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Assault on a Bus in Bangladesh
Usually at six in the morning I set off for my classes, I ride in local public buses (according to international standard it will be considered a battered old mini-bus always cramped with at least 40 adults instead of 30 midget skinny teenagers which is its actual capacity). So every commuter is practically breathing in the others’ sweat.
There are seats reserved for women beside the driver and it may seem sexist but I enjoy this privilege immensely since I get the chance to sit. So I was sitting beside a fellow female commuter and a guy sitting opposite facing us was ogling at us as if he was given birth by a man. It was disconcerting, to say the least, and the other woman was wearing a burka covering herself from head to toe except for her face and I was covering myself my (head to abdomen except my face) with a big long dupatta or stole of my three piece (full sleeved) traditional dress. This is a particular non-descriptive drab dress which guarantees inattention which is why I have made it my bus riding uniform but no such luck seem there that day.
We had already reached our destination (the woman and I were getting off at the same place) and we did not get our change yet, so I got up and stood by the door of the cramped bus and the woman stood behind me.
There are two conductors in such buses, one who stands by the door, hauls in and out commuters by asking the driver to brake or accelerate and the other collects the fare. I asked the conductor standing by the door beside me to give me back my change so I can get off, he asked the other to pay me off. So I was standing sandwiched in the crowd of commuters when I started feeling something weird, the conductor had his fingers on and around my ‘v’. I was so startled the only reflex I managed was drag his hand away and held them until I got off. I told the story to the other woman she said that she too has been squeezed by the back from the conductor while getting off.
Except for asking Almighty to punish him appropriately, I could not scream, kick him in the shin or scratch his eyes out. Besides, what would have been the point of screaming, people would have asked me if I am sure I have been groped or felt his hand brushed past me?
– screechinraven
Location: Dhaka, Bangladesh
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Anti-rape clothing?
Have you heard about AR Wear? It’s anti-rape clothing.
The designers write on their website: “We developed this product so that women and girls could have more power to control the outcome of a sexual assault. We wanted to offer some peace of mind in situations that cause feelings of apprehension, such as going out on a blind date, taking an evening run, ‘clubbing’, traveling in unfamiliar countries, and any other activity that might make one anxious about the possibility of an assault.”
Check out what SSH staff had to say.
Talia Hagerty went on Fox 5 in NYC, saying, “The challenge is to find a way to prevent people from committing rape, not to give women another reason to feel it’s our responsibility if we’re raped.
I spoke to a writer for the Washington Post, “This product places the focus on women as being the responsible party for stopping their own rape. That is highly problematic.”
What do you think?
Philadelphia City Council Hearing Recap
Today, the second-ever city council hearing on street harassment was held in Philadelphia! The first was held in 2010 in New York City.
This hearing came about because Council Member James Kenney read tweets by Hollaback! Philly about street harassment, researched the issue and he decided he wanted to address it. When he reached out to Hollaback! Philly over Twitter to ask what he could do, Hollaback! Philly’s director Rochelle Keyhan requested a city council hearing. While it took seven months to get it scheduled, today it happened.
During the morning hearing in Philadelphia’s City Hall, nine people testified (some represented organizations like FAAN Mail and Women Bike PHL, others were simply there as citizens), and Rochelle played a video of teenage girls sharing their stories, since they couldn’t attend due to school. Most people courageously and passionately shared their street harassment stories during their testimonies, Rochelle presented Hollaback! Philly’s new survey data, and I put the issue into a global context and explained why it’s a human rights violation. (Stay tuned, I will post everyone’s testimonies soon.)
The main ask of the City Council is to help Hollaback! Philly organize community safety audits, a type of action created by METRAC, which the United Nations uses around the world and which activists in Washington, D.C. (co-led by SSH and Collective Action for Safe Spaces) and NYC (co-led by city council members and several activist groups) have already used. Hollaback! Philly needs help from the City Council in connecting with diverse community groups and churches in neighborhoods throughout the city to ensure that volunteers conducting the audit come from a range of backgrounds and perspectives.
The four male city council members who heard us were very sympathetic and strongly against the issue. This is HUGE progress. They were also interested in seeing the issue brought up to kids in schools and working with police officers to train them to know how to help with street harassment incidents.
After the hearing, Council Member Kenney met with us and assured us this was not a “one and done day,” but that he was committed to working with Hollaback! Philly and other groups to address the issue. Great!
Congrats to Hollaback! Philly, and in particular to Rochelle, for doing all the leg work and follow-up and organizing to make this happen and to make it successful!
“I just hope that some day, this whole harassment issue will come to an end”
I have been pushed once by a road side young man popularly called ‘agbaro’ and when i asked him why he pushed me, he ask me what am gonna do to him if he pushed me. Though i exchanged words with him and told him i was going to get him arrested but he was not moved by it. He asked me if i had enough money to feed myself before arresting him. I know i didn’t look hungry and neither was i. One thing that bothers me is if we (women) are the cause for our own harassment or these guys are just manless. I was dressed in a long sleeve shirt and a knee skirt.
There is hardly any day that i go out that some guy don’t say some thing or want to say some thing. I was not bothered but this incident was different because there was a strong physical contact. Now i have to keep a very serious look to scare them away though it doesn’t work for some as no matter how scary i try to make my face look, there is this thing about my looks that shows that am a calm person. I think an authority should be made to check sexual/ physical harassment for ladies and even men. I have had the opportunity to talk with a young man concerning sexual harassment.
Did you know that some men feel sexually harassed by some ladies? How do you mean? I asked. He said by their seductive dressing. He further said that men are moved sexually by what they see and women are moved sexually by touch and words. A person is addressed the way he/she is dressed but not in all cases though some people just have this bad behavior of harassment.
I just hope that some day, this whole harassment issue will come to an end.
I must say that i felt very bad that that i couldn’t do anything to him. I guess i will have to watch carefully the places that i pass through and the people that walk along side with me and most especially…my dressing.
– Camilla
Location: Port Harcourt, Nigeria
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