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IN FEAR OF THE BLACK BOOGEYMAN: Confronting Racist Stereotypes about Street Harassment

August 12, 2014 By Contributor

By Lavender Kitchen Sink Collective

On August 7th there was a link via Upworthy on the Stop Street Harassment Facebook page to a YouTube video titled the “Smile Bitch Training Camp.” This one minute video was a satirical take on the misogynist expectation that women in public spaces should present themselves as smiling and cheerful at all times. Created by Black comic actress and blogger Janelle James, the satire featured a cast of mostly white young women and girls (about three of the female actors were visibly people of color) who enrolled themselves into boot camp to train on how to smile on demand for strangers at all times. Despite the presence of Black and Asian faces, the overrepresentation of middle class-presenting white women presents street harassment as a threat to white female bodies. I also noticed a problematic aspect about the actors playing the street harasser roles. First, all the harassers were portrayed as either low-income and/or homeless. Secondly, all but two of the men were visibly Black. While the central message of the video was critically important, the racialized subtext that equates “poor Black man = street harasser” undermined the video’s message.

In response to criticism about the racial characterizations from viewers on the video’s YouTube page, James replied, “It was something I really struggled with during editing. I’d never want that to be the message. These [the actors] are all my friends, they worked (hard) for free and I had to work with what I had. And if it wasn’t funny, it had to go.”

While it is understandable that limited budgets and time constraints affected James’ casting decisions, it is much harder to justify why the male actors embody common classist and racist tropes about harassers: thuggish, unwashed, uneducated, and homeless. If the same set of actors had portrayed these characters as middle-class, college-educated, the video still would have had the same powerful message—minus the racist/classist subtext. In fact, the video would have included a crucial and long-ignored fact about gender violence: so-called “respectable” men regularly harass and assault women.

The idea that all street harassment involves a Black perpetrator and a white victim is not only incorrect, but dangerous. First, studies on street harassment reveal that intersecting forms of marginalization often make women more vulnerable to harassment. Stop Street Harassment’s own 2014 national study “Unsafe and Harassed in Public Spaces” revealed that Black and Latina women and girls are more likely to experience street harassment than their white counterparts. Black women and girls also experience harassment in ways that specifically entrench misogynoirist and cissexist violence against Black women’s bodies, as womanist blogger Feminista Jones noted during the #YouOkSis hashtag campaign on Twitter. Second, the idea that Black men are inherently dangerous to white women has been used historically to criminalize Black men and justify racial disparities in criminal profiling, arrests, and incarceration. Third, having an image in our heads of the street harasser as a poor Black man keeps us from recognizing genuinely abusive and dangerous people in public spaces, all because they don’t fit our racial preconception of what a sexual harasser-predator is.

In the last couple of years, there has been a growing public awareness about street harassment, and the many social, economic, and political costs that sexualized harassment in public spaces can exact on women and other marginalized communities. While street harassment is generally understood as a form of misogynist verbal assault that (cisgender) men use to exert external control over women, street harassment is often employed as a way to reinforce all forms of social domination in public space. People of color, trans/gender-nonconforming people, disabled people, children, immigrants, and homeless people all regularly face street harassment and attendant violence that reinforces the systemic oppression that they face. What needs to be understood about street harassment is not only how this violence threatens women’s personal autonomy and access to space, but how the right to public space for all marginalized people is still contested in a hegemonic society.

Lavender Kitchen Sink Collective is a project that centers queer/trans people of color perspectives on economic, gender, and political justice. Check LKSC out at www.lavenderkitchensink.com or follow on Twitter at @lkscollective.

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Street Respect: “They have no respect, the way they look at you”

August 11, 2014 By Contributor

When the stoplight turns green and the shady grey van zooms off, the man sitting next to me scoffs.

“No respect,” he says in a thick Spanish accent.

“I’m sorry?” I say.

“They have no respect, the way they look at you,” he says, shaking his head.

“Oh,” I respond, a bit surprised. I have never had a stranger– let alone a male stranger– stand up for me in this regard. “Yeah, I know! It’s awful!” He nods, taking a long swig of his beer.

When this man first came up and sat down next to me, I had a thousand possible scenarios of what could have gone wrong– a young woman sitting alone at the bus stop late at night us particularly vulnerable. Yet, this man sat quietly for probably 15 minutes without saying a word, quietly sipping his beer. Despite all he could have done, he was nothing but respectful, even when the cowardly men driving by were not.

When it finally comes, we board the bus together. I sit down and the man stops in front of my seat. He extends his hand. “José.”

“Melanie.” Then I said, “Gracias José,” and truly, truly meant it.

– Melanie

Location: Near the Little Tokyo Metro Stop, Los Angeles, CA

This is part of the series “Street Respect. “Street respect” is the term for respectful, polite, and consensual interactions that happen between strangers in public spaces. It’s the opposite of “street harassment.” Share your street respect story and show the kind of interactions you’d like to have in public in place of street harassment.

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“It made me feel angry and gross”

August 10, 2014 By Contributor

I was on a walk with my husband and my infant son when a teenage boy in the passenger seat of a car leans out and screamed something like “Damn, girl” as they drove past us. I couldn’t even say anything and was mortified in front of my family. It did not make me feel pretty or wanted…it made me feel angry and gross.

– KE

Location: Rosemount, MN

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“Seriously in what planet is this socially acceptable to even suggest”

August 10, 2014 By HKearl

A random shirtless man approached me on the skytrain platform with a “You need to get more sun” comment. When I said “What??” he re-stated. “You should go out in the sun more you are so white.” I gathered up my considerable heavy grocery’s and walked off the platform. I wish I had said something but was so mad I couldn’t even begin to think of a reply. I get these comments all the time. Just because I am a very fair skinned person doesn’t mean I should try to change my skin colour.

Seriously in what planet is this socially acceptable to even suggest. How this man feels enough ownership over my body to suggest to me a complete stranger that I alter it to suit his taste is beyond me.

– C

Location: Burnaby, BC, Canada at the New West skytrain station

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Assaulted in a taxi in Istanbul

August 10, 2014 By HKearl

I am currently staying in Istanbul on my own before I to head out to a much sought after Theatre Research Center a bit further down the coast. I have been away from home for just over a month in America (I’m Australian).

I managed to get some sleep after a long flight and then I caught a Taxi into Taksim Square to try and buy a mobile phone, a map and to orientate myself.

So all in all feeling quite vulnerable, not speaking the language, first day, jet lag but i have travelled as a foreigner on my own before and just tried to do my best in my jet lagged-lonely-confused-frightened-excited state. Id only been out for an hour or two before I felt my eyes getting heavy and jumped in a taxi to get home. Tomorrow id figure out the public transport but id accomplished enough for today.

Right away this driver picks up I’m not Turkish because I hand him my address on a card and tries to charm me by offering in broken English to take me on a tour of the city. (Hell no he’d already quoted me double what the taxi cost to get in there. Areshole. But i was tired and just wanted to get home)

2 minutes later he rests his hand on my leg and I take it off. “Don’t do that,” I say.

Why did i jump into the front seat. I don’t normally do it only the last taxi I had gotten into didn’t have seatbelts in the back and my struggling brain thought it would save the hassle and get in the front.

Then despite my chilly reception he takes the liberty to stroke my hair away from my ear.

Again. “Don’t do that.’ If I was at home. If I spoke the language. I f I knew what part of Istanbul I was in I would have gotten out but i was frozen in fear and what was probably the beginnings of shock. Blatant breaching of personnel boundary like this often induces a ‘possum’ or ‘play dead’ effect so I try not to beat myself up too much considering what came next, I couldn’t have known.

His final disgusting move is to notice my seatbelt is loose and try and help me adjust it.

This is just two minuets of him sliding his hands over my breasts ignoring my saying ‘stop’ and forcefully pulling his hands off.

I’m home about 2 minutes later and throw some money at him to be rid of it.

Then the shock kicks in and for the next 24-48 hours I don’t want to leave my apartment. I don’t think I did. I burst into tears all of a sudden and I don’t want to wear anything remotely appropriate for the scorching hot weather here.

It was the worst introduction to a country ever. And its almost a week later and I still have guard up for any male anywhere near me me.

Luckily I had all my friends and family back home skyping with me for the immediate next 12 hours after the assault while I was working through the shock and some friends of friends here in Turkey met up with me a few days ago to help me find my feet here in the city.

They are truly champions and although I am still working through the shock, fear, anger etc of the incident I am really grateful to get to see the wonderful sides of human, men and women who rushed to my support and gave me every possible resource to recover.

– EJ Brennan

Location: Istanbul Taksim Square

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