spaces Mentee

I was excited upon learning about Stop Street Harassment’s Safe Public Spaces Mentoring Program. I had wanted to do an activist project concerning street harassment and this seemed like the perfect opportunity. As an aspiring feminist filmmaker I knew I wanted to pitch a creative project involving film since I think it is the best medium for educating. Since the majority of films about street harassment are documentaries or have a serious tone I knew I wanted to do the complete opposite and approach street harassment from a comedic viewpoint.

Humor is one of our most powerful tools; it is subtle and doesn’t make people defensive. I initially pitched three short films. The first film was going to be a role reversal or satire of the sexes where a man was being catcalled by women. The second film was going to be a woman talking to the camera asking the questions from the catcaller questionnaire. The third film was going to show a street harasser getting escalating warnings for his behavior. For his first offense he was going to be sprayed with a spray bottle, for his second offense he was going to be squirted with a squirt gun, and then as his final warning he was going to be sprayed with a super soaker.

There were multiple meetings with varied groups to develop the films. There was a meeting with fellow feminists and during that meeting it was suggested that the third film idea of giving escalating warnings was trivializing street harassment. An alternative idea of creating “Shit Street Harassers Say” was suggested. During the meeting with feminists I kept emphasizing that the films were supposed to be funny and not serious, but this idea wasn’t really supported. I then held a meeting with community activists and we storyboarded the first film concept of reversing the roles. I sent the storyboard to Holly and Jaclyn Friedman and their feedback was that men aren’t afraid of women so was there any way to change it show real fear. I didn’t think that would be possible to do while still retaining a comedic viewpoint so the film was dropped.

There was a final meeting with comedians and this is when a whole new concept was developed. We decided to parody the E-Harmony dating site commercials. We wanted to develop one film about a couple who met and started dating because of street harassment.

In the end we developed three videos each written by a different comedy writer, two of whom are men. I feel it is important to involve men in feminist issues instead of just merely lecturing to them. All the language in the films is deliberate. “When Fairies Attack” reverses the usual scenario of straight men street harassing gay men because of their sexuality. The term bitch is used to emphasize how demeaning street harassment is. “He’s Just Not Into That” was written because we didn’t want the men to feel left out and to acknowledge that men do get street harassed. I wrote “Damsel In Distress” to poke fun at the common belief that it is not safe for a woman to walk alone and that she needs a man a “good guy” to protect her.

They are available online – please share – and we showed them at an event in Chicago in October.

Phaydra Babinchok is a feminist activist based in Chicago. She is the Director of SlutWalk Chicago and Chapter Leader of Chicago’s Women, Action, and the Media. She works at Sarah’s Circle, a program that helps homeless women.

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#DelhiGangRape One Year Later

December 16, 2013 By HKearl

2012 vigil, via www.IN.com

One year ago today, a 23-year-old college student was brutally gang raped on a bus in India, on her way home from the movies. Her male friend was beaten by the rapists as he tried to protect her. Her injuries from the rapes eventually led to her death. During the following weeks, massive protests took place all over India and the world.

So where are we one year later?

PBS reports:

* India’s parliament passed anti-rape legislation earlier this year that would criminalize offenses like stalking.

* Organizations launched campaigns, in an effort to bring awareness to the prevalence of violence against women and offer suggestions for ways to stop it. This in-depth PBS NewsHour report from April details the some of those efforts.

* Earlier this year, in New Delhi, a help line was set up to encourage women to speak up and report crimes when they happen.

* And police in Delhi say that they conduct “surprise raids” on public transportation routes in which large numbers of women travel to monitor the incidents of harassment

According to the Wall Street Journal, more women in India are coming forward – reporting rapes and harassment. ” In Delhi, for example, 1,493 rapes were reported to police in the first 11 months of this year, more than double the number reported in the same period of 2012.”

It’s an encouraging indicator, but experts caution that there is much work to be done.

Ranjana Kumari who heads the Delhi-based Centre for Social Research, told the AFP: “The society is indeed becoming more sensitive to rape victims now, but there is still a long way to go. You cannot deny there is a rape epidemic in the country.”

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