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UK: Art and Objectification

July 20, 2015 By Correspondent

Ruth Mair, UK, SSH Blog Correspondent

Yoko Fukase, image via The Guardian

I have caught people photographing me without my permission and I usually try to mess up their photo in some silly small way, like pulling a face or rolling my eyes. I have also caught people drawing me on the bus, and I have heard of others having similar experience. Sometimes those creating their art based on strangers are repeat offenders (“Oh that dude on that bus with the sketchbook, yeah I’ve seen him before”), and somehow, they are almost always men. I do not know whether this is because men are the ones confident enough to pull such tricks, or defend themselves if caught at it. Perhaps it’s because there is a surplus of male artists out there without willing and consenting subjects for their art. Or maybe the women doing the equivalent thing are better at not getting caught.

In this context, I have been thinking a lot about women in art. Both as subjects of art, and also as artists. But the problem about women who have art made about them, is that they are subjects of it, subjected to it. Guerilla Girls have made some great pieces concerning this issue; it was via Guerilla Girls that I learned about the difference in number of women portrayed in art in major American art galleries, versus the number of pieces of art by women that were displayed in those galleries. And that was before even getting into question of the vast chasm between the money earned by female artists and that earned by male artists.

These are things we’ve come to expect one we acknowledge the existence of the patriarchy, and once you start digging, there is a lot of discussion concerning this. However what I am writing about here is the position of the woman as a subject, and fact that this can be done secretly, without consent, in passing, in the street, raised a lot of questions for me. It was a Guardian article that led me to this topic, and it’s been stewing in my head for several days, with a lot of related feelings and thoughts about consent and the feeling of being watched, or being a performer.

Subject of art, or complicit in its creation. Masahisa Fukase created a collection of photographs in 1974 that focused entirely on his wife Yoko. She is in every photo, complicit, consenting, even performing for him, the creator of the photo of which she is a subject. This project was 13 years in the making, and throughout that time, Fukase focused intensely on his wife and the creation of images of her. It might seem an obvious outcome to say that they got divorced. Yoko was quoted in the article as having said that her life with Fukase was “suffocating dullness interspersed by violent and near suicidal flashes of excitement”. This surprised me, but then I’m not married to an artist so it’s likely that I was interpreting her position as muse and subject in a different way to someone who has actually experienced that kind of life would have done.

All I could think was how suffocating it would be, how intrusive and exhausting, to have been observed in all that detail, through the eye of a lens for 13 years. And although Yoko was clearly an active participant in this project, I found that the photos begged the question of where the personal ended and the performance began.

Further, the question of consent, and the potential for violation through the medium (and even using the excuse) of art, is something I find deeply troubling. Like the story of Yoko Fukase which still troubles me. There are so many questions I would love to ask her about those 13 years; whether she knew which photos were to be used in the collection, whether she had any say in this, and what happened when she did not feel like having her photograph taken.

Aside from my small moments of messing up photos strangers have tried to take of me, I’ve never confronted anyone doing things like that. Like many other forms of street harassment, confronting those perpetrating it is full of difficulties and second guessing; were they really photographing me? Will they think I’m arrogant for assuming it’s me? Am I arrogant for assuming that? Shouldn’t I be complimented that someone wants to use my face or silhouette or passing blurred figure for their work?

But the in the same way that street harassment is a violation, so is this.

Ruth is a human rights MA student finishing her MA dissertation on the legal and normative rights of terror suspects in the UK (spoiler alert: rights are being violated). She also plays bass in a band called Kinshot, sews as often as she can, and spends time getting annoyed at the cat sleeping on top of her computer.

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July 20, 2015: News Round-Up

July 20, 2015 By HKearl

“Video Showing Sexual Harassment of Two Girls in Saudi Arabia“

“A video that shows a group of young boys harassing two women in Jeddah’s Corniche sparked an outrage in social media last week. The video, which was uploaded to YouTube, went viral on social media, with statements denouncing the “barbaric” behaviour of these teenagers toward two veiled women on the Corniche.”

“Egyptian police arrest 29 men for sexual harassment during Eid: MOI“

“Police in Cairo have arrested 29 men for sexual harassment since the beginning of the Eid Al-Fitr holiday on Friday, Al-Ahram Arabic reported.

Police said one man was arrested for physically harassing a woman in downtown Cairo’s Qasr El-Nil area, while others were caught verbally harassing girls outside cinemas in the Roxy area in the district of Heliopolis.

During the three-day Eid Al-Fitr holiday, which marks the end of Ramadan, families and young people often celebrate with outings to parks, cinemas, fairs and other public spaces.

Reports of sexual harassment and assault in crowded areas increase during the holiday.”

“141 sexual harassment incidents reported in 3 days during Eid al-Fitr“

“A total of 141 police reports were issued on sexual harassment incidents during Eid al-Fitr 2015, according to the National Council for Woman (NCW.)

“A total of 136 verbal and five physical harassment incidents were reported,” said NCW, noting that most of the girls dropped the reports.

NCW said it received 50 verbal harassment reports in Cairo and one physical harassment report on Sunday.

Moreover, Egyptian grassroots initiative “I Saw Harassment” published its final report on the sexual harassment during Eid al-Fitr; it stated that the rates of the harassment were higher than the feats of the last few years.”

“Ottawa [Canada] pick-up artist controversy fuels conversation about street harassment”

“What started out as a few tweets on Friday about an Ottawa pick-up artist who secretly films women has now evolved into a broader discussion about street harassment and personal privacy.

The Carleton University Sexual Assault Support Services Twitter account appears to be the first to sound the alarm about Luke Howard, a local hypnotist and YouTuber who engages in conversations with women on the street and uploads the encounter on the video sharing website.

In an interview with Metro last Friday, Howard said his videos are meant to show guys with social anxiety how to talk to women they’re attracted to in the daytime.

While Ottawa police have previously said secretly filming people over 18 in a public space is legal, women say what he is doing is unethical and constitutes harassment.

Soon after the public outcry, local women condemned his behaviour, which prompted him to hide his series of YouTube videos from public view.

At the time, Howard said he temporarily blocked his videos after receiving threats of violence online.

As his YouTube channel remained quiet on Sunday, there was a loud rumbling on social media that spawned the #corneredinottawa hashtag and a Twitter account of the same name.

Maya Shoucair, a woman who says she has been confronted by Howard on the street, said she hosted an informal meeting with about a dozen concerned women at her house on Sunday to discuss how to proceed.

“This is what it looks like when Ottawa women have had enough,” said Shoucair, referring to the social media uproar.

“We just want to feel safe in our streets.”

“After Anand Parbat stabbing case, alleged eve-teasers seriously injure Rohtak schoolgirl”

“A day after a minor girl died after being allegedly stabbed by two men in Delhi`s Anand Parbat locality for resisting a molestation attempt, a schoolgirl from Lonal village in Haryana`s Rohtak district on Saturday has sustained grievous injuries following an attack by three alleged [harassers] while she was on her way to school.

The victim has been admitted to a hospital in Rohtak where she is undergoing treatment for multiple wounds on her face and head. The girl`s relative said that a complaint has been lodged with the police, but lamented that no arrests have been made so far.”

“Montreal Police Tell Women To Not Take Taxis In The City Alone Anymore”

After a several women in Montreal came forward saying cab drivers sexually assaulted them, the police “said women should try to not take taxis alone, and to ‘limit their alcohol consumption and stay in control,’ as quoted by the Gazette. If you see a problem with this, then congratulations, you are a sensible person.”

One of SSH’s facebook followers said in a comment it to this story that “In response the STM (transit system) made an announcement reminding women that they don’t have to take the taxi because bus drivers will drop women (or men too) off as close to their house as they can at night if you just ask more than one stop ahead.”

“Men who harass women online are quite literally losers, new study finds”

“Michael Kasumovic and Jeffrey Kuznekoff, researchers at the University of New South Wales and Miami University, respectively…watched how men treated women during 163 plays of the video game Halo 3.

As they watched the games play out and tracked the comments that players made to each other, the researchers observed that — no matter their skill level, or how the game went — men tended to be pretty cordial to each other. Male players who were good at the game also tended to pay compliments to other male and female players.

Some male players, however — the ones who were less-skilled at the game, and performing worse relative their peers — made frequent, nasty comments to the female gamers. In other words, sexist dudes are literally losers.”

“One Perk of Older Age? Fewer Catcalls”

“I wouldn’t trade my quiet morning walks for the hellishness of my teen years for anything. But when you’re brought up to feel that the most important thing you can be is attractive to men, the absence of their attention – even negative attention – can feel distressing.”

“Activists Call On CTA To Post Anti-Sexual Harassment Campaign”

“Despite a high profile PSA campaign about Chicago [USA] Transit Authority courtesy, there are still no ads regarding sexual harassment. One woman is trying to change that and is being rebuffed along the way… Last year Kara Crutcher launched the “Courage Campaign,” which she hoped would bring attention to the issue of sexual harassment on public transportation. As DNAinfo reported at the time, her campaign was attempting to work with the CTA to produce advertisements to fight sexual harassment on city buses and trains and to bring more awareness to the issue….

Fast forward an entire year, and unfortunately those advertisements haven’t materialized. The transit agency’s ad company, Titan Worldwide, has a rule that states PSAs must be posted by a government agency or a registered nonprofit, leaving the Courage Campaign out in the cold. Crutcher and 15 girls from the female youth empowerment group “Girl World” recently met with CTA board members to talk about bringing such advertisements to the public transportation system.

At the meeting, Crutcher was frustrated by the fact that the conversation seemed to center around how to report incidents of sexual harassment, instead of how to create the ads, she said. Jaime Schmitz, a youth development specialist who works with Girl World, agreed, telling DNAinfo, “I don’t think people realize how hard it is for people to share a story like that. They’re under the impression that when you’re harassed it should be so easy to report. But a lot of the time it’s re-traumatizing.”

The point of the ads is to prevent the incident before it even starts, so simply reporting incidents doesn’t necessarily modify behavior, the women argued. While frustrated by the setback, Crutcher is not giving up. “I have no doubt that they care about the safety of their riders. I just think more can be done, and this is great vehicle to do so, and right now I can’t move forward,” she said.”

 “Photographer charged with stalking Grand Rapids woman”

“A man whose picture went viral on social media is now being charged with stalking a woman in Grand Rapids. Thomas Chubinski, 69, is accused of recently harassing a woman who was walking with her daughter near Michigan and Diamond.

“I was just so terrified, I’m shaking. It was 2 o’clock in the afternoon,” said Emily Gray. She says Chubinski was driving slowly beside her. “He’s asking me all kinds of horrible things about my body, every body part you could imagine. I told him, ‘I’m just trying to walk my daughter.'”

Emily did not go to police, but a few days later she saw a post on Facebook about the same man. The woman who posted those pictures said he had taken pictures of her as she walked her dog in East Grand Rapids…

WZZM 13 News talked to Chubinski on the phone earlier this week. He said he didn’t remember an encounter with Gray, but he does remember the woman in East Grand Rapids. He admitted to taking pictures of her in public, but said he did nothing wrong. According to East Grand Rapids police, the woman in that incident never filed a police report. Chubinski says he’s a professional photographer who admittedly likes to take pictures of “beautiful women.” He has no criminal history.”

 “The Brian Lehrer Show: The Unwelcome Harassment Women Face on the Street”

Holly Kearl, founder and executive director of Stop Street Harassment and the author of Stop Street Harassment: Making Public Places Safe and Welcoming for Women (Praeger, 2010), talks about what women are subjected to on the street to make them feel unsafe, from catcalls to groping, and how to end it.

Plus: Anthonine Pierre, Lead Community Organizer at the Brooklyn Movement Center, talks about the Center’s “Anti-Street Harassment Bike Patrol,” which is part of their “No Disrespect” campaign.

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“I didn’t even realize how much this was affecting me”

July 19, 2015 By Contributor

I park at the same parking deck every weekday since it’s pretty well priced. Every day for about 2 weeks when I left the lot, I saw the same guy. The first time he talked to me, he said something like “Long day?” I smiled and said yeah and nodded.

From there he started saying he wanted to see me smile and staring at me every day. He’d stare the entire time I paid for my ticket and it was starting to make me really uneasy. I thought it would stop since he didn’t say anything about it one day, but it picked right up the next day. I was starting to get anxious and stressed, and ended up panicking and driving away while he was in the middle of saying something.

I decided to directly tell him to leave me alone the next day. I was nervous, but resolved to do it. While I was paying for my ticket that day, he walked up and just kinda looked at me. He didn’t say anything, and I considered just driving away, but I wanted to speak up.

Calmly, I asked him to stop telling me to smile and said it was really making me uncomfortable. He quickly said okay and nodded, acting like he didn’t want to listen to anything else I had to say. I think he was mad that I drove away the previous day, and I’m kind of thankful that I did. I think it helped show that I didn’t like what he was doing.

This guy was taking advantage of being right there the entire time you pay for a ticket to stare and make these comments at me, and I’m probably not the only person he’s done it to. I hope he’ll think before he makes these unwanted comments to anyone else.

I didn’t complain to the company since he made an indication of respecting my wishes. I don’t plan to park there any more since I don’t want to see him again, but being able to say something took such a weight off my shoulders. I didn’t even realize how much this was affecting me until after I said something.

Optional: Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

A person don’t have to say or do something lewd or sexual for your feelings of discomfort to be justified. It’s 100% okay to not speak up, but if you feel safe doing so, tell them to stop what they’re doing, or complain to their employer if possible. You may feel really relieved afterwards.

– Anonymous

Location: Uptown Charlotte, NC

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“I was really scared it would happen again”

July 18, 2015 By Contributor

I am currently traveling through Europe. I went to Scotland with my University, London with friends, and I am an Au Pair in Italy now. While in Italy I had a few days off and decided to travel alone to Rome. For those of you who have not been to Rome, it is JAM PACKED with people. It’s overwhelming, and to be honest, it was not very fun.

When you ride the metro or buses you are almost always squished like sardines. I went on a bus hoping to go to the Trevi Fountain and, surprise surprise, it was packed with people. I ended up being near an older man (60’s?) with my back to him. Once the bus started I noticed that someone kept pushing into my back and my side. I turned around and it was the old man. I told myself that this man couldn’t be rubbing himself against me and it was just the bus movements. But the mans groin area continued to push against me. I looked again and to my horror, he had a boner. I tried to get away from him but the bus was full.

Then a different older man asked if I would like to take a seat. I though he was being polite and graciously took the open seat to get away the man who was rubbing himself against me. When I sat down in the seat, the man (also in his 60’s) positioned himself to where he had his arms on the poles that were on either side of my seat and he put one leg up on the area where I sat (the seats were like one step up) and basically pinned me into my seat. This made me uncomfortable and his belly kept squishing me as well as his groin. I told my self NO WAY would this happen within five seconds of the other man. But once again, it was happening. He started gyrating and moving his hips in circles. I felt paralyzed. I don’t speak Italian, and even if I did I had lost my voice. I, a feminist who tells her friends to always make a scene and speak out when someone does this exact thing, had lost her voice.

I had never experienced sexual assault like this, and never in a country where I can’t speak the language. It was terrifying. I felt ashamed for not shouting out and cursing at the man like I would have if I was a bystander and not the one being attacked. I decided that the best way to get out of it was to leave. I said “this is my stop” (hoping he understood) and he put his hand on my back and I shoved it away and got off the bus.

I went down to an area with few people and cried. I was stuck in a city where I didn’t speak the language and had no one to comfort me and I felt so ashamed for not sticking up for myself. But I am even more angry at the bystanders. The bus was full of people someone could have helped me and told him to stop or at least ask if everything was ok but instead they let it happen.

Bystanders doing nothing is something that has happened to many of my friends who have been sexually assaulted as well. This is something that needs to change. All in all, this experience has made me stronger and I feel like now, whatever the world throws at me I am prepared. But when it was happening I felt helpless, I don’t want anyone to feel that way. Ever.

We need to stop street harassment around the world. Because of those disgusting men, I refused to take the bus and stuck to the metro, which was very limited, and walking. I was really scared it would happen again.

Optional: Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

If you can yell at your harasser and make them stop, do it. If you can’t, if your voice just can’t come out, like mine, it is ok. It is not your fault, you did nothing wrong. If you see someone harassing someone, stop them or get someone who can if the situation is not safe. Talk about street harassment and the way it has effected you. Help educate others on why it is wrong and why it needs to stop. Give a voice to those who are voiceless.

– C.W.

Location: Rome, Italy

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Two Men in Russia are Harassed for Holding Hands in Public

July 14, 2015 By HKearl

In this video, two men in Russia hold hands and walk around Moscow to see how people react. They are harassed – including two physical assaults – by several men (I noticed one woman gawk but I don’t believe any women verbally harassed them). This is the reality for same-sex couples in many parts of the world if they choose to openly show their affection. This is not okay. Public spaces should be safe for EVERYONE.

H/t SSH supporter Mark

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