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“Don’t harass women on the street anymore!”

November 9, 2012 By Contributor

I was on my way to an election party, walking down the street in my neighborhood that leads to the subway station. I call this street “The Gauntlet.”

An older man was walking toward me, pulled out his earbuds and said hello to me. I ignored him. He waved his hand in my face as he passed me and said, “Good evening to you, with your sexy ass….”

I stopped, turned around and said in a very loud voice, “That is incredibly rude!”

He stopped, apparently shocked, and shouted, “Fuck you” at me, and began an angry rant about me being a bitch, how I was crazy, etc. I countered that he was the one who harassed me, so if he didn’t want me to talk back he should have kept his mouth shut. We basically yelled over each other as he walked away. Eventually he was yelling loudly, “I don’t have any money! I don’t have any money!” as if to make people on the street think I was asking him for money or something. I simply shouted back, “Don’t harass women on the street anymore!”

Later that night I watched my country elect a man who supports strong women and women’s rights. I needed that reminder that there are still good and great men out there. So suck on that, crazy douchebag on the street.

– Rat Girl

Location: Cortelyou Road, Brooklyn, NY, USA

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“He followed her into the car”

November 8, 2012 By Contributor

Tonight some man followed my 17yr old sister from downtown Portland to 112! My mom picked her up at the bus stop and he followed her into the car and introduced himself. Obviously my mom told him to get out and he did. But needless to say she was scared.

– April Buerkle

Location: Portland, Oregon

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“It’s disrespectful and degrading”

November 5, 2012 By HKearl

“Verbal street harassment causes females to feel insecure in public places because we feel as if we can’t walk down the street, through the halls at school or around the mall without having men judge us and yell out inappropriate things to us. And it’s not OK. It’s rude, it’s disrespectful and degrading against females because it can remind us that we are just seen as sexual objects to males. And I think we should start paying more attention to this because it is important that we get the respect we deserve in the places that we feel like we should be safe.”

Jennifer Phan made this video about street harassment for a sociology class assignment. Way to go, Jennifer!

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Digest of street harassment news: Nov. 4, 2012

November 4, 2012 By HKearl

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HarassMap in Egypt

Bijoya in Bangladesh

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe Streets in Yemen

Street Harassment in South Africa

Many of the Hollaback sites

Street Harassment In the News, on the Blogs:

* The Guardian, “Mona Eltahawy: Egyptian women are sexually harassed at every level of society – video“

* Egypt Independent, “Security officials: 727 cases of sexual harassment reported over Eid“

* Ahram Online, “300 cases of sexual harassment in first half of Eid: Watchdog“

* NPR, “Vigilantes Spray-Paint Sexual Harassers In Cairo“

* ABC News, “Sexual Harassment Spikes Over Egyptian Holiday“

* Globe & Mail, “How to stop sexual harassment on Cairo streets? A can of spray paint“

* Trust Law, “Egyptian women fight back against harassment“

* Mail Online, “French ministers to be sent on anti-sexism courses after female MP is wolf-whistled by men in parliament”

* Gothamist, “Video: Brave Woman Confronts Subway Jerk Who Spits On Her“

* Melinda Tankard Reist, “How street harassment alters the way we see ourselves: ‘Hollaback!’ launches in Australia“

Announcements:

New:

* Sign the petition: “Tell New York: Subway Sexual Assault is a Serious Crime“

* Meet Stop Street Harassment’s new social media volunteers!

* Download new classroom lesson plans about street harassment.

* Student groups at UC Santa Barbara held an anti-harassment campaign for Halloween

* There’s a new tumblr called Street Harassment Fashion that challenges victim-blaming

Reminders:

* There are new anti-street harassment groups in Australia and Nepal

* Read an interview with Tatyana Fazlalizadeh about her beautiful art work against street harassment

* What did street harassment look like in 1945?

* @Shefunionwomcom We are collating stories of women’s experiences of street harassment. If you have a story please email it to womens.committee@shef.ac.uk

* METRAC released a free “Not Your Baby App” to provide responses you can use when experiencing harassment

* The Adventures of Salwa campaign has a hotline for sexual harassment cases in Lebanon: 76-676862.

* In Bangalore, India, there is a helpline for street harassment 080 – 22943225 / 22864023

* Report #streetharassment in Pakistan at @NameAndShamePk, email nameandshame@ryse.pk, SMS 0314-800-35-68 or online at http://www.nameandshame.pk

15 Tweets from the Week:

1.@kkatyrose  First, #streetharassment is NOT a compliment. Second, hollering “Ni Hao, Baby” at me is DOUBLY offensive. #disgustedatsexistracistjerks

2. @grayshonnn  Just to prove that #streetharassment isn’t about attraction, someone called me “whore” out of their car window. I was wearing my work…

3. @LoneXionc  So construction workers definitely still catcall to women. And here I thought that was an outdated stereotype. Ah well.

4. @goffjuice  Catcall a girl on a skytrain platform and it will be your fault when you find yourself on the tracks.

5. @glossedover  Anyone who doesn’t think male privilege is a thing is invited to experience street harassment as a woman.

6. @IranLGBT  I don’t think level of Street Harassment in Iran is as awful as in Egypt, but, well, Iranians do not talk about it much. I wish we did.

7. @GheeGoddess  Just harassed for while walking two blocks. Scariest street harassment ever.

8. @freedom_writer  If you want to avoid street harassment in downtown Oakland, dress up as a woman in a binder! @ihollaback pic.twitter.com/9GGmDVkK

9. آلاء مراد ‏@Abjadeya  I got harassed by a guard at the wall of the presidential palace today #EndSH #cairo #egypt

10. @Gsquare86  Unbelievable overt verbal sexual harassment around #Tahrir ..the things that were said to me, make me want to throw up #endsh

11. @HollabackOttawa  I’m not your trick or your treat. #EndStreetHarassment #Hollaween

12. @jgeady  @hkearl my wife was approached 5x on 20min subway ride. Her costume was witch: hat, cape, and long black dress she once wore to a wedding

13. @ami_angelwings  I think the most street harassment & ppl asking me out I’ve ever gotten is whenever I’m wearing that hoodie, which is usually in fall

14. @MullenKat Good point! RT @NavyaNaik street harassment esp pernicious on my campus during halloweekend..women get targeted 4 certain costumes #sheparty

15. @ArriannaMarie What compels you to accost me w your sexist/misogynistic catcalls? Yet another reminder that public spaces are masculine spaces? #harassment

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UCSB Student Groups Say, “Catcalling is not cute”

November 2, 2012 By Contributor

Editor’s Note: Halloween in Isla Vista, the college town where UC Santa Barbara is located, is a huge party every year. Unfortunately, some people use this as an excuse to street harass and assault people. So this year, two student groups teamed up to organize a campaign against street harassment.

Students Stopping Rape and Men Against Rape teamed up together to start a conversation within our campus community; our topic was street harassment in our college town of Isla Vista (IV), specifically during Halloween. Our motivation began as we discussed IV culture and how often times street harassment is shrugged off as typical Isla Vista behavior. We all agreed there was something seriously wrong with that, and in spite of how often it happens, people should not make others feel sexually objectified, unsafe, and humiliated.

We set out to question our culture and prepared a campaign that showed students that sexual harassment is socially unacceptable. In our attempt to challenge our community, we decided to create a flyer campaign surrounding the Halloween season. The campaign used a simple design by putting an image of one or more women in costumes and short quotes such as “Catcalling is not cute,” “Sexual assault is a crime,” and “Consent is super.”

Our campaign focused on different aspects of sexual violence, but our flyers about street harassment and catcalling caught the most attention, as well as some criticism by the student population. Some people think that catcalling is not serious, adopting a sticks-and-stones mentality. We wanted to address more than one form of violence and show people that street harassment is sexual violence and part of rape culture. We are glad that our campus took notice and that the campaign began a conversation about an issue that is often unaddressed.

We believe that this is an important issue to address because this objectification only serves as a precursor to sexual assault, such as rape. To be clear, catcalling does not cause rape, and not everyone who harasses another person is likely to commit sexual assaults.  However, research shows that the small percentages of men who do commit sexual assaults believe that all men act the way they do and hold the same attitudes towards women. When men who do not rape participate in harassment behaviors, the few men who do rape are validated in their beliefs.  By creating this mentality culture of individuals being equated to only sexual objects, the likelihood of rape is greatly increased because of this dehumanization. Catcalling allows the severity and consequences of such terrible acts like rape, sexual assault, and lack of consent, to be lessened in the public eye.

This was our first campaign and we hope that we can continue to spark conversations and be proactive in challenging unsafe social norms and ultimately changing them. Our goal is to educate our campus community in effect changing mentalities and culture surrounding sexual violence.

This guest post was co-written by Liliana Salazar, a fourth year student at UCSB and coordinator for the Students Stopping Rape organization. While majoring in Sociology and Psychology she also works at the Women’s Center and the UCSB library.

It was also co-written by RJ Thomsen, a fourth year student at UCSB majoring in Sociology and Feminist Studies and coordinator for Men Against Rape. While not working in the Women’s Center this student is an active leader in UCSB’s queer community.

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