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objecDEFY harassment in Jordan & beyond

December 6, 2010 By HKearl

There is a lot of anti-street harassment activism occurring in the Middle East region, from anti-harassment cartoon character Salwa in Lebanon to pending anti-harassment legislation in Egypt. Today I learned about objecDEFY, a grassroots anti-harassment group based in Jordan. From their website:

“objecDEFY Harassment is a tool that empowers women to object to and defy harassment. This Jordan-based proactive grass roots initiative, designed to trigger and perpetuate behavioural change, is made up of a series of public service announcements (PSA), a documentary film, and a series of regional workshops.

objecDEFY Harassment is an expression by and on behalf of women who are being harassed. By expressing their cultural concerns, objecDEFY Harassment itself becomes a cultural tool that unifies, empowers, and implements while continuously reinforcing a regional and global message: the power to curb harassment lives in the power of women.”

You can read two recent powerful articles about their work. Here is an excerpt from one of them:

“We were always taught to ignore street harassment:

‘If you tell him off, he will feel self-gratified since you acknowledged his existence. He doesn’t care if your reaction to his catcalls are positive or negative, as long as you make him feel he exists. Just ignore him. Stare straight ahead. Walk it off.’

I listened to my elders and followed the technique above until one day many years back I just couldn’t shut up anymore.

That day, in my coldest, calmest voice, I stopped dead in my tracks across from a group of sneering construction men and told them to have some self respect or I will call the cops.

They were shocked.

From the looks on their faces that day, I realized that they were used to their lewd remarks being unacknowledged. Ignored. Mtanasheen. If no one tells you its wrong, how would you know?

Immediately, they turned their backs and furiously went back to work, embarrassed.

I have never kept my mouth shut after that incident. And it works every time.”

Right on!

And check out their PSAs. Here is one of them (in English):

I am very heartened to learn about their work!

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: jordan, middle east activism, ojectDEFY, sexual harassment, street harassment

Street Harassment Snapshot: December 5, 2010

December 5, 2010 By HKearl

Read women’s stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

Story Submissions Recap:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: 4 new stories from people in Oklahoma, Brazil, Ohio, and Germany
  • HollaBack DC!: 7 new stories
  • HollaBack Israel: 9 new stories
  • HollaBack LDN: 2 new stories
  • HollaBack NYC: 30 new stories

Image via TIME

In the News, On the Blogs:

  • Time, “Malaysia Starts Women-Only Bus Service To Fight Sexual Harassment“
  • AFP, “Malaysia launches women-only buses“
  • NY Daily News, “Group of Bed-Stuy men, We Make Us Better, escorts pedestrians in wake of robberies“
  • RHReality Check, “Sexual Harassers Reflect Larger Social Beliefs“
  • The Times of India, “Are you being teased?“
  • Jezebel, “The Sexual Reality Of Being A Parisian Woman“
  • The Fulcrum, “HollaBack Girl?”
  • Mid-Day, “A Tale of Two Cities“
  • The Beautiful Struggle, “Real Talk, Wrong Talk“
  • Zelda Lily, “Malaysia Introduces Women-Only Buses to Fight Sexual Harassment“
  • Idea exChange, “A 21st Century Social Movement: Using Cell Phones to End Street Harassment“

Upcoming Events:

  • Dec. 11, 2010: Webinar about writing street harassment op-eds with journalist Elizabeth Mendez Berry, HollaBack ED Emily May, and me, noon – 1:30 p.m. EST. Contact Kira for info (kira DOT zmuda AT gmail.com)
  • Dec. 14, 2010: Stop Street Harassment book giveaway and chat about street harassment during AAUW’s Cocktails and Convos at Nage, Washington, DC, 5 – 7 p.m. EST

Announcements:

  • Take a survey about your cab use-age for a researcher’s project
  • Watch a new anti-street harassment documentary, Objectified
  • Are you a college student or work on a campus? Take SAFER’s Winter Break Challenge and help improve campus sexual assault policies across the nation
  • November 25 marked the first of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence. Find an event near you.
  • Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers
  • Have an iPhone? Download a new iPhone app that lets you report street harassers!
  • Take a street harassment survey for a Toronto-based group working to address this problem with an iPhone app
  • Via Change.org: Tell New York City Council to Fund Anti-Street Harassment Advocacy & Services

Ten Tweets from the Week:

  • rightingteacher Vigorous defense of street harassment from one boy, much concerned about his right to leer and whistle, less so girls’ right to feel safe.
  • CatCall Tried to forget the grossest #catcall ever last night: no words just 2 men grunting & moaning in the most explicit way as I walked by. Eww!
  • SurvJustice @StopStHarassmnt I love your cause, street harassment needs to stop and not be excused or ignored
  • driftmako @bridraffen it isn’t intended to “work,” like most street harassment it is about the man performing/exerting power over you
  • meredithmo A bit of good, old-fashioned street harassment, English-style, circa 1959: http://ow.ly/3jIzA
  • iHollaback Hollaback (verb): To respond in a badass way to street harassment, to tell your story (via @nytimes http://nyti.ms/eB6QlR )
  • snakkula Does it ever really work for dudes when they whistle and catcall at girls when driving by? This should be evolutionarily removed by now
  • Bleeohmy Oh my walking down the street and a police officer tells me ‘is my duty to please that booty’ I’m pretty sure that’s harassment.
  • SpookSquad Not just in Tulsa either! RT @hkearl @MRambrose I forgot that street harassment turns into cruising car harassment in Tulsa, OK
  • BillyWerner ladies: please wear a miniature camera & take photos of dudes that catcall u. i am assembling a group of people to beat them to death
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Filed Under: Events, hollaback, News stories, Stories, weekly round up Tagged With: hollaback, sexual harassment, street harassment, women-only bus

Women-only buses launch in Malaysia

December 2, 2010 By HKearl

In May, Malaysia launched women-only carriages on its trains and yesterday they launched women-only buses on seven routes in the Malaysian capital during peak hours. More than 60 percent of the country is Muslim and the women-only buses and carriages can help women feel more comfortable navigating the city, especially in the face of sexual harassment.

It can also help them get seats. Via an AFP article, Poovan Kaur, 63, said, “I will feel safer [on women-only buses], not because I do not trust men, but for someone my age, it’s hard to fight for space during peak hours.” [What a bunch of jerks to not give elderly people seats on the bus!]

While I appreciate that in the short-term women-only public transportation is a relief for many women, I find this “solution” by governments to be problematic.

First of all, women-only buses and trains are not offered with enough frequency to allow all women to use them, and they do not prevent men from harassing women at subway platforms or bus stops.

Image from AFP

Second, in some cases they plainly do not work. Last week when I was in India, I found out that it is common for men to ride on the women-only subway cars in Delhi. Last week fed up women made the news when they ordered a group of men who had infiltrated their subway car to do sit ups!

Third, and most importantly, they do not address the root problem: why are men harassing women? The initiatives do not hold men accountable for ending the behavior. Instead, the initiatives segregate women away from men to provide them with temporary relief from the harassment. They place the onus on women to try to stay safe instead of targeting the harassers and gropers and challenging that behavior.

In the long term, women-only public transportation will change nothing until women are respected and men are socialized not to harass and are penalized and socially shamed if they do.

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: malaysia, women only buses, women-only public transportation

Weekly Blog Round Up: November 28, 2010

November 28, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: 4 new stories from people in New Orleans, Wales, Italy, and New York City
  • HollaBack DC!: 3 new stories
  • HollaBack Israel: 8 new stories
  • HollaBack LDN: 3 new stories
  • HollaBack NYC: a ton of new stories!

In the News, On the Blogs:

  • AFP, “Delhi men in female-only metro forced to do sit-ups: reports“
  • Times of India, “63% women face sexual harassment in PMPML buses: survey“
  • CBS News: “Subway Flasher Target Breaks Silence“
  • Salon: “What we learned from the subway flasher“
  • Ms. Blog, “Where in the World Can Women Feel Safe?”
  • Ms. Blog, “Resilience in Slums a Lesson For Cynical Western Feminists“
  • Salon.com, “A virtual hideout for subway flashers“
  • Jezebel, “Subway Flasher Messes With The Wrong Woman” (and the related article “The Disturbing World Of Dickflash.com“)
  • CBS News, “Tables Turned On Alleged NYC Subway Flasher”
  • Care 2, “Hollaback Video Inadvertently Exposes Underbelly of Sexual Predators: UPDATE“
  • Al-Masry Al-Youm, “Rights groups call for stepped-up security to prevent harassment during Eid“
  • Hindustan Times, “Ladies to take charge for a safe campus”
  • The Gateway, “Street Harassment is Not a Compliment“
  • Public Radio International, “HarassMap uses texting to fight sexism in Egypt“
  • Sify News, “Trafficking, smuggling at Indo-Bangladesh border discussed“
  • Clutch Magazine, “Street Harasser Messes with THE Wrong Woman“
  • DNA Info, “Greenwich Village High School Launches Blog on Feminism“
  • Rappahannock Council Against Sexual Assault Blog, “RCASA’s Saturday Prevention: Street Harassment“
  • Feminist Legal Theory, “When a ‘Hello’ is not just a ‘Hello’“
  • Womanist Musings, “Subway Flasher Gets More than He Bargained For“
  • Change Happens, “Wait…What?”
  • Feminist Teacher, “Young Feminists Speak Out at TEDxYouth“

Announcements:

  • November 25 marked the first of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence. Find an event near you.
  • Star in HollaBack DC!’s first PSA
  • Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers
  • Have an iPhone? Download a new iPhone app that lets you report street harassers!
  • Take a street harassment survey for a Toronto-based group working to address this problem with an iPhone app
  • Via Change.org: Tell New York City Council to Fund Anti-Street Harassment Advocacy & Services

Upcoming Events:

  • Dec. 2: LGBTQ Focus Group on Street Harassment, Washington, DC

Ten Tweets from the Week:

  • ihollaback Sign: “Warning: This construction site sexually harasses women.” AWESOME! http://bit.ly/h0Oeu2 Like women don’t have to hear, “ZOMG! Lighten up you prude! Street harassment is totes a compliment! Smile moar!” enough. #unbookmarked #bye
  • lizzledc
  • Tbgdgc #16dot Do your bit folks. Watch out for & speak out against Street Harassment. Together we’ll make our city safer
  • andreagrimes  #realamericanhero http://bit.ly/d32qwQ #hollabackny #streetharassment
  • ChloeAngyal  Street harassment makes me so mad I just have to SING about it: http://bit.ly/ejfcAe (h/t @HannahBarudin)
  • MRambrose I forgot that street harassment turns into cruising car harassment in Tulsa, OK
  • Venatore LOL @ the douche who got upset & called me mean cause I put my earbuds back in & wouldn’t engage him after he harassed me #streetharassment
  • kdflygirl @MotherJustice thank you for speaking on this publicly. NYC had a forum last month to discuss street harassment, (cont) http://tl.gd/748j2j
  • HOTGIRLSInc Today is our 9th Anniversary! We would like to thank all of our supporters and volunteers for helping us accomplish our mission.
  • Nufanglenesse #streetharassment Getting really fed up with harassment on Brighton seafront. *Hate* that pepper spray is illegal!
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Filed Under: hollaback, News stories, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up Tagged With: street harassment, subway flasher

16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence 2010

November 25, 2010 By HKearl

Today marks the start of 16 days of activism against gender violence.

Aside from writing this quick blog post, I didn’t do anything to mark the day. I’m in India this week and I spent the day visiting the Taj Mahal. It took 10 hours to go the round-trip distance of 250 miles. I saw no gender violence on the streets, but I noticed a stark lack of women. Men were huddled along the road in groups, driving and riding in every possible mode of transportation imaginable, sitting in coffee shops, and crossing the street in large groups. I saw some women walking and riding in vehicles too, but the ratio was perhaps 1:10 or even 1:15, women to men. So while I saw no direct gender violence, the lack of women is partially because of gender violence and gender inequality in the homes and on the streets. Around the world, women’s mobility restriction in public spaces is often caused by a fear of gender violence.

I wrote a bit about this for the Ms blog earlier this week. I also want to direct you to my travel companion’s Ms blog post about the conference we attended earlier this week in Delhi. She highlighted two of the outstanding women we heard from who are working every day to end gender violence and discrimination against women in the slums and against women with disabilities. They are inspirational.

I also want to direct to you to two of the most recent stories about the amazing woman who fought against the gender violence she experienced on the New York City subway system.

  • CBS News: “Subway Flasher Target Breaks Silence“
  • Salon: “What we learned from the subway flasher“

I encourage you to consider doing something in the next 16 days to speak out, act out, or write out against gender violence.

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: 16 days of activism against gender violence, Nicola Briggs, sexual assault, street harassment

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