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Weekly Round Up: July 18, 2010

July 18, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: There were 9 stories from contributors in: India, Spain, New Jersey, Virginia, Walsall, UK, Reading, UK, California, Costa Rica, and Massachusetts
  • Hollaback DC!: 11 new stories
  • HollaBack NYC: 3 new stories

In the News:

  • Forbes.com article on commuter harassment (written by me) and syndicated on ABC News (the business section!)
  • AFP article on eve teasing and suicides in Bangladesh
  • In India, Transjakarta Bus stops will have women police officers and security cameras to curb sexual harassment
  • “Men Taste Sex Harassment Gauntlet“

Interviews:

  • HollaBack DC! interviewed Lisa, the founder of HollaBack Toronto
  • The Daily Femme interviewed me

10 Street Harassment Tweets from the Week:

  • jennpozner Bklyn dudes, when’ll you realize your “How YOU doin?” street harassment is as tired as a Friends rerun?
  • barcc Street harassment=attempt to control the physical public space, but always feels so personal.
  • TashCas Another day, another slur of street harassment thrown my way. Ugh. Odds of a gun/knife getting pulled on me if I talk back…?
  • sboehmer No, it’s not that I’m shy. It’s more that your commentary on my “sweet ass” isn’t deserving of my attention. #streetharassment
  • ShoDav Why can’t men just keep their mouths shut? Catcalling is rude and unnecessary. Ugh.
  • hollabackdc thanks 2 @rendsmith for contacting OAG after reading this http://bit.ly/bIoV7r. <3 community response to street harassment.
  • RightRides no license? no problem! u don’t need 2 drive 2 volunteer on a @rightrides driving team. email volunteer@rightrides.org 4 info
  • ForbesWoman Stop Commuter Harassment. It’s a problem 80 to 100% of women face and employers should take note @forbeswoman http://cptl.st/9xcmPS
  • UpliftMagazine Welsh PSA’s, Hey Baby & Schrödinger’s Rapist – Street Harassment, It All Adds up! http://tinyurl.com/3xktlcd
  • jessielovesyu Street harassment needs to stop. #fuckpatriarchy

Resource of the Week

  • It Starts With You Campaign
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Weekly Round Up: July 11, 2010

July 11, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: There were 8 stories from women in Michigan, North Carolina, Toronto, Washington,  Spain, New York,  Connecticut, and “everywhere.”
  • Hollaback DC!: 8 new stories

Poems:

  • Check out two great anti-street harassment poems on HollaBack NYC!

In the News:

  • A new UN report shows that 2 in 3 women in Delhi, India, faced public sexual harassment 2-5 times in the past year.
  • The Observer covers street harassment, the new LASH campaign in England, and mentions the Stop Street Harassment blog!
  • Op-ed in the NY Daily News about HollaBack’s new iphone app and the grossness of subway harassers, also coverage of the iphone app on The Frisky and Feministe

10 Street Harassment Tweets of the Week:

  • jennifercwang: I am so terrible and vicious to men who sexually harass me on the street. Stop using your tiny dick for a brain and I’ll stop stomping on it
  • beleidy: And if women could walk in the street free of fear of harassment, they wouldn’t take transportation everywhere, even for very short distances
  • JeanGrae: Men, it’s 2010. You still haven’t let go of the “deflating balloon/I have a secret 2 tell you aka PSST” catcall? #dobetter
  • iHollaback: @monasosh Every time I see a baby girl, it reminds me of my 10 yr plan: create a world where they never have to experience #streetharassment
  • praymurray: An amazing, outspoken and fearless initiative 2 deal w/street sexual harassment on the streets of India http://bit.ly/ct9Qy4
  • komurphy: Keep thinking about ystrdy, 1st time I feared 4 my safety due 2 #streetharassment. It was impossible 2 ignore.
  • tekniklr: Dug: “Street harassment puts women in an impossible position. When we do nothing or say nothing, it…” http://bit.ly/aaEnWv
  • alaina_love: The @CatCall-ing has been incessant today. “I like your glasses” & “You look nice but you got a stanky attitude” (my fave).
  • icebergha: If you want to tell a woman she’s pretty, TELL HER! Don’t be disrespectful & catcall, that won’t get you anywhere!!
  • stopstharassmnt: Safe Delhi Campaign PSA shows how the community can play a critical role in making the city safer for wmen & grls http://tinyurl.com/28bwz5g

Announcements:

  • Blank Noise in India is asking for contributions defining Action Heroes in the context of street harassment.
  • Stop Street Harassment: Making Public Places Safe & Welcoming for Women is available Aug. 30. Pre-order your copy today!

Resource of the Week:

Real Men Don’t Holla

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Weekly Round Up: July 3, 2010

July 3, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: There were 6 stories from women in Burbank, CA; Arlington, VA; Louisville, KY; Boston, MA; New York City, NY; and Tel Aviv, Israel.
  • Hollaback DC!: 17 new stories
  • Hollaback NYC: 1 new story
  • Other: Kari Parks wrote, “This what street harassment feels like;” Amelia Wells wrote, “So, I’m pretty? That doesn’t oblige me to sleep with you,” Meloukhia wrote, “Thanks for the Pall, construction worker.”

Interviews:

  • Interview on Amplify Your Voice with filmmaker Nuala Cabral about her film “Walking Home.”
  • Interview on Holla Back DC! with filmmaker Maggie Hadleigh-West about her film “War Zone.”

In the News:

  • A blogger for Transit Miami asks, “ Does a woman have equal right to mobility in the city?“
  • Rape Crisis Scotland & the Scottish Government launched a “Not Ever” television ad and online campaign against rape and victim-blaming.
  • Psychological violence (including verbal harassment) is now a crime in France.
  • 59% of harassment women in the Netherlands experienced in 2009 occurred at public places like the street, transit stops, and restaurants.
  • NYPD may be regularly downgrading reported sexual assaults.
  • The Line Campaign wrote, “Street harassment is violence, too!“

10 Street Harassment Tweets of the Week:

  • iHollaback: How come no matter how much you talk about street harassment, it’s still shocking and scary when it happens?
  • mkpheartsnyc: Gotta love that it’s never too early for street harassment.
  • MissDC2009: The stories on @hollabackdc infuriate me so much, I called my parents yesterday to tell them that I’m going to law school. I need to help
  • femmeniste: I hate walking down the street KNOWING that a man is looking and waiting to say something gross as you pass by. #StreetHarassment #NYC
  • thekateblack: E. Village street harassment stoops lower. Not 1, but 2 men blocked my path. 1 reached in front of me 2 prevent me crossing
  • feministhulk: HULK TRY TO OPEN MIND, SMASH EPISTEMOLOGICAL FRAMEWORKS WHICH LIMIT HULK’S THOUGHT, BUT HULK WILL NEVER GET CAT-CALLING.
  • lorenacupcake: Street harassment is getting so bad I’m almost wishing for winter, wrapping my body in wool armor against the stares and comments of men.
  • ashleyrebeccah: Guy says I look cute. I ignore him & he asks didn’t u hear me? Yes I fucking heard u I just want u to leave me alone! #streetharassment
  • kerinrose: Awkward fratboy-in-a-cab catcall of the nite: “I can see my reflection in your pussy!”
  • allfallsup: i love dresses but hate how nasty older men catcall to me like i want em…ewww you got wrinkled balls dude.

Events:

  • July 8: HollaBack Launch Party in Brooklyn, NY, 7 p.m.

Announcements:

  • Blank Noise in India is asking for contributions defining Action Heroes in the context of street harassment.
  • Stop Street Harassment: Making Public Places Safe & Welcoming for Women is available Aug. 30. Pre-order your copy today!

Resource of the Week:

  • “Not Ever” Campaign from Scotland
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Weekly Round Up: June 13, 2010

June 13, 2010 By HKearl

Weekly Round Up is back by popular demand.

Story Submissions Recap:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: A woman in New Jersey is harassed in person and through her phone, a woman living in Belize shares how common street harassment occurs there, awoman in Salem, Massachusetts, observes high school boys harassing a high school girl and decides to report them, a woman in Gent, Belgium, says she gets sick with fear when men harass her, a woman in Washington, DC. tells a metro harasser to please leave her alone, a woman in Hendersonville, TN, recalls how many men threw objects from their cars at her and other woman walking down the street, and a woman in Toronto is stalked by a man for 45 minutes as she shops.
  • Hollaback Chicago: 1 new story this week
  • Hollaback DC!: 12 new stories this week
  • Hollaback London: 4 new stories this week
  • Hollaback NYC: 3 new stories this week, plus Justine’s video “Why I Hollaback”
  • Hollaback Toronto: 1 new story this week
  • Other: A woman in Nepal writes about street harassment on Booksie, there’s a Livejournal entry called “Street Harassment and Redneck Chivalry,” and anti-street harassment song! By “eating dictionaries”

In the News:

  • June 13 is “Eve Teasing Protection Day“
  • In Central Jakarta, India, there are now sex segregated bus lines because of harassment
  • Crime Prevention 101 online radio show about street harassment (listen to it here)
  • “Black Women X The Streets X Harassment” on Racialicious
  • AOL Lemondrop article “How to Deal with Cat-Callers, Leer-ers, and Other Street Harassers“
  • Three men raped a homeless woman who was waiting for a bus in NYC
  • A Seattle, Washington, cis man was charged with a hate crime following the assault of a transwoman
  • Hey Baby video game is covered by: NY Times, NPR, Ms Magazine Blog, Feministe, and WPIX (w/video)

Announcements:

  • Welcome Hollaback Hong Kong and Hollaback London!
  • Three things you can do to help HollaBack and it programs

Resource of the Week:

The Welsh Government’s excellent video “One Step Too Far” and the companion website.

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Documenting street harassment on maps

May 21, 2010 By HKearl

Does street harassment really happen that often? Doesn’t it just happen in big cities? Doesn’t it just happen in “bad” neighborhoods?

Maps are an easy way to help SHOW that street harassment happens all the time and everywhere. Do you want to help raise awareness about street harassment? Consider doing so with maps.

1. When you share your street harassment stories for this blog, add the location so I can add it to my Global Street Harassment Map. You can do the same if you live in Washington, DC, and submit a story to HollaBack DC!

2. Donate to Hollaback NYC’s Kickstart initiative to launch a phone app that will allow anyone to map their street harassment incident in real time (they have until May 28 to raise $12k – please help now!).

3. Create your own map of street harassment incidents, just as the two women I will profile next have done.

Hannah’s and Valerie’s Street Harassment Maps

First up is Hannah, a cinema student at the University of Iowa who recently created her own street harassment map. I asked her a few questions about it.

Regarding the impact of street harassment on her life, she said,

“Street harassment, both what’s happened to me and what’s happened to other people, makes me afraid to walk down the street. I dress in a certain way to try to avoid it, though I think my map proves how ineffective that is. I also take certain routes, like avoiding downtown if at all possible, simply to avoid being harassed.”

As to why she created her own map, she told me:

“I think it’s really interesting how many things have happened to me, personally, and I feel that what has happened to me has largely been different from what people typically associate with street harassment. I feel like the myth is that women who dress ‘provocatively’ and/or are really pretty are the only people who are harassed. I’m evidence to the contrary. I’m pretty plain – I’m curvy, too, and a little overweight on top of that – and I like to dress comfortably, which for me is in loose-fitting clothing that covers my knees and my upper arms. I don’t like to show a lot of skin, and I don’t wear tight clothes. Another common misconception is that street harassment only comes from, say, construction crews, or truck drivers, men like that. I’ve never been harassed by a construction worker OR a truck driver. Plus I also think that people believe that street harassment only happens in big cities, which Iowa City (thought I love it) certainly is not. I guess the short answer is that I wanted to debunk myths and raise awareness.”

She has found that her map creates opportunities for very helpful discussions, but that she’s also had people tell her she is “getting worked up over nothing.” She plans to add every single incident that happens to her to the map, and that “I hope more than anything that I don’t have to add to it, but realistically I know that’s probably not going to be the case.”

Next up is Valerie Aurora, a software programmer and writer in San Francisco, who created her street harassment map a few years ago.

Street harassment has a similar impact on her life as it does on Hannah’s:

“I have very carefully researched routes to and from places I visit that have the lowest rate of harassment and I take those religiously. I just don’t take certain BART stations (like 16th and Mission) because they are so surrounded by people who harass me and instead take longer routes.  I always sit near the driver on the bus or train. I take taxis if I’m out after 9pm at night – night buses are hell. Getting harassed pretty much ruins my day and reduces me to a 10-year-old level of emotion for several hours.”

Why did she start her map?

“Initially, it was because very few people believed me when I told them about what was happening to me.  I wanted to prove that my reality existed – people were so disbelieving that I began to wonder if I were making it all up somehow.  Then I realized that I felt much better when I had something to do when someone harassed me.  I’d pull out my notebook and note down the time and place and what happened, and that distracted me enough that I’d only feel a little bit scared and bad. It was my way to prove that what was happening was really happening, and to get a little control back.”

Her map is having an impact. She said that some people who view it say, “Wow, I had no idea it was so bad!”  and some others question whether individual incidents were really harassment.  “Most people,” she notes, “are shocked.”

When I asked her about her plans going forward, she told me:

“I quit adding to this one after a while because I got used to it and I no longer cared whether my friends believed me or not – I knew it was happening, and that was all the reality I needed.  But writing this has reminded me of the good parts of keeping the map.  I may start doing it again, but keeping it on Global Street Harassment Map instead. And if the Hollaback iPhone app becomes a reality, then hell yeah, I’ll keep updating it.”

What would your map look like if you documented all of your street harassment experiences?

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