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“Don’t let them silence you.

October 25, 2016 By Contributor

A guy approached me as I was coming out of class. He asked me if I wanted to be a prostitute and commented on how hard I was making his dick. When I made the report, the police officer asked, “Have you never been hit on before?”

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Always speak up. To the perpetrator, to the police, even against the police if you need to. Don’t let them silence you.

– Riece Hamilton

Location: 2nd and Broadway, Louisville, KY

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“If we can’t back other women on this how anything ever change?”

October 23, 2016 By Contributor

Today while walking to the train after work, a man stepped away from his group of friends (around 4 other men and 2 women) and stood in front of me, blocking and stopping me from walking and asking me where I was going.

I immediately told him to get out of my way and yelled that he had no right to make me feel unsafe.

The two women with him laughed at me.

If we can’t back other women on this how anything ever change?

– Anonymous

Location: Flinder’s Street Station, Melbourne, Australia

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“I started yelling for help and crying as my little sister looked on”

October 22, 2016 By Contributor

I was 25 at the state fair one early evening with my 15 yo little sister. A group of guys approached us. We were near the main gate. As we walked towards them and my sister and I talked one of the guys grabbed my breasts very hard and twisted them in opposite directions like they were faucets. I have large breasts and have been a target so many times because of my physical appearance I couldn’t even recount them all. I screamed and yelled profanities at him at which point he and two friends poured their large drinks of beer over my head. I started yelling for help and crying all as my little sister looked on.

A cop arrived and asked what happened. I had a conservative empire-waisted cotton blouse on with a high neck and long sleeves. It was now completely transparent and totally soaked with beer as was my face and long hair. Cop pulled my sister and I aside and told me to calm down and go wash my face. He further said I shouldn’t be out un-escorted at night and not to wear such suggestive clothes. I was stunned shocked and speechless by the policeman’s caviler behavior tone and what he said to me. As I continued to cry and make a beeline for the exit, I looked back and saw the cop and group of guys looking at me and laughing.

I have never ever forgotten the humiliation and abandonment by the cop. It was like it was a private joke to all the men and the cop involved. My sister was terrified. I still think of it frequently and have dreams about how powerless I felt. I recently told my husband who was not really much interested and that stunned me, too. No idea about the pain from that night 25 years ago and why it would still bother me. I have thought about many times a day since this happened with Trump.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

I can’t answer this as I don’t know. I am still followed get disturbing things said to me in my own neighborhood on walks. I am always aware of my environment and what I can use for a weapon.

– WN

Location: California state fair in Sacramento

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“Abuse of anyone by another is wrong & cannot be tolerated”

October 21, 2016 By HKearl

As a young man about to enter the Marine Corps at the height of the Vietnam War living in Hawaii, I met a guy who was already in the Corps. He invited me to his home to talk about life in the Marine Corps. During our talk he physically assaulted me by saying that a certain physical exam was required, then he began by injecting a device up my ass with some device. I’ve NEVER told anyone of this before and I’ve been married, divorced and had numerous relationships with other women. I’m a straight 66 year old male who has felt shame, embarrassment & many other emotions as a result of this. Thank you for providing a platform where one can express what occurs to so many others.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

By continuing to share that abuse of anyone by another is wrong & cannot be tolerated.

– Dan

Location: Kailua, Hawaii

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“I was not flattered at all and find it very offensive”

October 20, 2016 By Contributor

I was walking down the street to wait for a bus. Then a truck passes by and a guy opened his window and stuck his head out and yelled, “Hey baby, why don’t you come over here and let me take you for a ride?”

I was not flattered at all and find it very offensive. I just gave him an annoyed look but I should have talked back.

Optional: Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

Expressing your feelings of anger towards those insults in a most elegant way possible.

– Anonymous

Location: Jakarta, Indonesia

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