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USA: Harassment on Two Wheels

January 28, 2014 By Correspondent

Katie Monroe, Philadelphia, PA, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

Katie Monroe testifying at the City Council Hearing

On November 7th, Hollaback! Philly organized the second-ever City Council Hearing on Street Harassment. Stop Street Harassment’s Holly Kearl attended the event and documented it thoroughly.

I was invited to testify from my position as a feminist bicycle advocate in Philly. In 2013, I founded the Bicycle Coalition of Greater Philadelphia’s Women Bike PHL program, which provides rides, workshops, and social events to help Philadelphia women get the skills and community support they need to start riding a bicycle. Last fall, I also started working for Gearing Up, a Philly nonprofit that gives women in transition from incarceration, addiction, and/or abuse the opportunity to ride a bicycle for exercise, transportation, and personal growth. If there are two topics in this world I care about, they are bicycles and gender equality. At the City Council hearing in November, my testimony (watch it here or read it here) focused on my personal experiences as a woman bicyclist in Philadelphia, and also drew from the experiences of some of the women bicyclists I’ve met through my work.

Conversations about street harassment often focus on the experiences of pedestrians. However, as more and more people start to use bicycles for transportation, especially in cities, I think it’s important to bring the experiences of bicyclists into conversations about street harassment as well. Similarly, perspectives from women — including their experiences being harassed while riding — tend not to be at the forefront of the bicycling advocacy movement. This also needs to change. (I’m working on it.)

In my testimony in November, I spoke about how riding a bicycle can feel like an escape from the gender-based street harassment that plagues me as a pedestrian. I ride my bike through neighborhoods where I wouldn’t feel safe walking. I’m moving too fast to be forced to respond to harassment — even if someone calls out to me from the sidewalk, I can often just ignore it and pedal on. Biking is door-to-door transportation that eliminates the periods of waiting at the bus stop, or walking to the subway, where street harassment is such a constant threat. Biking for transportation, to me and to many other women in Philadelphia, can be profoundly liberating.

But there’s a flipside — and I spoke about this in my testimony, too. In reality, biking isn’t actually a magical escape-button from harassment. The harassment doesn’t go away. It just changes. When I get on my bike, I might feel safer from men walking on the sidewalk — but men and women driving cars pose a whole new threat.

When I asked the Women Bike PHL Facebook forum for stories about being harassed while riding their bikes, the stories I got were mostly not gender-based. (Some were, of course — e.g. men calling out “I wish I were that bike seat”). More often, though, the stories were about harassment based on transportation mode — women were being harassed because they were riding a bike, not necessarily because they were women. Women frequently spoke about aggressive drivers honking, trying to run them off the road, and yelling at them for taking up lane space to which the motorists thought they had exclusive rights. (Guess what? They don’t. But it’s pretty hard to argue with someone commanding a two-ton piece of metal.)

These experiences certainly aren’t unique to female cyclists. Unfortunately, every biker I know has had terrifying experiences with aggressive drivers these while riding on city streets. For women, though, it can feel like a double bind: if you leave your house, there’s no escape from harassment of some kind — whether you’re on two feet or two wheels.

I find both bike-based harassment and gender-based harassment completely unacceptable, and I am actively working to fight both of them. However, while they can sometimes occur simultaneously, it’s important to maintain a distinction between them. Yes, both are fundamentally based in power imbalances, and it is tempting to draw a clean analogy between “car privilege” and “male privilege.” But as feminist bike advocate and writer Elly Blue thoughtfully explores in a recent piece, Is Bicycling A Civil Rights Issue?, they’re not the same. After all, I don’t choose to be a female-bodied person when I’m walking down the street. I do choose to get on my bicycle.

What’s the takeaway? I’m not sure yet. I am interested in whether anyone is doing more formal research on the distinctions between, and intersections among, different forms of street harassment. (My “data” is merely anecdotal, however powerful the anecdotes may be!) I certainly think that harassment of bicyclists by motorists is a form of street harassment. It makes people who are lawfully using public space feel unsafe, and efforts to fight it should be under the umbrella of the anti-street-harassment movement. At the same time, bike-based harassment is different from gender-based harassment (experienced, as we know, in all modes of transportation) in fundamental ways, and we can’t lose sight of that, either.

Katie Monroe founded the Women Bike PHL campaign at the Bicycle Coalition of Greater Philadelphia and she works at the Philly nonprofit Gearing Up, which gives some of Philadelphia’s most marginalized women – those in transition from incarceration, addiction, and/or abuse – the opportunity to ride bicycles for exercise, transportation, and personal growth. Follow her on Twitter, @cmon_roe.

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“All these charges can lead them to jail”

January 27, 2014 By Contributor

Yesterday evening I was outside WinCo Foods 7330 NE Butler St, Hillsboro, Oregon. I was at the store entrance picking some plants. A very calm, collected normal looking white male came close to me and said inappropriate sexual sentence about their intention to do something sexual to me. I did not want to believe what my ears heard (being an international non-native English speaker i am used to making sure that I understand exactly what people are asking/ saying to me) so i said almost in disbelief, “What?” He repeated the inappropriate sexual words. I was shocked, startled, angry.

“What did you just say to me?” I asked loudly and a few people entering or leaving the store heard me and started looking at us. Then the guy loudly said, “I just said you look pretty.” I told him, “No this is not what you said,” and he started moving away and I almost grabbed his collar but he took off running. I was really mad and shouted, “Stop right there…why are you running away like a coward if you didn’t say/do anything inappropriate.”

People carried on with their business but one kind young lady came to me and told me to come back to the well lit store entrance and be safe, she helped me calm down and made sure that I was ok and feeling safe. I felt insulted, threatened and many thoughts came to my mind like was this man following me? Did he know where I have parked my car? What if they come back with a weapon or something. I reported the incident to police and gave the description of the man.

What the man did was totally unacceptable and inappropriate. I suspect he targeted me because I am a brown female. I am also very petite so he might have thought that I am incapable of confronting a male. I hope this person will never repeat it because they can be charged with 1) harassing someone because of their nationality/color, 2) picking a fight/provoking someone to act violently and 3) disrupting peace at a public place. All these charges can lead them to jail.

– Anonymous

Location: WinCo Foods 7330 NE Butler St, Hillsboro, Oregon

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“Why are you ignoring me?”

January 26, 2014 By Contributor

A story I have to share happened a few days ago. I was walking from my house going to the library and I passed by a group of men and one of them said, “Damn shawty I’ve been waiting on you all day” and i ignored him then he shouted out “AYE GIRL COME HERE YOU PRETTY! WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU IGNORING ME!” And i just kept on walking.

– C.T.

Location: Bronx, NY

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“I didn’t walk past that spot again”

January 24, 2014 By Contributor

This summer my mom and I were out walking in the woods. It was warm outside and a couple of guys my age were sitting by the lake. As we passed they started catcalling, commenting on my ass. “Can you wiggle your ass a little bit more?!” was just one of the things they shouted.

I was humiliated, especially since my mom heard it all. For the rest of the summer I didn’t walk past that spot again because I was scared they would be there.

– Anonymous

Location: Sweden

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A Message to Street Harassers

January 20, 2014 By SSHIntern

By Kendra Corbin, SSH Intern

Via Hollaback!

As a young woman, I’ve experienced my fair share of street harassment. I’ve been dealing with it for most of my life. For a long time, I tried to blow off the whistles and “hey baby” comments as just part of being a woman. Now I know better. Despite the lackluster belief that “it’s not a big deal,” it IS a terrifyingly big deal.

My most frightening experience happened when I was only 13-years-old. My older sister was 16 at the time. She had offered to drive my friend and I home late at night. We accidentally locked ourselves out of the car in an empty parking lot. As we waited for my parents, a group of men in a truck began to drive around us in circles while they honked, whistled, and laughed. Frightened and alone, we huddled together while we waited for them to lose interest and leave.

In retrospect, it disgusts me that those men found amusement in harassing terrified children. I also find myself growing angry, but I become angrier because I recognize that my experience is not uncommon. Street harassment is a subject that most women can relate to because they’ve experienced it themselves. Whenever I bring the subject up with friends or acquaintances, the conversation seems to flood with stories that all begin with, “Well, this one time…” In honor of these stories that have been shared with me, I would like to acknowledge just a few of the harassers that either I or my loved ones have encountered.

The man that yelled, “I didn’t know they made tits that big” to me as I walked to class, then demanded that I show him that “cherry pie under there.”

The man that tried to yank up my friend’s skirt while she was visiting DC.

The man that leered at my sister, then commented on her “nice ass legs.”

The boy on my school bus who was dared to grope my breasts when I was 14 (who was not successful because I promptly shoved back into his seat).

The man that slapped my friend’s behind as she walked to the beach.

The group of men that thought it would be hilarious to pretend to masturbate as they drove by sister.

The young men that held a sign on the highway to my mother and other female drivers that read, “Show us your hooters.”

And finally, that very first man that honked and whistled at me when I was only 11-years-old.

To all of these harassers and the many others out there, we have a clear message: We are not required compliment your male ego. Your advances are not welcomed. Your words are not flattering. Your behavior is intolerable.

To every woman that has had her day interrupted by rude comments, uncomfortable gazes, unwanted touching, or any other form street harassment, you are not alone. Familiarize yourself with ways to respond to street harassers. You’ll thank yourself for it later when you’re prepared with a witty response for someone’s barbaric behavior.

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Kendra Corbin is senior at Shenandoah University. She is majoring in Mass Communications and minoring in Women’s Studies.

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