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Captured on video without permission

September 1, 2009 By Contributor

I walked out on Columbia Road in Adams Morgan in DC Saturday night at about 9:30 p.m. I was on my cell phone text messaging a friend when a woman in a wheel chair violently wheeled herself up to about I’d say four feet in front of me grunting (nothing) but grunting violently. She stopped, then she abruptly did it again up to about two feet to the side of me. It startled me. I quickly stopped to move around her so she would not touch me, and then within seconds one of two guys on the other side of the sidewalk said to me, ” Oh, we got a phone camera too…we got a video camera, can we tape you, watch you…” I kept walking, and the other guy (now all of them behind me) said “keep walking, keep walking” as he taped me walk down the street on his cell phone. This low life (and his friend) have me on video and there’s nothing I can do about it.

– J.S.

Location: Columbia Road, Washington, DC

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Filed Under: Stories Tagged With: adams morgan, camera phone, sexual harassment, street harassment, video taping, violating women, Washington DC

Leave my granddaughter alone

August 31, 2009 By HKearl

“My friend’s younger sister was coming home by herself when a guy on the bus began hassling her. An elderly man on the other side of the bus stood up and demanded that the guy ‘leave his granddaughter alone.’ The guy stopped, and got off at the next stop. The elderly man was a stranger.”

Last week I discovered www.givesmehope.com where people can share short stories that give them hope. There are several entries, including the one above, which show the kindness of strangers in public. I post so many stories about the horrible things strangers do in public so I see these as a nice change of pace!  For the next few weeks I’ll be posting one positive story each Monday morning as a start-to-the-week pick-up.

If you have a positive story to share, please do so and I’ll add it to the repository for Monday morning posting.

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: gives me hope, sexual harassment, street harassment

An Ugly Girl’s Story*

August 31, 2009 By Contributor

I am fat & considered very unattractive. I am often told that I’m a dog/ugly/cow/pig/barked & oinked at by strange men in public.

Two men recently followed behind me on the street for several blocks, loudly discussing what they would have to do in order to make me “f***able” (ie. put a bag over my head, get me to go to a plastic surgeon, etc.)

I try very hard not to take these experiences to heart but this recent one was very disturbing. I realized that I have been avoiding crowded public areas because of this. It also reinforces my feeling that despite my achievements & personality, in this world what really matters is my outward appearance.

– anonymous

Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada

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*Note, the author of this post wrote the title, too. I think what’s ugly is the behavior of the harassing men!
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Filed Under: Stories Tagged With: patriarchy, sexual harassment, street harassment, unfair beauty standards

An Ugly Girl's Story*

August 31, 2009 By Contributor

I am fat & considered very unattractive. I am often told that I’m a dog/ugly/cow/pig/barked & oinked at by strange men in public.

Two men recently followed behind me on the street for several blocks, loudly discussing what they would have to do in order to make me “f***able” (ie. put a bag over my head, get me to go to a plastic surgeon, etc.)

I try very hard not to take these experiences to heart but this recent one was very disturbing. I realized that I have been avoiding crowded public areas because of this. It also reinforces my feeling that despite my achievements & personality, in this world what really matters is my outward appearance.

– anonymous

Location: Vancouver, BC, Canada

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*Note, the author of this post wrote the title, too. I think what’s ugly is the behavior of the harassing men!
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Filed Under: Stories Tagged With: patriarchy, sexual harassment, street harassment, unfair beauty standards

Alternative use for scissors

August 24, 2009 By Contributor

Once when I was about 15 years old I was riding the subway when a man with an obvious erection weaved his way through the crowded car to stand directly in front of my friend and myself and proceeded to masturbate. As I was in the custom of carrying around a sharp pair of scissors, I pulled it out and stared at him as icily as possible until he retreated to a seat on the other side of the car.

– anonymous

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Filed Under: Stories Tagged With: masturbator, scissors, sexual harassment, street harasment, subway

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