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16 Days – Day 6: Women Allies on a Bus

November 30, 2018 By HKearl

Each day across the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, we will highlight a 2018 activism effort undertaken to stop street harassment or a personal story about stopping harassers!

Day 6: Women Allies on a Bus

One day in California, a man followed a woman for blocks. She boarded a bus to try to get away from him, but he got on too and continued harassing her. Another woman passenger stood up and asked her, “Do you feel safe?”

The harassed woman was so upset she can’t speak, so the other passenger guided her away and said, “We can sit together.”

The harasser tried to follow them, but other women passengers then stood up to block him. Soon “there were six or seven women creating this barrier,” said one of the women who stood up. “That man looked at us, yelled one last shitty thing, and got off at the next stop. Because he realized there was no way he could win against all of us.”

This woman who stood up wrote, “After I got off the bus, I started crying. I was sad because we have to deal with situations like this ALL the time, but I was crying happy tears because, for once, I felt like I wasn’t alone, and I felt how powerful we are when we stand together.”

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16 Days – Day 4: A Dad Stops a Harasser

November 28, 2018 By HKearl

Each day across the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, we will highlight a 2018 activism effort undertaken to stop street harassment or a personal story about stopping harassers!

Day 4: A Dad Stops a Harasser

When a dad in California noticed a 29-year-old man start videotaping his 15-year-old daughter in a Target and crouch by another woman to take footage up her skirt, he kicked away the phone and then, when the man ran, tackled him in the parking lot. Then the dad called the police and got a photo of the man’s license plate number as he drove away. The man was later arrested for “invasion of privacy.”

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“I don’t know if things will ever change to stop men”

November 27, 2018 By HKearl

I walked to Sainsbury’s to get a key chain. On the way back a man around 30yrs old slowed down his walking pace to mine. I crossed the road to get away from him, but shortly after I crossed he crossed over to me. He then said, “Did you get it?”

I said, “What?” I was quite annoyed by this point of being followed on my way home.

He then started to say the first digits of his number “07…,” and I just said, “Mate, I’m just trying to get home,” and walked ahead of him at a faster pace.

He then carried on saying, “What’s your name?”

And I replied, “No. Sorry. But just no,” and carried on walking ahead.

When I looked back he was gone, which means he would have had to walk in the opposite direction. It made me feel annoyed because this happens a lot when I’m just trying to do ordinary day-to-day things. I get tired of responding to these people and having to deal with these situations. I also feel annoyed that some people think this is okay to do, I feel powerless and I don’t know if things will ever change to stop men doing this. I also experience men making kissing or inappropriate sounds at me as well as following me.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

People on the street reacting/helping others when they are being harassed.

– Hannah

Location: Near a Sainsbury’s in Barnet, London, UK

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16 Days – Day 2: Speaking Out in France

November 26, 2018 By HKearl

Each day across the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, we will highlight a 2018 activism effort undertaken to stop street harassment or a personal story about stopping harassers!

Day #2: Speaking Out in France

A man punched Marie Laguerre in the face in Paris, France, after he verbally sexually harassed her and she told him to shut up. She collected witness testimonies, got the surveillance video from a café near where it happened and filed a police report. He was later arrested and she started a website where women can share their stories. Her publicized experience garnered international attention and outcry, bringing more attention to the pervasive problem of street harassment.

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“Disgusting mouth and tongue gestures”

November 10, 2018 By Contributor

I do home health care for work. I wear scrubs 99% of the time (today I was wearing scrubs). I walked out of a patient’s house after treating them and got to my car which was parked a very short distance away. I got into my car and rolled the windows down halfway to look up my next patient’s address. As I am doing this, a younger man wearing a baseball cap says hello and asks me something about directions to downtown. I politely say I am not familiar with the area and I am here for work and seeing my patients. He then asks me how old I am, I deflect with a “You should never ask a woman how old they are.”

He is not taking the hint that I have people to see and places to go. He then asks me why I’m in the neighborhood and if I wanted to f**k. Yes that’s correct he just straight up asked me that. My mind went blank for a moment as I was in utter shock at the statement. I said something along the lines of “No. And I need to get back to work.”

He then asked, “Why not? Why don’t you want to f**k?”

Again I said, “I need to go” and “you need to leave.”

He eventually took the hint but made a few disgusting mouth and tongue gestures before he drove off.

I felt immediately angry, pissed off, and frustrated. I also felt like I wanted to take a shower and go home instead of seeing my patients.

– Regina Spehalski

Location: Pasadena, Texas

Need support? Call the toll-free National Street Harassment hotline: 855-897-5910

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