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Kenyan program improves boys’ attitudes towards girls

March 26, 2015 By HKearl

We need this kind of programming in every country, every school!

Via Reuters:

“The schoolboy watched as a man tried to remove the nappy of a little girl he was dragging along a Nairobi riverbank, suspecting that he was going to rape her. Having been trained to defend girls against sexual assault, the boy called other young men to help him confront the man and rescue the child.

“It would have been fatal,” said Collins Omondi, who taught the boy as part of a program to stamp out violence against women and girls in Nairobi slums. “If this man would have assaulted this kid, he would have thrown her inside the river.”

Omondi teaches a program called ‘Your Moment of Truth’, run by the charity Ujamaa Africa which encourages adolescent boys to stand up against violence toward women.

The training is “highly effective” in improving attitudes toward women and increasing the likelihood of successful intervention, researchers from Stanford University, University of Nairobi and United States International University-Africa said. The training increased boys’ successful interventions when witnessing physical or sexual assault by 185 percent, from 26 to 74 percent, according to their study to be published later this year in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence.Interventions in verbal harassment also increased, and rape by boyfriends and friends of girls in schools where ‘Your Moment of Truth’ was taught dropped by 20 percent, from 61 to 49 percent, the researchers said.”

H/t Soraya Chemaly

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Afghan men promote women’s rights, Indian men harass girls

March 6, 2015 By HKearl

Via Huffington Post

Via HuffPost:

“A group of Afghan men marched through the capital, Kabul, on Thursday to draw attention to women’s rights by donning head-to-toe burqas that for many people worldwide have come to symbolize the suppression of women.

The hardline Taliban forced women to wear burqas in public during their rule in the 1990s and concern is growing in Afghanistan and among its allies that gains for women made since the 2001 U.S.-led ouster of the Taliban are at risk. The men marched under a leaden sky, with the bright blue burqas falling over their heads down to muddy sneakers and boots.

The demonstrators, associated with a group called Afghan Peace Volunteers, said they organized the march ahead of International Women’s Day on March 8.”

Meanwhile, in India, 8 young men on bikes harassed 20 schoolgirls who were riding a bus on their way home from their Board exams. The bus drivers stood up for the girls and the young men escalated their actions, injuring the bus drivers. One girl was also injured when the young men pelted the bus with rocks.

Parents of the girls registered complaints and two of the young men have been found and arrested.

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#BeThatGuy at the Super Bowl

February 1, 2015 By HKearl

From our friends at Breakthrough:

“Going out to a bar or restaurant can be a great way to celebrate the #SuperBowl. You’re with tons of people and have tons of TV screen options. But for many waitresses and bartenders, there’s also tons of sexual harassment.

So what can …you do about it? #BeThatGuy who treats your servers with respect, and call it out when a friend or fellow customer doesn’t. Lead the way in making the game should be fun–and free of sexual harassment–for everyone.

Here are 7 WAYS to #BeThatGuy at the #SuperBowl”

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USA: Yik Yak Messages Promote a Culture of Harassment

January 30, 2015 By Correspondent

Tyler Bradley, Michigan, USA Blog Correspondent

Up until a year ago or so, I hadn’t considered street harassment as being as prevalent in small communities like the one I live in. I’m enrolled at Saginaw Valley State University, a mid-sized public institution in Mid-Michigan with a student population of about 9,800. I always considered it being more so a problem in large cities, where harassers assume they won’t run into their victims again. The shroud of anonymity I think is a large prerequisite that prompts an environment of harassment. Harassers act when they may feel they cannot be identified nor judged for the actions they perform.

That’s why, at my institution, harassment does not often take the form of sidewalk catcalling incidents. The institution is just too small to provide anonymity. But new outlets enable individuals at the institution to take on the shroud of anonymity, which has prompted a culture of harassment.

I first took a more critical look at harassment after a launching an “I, Too, Am Saginaw Valley” campaign, similar to “I, Too, Am Harvard” that highlights the voices and faces of black students, but opening it too all identities — mostly to get a more positive reception within the community. One of my participants wrote on her board, “I’m NOT a dog, don’t whistle at me,” after perpetually being catcalled from others shouting out their residence hall windows. After this, I began seeing the other methods students utilize to victimize others.

Yik Yak, a popular college app where users post anonymous messages that are then voted up or down by their peers, has stormed through the campus community, and brought harassment issues to light. While many of the posts can take on humorous perspectives of campus life, many of them venture on to defaming women, treating them as objects, and other forms of harassment.

It’s been an issue at many campuses, and Boston College even made a video to address some of the Yaks from their students, although it received much backlash from its student body.

Here are a few Yaks that have appeared on our campus:

“If her bra matches her panties when you take off her clothes, it wasn’t you who decided to have sex.”

“You probably shouldn’t be at college if you can’t tell a guy “stop.”

“To the girl who posted about sexual harassment… there’s no way you get sexually harassed, if you catch my drift.”

“Do you ever sit in class and look at this cute girl and think, I would love to bang you after class!”

“You ever just look at a girl and think ‘she could probably suck a mean dick.'”

I shouldn’t need explanation on why each of these posts contribute to a negative campus climate, but they perpetuate myths that “she was asking for it” and that there’s a standard of beauty required to be sexually harassed.

I usually feel more comfortable seeing these posts down-voted to the point where they are removed, which requires a total down-vote of a -5 before it vanishes from the app. But nearly all of these posts registered as positive messages within the campus community and became some of the most popular Yaks on the feed at the time.

While the app usually refrains from targeting individuals, it can justify beliefs that lead to a culture with highly sexualized and objectified women.

Further perpetuating this culture, in March of 2013, we had a Twitter page go rampant among our community. Dubbed “Dbags of the Valley” students submitted passive aggressive complaints about the university, faculty, students, or really whatever they felt like complaining about through Ask.fm, and then the posts would be re-posted on a now-disbanded Twitter account.

Full of hate speech, posts ventured into areas such as “To the girl wearing those tight, see-thru leggings in the library; stop wearing that shit, or I’ll rape you. #DressForSuccess #SVSUdbags.”

By September 2013, assumedly, the manager of the page promptly shut the page down after complaints. The university eventually identified the student behind the page, but decided to not release the name to the public.

Yik Yak and this page are not the only perpetrators of harassment on campus.

Sitting in at 4,585 followers and counting, is the ever-so-popular @SVSUCrushes2. It has a stronger social media following than any university-affiliated accounts, with the exception of the main SVSU social media pages.  It takes the same approach as the “Dbags” page, getting submissions from Ask.fm then posting on Twitter. Independently-operated pages began ravaging college campuses for the past couple of years. This account has racked up more than 14,000 crushes tweeted in its two-year lifetime. Most students see this page as harmless, despite relative agreement that some tweets that include “She can sit on my face anytime though..” cross the line. That tweet, by the way, is within the top fifteen favorited and retweeted posts by the page.

Despite becoming temporarily unavailable when the “Dbags” account went under heavy scrutiny, the account still holds a strong presence on campus. The operators of the page reported in an anonymous interview “We know for sure that we know how to handle Crushes in a responsible way,” but it enables a culture of window shopping and objectification on physical appearance.

Through these contributors of harassment, I’ve learned changing a culture is easier said than done, but not doing anything about this would be a greater injustice than the injustice itself. I only have a few more months left at this institution, but I remain hopeful that education will advance the environment here.

Tyler is a senior majoring in graphic design at Saginaw Valley State University and plans to undertake a graduate program in higher education in the fall. Follow Tyler on Twitter, @MysteriousLuigi.

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San Francisco Man Stabbedy by Harasser

November 21, 2014 By HKearl

Trigger Warning.

Via Jezebel

“A San Francisco man was stabbed and sustained life threatening injuries simply because he dared to ask a catcaller to leave his girlfriend alone.”

This is one of several stories from the past year where a father, boyfriend or male bystander stood up for a harassed woman and was hurt (or killed, as a father was in Chicago when he stood up for his teenage daughter). We have a SERIOUS problem on our hands that 1) street harassment happens and 2) that some harasses feel so entitled to women’s attention they will hurt anyone who challenges them.

Thank you, Ben, for speaking up and best wishes for a speedy recovery.

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