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Brazil: Women-only Carriages in Rio’s Subways: Safe Spaces for Women or Institutionalized Inequality?

June 5, 2017 By Correspondent

Yasmin Curzi, Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, SSH Blog Correspondent

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In 2006, the Legislative Assembly of the State of Rio de Janeiro approved a law which enacted segregated areas on public transport for women, commonly known as “pink carriages.”. According to the memorandum of the law, the measure would serve as a remedy in order to avoid severe sexual harassment cases during rush hours on the city’s metro. It enunciates that this measure serves as an immediate remedy, “because the scenario of recurrent gender violence in public transportation is a problem difficult to overthrow.” Also it has few costs for the State or the concession-holder, so the implementation can be faster than other possible measures.

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In effect, women who suffered from abuses would feel welcoming in this “special” spaces – a symptom of the institutional mistreatment directed to them. There are some narratives that corroborates with this approach, but the discussion about the real effectiveness of the law is far to be settled. In this article I’ll try to point some of the controversial topics concerning this public policy.

1. Enforcement: Supervision of women-only carriage is made by the metro guards, only on a few platforms – usually the ones located in richer neighborhoods. The result is that men often disobey the law, specially when the subway is crowded. Also, most of the guards are men and frequently present misogynistic behaviors toward women who suffered abuse in the subways. In most of the cases, they are insensitive about women’s issues and unprepared to deal with these occurrences. Often it results in a double-violation: women are slut-shammed, offended or neglected when try to make a complaint. And the guards themselves also harasses women, usually by leering or starin

2. The law’s definition of “rush hours”: “Rush hour” is settled by the law as being “workdays 6h a.m. to 9h a.m. and 5h p.m. to 8h p.m.”, but the use of the subways increased severely in the last decade. Therefore, “rush hours” are dynamics nowadays. A college student reported to me that she suffered harassment and abuse on a Saturday afternoon. The subway was crowded and a white blond guy started to stare at her breasts, stopped in front of her and masturbated himself. Then, she ran scared and chose not to make a complain. Stories of women that decided not to report harassment and other violations are recurrent, because, not only are institutions often hostiles toward those victims, but also society normalizes these behaviors.

3. LGBT concerns: One problem of the law is that it essentializes women as an homogenous group, excluding lesbian, bissexual and transexual women. For these groups, the space doesn’t bring the same feeling of welcomeness that it does toward cisgender and heterossexual women. A lesbian woman reported to me that, when she is in the companion of another girl, before going to college at 7h a.m. (considered as a rush hour by this law), the staring of other women made her feel like she is a “circus attraction”. The women’s car is, therefore, designed for one specific group of women, nurturing the normalization of conducts in a heteronormative society.

4. It is a merely makeshift: The law memorandum itself affirms that this measure is a quick response to reduce violence towards women. However, it’s possible to assume that public power chose the easiest path. By segregating spaces by gender, the State gets rid of its duty to address the real causes of sexism with more profound and long-term measures, such as education campaigns, in order to change the perception of women’s body as a public property.

5. It corroborates victim-blaming: Another issue of the law is that it implies a perception that if a woman isn’t in the women’s car in a “rush hour”, she is responsible for the harassment suffered. Victim-blaming is recurrent in other abuses/harassment situations and usually materializes in thoughts like “what was the victim’s wearing” and “what was she doing in the street late of the night”. Segregated spaces also spreads the idea that if a woman wasn’t in the women’s car, then she “wasn’t taking the necessary precautions in order to avoid risk situations”.

The discussion about this law is in dispute even inside the feminist’s movement. There isn’t a consensus about its real effectiveness and what other measures the State could implement in order to deal immediately with sexist violence in the public transportation. However, it’s pacified that short-term measures aren’t able to solve these issues in a profound way, thus, State should also institute awareness campaigns and public policies that treat sexism in its structural roots and not only by focusing in its surface results.

Yasmin is a Research Assistant at the Center for Research on Law and Economics at FGV-Rio. She has a BA in Social Sciences from FGV-Rio and a Master Degree in Social Sciences from PUC-Rio, where she wrote her thesis on street harassment and feminists’ struggles for recognition.

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“I am so young and I feel like I don’t deserve this”

June 4, 2017 By Contributor

So I am 13 years old and I started facing street harassment when I was 12. It scares me because the older I get, the more I hear those kind of comments. It is always about my body and when I hear those comments I get really scared and I fear saying something because I don’t know how they will react. I started watching these experiments on YouTube and now I realize how much this happens in the world. It’s the scariest when you’re such young age because you don’t know how to react, you don’t know if you should say something or not. Most of the time when I go somewhere it is with my friends or family, but when I have to go home or go to school that’s when they harass me. This is starting to become like a fear and now I’m scared that these things will happen again and I am so young and I feel like I don’t deserve this. I’m trying to find help because I don’t know what to do when these things happen.

– Kyla

Location: In the mall and in town

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“I feel mentally violated and disgusted.”

June 2, 2017 By Contributor

Why do men think being creepy and saying lewd things is attractive to any living woman? You don’t hear women saying such things or treating men this way. I feel mentally violated and disgusted.

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Stop being ignorant. Women are people so treat them how you would like to be treated.

– Anonymous

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End of May News Round-Ups

June 1, 2017 By HKearl

LeDajrick Cox. Image via The Grio

It’s with a heavy heart that I open this edition of the monthly news round-up with tragic news:

  • In Dallas, Texas, LeDajrick Cox, who just graduated from high school, and two male friends and a female friend were out celebrating. In a 7-11 parking lot, three men in another car started street harassing their female friend, and Cox intervened to defend her. Eventually, Cox and his friends left but the three men followed them and shot into the car. Cox and the two other young men were all injured and Cox died from his injuries. A young life is needlessly over. I applaud him for doing the right thing and am so saddened he is dead.
  • In Portland, Oregon, a white supremacist began harassing two young women on a train, using anti-Muslim slurs. One woman was wearing hijab. When three men intervened to help the young women, the man attacked, killing two of them and injuring one. Again this is just unbelievably horrific and sad. There have been many news stories about the tragedy and praise given to the three men. I glad they intervened but feel so saddened that for two of them, it cost them their lives. That never should have happened.
  • In College Park, Maryland, a white supremacist seemingly randomly stabbed and killed a recent African American college graduate near the University of Maryland campus.
  • In Manchester, UK, a suicide bomber attacked an Ariana Grande concert that was mainly attended by teenage and tween-age girls. More than 20 people died and even more were injured.

Everyone should be safe in public spaces, and clearly we have a long, long ways to go until that will occur. I hope these stories don’t deter people from speaking out and helping people facing harassment and I hope that those who have committed these crimes face consequences and that perhaps those consequences will deter others from doing the same.

Here are highlights of other news from around the world this month:

The first mandatory legal mediation in the first ever street sexual harassment case in the country took place in Buenos Aires, Argentina.

A woman in Adelaide, Australia, wrote about being scared to walk the streets of her own town after dark.

A study found that 23% of female commuters in Dhaka, Bangladesh, faces sexual harassment on the buses.

Men in Egypt are working with other men to discuss their role and actions as bystanders, perpetrators and victims of violence, including street harassment.

Outraged women in an eastern Parisian district of France staged demonstrations and launched an online petition over a “male den” where women are subject to harassment and sexist remarks.

A woman in Hong Kong spoke out against people who victim-blame women facing street harassment.

In India, the Alwar police formed an all-women team to crack down on people harassing women and girls on city streets.

School girls in India went on a hunger strike to protest the men who harassed them on their way to and from school and the lack of action by local officials to stop them.

In an informal survey conducted in Myanmar, more than 80% of women had faced street harassment.

Three women’s groups urged Panamanian President Juan Carlos Varela Monday to sign a bill meant to prohibit and punish sexual harassment, stalking, sexism and racism in all areas.

The penalty for taking non-consensual upskirt photos increased in Thailand.

In the UK, a bar posted a sign to deter male customers from harassing the female bartender.

A new report from Harvard Graduate School of Education found that 87% of women in the U.S. have faced sexual harassment. Among 18 to 25 year olds, most said they had faced sexual harassment, including 41% saying a stranger had touched them without permission.

Prior to the Lightning in a Bottle music festival in Los Angeles (USA), there was a class offered for fans and staff about sexual harassment at festivals, “Creating Safer-Braver Spaces: Consent Culture & Social Care”.

Most U.S. cities were designed around men and it’s time for that to change.

In the U.S., Feminista Jones began responding to strange men who “complimented” her by agreeing… and then the men get mad. She said in an interview:

“For a man to be comfortable sending an unsolicited comment about your body via text or Tinder or Bumble or whatever, or to feel comfortable yelling some shit at you on the sidewalk, he has to feel — at least in some small way — like you exist for him. If you take those compliments in stride instead of blushing and cooing and being the Good Modest Woman he hopes your mother raised you to be, you’re proving you don’t exist for him at all. Your “great body” belongs to you, and of course that’s gonna piss this exact type of dude off.”

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Indonesia: Street Harassment: Prilaku “sehari-hari” yang tidak dapat ditoleransi.

May 31, 2017 By Correspondent

Astrid Nikijuluw, Serpong, Banten, Indonesia SSH Blog Correspondent

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Catcalling di negara saya merupakan hal yang ‘biasa’ terjadi sehari-hari.  Saking biasanya sampai terkadang menjadi hal yang ‘dimaklumi’.  Terlepas dari apa yang dirasakan para korban yang kebanyakan adalah wanita.   Dulu saya suka berpikir bahwa hal itu terjadi karena hal-hal yang disebabkan oleh kita sendiri seperti misalnya cara berpakaian.  Namun ternyata tidak peduli gaya berpakaian kita, catcalling tetap saja berlaku.

Buat saya pribadi, perlakuan seperti catcalling atau street harassment adalah perlakuan yang sangat mengintimidasi.  Dari merasa terintimidasi akan berkembang menjadi rasa takut.  Padahal semua orang berhak untuk merasa aman apabila berjalan di jalan-jalan umum dan juga tempat-tempat umum lainnya.  Sayangnya hal ini belum terjadi.  Masih banyak para wanita yang merasa risih atau takut apabila harus berjalan melewati kerumunan para lelaki.  Yang akhirnya membuat mereka mengurungkan niatnya ataupun mengambil jalan lain yang lebih jauh namun dianggap lebih aman.

Ada cerita tentang seorang anak perempuan yang selalu diminta oleh ibunya ke pasar untuk membelikan keperluan kakak perempuannya.  Sang ibu merasa tidak aman kalau sang kakak ke pasar sendirian karena banyaknya perlakuan yang tidak menyenangkan dari para lelaki di seputar pasar tersebut.  Anak perempuan ini memang memiliki postur seperti lelaki dengan rambutnya yang dipotong pendek dan gaya berpakaian ala lelaki dengan kaos longgar dan celana pendek atau celana panjang jeans.  Sedangkan kakaknya adalah sosok feminine dengan rambut panjang dan wajah manis yang bisa sangat mungkin untuk di goda.  Setelah dewasa dia pun mengakui bahwa alasan dia bergaya seperti lelaki itu adalah untuk menghindari perlakuan street harassment. Sedangkan sang kakak justru merasa bahwa dia tidak perlu harus ‘dilindungi’, dia bisa melakukannya sendiri.  Rasanya seperti sesuatu yang bagus bukan?  Tetapi sayangnya tidak.  Sang kakak merasa begitu karena menurut dia hal seperti street harassment adalah hal umum atau wajar terjadi apabila pergi ke tempat-tempat umum seperti pasar tradisional. Sehingga timbul pemikiran “cuekin aja”.   Padahal mereka berdua sama-sama tidak setuju dan menentang perlakuan tersebut.

Berdasarkan cerita diatas, saya merasa bahwa mereka berdua sama-sama mengalami psychological effect dari perlakuan street harassment tersebut.  Hanya dengan reaksi yang berbeda.  Apapun itu, adalah satu hal yang jelas bahwa perlakuan seperti ini tidak dapat diterima.  Efek yang ditimbulkan kepada para korban mungkin tidak terlalu ketara dan hal inilah yang membuat catcalling masih merajalela dari sejak jaman dahulu sampai generasi milenial saat ini.  Apakah untuk menghindari perlakuan ini kita harus bergaya seperti lelaki?  Mensugesti diri bahwa ini biasa sehingga “cuekin aja”? Atau mengambil jalan lain yang lebih aman walaupun jauh?

Sayangnya hal seperti street harassment ini masih kurang mendapat perhatian masyarakat.  Isunya belum seramai dibicarakan seperti LGBT, KDRT (Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga) dan kasus sexual harassment lainnya.  Padahal hal ini lebih sering terjadi dan bisa dibilang kejadian sehari-hari.  Saya ingat ada satu ungkapan yang berbunyi kira-kira seperti ini “dosa apabila sudah sering dilakukan akan terasa bukan lagi dosa”.  Saya rasa ungkapan ini sangat tepat menggambarkan perlakuan street harassment.  Terlalu sering dilakukan sehingga seolah-olah sudah diterima menjadi bagian dari kejadian sehari-hari.  Padahal tidak.  Perlakuan ini sangat mengganggu dan menimbulkan efek psikologis bagi korban.  Pertanyaannya adalah sampai kapan kita akan membiarkan hal ini berlangsung? Pemikiran sederhana yang masih sulit untuk dijawab saat ini.

Astrid received her Bachelors of Business at Queensland University of Technology Brisbane Australia. She finished her Master’s Degree at Gadjah Mada University Yogyakarta where she majored in Human Resource Development. Follow her on Twitter at @AstridNiki or on Facebook.

In my country, catcalling is considered a ‘usual’ daily thing, so usual, in fact, that it is seen as ‘ok’ to do even though the victims, usually women, do not like it.  I used to think that this thing happened because of the way we dressed. But in fact, no matter how you try to dress yourself, catcalling can still happen to you.

To me, catcalling, or street harassment, is intimidating and that intimidation can even turn into fear.  Even though every single individual should have the right to feel safe while walking on the street and public places, unfortunately this kind of thing has not yet happened. Many women still feel uncomfortable or scared if they have to walk past some crowd of men. This fear may cause them to not walk past them or prompt them to take another way which is further, but is considered safer for them.

There is a story about a young girl who was always asked by her mother to go to the traditional market and to accompany her sister. The mother felt it was too unsafe for the sister to go to the market by herself because of the inappropriate behavior from some men who hang-out in the market. This young girl had a very masculine appearance, such as having short hair and wearing loose t-shirts and jeans, but her sister presented in a feminine way, like with long straight hair. Later when this young girl had become an adult, she admitted that the reason she dressed like a boy was to avoid street harassment, while her sister felt that she did not need any ‘protection’, and she could do it on her own. In her opinion, street harassment is a common thing that happens, especially in public places such as traditional markets. This leads to a thought of “I don’t give a damn”, while in fact both of them are disagree and against this kind of behavior.

Based on the story above, I feel that both of them are having a psychological response to street harassment, just different ones. Whatever it is, it is still very clear that these kinds of actions are not acceptable. In order to avoid such disturbing behavior, do we have to change our style like a man? Or just accept it and say, “I don’t give a damn? Or go out of our way to take safer though further routes?

Unfortunately, there is a lack of attention in our society to street harassment. The issue does not receive as much attention as LGBT rights, domestic violence, and other types of sexual harassment even though it often happens in our everyday life. I remember a phrase that says, “a sin if constantly repeated is not considered as a sin anymore”.  I think this phrase fits the street harassment behavior. Too often it is repeated as if it is ‘accepted’ as a ‘usual’ everyday behavior. Frankly no! This behavior can have a negative psychological effect on the victim.  The question is, for how long will we allow this street harassment to occur? This is a simple thought yet currently it still is difficult to answer.

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