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“It made me feel like it was my fault”

August 30, 2019 By Contributor

I was 13 and my mom put me in modeling school because of my height. I was wearing a skirt and practicing walking in heels at the mall when a man approached me and said, “Your long legs would look so good on the back of my bike,” and my mom flipped out. I didn’t realize until later that what he said was totally inappropriate and because I was wearing something I didn’t usually wear (prepping for modeling school), it made me feel like it was my fault.

– Anonymous

This post is part of a back-to-school series to highlight the young age that street harassment begins. The stories in this series were shared as part of our recent survey on street harassment and age and they entail people’s first experience of street harassment. The full list of stories is available here.

As you read the stories, note that among respondents, 70% said they were 13 years old or younger at the time of their first experience. 24% said they were 14 to 16 years old. The remaining 6% were older than 16.

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“They were making aggressive sexual jokes”

August 29, 2019 By Contributor

I was petting a horse and two boys very much older than me came along and were making aggressive sexual jokes and running hardcore sexual energy at me. They had me blocked in.

During the same summer, a very drunk man at one of my father’s parties came out of the backyard and talked sexual to me as I was walking around on the street in front of my dad’s house. It scared me.

– Anonymous

This post is part of a back-to-school series to highlight the young age that street harassment begins. The stories in this series were shared as part of our recent survey on street harassment and age and they entail people’s first experience of street harassment. The full list of stories is available here.

As you read the stories, note that among respondents, 70% said they were 13 years old or younger at the time of their first experience. 24% said they were 14 to 16 years old. The remaining 6% were older than 16.

Need support?
Call the toll-free National Street Harassment hotline: 855-897-5910

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Filed Under: age, Stories, street harassment

“A man masturbated at me at a traffic light”

August 28, 2019 By Contributor

When I was 16 and had just learned to drive, a man masturbated at me at a traffic light. I was totally grossed out. I went home and told my mother who told me it was illegal and that we could call the police. That had not occurred to me.

– Anonymous

This post is part of a back-to-school series to highlight the young age that street harassment begins. The stories in this series were shared as part of our recent survey on street harassment and age and they entail people’s first experience of street harassment. The full list of stories is available here.

As you read the stories, note that among respondents, 70% said they were 13 years old or younger at the time of their first experience. 24% said they were 14 to 16 years old. The remaining 6% were older than 16.

Need support?
Call the toll-free National Street Harassment hotline: 855-897-5910

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Filed Under: age, Stories, street harassment

“Other people must think I’m a slut”

August 26, 2019 By Contributor

I was waiting to cross the road. Builders who were on a scaffold repeatedly whistled at me (like did not take a break, just continuous wolf whistling). I was stuck there and couldn’t walk away because I couldn’t cross the road. I felt so scared and ashamed. It made me feel like I was dressed inappropriately and that other people must think I’m a slut.

– Anonymous

This post is part of a back-to-school series to highlight the young age that street harassment begins. The stories in this series were shared as part of our recent survey on street harassment and age and they entail people’s first experience of street harassment. The full list of stories is available here.

As you read the stories, note that among respondents, 70% said they were 13 years old or younger at the time of their first experience. 24% said they were 14 to 16 years old. The remaining 6% were older than 16.

Need support?
Call the toll-free National Street Harassment hotline: 855-897-5910

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Filed Under: age, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: age

“Please pull that dress down!”

August 26, 2019 By Contributor

I was walking down the street with my mom, and I was wearing a pretty dress because I was going to the theater. A man drove by in a car and hollered, “Please pull that dress down!”

I was 15 at the time.

– Anonymous

This post is part of a back-to-school series to highlight the young age that street harassment begins. The stories in this series were shared as part of our recent survey on street harassment and age and they entail people’s first experience of street harassment. The full list of stories is available here.

As you read the stories, note that among respondents, 70% said they were 13 years old or younger at the time of their first experience. 24% said they were 14 to 16 years old. The remaining 6% were older than 16.

Need support?
Call the toll-free National Street Harassment hotline: 855-897-5910

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Filed Under: age, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: age, men harasser, young age

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