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#ShoutingBack Stories Flood Twitter

January 8, 2013 By HKearl

Trigger Warning –

@Stephanie_Fiems Running local park while a guy followed me in his truck parking every few exits masturbating as I passed #ShoutingBack“

@VintageRoseJaz walked home when I was 14.Man said “hello pretty lady” ignored him and he replied with “Well fuck you then” #ShoutingBack

@khavipuri sat on the bus at 5pm and looked up to c the man in front wanking was so shocked I had no reaction jus got off #shoutingback!

@SamanthaIles trying to leave train, bloke pushes me back on, grabbing my boobs, saying ‘this isn’t your stop love’ #shoutingback

These are just a few of the most recent tweets about street harassment people are sharing during @EveryDaySexism‘s tweet chat today. It began hours ago and hundreds of stories are flowing in, mostly from the UK, where Everyday Sexism is based.

You can search for the hashtag #ShoutingBack on twitter to read the stories (but be warned, many could be triggering and collectively, they are very depressing and angering). You can also share your own.

Tweet chats like this one help people who share their stories feel less alone and it does a lot to raise awareness about just how rampant street harassment is.

@Nick_Pettigrew As a man, the @EverydaySexism feed today has been disturbing, disgusting and – hand on heart – a total surprise. Had no idea it was this bad

@ChrChristensen Want a sobering view of how we men behave on the street? Follow the current #ShoutingBack hashtag via @EverydaySexism

Last week, a dieting firm in the UK published findings from a study of dieters that found that for many of them, mild street harassment is a good weight-loss motivator. (HA). But this thread shows what street harassment actually looks like. I doubt anyone would be motivated to lose weight if it meant experiencing more of it.

Street harassment is not a compliment. It’s a hate crime. It’s a human rights violation. It’s gender violence. It must stop.

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“What could possibly happen out in the open with people around?”

January 8, 2013 By Contributor

I was on the LIRR train going home from work and started to fall asleep while reading. A huge guy sat across from me but I didn’t really think anything of it since there was another guy sitting two seats away from me. I mean, what could possibly happen out in the open with people around?

The guy started bumping his foot into mine, which I moved twice away from him. Then he reached down to presumably tie his shoe and he “accidentally” brushed his fingers against my shin (I was wearing a dress)… I got mad and started to move like I was going to get off the train. Then the coward suddenly bolted and got off the train before I could make my next move.

Infuriating! Especially since I am a health professional and was working on something related to my career— it seems some creeps treat all women with disrespect.

– Leia

Location: LIRR train leaving Penn Station

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USA: New Year, New Challenges

January 7, 2013 By Contributor

By: Carla C. Avenia, Stop Street Harassment Correspondent and Social Media Volunteer

The year 2012 has been full of achievements for Stop Street Harassment and the anti-street harassment community.

But the new year is just a few days young, and women and activists have already had to do a lot of work.

Our first challenge arose as soon as the clock struck midnight on the 31st, when Republican politicians allowed for the Violence Against Women Act to expire, which means that domestic abuse survivors across the country will receive much less help until a new plan is in place.

The mass protests in India after a young woman was harassed and then brutally gang-raped and then died from her injuries are still ongoing. Although a most horrific case, she has not been the only victim of attackers trying to intimidate the anti-street harassment protesters. Another young protester was also gang-raped, and after police tried to convince her to drop the charges and marry one of her attackers, she committed suicide.

Back on our own soil, young men from Steubenville High were caught on camera mocking a rape victim. Parents and other responsible adults surrounding the culprits have engaged in a high-scale cover up operation rather than admit at their failings as parental and authority figures and prosecute these young men.

Just before the new year, the Department of Veterans Affairs published a study in which it is revealed that as many as 48.6% of women who served in war zones claim to have been sexually harassed, while 22.8% of them said they were sexually assaulted or raped.

As you can see from just the last seven days of news, sexual violence against women – whether on the streets, in the workplace, at school, even at home – is still endemic, everywhere. Women of all ages, social backgrounds, races, and religious beliefs are victimized every day.

We have a lot of work ahead of us this year. So what can you do?

Get involved. There are many ways to contribute to the cause!

* Submit your street harassment story and share your experience.

* Report harassers

* Learn how to take action.

* Raise awareness and participate in International Street Harassment Awareness Week, April 7-13, 2013. Go one step further and get your community or your local activist group involved.

Don’t forget to stay in touch with us via Twitter or Facebook!

Carla is a proud feminist originally from Texas, who strongly believes in creating safer spaces for women. She holds a Master’s in Local Development, and she runs her own translation company from France. She is also a travel blogger. You can find her on Twitter.

Her photo was taken by Norman Acosta.

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El año 2012 estuvo repleto de éxitos por parte de nuestra organización, Stop Street Harassment, tales como los que Holly – nuestra intrépida coordinadora – ha detallado en nuestro blog hace unos pocos días.

Aunque el nuevo año recién ha empezado, ya se han presentado varios retos para el 2013 que tanto mujeres como activistas deberán sobrellevar.

Nuestro principal desafío se originó apenas las campanadas dieron la medianoche el 31 de Diciembre, cuando los políticos Republicanos permitieron que la Ley de la Violencia Contra la Mujer caducara, lo cual significa que las mujeres víctimas de maltrato familiar y violencia doméstica en Estados Unidos recibirán menos asistencia hasta que se instituya una nueva Ley para protegerlas.

En la India, protestas masivas han congelado el país luego que una joven fuera sometida a un ataque bestial en el cual fue torturada y violada en banda. Aunque éste ha sido uno de los ataques mas terroríficos, la joven en cuestión no ha sido la única víctima de agresores decididos a intimidar los y las manifestantes que denuncian el acoso sexual en las calles. Otra joven también ha sido victima de una violación en banda, y al ir a declarar los hechos y presentar cargos ante las autoridades, la policía misma intentó convencerla de retirar los cargos y contraer matrimonio con uno de sus agresores. Poco después, se suicidó.

Volviendo a nuestro propio territorio, jóvenes alumnos de Steubenville High fueron filmados burlándose de una joven, víctima de una violación. Los padres y funcionarios escolares dentro del entorno de los agresores intentado encubrir el hecho en vez de admitir públicamente sus falencias en sus respectivas funciones, y hacer lo correcto enjuiciando a los autores del crimen.

Asimismo, a fines del mes de Diciembre, el Departamento de Asuntos de Veteranos publicó un estudio en el cual se reveló que el 48,6% de las mujeres que han prestado servicios en zonas de guerra sostienen haber sido víctimas de acoso sexual, mientras que el 22,8% de ellas declaran haber sido agredidas sexualmente o violadas.

Como se puede deducir a través de las noticias de los últimos siete días, la violencia sexual contra  la mujer – sea en la calle, el entorno laboral, la escuela o hasta en el hogar – todavía es un problema endémico a nivel mundial. Mujeres de todas las edades, entornos sociales, razas y religiones siguen siendo víctimas de la violencia sexual día a día.

Tenemos mucho trabajo para hacer este año. Y seguro que te preguntas… “Y yo ¿qué puedo hacer?”.

Fácil: involúcrate. ¡Existen varias maneras en las que puedes contribuir a nuestra causa!

* Envíanos un relato de cualquier instancia de acoso sexual en las calle que hayas sufrido. Anímate a compartir tu experiencia.

* Denuncia a un acosador.

* Infórmate sobre como actuar frente a una instancia de acoso sexual en la calle.

* Únete a nuestra campaña de sensibilización y haz frente al acoso sexual: participa de nuestra Semana Internacional de Sensibilización Sobre el Acoso Sexual en la Calle, del 7 al 13 de Abril, 2013. Y ya que estás, ¿por qué no ir un poco más allá e involucrar a tu comunidad o a un grupo activista local?

Y claro está, puedes mantenerte al tanto de todas nuestras novedades a través de Twitter y Facebook.

Carla es una feminista Tejana, dedicada a la causa de crear espacios seguros para las mujeres. Obtuvo su Máster en Desarrollo Local, y es la dueña de su propia compañía de traducción basada en Francia. También relata sus aventuras internacionales en su blog de viajes. Síguela en Twitter.

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Digest of Street Harassment News: Jan. 6, 2013

January 6, 2013 By HKearl

Students from various colleges in India march to demand justice for the #DelhiGangRape victim. Image via The Hindu

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Street Harassment Stories:

Share your story! You can read street harassment stories on the Web at:

Stop Street Harassment Blog

Collective Action for Safe Spaces

HarassMap in Egypt

Bijoya in Bangladesh

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe City India

Safe Streets in Yemen

Street Harassment in South Africa

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Everyday Sexism

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* CNN Opinion, “End culture of rape in 2013“

* The Express Tribune, “9-year-old in critical condition after gang-rape“

* Rediff.com, “UP: Girl set on fire for resisting eve-teasing dies“

* Mirror, “India gang rape victim’s father: I want the world to know my daughter’s name is Jyoti Singh Pandey“

* The New York Times, “Indian Women March: ‘That Girl Could Have Been Any One of Us’”

* BBC News, “India gang rape: Thousands of women march in Delhi“

* Business Standard, “Women’s delegation seeks uniform law to curb eve-teasing“

* The World, “Sexual Harassment a Daily Reality for Delhi Women“

* The Hindu, “Gang-rape victim’s friend recounts attack“

* KQED, “Rape and Sexual Harassment in India“

* The Independent, “Every woman in India is likely to have experienced some sexual harassment“

* Hindustan Times, “Youth arrested for eve-teasing at Sector-17 Plaza“

* The Times of India, “New helpline to complain about eve-teasing, molestation“

* The Times of India, “‘Eve-teasing in public transport is routine affair‘”

* Daily News & Analysis, “One held for eve-teasing in Mumbai“

* The Indian Express, “Over 30 youths held in Bhopal for eve-teasing“

* Deccan Chronicle, “Novel plan to curb eve-teasing“

* The Hindu, “38 youths held on eve-teasing charge“

* The Hindu Business Line, “Eve teasing likely to be non-bailable offence in Maharashtra“

* Gothamist, “Suspected Subway Butt Grabber Arrested”

* Policy Mic, “NYPD Harassing Women?“

* The American Prospect, “Purity Culture Is Rape Culture“

* Feminist Activism, “Ode to Street Harassers“

* Khaleej Times, “30,000 cops to prevent eve-teasing in Mumbai“

* Well Behaved Women Rarely Make History, “Street Harassment: It’s not a compliment.”

* Yemen Times, “Yemeni women subject to frequent sexual harassment“

* Helen True, “Calling Out Harassment on the Tube“

Announcements:

New:

* 15 people from five continents were selected as SSH correspondents. Starting this week, they will report on street harassment in their area and activism to stop it.

* @HollabackBmore We need 100 people to fill out our #streetharassment survey so we can compare notes with @AtreveteDF #HollabackMexico http://ow.ly/gzauF

* Join various on and off-line campaigns to protest the #DelhiGangRape

Reminders:

* Check out the new anti-harassment group in Sydney, Australia, “People Against Street Harassment“

*Follow Stop Street Harassment on Tumblr

* Read Jennifer Harrison’s dissertation, “Gender segregation on public transport in South Asia: A critical evaluation of approaches for addressing harassment against women.”

* Check out the Tumblr “Ish people say to me on my way to the train“

* HoodRules thebook is now available!

* Check out the project CATCALLED: the stories of 11 women in New York City from two weeks in August 2012, now online.

* Baltimore, MD, folks — take a survey about street harassment for Hollaback! Bmore

* METRAC released a free “Not Your Baby App” to provide responses you can use when experiencing harassment

20Tweets from the Week:

1. @KDesborough No more #DelhiGangRape – send an email to justice.verma@nic.in urging the government to stop sexual violence and end war on women #India

2. @emmiesunshine Maybe instead of sarcasm, wit, or fake names, my new response to #StreetHarassment should just be, “Uhhh… I have the clap!” and bailing.

3. @unfortunatalie Walk: 45 minutes, street harassment count: 3, verbal, mild.

4. @matendre  @hkearl Masked on Halloween – the only time I can walk 1 NYC block w/out a “man” lashing out in anger if I’ve a response to his harassment.

5. @patrickryne  is it irresponsible for @MailOnline to talk about this ~benefit~ of #streetharassment without noting how seriously damaging it is?

6. @mycolouredsky Street harassment sucks. Period.

7. @renireni There’s nothing like a bit of street harassment to remind you that the streets aren’t yours to walk down

8. @korobumame While watching tv, walking street, shopping, eating out, sleeping, everywhere everyday twentyfourseven harassment never ends.

9. @sav_ann Why do so many Indian men deny the widespread and frequent occurrence of street harassment? what’s in it for them?

10. @boleroforboys And that culture of “it’s a compliment!” and “I just wanted to get your attention!” that allows street harassment is rape culture.

11. @AmiFromIndia @delhipolice2 #DelhiGangRape Victim’s friend speaks , did you listen ? No ? Listen ! Kaan khol ke sunno aur #JawaabDo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75uMQgSAtJU …

12. @ericararerica Do not #catcall me while I’m pumping gas in 10 degree weather then pretend you were whistling at my boots. #streetharassment

13. @Vidyut It is a myth to think that “eve teasing” is basically sexual. It is dominance. Bullying. Sexual harassment only because it is easiest tool.

14. @nikkyricks Omfg !! A bloke has just pinched my ass #Unbelieveable

15. @WhiteGirlNell While I was out running yesterday, the street harassment was real. Can’t even get my run on without an asshole comment.

16. @futilityfiles  Leers, “Hello, mademoiselle.” I mutter “hi,” looking away. His retort? “I meant monsieur.” Ooh I’m so mad now *eyeroll* #streetharassment

17. @sydmosley Apparently tonight I’m a “f*cking b*itch” because I asked a man to “stop staring at me” and “move along.” #streetharassment

18. @CLButler76 Leering drunk bloke at the bus stop grabbed my hand and informed me I’m beeYOOtiful and did I know that? #ffs #streetharassment

19. @Vidyut For me, online abuse at women is like street harassment. You keep shrinking till street not usable. Evict creeps, walk with head held high.

20.  @chloemiriam All this sexist stuff is part of the same thing, from lads mags, sexist adverts, rape jokes to sexual harassment, rape & murder. STOP IT ALL

 

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“Yeah, I meant what I said”

January 5, 2013 By Contributor

I was leaving work and heading towards the bus stop, and as I crossed the street this random man, who made commentary at other women who walked by, said, “Hey, pretty mama” at me. Without missing a beat, I said, “I’m not your fucking ‘pretty mama’,” which caused him to say, “Day-um!” in shock. I’ve had a long day and am tired, and am not in the mood to cater to harassers.

As I waited to cross another street the man stopped to stare at me from where he was, still in shock, while I stared back with a “Yeah, I meant what I said” look. He gives up and continues on wherever he was going. Maybe he’ll learn that no one needs to hear his commentary about women who are trying to go about their days.

– Anonymous

Location: I Street NW & 15th Street NW, Washington, DC

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