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Confronting harassers (in comic form!)

July 27, 2010 By HKearl

I recently discovered the Men’s Anti-Violence Council blog (they’re a group at the University of Iowa) and I signed up to receive their posts via e-mail.  I loved the ones from yesterday and today so I’m sharing them.

As part of their quest to make their community safer for everyone, they created two street harassment-related comics for residence hall bulletin boards this fall. Awesome! Here they are:

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Filed Under: male perspective, Resources Tagged With: Men's Anti-Violence Council, street harassment comics, University of Iowa

Weekly Round Up: July 18, 2010

July 18, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: There were 9 stories from contributors in: India, Spain, New Jersey, Virginia, Walsall, UK, Reading, UK, California, Costa Rica, and Massachusetts
  • Hollaback DC!: 11 new stories
  • HollaBack NYC: 3 new stories

In the News:

  • Forbes.com article on commuter harassment (written by me) and syndicated on ABC News (the business section!)
  • AFP article on eve teasing and suicides in Bangladesh
  • In India, Transjakarta Bus stops will have women police officers and security cameras to curb sexual harassment
  • “Men Taste Sex Harassment Gauntlet“

Interviews:

  • HollaBack DC! interviewed Lisa, the founder of HollaBack Toronto
  • The Daily Femme interviewed me

10 Street Harassment Tweets from the Week:

  • jennpozner Bklyn dudes, when’ll you realize your “How YOU doin?” street harassment is as tired as a Friends rerun?
  • barcc Street harassment=attempt to control the physical public space, but always feels so personal.
  • TashCas Another day, another slur of street harassment thrown my way. Ugh. Odds of a gun/knife getting pulled on me if I talk back…?
  • sboehmer No, it’s not that I’m shy. It’s more that your commentary on my “sweet ass” isn’t deserving of my attention. #streetharassment
  • ShoDav Why can’t men just keep their mouths shut? Catcalling is rude and unnecessary. Ugh.
  • hollabackdc thanks 2 @rendsmith for contacting OAG after reading this http://bit.ly/bIoV7r. <3 community response to street harassment.
  • RightRides no license? no problem! u don’t need 2 drive 2 volunteer on a @rightrides driving team. email volunteer@rightrides.org 4 info
  • ForbesWoman Stop Commuter Harassment. It’s a problem 80 to 100% of women face and employers should take note @forbeswoman http://cptl.st/9xcmPS
  • UpliftMagazine Welsh PSA’s, Hey Baby & Schrödinger’s Rapist – Street Harassment, It All Adds up! http://tinyurl.com/3xktlcd
  • jessielovesyu Street harassment needs to stop. #fuckpatriarchy

Resource of the Week

  • It Starts With You Campaign
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Filed Under: hollaback, News stories, Resources, Stories Tagged With: hollaback, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up

Weekly Round Up: July 3, 2010

July 3, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: There were 6 stories from women in Burbank, CA; Arlington, VA; Louisville, KY; Boston, MA; New York City, NY; and Tel Aviv, Israel.
  • Hollaback DC!: 17 new stories
  • Hollaback NYC: 1 new story
  • Other: Kari Parks wrote, “This what street harassment feels like;” Amelia Wells wrote, “So, I’m pretty? That doesn’t oblige me to sleep with you,” Meloukhia wrote, “Thanks for the Pall, construction worker.”

Interviews:

  • Interview on Amplify Your Voice with filmmaker Nuala Cabral about her film “Walking Home.”
  • Interview on Holla Back DC! with filmmaker Maggie Hadleigh-West about her film “War Zone.”

In the News:

  • A blogger for Transit Miami asks, “ Does a woman have equal right to mobility in the city?“
  • Rape Crisis Scotland & the Scottish Government launched a “Not Ever” television ad and online campaign against rape and victim-blaming.
  • Psychological violence (including verbal harassment) is now a crime in France.
  • 59% of harassment women in the Netherlands experienced in 2009 occurred at public places like the street, transit stops, and restaurants.
  • NYPD may be regularly downgrading reported sexual assaults.
  • The Line Campaign wrote, “Street harassment is violence, too!“

10 Street Harassment Tweets of the Week:

  • iHollaback: How come no matter how much you talk about street harassment, it’s still shocking and scary when it happens?
  • mkpheartsnyc: Gotta love that it’s never too early for street harassment.
  • MissDC2009: The stories on @hollabackdc infuriate me so much, I called my parents yesterday to tell them that I’m going to law school. I need to help
  • femmeniste: I hate walking down the street KNOWING that a man is looking and waiting to say something gross as you pass by. #StreetHarassment #NYC
  • thekateblack: E. Village street harassment stoops lower. Not 1, but 2 men blocked my path. 1 reached in front of me 2 prevent me crossing
  • feministhulk: HULK TRY TO OPEN MIND, SMASH EPISTEMOLOGICAL FRAMEWORKS WHICH LIMIT HULK’S THOUGHT, BUT HULK WILL NEVER GET CAT-CALLING.
  • lorenacupcake: Street harassment is getting so bad I’m almost wishing for winter, wrapping my body in wool armor against the stares and comments of men.
  • ashleyrebeccah: Guy says I look cute. I ignore him & he asks didn’t u hear me? Yes I fucking heard u I just want u to leave me alone! #streetharassment
  • kerinrose: Awkward fratboy-in-a-cab catcall of the nite: “I can see my reflection in your pussy!”
  • allfallsup: i love dresses but hate how nasty older men catcall to me like i want em…ewww you got wrinkled balls dude.

Events:

  • July 8: HollaBack Launch Party in Brooklyn, NY, 7 p.m.

Announcements:

  • Blank Noise in India is asking for contributions defining Action Heroes in the context of street harassment.
  • Stop Street Harassment: Making Public Places Safe & Welcoming for Women is available Aug. 30. Pre-order your copy today!

Resource of the Week:

  • “Not Ever” Campaign from Scotland
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Filed Under: Events, hollaback, News stories, Resources, Stories Tagged With: street harassment, tweets, weekly round up

Asking for it? As if

June 30, 2010 By HKearl

With funding from the Scottish Government, Rape Crisis Scotland has launched a television advertisement and online campaign called Not Ever, focused on ending the prevalent attitude that rape victims are to blame for their perpetrator’s crime because of what they were wearing.

In the ad, men at a pub look at a woman’s skirt and decide that she is “asking for it.” The ad then shows earlier in the day when the woman in shopping for the skirt and says she is looking for one that will make men want to rape her. Then she turns to the camera and says, “As if.”

From the campaign page:

“No woman asks to be raped – ever. It’s a simple as that. Women should not be held responsible for the behaviour of rapists or expected to base their decisions on dress around the possibility that these might lead to an attack.” …

The prevalence of these ideas and the prejudicial attitudes they underpin seriously damage the chances of women who have been raped of receiving justice. With the conviction rate in Scotland in 2010 having fallen to 3% – its lowest ever, the need to change attitudes which blame women is more urgent than ever.

We need to stop victim-blaming and assign responsibility to those whose decisions do lead to rape – perpetrators and the apologists whose woman-blaming views have assigned rape its current status as a low-risk crime. For as long the notion that women can “ask for it” or invite attack through their dress or behaviour are allowed to persist, rapists will continue to act with impunity, confident in the knowledge that their actions will receive far less scrutiny than those of the women they assault.”

I applaud the Scottish government and Rape Crisis Scotland for tackling this issue. The television ads are running during the World Cup, so they are definitely being seen by men (too often women are the focus of campaigns around gender violence when we men to be targeted, too). The website contains resources for survivors, information on the current rape law, quiz questions, and discussion threads.

A few weeks ago the government of Wales launched a television and online ad campaign called One Step Too Far showing how slippery the slope is between sexist and harassing behavior and sexual assault. Their television ads also are airing during the World Cup.

I applaud both governments for actually taking this issue seriously. Victim blaming in cases of gender violence is pervasive, from Egypt to Australia to India to Brazil to the UK and the US. Imagine if every government invested resources in combating these attitudes, thereby helping to prevent harassment and assault and making it easier for victims to come forward and charge the perpetrators! This is how change happens.

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Filed Under: Resources Tagged With: Not Ever, rape blaming, rape survivor, scotland campaign, sexual assault

“His words leave a greasy residue, and we’re supposed to take it as praise”

June 14, 2010 By HKearl

Via google alerts, I came across this fantastic song about street harassment, written & performed by Emily Swashbuckle.

WordPress won’t let me embed the YouTube video. But here are the lyrics:

it’s mid-may; first heat wave
hits me like a brick
grab a friend and go to the lake and
have a quick picnic

sheet goes down, shoes come off
our skirts show our knees
man walks up to ask us
“where are your bikinis?”

after he leaves, we scratch at our arms to scrub off his gaze
his words leave a greasy residue, and we’re supposed to take it as praise

later in that same month
i’m walking down the block
i smile at each stranger
and then one cuts me off.

puts his hand on my arm
says, “you’re why boys like heat—
girls start to look so good
walkin’ down the street.”

i smile and try to walk by
he steps in my path
eyes wandering from my face
down to my exposed calves

i’m thankful it’s daylight
i finally dodge his grasp
look back just one time and—
he’s staring at my ass.

when i first get home i feel stupid for getting so scared
but then i get angry at the fact that that asshole dared
to touch me.

baby, it’s just a compliment!
baby, don’t be scared, i just think you’re PERFECT.
until you reject me— then you’re a frigid dyke
baby, i’ve got free speech, it’s my RIGHT.

WELL, NO.
you don’t have the inalienable right to get up in my face
you don’t have the inalienable right to violate my space
you don’t have the inalienable right to say “hey, nice legs, baby, let’s party.”

fuck
no.

Yeah!

Want to view or read the lyrics to more anti-street harassment songs? Visit the resources section of my website.

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Filed Under: Resources Tagged With: anti-street harassment song, emily washbuckle, song, street harassment

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