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“I felt threatened and unsafe”

September 29, 2018 By Contributor

I was walking through a bar on the boardwalk.

I was going through a less crowded area when one of the two stocky guys standing against the wall yelled out to “sexy”. I continued to keep my eyes adverted and my head down.

A split second later when I had passed by, he yelled in a more aggressive tone that “I was a bitch for not saying thank you.”

Photo Credit: Quinn Dombrowski (Flickr)

I mumbled “Thank you” as I picked up my pace and was extremely shaken.

For a few years after I would respond immediately with “thank you” to any unsolicited cat call.

It wasn’t until a couple of years later that I realized I wasn’t the one who did something wrong! There’s a polite way to compliment someone and it’s rude to cat call.  I don’t have to tolerate it and I surely do not need to thank anyone for that.

We must teach respect. Don’t treat people in a way that you wouldn’t want your mother, father, sister, brother, daughter, or son to be treated.

~ Anonymous

Location:

Ocean City, New Jersey

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“Change the cultural response to harassment “

September 13, 2018 By Contributor

I was 14 years old, walking on a downtown Dallas street, when a man walking in front of me suddenly turned and grabbed my breast and just as quickly let go and kept on walking away.

Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

We need to change the cultural response to the harassment of women.

– Jane

Location:

Near the YWCA in downtown Dallas, Texas

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: 14-year-old, assault, teenager, young

End of Summer 2018 News Updates

September 10, 2018 By HKearl

Afghanistan: What it’s like for women to get around Kabul.

Australia: Why do men perform lewd acts on the train?

Australia: What can men do to prevent the street harassment, assault and murder of women?

Canada: Good Night Out Vancouver launched a new pilot project aimed at finding out when and where street harassment in happening in the city.

Chile: Street harassment is a criminal offence in these suburbs.

Egypt: Egyptian women take back the streets with parkour.

Europe: One in three EU member states have applied legal restrictions on Muslim women’s dress, with almost half having applied bans – including on headscarves – within workplaces and public institutions.

India: Delhi’s all-female motorbike police force has helped reduce street harassment.

Indonesia: A man who groped a woman’s breasts while he was on a motorcycle was sentenced to a one-year prison sentence.

Kenya: FloNe Initiative shared the findings from their baseline study on sexual harassment on public transit.

New Zealand: A serial sexual assailant has been attacking women on Wellington streets.

Philippines: Street harassment became illegal in Manila and Dagupan City.

Romania: Street harassment became illegal in the country!

Russia: Men harass female sports reporters at the World Cup.

Uganda: The threat of harassment (and worse) is a daily occurrence for a lesbian in Kampala, Uganda.

USA: How five women saved a woman from a harasser.

USA: One out of every four young men does not disagree that “when a woman is raped, she usually did something careless to put herself in that situation.”

USA: Girls who reach puberty earlier are sexually harassed more than their peers, regardless of whether they’re engaging in sexual behaviours earlier

USA: A Human Rights Commission report says almost 40% of Muslim, Jewish and Sikh residents of NYC have experienced harassment, including, 1 in 5 Black Muslim women who had been physically assaulted in the months in question.

USA: Sexual assaults on airplanes are rising at “an alarming rate” the FBI said.

UK: Two-thirds of women worry about sexual harassment at music festivals.

UK: More than half of men in the UK think catcalling is unacceptable.

UK: Expanding the “Catcalls of NYC” idea, women in other areas, like London, are writing in chalk the things men say on the street.

 

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End of Summer 2018 SSH Updates

September 10, 2018 By HKearl

An alarming new study released last month found that nearly all Native women in Seattle, Washington, USA, have been raped or forced to have sex and 69% also reported experiencing street harassment. A study released this month in the UK found that 66% of girls and young women ages 14 to 21 have experienced street harassment.

In France, in late July, a man verbally harassed Marie Laguerre in Paris, France, as she walked home. When she told him to “shut up,” he physically and brazenly attacked her. A man in Iowa, USA, in July verbally harassed Mollie Tibbett during her run and when she threatened to call the police, he killed her. A man in Melbourne, Australia, raped and murdered Eurydice Dixon as she walked home from a comedy gig in June.

Street harassment continues to be a serious issue that affects most women and girls, it is connected to sexual violence and it can escalate into physical violence and even murder. This is why even seemingly benign “catcalls” can be scary and why so many of us “choose” to limit our time in public and curtail our lives in order to try to stay safe.

In order to create a world where everyone is safe and welcome in public spaces and everyone has equal access to the resources there, it’s important that we speak out against street harassment, that we support efforts to prevent it through education, training and awareness-raising, and that we model respectful interactions for the children and youth in our lives.

New Legislation

In late June in Washington, D.C., the Council of the District of Columbia passed the Street Harassment Prevention Act of 2018 (SHPA), the first legislation of its kind in the United States. It is one of more than 20 laws addressing street harassment to pass globally since 2012 (including laws that passed recently in France, Romania, Chile, and the Philippines. This month, a review is to take place into whether misogynistic conduct, including street harassment, should be treated as a hate crime in the UK.)

The SHPA, which our allies Collective Action for Safe Spaces took the lead in advocating for and we helped support, is groundbreaking for creating the first legal definition of street harassment in the United States, calling it “disrespectful, offensive or threatening statements, gestures or other conduct directed at an individual in a high-risk area without the individual’s consent and based on the individual’s actual or perceived … protected trait identified in the [DC] Human Rights Act of 1977.” It also uniquely focuses on prevention through education instead of criminalization.

As I noted in an article for Women’s Media Center, “Specifically, the SHPA establishes an advisory committee on street harassment that will propose model policies and training materials to be implemented in the District; require the Office of Human Rights (OHR) to conduct the first citywide survey on street harassment; and require OHR to conduct a public information campaign about street harassment. Further, grant money will be provided for street harassment awareness programs.”

In research I’ve conducted about laws against street harassment, too often there is no education component. (Indeed, the French activist organization Stop Harcelement de la Rue is disappointed in the French law because the lawmakers ignored their suggestion for mandating education.) Too often there is no money earmarked for training law enforcement or advertising the law. Too often the law is barely used and offers no real deterrent to harassers.

Hopefully educational campaigns, awareness programs and training in the DC-area can actually create change, especially when there is money to fund these initiatives. And if it does, I hope other regions of the world will follow this model of prevention legislation.

New Faces

I’m excited to share that Dr. Meghna Bhat, a former SSH blog correspondent, has joined the team as a volunteer social media and website manager! She’ll primarily be managing the twitter and Instagram accounts and content for our blog.

This month we also welcome five new board members, all from the Washington, DC-area. Meet them! I’m excited to work with them.

A few of our long-serving board members are leaving this month as their terms have ended. This includes two of our founding board members, Liz Bolton and Layla Moughari, who have contributed a great deal to SSH over the years, from fundraising to editing research reports and press releases to organizing events for Anti-Street Harassment Week! I am grateful for their help in establishing SSH as a nonprofit in 2012 and all that they’ve done since then.

Hey Baby VA Campaign Update

Our board member Lani’s “Hey Baby” graphic was used last year by a Veteran Affairs (VA) center in Chicago for an anti-harassment campaign. The campaign has reduced harassment at the facility. Jenny Sitzer, the program manager, that implemented the campaign will be attending and presenting the campaign success in an internal VA conference this fall. When Lani was in town this summer, they presented her with a certificate and showed her the banners.

Raising Awareness

In June, I gave a presentation to the CDC’s Intimate Partner Violence/Sexual Violence (IPSV) Workgroup about street harassment and our two research reports, and I wrote articles for HuffPost, Ms. Magazine, Women’s Media Center and New Moon Girls magazine (print).

SSH was covered in a range of media outlets, including BBC, Yahoo, Morning Dose, and Next City. In exciting news, SSH’s hotline was mentioned by CNN and “Ask Amy” and our latest study has been used by legislators and journalists.

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Two New Books

September 10, 2018 By HKearl

Dr. Fiona Vera-Gray has a new book about street harassment out called The Right Amount of Panic: How Women Trade Freedom for Safety. I got to offer a review for the jacket back: “By reinterpreting women’s daily safety strategies as successful forms of resistance, this book presents fresh ideas for sexual violence prevention.”

Soraya Chemaly, a long-time supporter of SSH, has a new book out tomorrow called Rage Becomes Her, and in one chapter (“Smile, Baby”) she writes about street harassment. It is a book we all need to understand our anger and “transform it into meaningful change.” #RageBecomesHer

 

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