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Romania: International Anti-Street Harassment Week in Bucharest

April 22, 2017 By Correspondent

Simona-Maria Chirciu, Bucharest, Romania, SSH Blog Correspondent

This year International Anti-Harassment Week in Bucharest was a full week! There were a couple of different activities which involved many people and targeted many different audiences.

First of all we had a meeting with a few young women who wanted to participate and we talked about street harassment that women bikers face on a daily basis in Bucharest. Maybe, in the summer time, we will do something about this, too.

Credit: Vasile Bianca

Then Hollaback! Romania organized a flash-mob in the center of the city of Bucharest. It was an example of intersectionality because the participants have different identities and personal experiences: 13 persons of different genders, different ethnicities, different sexual orientations. It was a good opportunity to get in touch with people interested in taking action and change something when it comes to the street harassment nightmare in Romania. Moreover, people stopped and gave us a nice feedback – “Good job, folks!”, “Yes, you are right, street harassment is a problem”!, “Congrats!” – while others wanted to take a photo with our protest signs.

A nice moment was when we crossed a street and on our right side we saw a working site where were four workers, so we all laughed because this was a good encounter (everybody knows that many site workers harass women). We had a little chat with them about street harassment and they assured us they respect women and they never harass them.

Credit: Vasile Bianca

Another action that we organized was a complex online campaign. Hollaback! Romania is just a baby now but I am pretty sure it will grow up and become a great activist movement. We gained 300 new likes in just one week (2-8 April) and impacted 16.000 people for some of the posts on the Facebook page. This numbers are a good outcome but not the only one!

ANAIS Association and I collaborate with a group of Informatics students to develop an online application to address street harassment in Bucharest. Even though things are moving slowly I see that there are more and more people interested and willing to get involved. I really hope that the app will be well received by the people and be a real tool against street harassment.

For 2-8 April we had a great time in Bucharest sharing ideas and hopes for the future regarding our fight against this type of violence. I was surprised to receive lots of support! We – the Hollaback! Romania team – are so grateful for it! For example, regarding the online campaign, National Agency for Equal Opportunities between Women and Men – ANES (subordinated to the Ministry of Labor and Social Justice) shared our campaign. It’s a rare thing to have authorities involved in feminist activism in Romania!

A really cool metal music band – Trooper – made a video where a member of it spoke to his fans about the harm that street harassment produces to society and to women.

Also, two martial arts schools from Bucharest shared Hollaback! Romania’s message announcing the International Anti Street Harassment Week and spread information about how important is to speak up and react to street harassment.

Finally, a member of the Ecologist Romanian Party conducted an interview with me about  street harassment in Romania and their media press release had 8.000 people read it!

So yes, I am very glad that step by step (very little steps indeed) we starting to shake things up and grow the street harassment discussion in Bucharest. I try to convince people that we all have a role to play in preventing harassment in public spaces (in all its forms) and each stakeholder has a responsibility in defining and respecting his own role for creating safer and more welcoming public spaces. I am pleased to see that many of them get the message and step out of their comfort zone taking action.

We look forward for the International Anti Street Harassment Week in 2018 but we won’t wait that long to do other activities and campaigns against street harassment in Romania!

Simona-Marie is a Ph.D. Student in Political Sciences, working on a thesis on gender-based street harassment in Romania. She is an activist and organizes numerous public actions (marches, flash-mobs, protests) against sexual violence and street harassment against women. Now she is part of an working-group trying to improve by public policies the situation of young homeless people in Romania. You can find her on Facebook.

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“A man passing by touched me at inappropriate places”

April 20, 2017 By Contributor

I was jogging with my friend on a less busy road as it was holiday season. A man passing by touched me at inappropriate places. I was very angry and was swearing but couldn’t move to stop him. Now I wish I could have been more alert and perhaps tried to stop him or something. I feel angry over the fact that I didn’t do enough to get him punished.

– Anonymous

Location: Botswana

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“I’m now too scared to wear what I want to wear and go where I want to go”

April 19, 2017 By Contributor

I have retyped my answer multiple times because I don’t quite know how to write it or if I should even submit this but, I need to share my story.

I was just catcalled which is certainly nothing foreign to me, although this time it was different. The harasser followed me and was objectifying me as I walked in circles, trying to not identify where my house was. He followed me into my alley, where he repeatedly asked for my number and complimented me how I had a “fine ass”.

I’ve been replaying the new incident from approximately 30 minutes ago in my head and I just can’t utter any words to my friends or family because I am too distraught. And you may be thinking, “What’s the big deal?”or “I know it’s wrong but I feel as though she’s overreacting.”

Trust me, I ignorantly thought that, too. But you never truly know what it feels like until you’re in that moment, and as hard as you may try, I don’t think that you can ever prepare yourself for it. Because in that moment, there are so many emotions of embarrassment, anger, shame and the biggest one being fear. When a tall, strong man approaches you, you feel defenseless and don’t know the appropriate response. I’ve been watching videos and reading articles on street harassment and I have never grotesquely related to a topic more than this one today. Yes, grotesquely.

It is disgusting how a man feels as though its his right to objectify me and it’s his write to express his opinion on how he owns my body. He was commenting, “Why are you so mean? I’m just being nice!” Just being nice.

Tell me, is it nice to be in such fear of your life that your body freezes up. Tell me, is what you did so nice that I felt the need to share my story. Tell me, is it so nice to cause me so much misery, which I know very well you intended to do.Well congratulations, you’ve won. I’m now too scared to wear what I want to wear and go where I want to go all for fear of my life.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

I think that this situation was almost unavoidable as there was no one around. I know that he knew what he was doing was wrong. I know that if he saw no issue with his commentary, he would have harassed me on the bus instead of waiting. I know this was not his first attack, and I know I won’t be his last.

– M.S.

Location: Chicago, IL. He was on my bus and I noticed him staring at me but I didn’t do anything because to be honest, that happens often. He got off at the same stop and started to follow me. I didn’t turn around because I didn’t want to engage but as I was in the alley and nearing my house he said hello, and that’s where the harassment began.

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Harassment in the Boston Marathon 50 Years Ago

April 17, 2017 By HKearl

Katherine Switzer in 1967. Image via Deadspin

A Runner’s World survey conducted last year found that many American women runners face street harassment and elite women runners like Kara Goucher and trailblazers like Katherine Switzer are are no exception! Fifty years ago men tried to pull Switzer off the course of the Boston Marathon when they saw she was female!! Other male runners placed themselves around her to protect her and she was able to finish. Today, she ran it again at age 70. She talks about that epic 1967 run here and in her book Marathon Woman.

As some one who ran her first marathon at age 14, I am grateful to her and other women like her who blazed the way for me and my peers. It was a real honor to meet her a few years ago! May one day we all be able to run harassment-free.

Holly and Katherine Switzer at a Title IX event in 2012
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“Then threw rocks at my car while we were driving”

April 15, 2017 By HKearl

On 4/6/17 the driver of the van for the company Grooming on the Go…address on van is 126 Columbia Avenue in Jericho, NY, was tailgating me and then threw rocks at my car while we were driving in the pouring lane on Jericho Tpke heading West off of Rte 106 South and then sped away. I took pictures and posted them on Yelp and Google so anyone seeing this van would stay clear of him. Owner’s name is Nick Pepe but phone number on website just rings and according to his old neighbors he just moved with his wife and son so he is no longer at that address. This person is dangerous and should be taken off the street by the police.

– Anonymous

Location: Jericho NY

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