• About Us
    • What Is Street Harassment?
    • Why Stopping Street Harassment Matters
    • Meet the Team
      • Board of Directors
      • Past Board Members
    • In The Media
  • Our Work
    • National Street Harassment Hotline
    • International Anti-Street Harassment Week
    • Blog Correspondents
      • Past SSH Correspondents
    • Safe Public Spaces Mentoring Program
    • Publications
    • National Studies
    • Campaigns against Companies
    • Washington, D.C. Activism
  • Our Books
  • Donate
  • Store

Stop Street Harassment

Making Public Spaces Safe and Welcoming

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Twitter
  • YouTube
  • Home
  • Blog
    • Harassment Stories
    • Blog Correspondents
    • Street Respect Stories
  • Help & Advice
    • National Street Harassment Hotline
    • Dealing With Harassers
      • Assertive Responses
      • Reporting Harassers
      • Bystander Responses
      • Creative Responses
    • What to Do Before or After Harassment
    • Street Harassment and the Law
  • Resources
    • Definitions
    • Statistics
    • Articles & Books
    • Anti-Harassment Groups & Campaigns
    • Male Allies
      • Educating Boys & Men
      • How to Talk to Women
      • Bystander Tips
    • Video Clips
    • Images & Flyers
  • Take Community Action
  • Contact

“This is a classic case of blaming the victim”

October 1, 2013 By Contributor

On a very hot summer day, my friend and I (both female) went for iced coffee, and sat on the patio of the cute restaurant we were visiting. I was wearing a cute shorter skirt. In the 30 minutes we spent on the patio, two different men driving by yelled catcalls at us. It was very uncomfortable.

Later that evening, I relayed the story to another (female) friend. “Were you wearing that skirt?” she asked. When I replied that yes, I had been wearing the same skirt, she scoffed, “Well no wonder.” I felt embarrassed, self conscious of my long legs, and responsible for attracting the catcalls.

This is a classic case of blaming the victim.

– Anonymous

Share your street harassment story for the blog.

Share

Filed Under: Stories, street harassment

Report: Street Harassment in Boston

September 30, 2013 By HKearl

Hollaback! Boston surveyed more than 500 people about street harassment. Check out their survey results.

Read more in the Metro. and via SSH Blog Correspondent Delia’s article.

Share

Filed Under: Resources, street harassment

UK: Freshers Week… AKA Intro to University Sexism 101

September 29, 2013 By Correspondent

By: Levi Grayshon, Manchester, England, SSH Correspondent

Freshers’ Week. Image via The Badger

Ah, university. The time in a person’s life when she or he is dropped off at their university halls by worried parents, armed with nothing but Ikea bed linen and a bottle of value vodka, ready to tackle student life. But often, for female students, that first week can prove a tough one.

It’s no secret that “LAD Culture” is rife amongst UK universities, something which I myself have noticed becoming more and more prominent as I progressed through my three years at university. In my first year, I was rarely bothered on a night out with friends. During Freshers’ Week (orientation week) my third year, however, it was a completely different story.

During “One Night,” a popular event run by the university, I was in queue and a group of men harassed me by taking photographs of me, and mocked me when I requested that they deleted them. Inside the club, they found me and groped me, calling me “crazy” when I told them to leave me alone, and I was fed the line “he’s a footballer, he does what he wants” – a line which I heard them repeat to another girl in the club.

Later in the night, another LAD-type groped me, and shouted aggressively in my face when I pushed him away and told him to leave me alone, which, naturally, his friends found hilarious. All of this happened within the space of around an hour and a half, which caused me to leave early, furious and disappointed.

Events like these are not uncommon, and, going by what has been uncovered by Laura Bates from the Everyday Sexism Project lately, pretty mild. Female students have reported being pinned against railings, being rated by their appearances in nightclub queues, and being told that “being spiked is lucky.”

Even worse than this, some universities are fuelling this behaviour. Recently, Cardiff Metropolitan University came under fire for using an image of a student wearing a t-shirt with a rape joke written on it in order to promote a club night. Last year, a pamphlet promoted by my own university was put under scrutiny after perpetrating misogynist abuse towards women who engaged in one night stands, claiming that they were “dirty,” yet it applauded the male students who engaged in such activities.

As reported in The Independent last year, universities also hold club nights with sexist themes, such as “Geeks and Sluts” and “CEO’s and Corporate Hoes”. The same article reported that 68% of female students had been sexually harassed whilst at university – are sexist club nights to blame for this high percentage?

On the other hand, some universities are doing their best to combat the harassment suffered by their female students. Edinburgh University banned the Robin Thicke song “Blurred Lines”, which has been criticised widely for its lyrics that “promote non-consenual sex.” Four more universities (Kingston, Derby, Leeds and West Scotland) swiftly followed suit.

Additionally, numerous universities are joining the NUS Zero Tolerance to Sexual Harassment campaign to work toward becoming a safer place for female students. I hope many more will follow suit.

Levi graduated from university with a degree in Film and TV screenwriting this summer. As a freelance writer, she has been writing for The F-Word and Gamer-UK. You can follow her rants and ramblings on Twitter, @part_heart.

Share

Filed Under: correspondents, Stories, street harassment

1962 TV Ad Promotes Street Harassment

September 28, 2013 By HKearl

Street harassment is an old problem and it’s also one that has been normalized for decades. Here’s the latest example, a 1962 television advertisement that told men to whistle and wink at a woman (and used their hair product), they’d “get her every time.” Ugh.

H/T @JDPacey

Share

Filed Under: SH History, street harassment

USA: Bike Escorts Keep Brooklyn Safe

September 28, 2013 By Correspondent

By: Maggie Freleng, NYC, USA, SSH Correspondent

Photo Credit: Hello, I am Bruce on Flickr/Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 2.0)

Walking home alone late at night can be scary, no matter where you live. For some people, a safe cab ride home is not an option, and with lack of a better options and resources they may be forced into uncomfortable, unsafe situations.

Fortunately there is Brooklyn Bike Patrol (BBP), dedicated to “keeping Brooklyn safe” during what could be an unsafe, threatening walk home.

BBP is a volunteer group escorting women to their homes late at night from anywhere; a bar, friend’s home, restaurant, bus stop or subway.

Louisa Laz-Hirsch, 21, said she is grateful for BBP, particularly when she first moved to Brooklyn.

“I was a penny counting bartender so, unfortunately I couldn’t afford to take cabs every time I got off work at 2:00 in the morning,” she said. “My apartment wasn’t an incredibly long walk from the myrtle-broadway stop, but even within those 8 or so blocks I felt uneasy being a young woman alone late at night.”

BBP operates seven days a week, Sunday-Thursday 8 p.m. – 12 a.m. and Friday-Saturday 10 p.m. – 4 a.m. All you have to do is call 718-744-7592, give a heads up, and an escort on a bike will be waiting to meet you.

Since forming in 2011 after a string of sexual attacks near Park Slope, BBP services 58 train stops in Brooklyn initially starting near Prospect Park and now extending through to Williamsburg.

All volunteers have been background checked by the 72nd Precinct so you know you are safe walking with them.

“It was such a relief to find out about BBP,” Laz-Hirsch said. “It’s so comforting knowing that there’s so many people who care enough about the safety of their neighbors to devote that much of their free-time to guaranteeing they feel comfortable in their own neighborhood.”

BBP has been endorsed by St. Francis Xavier Church and NYS Senator Eric Adams and the 72nd, 77th, 78th and 68th Precincts and Brooklyn Borough President Marty Markowitz and the Brooklyn DA’s Office.

Laz-Hirsch said, speaking about getting home safe at night, “It’s messed up that that’s even a concern.” However, it is a concern, unfortunately, and Brooklyn is glad to have Brooklyn Bike Patrol when things get uneasy!

Maggie is a Brooklyn based freelance writer and photographer focusing on social justice and women’s issues. She currently writes for Vitamin W. Maggie graduated with a B.A in Journalism and English from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst in 2011, concentrating on dystopian literature. You can read more of her writing on her blog or follow her on Twitter, @dixiy89.

 

Share

Filed Under: correspondents, Stories, street harassment

« Previous Page
Next Page »

Share Your Story

Share your street harassment story for the blog. Donate Now

From the Blog

  • #MeToo 2024 Study Released Today
  • Join International Anti-Street Harassment Week 2022
  • Giving Tuesday – Fund the Hotline
  • Thank You – International Anti-Street Harassment Week 2021
  • Share Your Story – Safecity and Catcalls Collaboration

Buy the Book

  • Contact
  • Events
  • Join Us
  • Donate
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Copyright © 2026 Stop Street Harassment · Website Design by Sarah Marie Lacy