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Harassment is a Barrier to Women’s Public Participation

December 2, 2013 By HKearl

The new report “‘It’s Dangerous to be the First’: Security Barriers to Women’s Public Participation in Egypt, Libya, and Yemen” includes a portion about street harassment. Here is an excerpt:

“In all three countries, women perceived harassment to be on the rise, becoming both more frequent and more serious….

In the face of growing insecurity – as power continues to be renegotiated throughout the Middle East and North Africa – women activists in Egypt, Libya, and Yemen have established a wide variety of grassroots initiatives to protect themselves and others against threats. Such initiatives have been coupled with powerful outreach and media campaigns at the local, national, and regional level to raise awareness of women’s security concerns.

In Egypt and Yemen a number of initiatives were formed to document accounts of sexual assaults and violence targeting women. Egyptian initiatives such as ‘Harassmap’ and ‘Shoft Taharosh’ (‘I Witnessed Harassment’) are based on the idea that documenting harassment through online and mobile technologies can help raise awareness. Using detailed maps of local incidents of harassment, volunteers talk to people on the streets about sexual harassment, challenge stereotypes and myths, and try to convince communities and the public generally to speak up and act against sexual harassment.

In Yemen several similar initiatives have developed, some of them explicitly modelled on Egyptian approaches, others reacting independently to similar problems. Such initiatives have combined with ‘citizen journalist’ footage of individual instances of harassment and assault. Through film-making and journalistic initiatives they make harassment, sexual violence, and other forms of violence against both men and women visible in novel ways. Mosireen, a video collective, for instance, are documenting violence against male and female protestors on video, acting as an archive and repository for such footage and producing short documentaries.

The combination of visual representations and awareness-raising around the prevalence of harassment with video footage of particularly shocking instances has begun to break down the prevailing attitudes of denial and excuses of harassment as harmless or natural and has been central to raising the profile of this issue and encouraging public debates about it.”

I have so much admiration for the women and men in these countries who are working hard to make sure all women and girls are safe in public places, including safe as they participate in political rallies and events. It takes a lot of bravery.

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Youth Event in Cameroon

November 30, 2013 By HKearl

Zoneziwoh Mbondgulo, founder of Women for a Change Cameroon and Stop Street Harassment’s Safe Public Spaces Mentee in Cameroon, held a successful final event today. More than 20 youth (boys and girls, including several youth with hearing impairment) came together to talk about gender-based violence, gender equality, and street harassment in their communities. They all wore orange as part of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence.

Zoneziwoh will write more about the event, but I wanted to post this quick note because I’m excited about how the event went and want to congratulate Zoneziwoh on her hard work!

 

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“Drawing as much attention as I can”

November 30, 2013 By Contributor

I wasn’t going to post originally but I guess reading other stories got me pretty angry.

I’ve had it a few times – to the shopkeeper casually calling me “sexy” whenever I go in for a redbull or whatever on the way to a lecture, to the builder “pssssshting” me when I walked past, again, on the way to University.

Those are nothing compared to past experiences which I’ll relate now.

There are three, maybe four experiences which really scared me, and still do when I remember them.

I was once waiting for a bus outside my school, at the bus stop in broad daylight (about 4pm) when a guy probably in his late teens – early 20’s, pulled up, rolled the window down and told me to get in his car.

I was obviously stunned, refused, and backed away slightly. He kept on TELLING me to get inside, and after a few minutes, called me a slut and drove away.

About a year or so later, I was waiting for a bus to work, in a different area of the city.

A car pulled up across the road, and a male in his late 30’s got out, crossed the road, and came over to try and engage in conversation.
When ignoring him didn’t work, I told him very clearly that I didn’t wish to speak to him, and he walked away and got back in his car.

In another incident, I had a male pull up, and ask for directions. When they were given, he made out that I should just get in the car and show him, and he’d give me a lift. Do I look that stupid?

Those were all a few years ago, last week, I was actually followed home – and it was terrifying.

I thought I was being paranoid at first as I crossed a road and the guy continued walking – until I came out of a store and he was lurking.
He then followed me for ten minutes, all the while saying, “hey”, “hey girl,” “miss”, and various things.

As I went inside and was unlocking my door (university accommodation, we have a guard inside thankfully), he looked back and smiled, and it infuriated me so much that I ended up hissing “freak” at him.

It’s not so much the catcalls in the street, or even the gropes in nightclubs (in which I’ve poured my drink over few men’s heads) but the more sinister experiences like the ones I’ve had.

It’s absolutely terrifying, and you feel powerless, and like a piece of meat.

After reading past stories from people, I’m not taking it anymore. I’ve been scared before and ignored it – sometimes it doesn’t work, and you get people poking you or just continually talking, but now I aim on yelling/screaming/and just generally drawing as much attention as I can, and hopefully embarrassing the idiot.

– Sarah

Location: Manchester, England

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“Look at the handlebar on that”

November 29, 2013 By Contributor

I was in McDonalds on Tottenham Court Rd. I was queuing to order food and there were two construction workers in the queue next to me . One of them looked at me and loudly said to his colleague, “Look at the handlebar on that. It’s disgusting. She looks like a man.”

I kept quiet and continued queuing . To be honest I was in shock. I paid for my food and went to get ketchup etc. They followed me over, laughing and repeated the same comments. They said, she must be growing it for Movember and walked off laughing I felt physically ill and so upset afterwards.

– S.C.

Location: Mc Dobalds , Tottenham Court Rd

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Holiday Shopping Part 1

November 29, 2013 By HKearl

Black Friday is upon us and if you’re looking for holiday gifts that can also support a cause, check out some of these gifts and books. 50% of proceeds from the two books on the left will benefit Stop Street Harassment and 10% of all Zazzle items will, too. The Zazzle products are up to 60% off through 1 p.m. EST/10 a.m. PST today!


Also, save some money for our online auction that starts on Tuesday (100% proceeds will go to Stop Street Harassment). Items will include books, DVDs, art, desserts, and also big ticket items like two nights at a Miami hotel!

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