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Bare Escentuals learns more about street harassment

May 20, 2013 By HKearl

A few weeks ago, Sara Alcid, a Washington, D.C. resident was at the Nike Women’s Half Marathon in DC where she discovered that BareMinerals by Bare Escentuals enlisted a group of fraternity brothers to hold up inappropriate and sexist signs saying things like, “You Look Beautiful All Sweaty,” “Hello Gorgeous.”

Sara launched a successful Change.org petition in coordination with Collective Action for Safe Spaces (CASS) and Stop Street Harassment. A call with the company led them to apologize and agree not to use that type of messaging again.

The interaction could have stopped there, but when Alison Reid and Stephanie Lin from the company’s marketing team made plans to be in New York City (from San Francisco) this week for the next leg of the BareMinerals tour, they included a quick stop to Washington, D.C. to meet with Sara, Renee from CASS and myself.

That meeting took place today.

Alison and Stephanie were gracious and great listeners as we each talked about the work we do to stop street harassment. They talked about the mission and vision of the company and how Bare Escentuals aims to have meaningful connections with their customers and helping them feel confident in their lives. They emphasize personal connections with their customers and even invite customers who are visiting or live in San Francisco to stop by the office for coffee. They do not use airbrushing in their ads and really focus on women’s empowerment. Thus, they had no intention of making women feel uncomfortable or sexualized by the signs and so they were quick to address our concerns. They thanked us for the opportunity to learn more about the issue of street harassment and how it impacts people’s lives, and I gave them a copy of the Stop Street Harassment book so they could continue to learn more about the issue.

It was really refreshing to see a company go above and beyond to fix offensive messaging, take the time to listen carefully and thoughtful to our concerns, and strive to serve their customers better. Thank you, Alison and Stephanie and the whole Bare Escentuals team! You set a high bar for other companies to follow 🙂

L to R: me (Holly), Alison, Stephanie, Sara, and Renee at a coffee shop in Washington, D.C. on May 20, 2013.
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“Then they began making remarks on my figure and my breasts”

May 20, 2013 By Contributor

Now, anybody who has ever been to Italy knows that there are people on every corner of any tourist destination attempting to sell you a variety of useless baubles, knickknacks and designer knockoffs. Despite however many times you tell them you aren’t interested in buying a bracelet or a “prada” bag they’ll be up in your face a few seconds later once again attempting to sell you the same piece of garbage you declined to buy earlier. My story begins in Pisa, one of the absolute worst tourist traps in all of Italy.

At this point on my trip I was full of excitement, we had just left Rome earlier in the day, and we were en route to Florence when we stopped at Pisa to see the sights and to grab a bite to eat. Our time we had to allotted was quickly spent and I was doing a bit of window shopping with my grandparents back on the way to our meeting place. We finally arrived there and there were more vendors than when we got off of the shuttle. There were at least eight men and one woman vendor waiting for our group. My grandma, being the crafty devil she i,s decided to distract them by carrying on a casual conversation with the group of male vendors, while I sat talking to another woman in our tour group. I really didn’t notice that several men had drifted away from my grandma until I found a tray full of sunglasses shoved in my face. I politely told him no several times, being as timid as I am.

It was around the fifth or sixth time the woman beside me aggressively told him no. At this point I noticed there were about three or four men now grouped around me telling me how nice and funny my grandma was. I would quietly tell them no whenever they would shove a “Gucci” bag or “African” bracelet in my face. They then began complimenting me in an attempt to get me to buy something. It started out innocently enough, complimenting my eyes, my hair… Then they began making remarks on my figure and my breasts.

I already being as uncomfortable as I was before hand was now absolutely terrified. Here I was a fifteen year old girl, in a foreign country, and the only two people I actually knew were holding off the other four or so vendors from everybody else. The woman beside me had started another conversation with a friend of hers who had just appeared. So when they began to call me “sexy” I was on the verge of tears and attempting to get closer to my grandparents.

I eventually stalled halfway to them and curled up on the ground. My grandpa thankfully heard the harassers and swooped in and rescued me. Shortly afterwards the shuttle arrived. When we got on the shuttle to take us back to our bus I sat as far as possible from the doors knowing since not everybody had shown up yet we would be there for a while and they would still be attempting to sell their merchandise. Apparently one of them had given bracelets to my grandma for being so nice to them. He wanted her to give them to my grandpa and me. My grandma heard what had happened and was cracking jokes about how they had “complimented” me. It was then that I actually started to cry. She immediately began to comfort me apologizing for the joke. My grandpa on the other hand insisted that I at least wear the bracelet until I got back to the bus to be polite. As soon as we got back I threw it away. I didn’t want to look at it and just be ashamed of that entire experience.

– April

Location: Pisa, Italy

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“Who are you, f***ing Wonder Woman?”

May 20, 2013 By Contributor

You walked up to me as I was waiting at the bus stop and pointed at my groceries and asked, “Can I use some lotion?”

I said “No,” then, “Please give me some space” and held my hand up when you got too close.

You stepped 5 or 6 feet back, and then spent the next 10 minutes threatening to break my neck if I ever went downtown (you wouldn’t do it here), telling me that I was a bitch, that I needed to get raped. I stood and stared straight ahead until you got on your bus. “Bye Bitch!” you yelled.

But you didn’t get within 5 feet of me. As for your question, “Who are you, f***ing Wonder Woman?”, I can only answer “Yes.”

– Anonymous

Location: Harbor East, Baltimore, MD

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Digest of Street Harassment News: May 19, 2013

May 19, 2013 By HKearl

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Street Harassment Stories:

Share your story! You can read street harassment stories on the Web at:

Stop Street Harassment Blog

Collective Action for Safe Spaces

HarassMap in Egypt

Bijoya in Bangladesh

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe City India

Safe Streets in Yemen

Street Harassment in South Africa

Many of the Hollaback sites

Everyday Sexism

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* FRA, “LGBT persons’ experiences of discrimination and hate crime in the EU and Croatia“

* Left Standing Up, “Harassed at the Corner Store: the Men and the Milk“

* HuffPost Live, “I was groped on the subway“

* Ms. Blog, “The Next Step In Fighting Street Harassment? A Comic Book.”

* Gender Focus, “New Apps Tackle Dating Violence, Street Harassment”

* Care2, “Nearly 100% of Women in Egypt Face Sexual Harassment“

* Slog, “It’s Spring! Who’s Ready for Street Harassment?“

* Blisstree.com, “Would You Like Some Perversion With That? My Worst Street Harassment Experience Yet“

* Ravere EduBlogs, “Street Harassment and Catcalling“

Announcements:

New:

* SSH is hiring our first summer intern! Info.

* Read the report about the activities that took place for International Anti-Street Harassment Week 2013!

* If you live/work/place in Washington, D.C., take this survey for Collective Action for Safe Spaces.

* A new study of 93,000 LGBQT individuals in the European Union countries reveals that street harassment is a pervasive problem for them.

Reminders:

* If you’re in the Washington, DC-area, come to the five-year anniversary Stop Street Harassment Happy Hour on June 5, 5-9 p.m. Info.

* “Cat calls” aren’t benign. Words can lead to violence. Support the documentary that tells that story: http://kck.st/XUZPmq

20 Tweets from the Week:

1. @Dara_212 “Sometimes I forget that, by virtue of being a woman, my body is constantly up for appraisal by strangers” time to end #streetharassment.

2. @charitydash Nothing makes me prouder to be a woman than enduring street harassment on my way to work!

3. @msjoyluckclub old man on the street just leeringly said “konichiwa” to me as i walked past him to catch my train // #gross #stopSH #streetharassment

4. @SaraLang Hard to listen to the two women on this train talking about street harassment they’ve experienced this week – it’s just so pervasive.

5. @thetrudz @one_wyz_womn No point. I deal with street harassment and racial microaggressions ALL DAY. Why go home to “comedy” that’s all insults?

6. @MissBethMyer The next guy to give me street harassment will take the fall for all the ones who came before him. Hope it’ll be worth it, buddy.

7. @MiaLWS @EverydaySexism Today, while walking home some dude honked, whistled, & shouted “Imma dick you down and wife you up!” #StreetHarassment

8. @DreuxD @WrittenbyBene Street harassment pisses me off to no end… Like I should be happy to be told go smile. Fuck off.

9. @WrittenbyBene I don’t have time to go on a #StreetHarassment rant, but it’s real. And guys need to cut it out. Seriously.

10. @AquafarE @and1grad @Aftashok We live in the same society where parents panic when daughters grow breasts because of street harassment.

11. @brittanclaire I just had a dream in which my response to street harassment was to push off the ground and fly, soaring over the trees/interstates/haters.

12. @juneylynne @BestPatricEgan Of course. I’m making a list this summer of each incident of street harassment I encounter. I anticipate it to be lengthy.

13. @iasshole “Hey despite 100s of people in this thread telling me street harassment is real and bad I still think you should be flattered.” #headdesk

14. @tessaquarium I miss my home in SF but I do not miss the crazy amount of street harassment i get.

15. @MarieSwartz My first experiences being ‘perceived’ as a woman were all street harassment in high school

16. @KaylinSnailin Socialization is fucked up. I experienced #streetharassment twice in 2 minutes and -I- feel guilty because I was riding my bike in a dress.

17. @stitchesofspace going outside means an 80% chance of being made uncomfortable. fuck street harassment.

18. @SuzanEraslan I am so fucking sick of street harassment I could tear someone’s eyes out.

19. @etoilee8 Nothing like a little bit of #streetharassment to make me want to punch a grown man. Lemme ask you something. Has it ever worked?

20. @SaraLang  Yesterday while walking down U street, I averaged one incident of street harassment per block. #hollaback

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#EndSHWeek 2013 Report of Activities!

May 18, 2013 By HKearl

Check out the report detailing the activities that took place during International Anti-Street Harassment Week 2013 in April! Thank you to everyone who spoke out and participated that week. You’re amazing!

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