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“A crowded subway is never an excuse to sexually assault a woman.”

October 11, 2012 By Contributor

1) I live in Brooklyn and take the F subway train to work. One morning after getting to work, a coworker asked what was on my skirt. I ran to the bathroom and threw up when I realized it was some strange guy’s cum from the subway. Seriously disgusting. A crowded subway is never an excuse to sexually assault a woman.

2) Crowded A train… a guy kept rubbing up against me. When I told him I’d mace him if he didn’t stop, he said, “Oh come on, you know you want it.”

Seriously gross. I regret to this day that I didn’t mace him, would have taught him a lesson.

– SD

Location: New York City

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Day of the Girl: Honoring Girls who Speak out against Street Harassment

October 11, 2012 By HKearl

International Day of the Girl is a movement to speak out against gender bias and advocate for girls’ rights everywhere and today is the first day it’s being celebrated.

Girls face a lot of challenges growing up, including sexual harassment at school and on the streets. Because our society doesn’t want to acknowledge this happens, few girls are given the tools they need to name the harassment, know their rights and stand up for themselves, and take action to end it. (And few boys or girls are given the chance to learn and decide for themselves what are appropriate ways to interact, how to give and ask for consent, and what is flirting versus harassment.)

When it comes to street harassment, fortunately there are a growing number of groups that have fostered amazing girl activists who are speaking out strongly about their rights and demanding an end to street harassment. I hope there will be more and more of them!

Girls for Gender Equity:

Through the Sisters in the Strength program, girls in New York have tackled the issue of street harassment by creating their own documentary, hosting a summit, organizing and giving workshops, and speaking at rallies and testifying at city council hearings. You can read more about their work in the book Hey, Shorty!: A Guide to Combating Sexual Harassment and Violence in Schools and on the Streets.

Rogers Park Young Women’s Action Team:

Though this youth-driven group in Chicago shut down a year ago, the work the girls did is still very noteworthy. The girls tackled street harassment many ways, including by surveying their peers and issuing a report, successfully lobbying businesses and local legislators to make changes to make the streets safer for girls, organizing a day of action against street harassment across the city, surveying their peers about sexual harassment on public transportation and then successfully lobbying the Chicago Transit Authority to launch a campaign, and organizing workshops and tool-kits.

Feminist Teacher:

Ileana Jiménez is a high school educator in New York who has talked about street harassment a lot with her students. In addition to bringing street harassment activist guest speakers to class, she created a video PSA with them and encouraged them to speak at a NYC council hearing and rally against street harassment.



Several other groups have given girls the opportunity to speak out through videos and rallies:

A Long Walk Home – The Girl/Friends Leadership Institute members decided to hold an anti-street harassment march around their high school and they passed out materials about the issue to their classmates.

FAAN Mail – The girls they work with made a video about what men say to them on the street.

The Relationship Abuse Prevention Program – During their summer leadership program, teenage boys and girls created a video PSA about street harassment.

Free Spirit Media – Teenagers in this media program made a video PSA about street harassment.

These girls’ voices are strong, their willingness to use their voices to speak out on behalf of themselves and girls everywhere is inspiring.

Thanks to their work, there is a chance that the next generation of girls will not have to face street harassment and instead will be able to safely and confidently go to school, work, the park, the movies, the mall or their friend’s house. Go girls!

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“It’s drive-by harassment”

October 10, 2012 By Contributor

I get the lip licking drive-by harassment practically every time I walk around in a downtown area. This is usually from white guys who are well-dressed. Otherwise, I get the head-to-toe looking me up and down harassment. I don’t consider any of this complimentary to me, it’s harassment meant to bully & embarrass me, but it ain’t working guys, I think you just look stupid.

I’ve tried to respond with an angry look but it happens so fast they’re gone before I can respond, which is a planned part of the harassment. It’s drive-by harassment. I’ve stopped wondering why it happens but would like to know what I can do to be positive about it without having to spend a lot of my energy & time on these jerks.

– Anonymous

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Help Wanted: Talented People Who Would Like to Stop Street Harassment!

October 9, 2012 By HKearl

Stop Street Harassment is looking for several volunteers to help amplify the stories shared on the blog, spread pro-respect messaging, fund-raise for a national study on street harassment, and prepare for Meet Us On the Street: Street Harassment Awareness Week 2013.

Open positions:

1. Social media:

Can you write concise, compelling messages? Do you know how to find the humor in serious issues? Do you have spots of free time throughout the day? SSH needs 2-3 more social media volunteers to help manage the twitter, facebook, tumblr, and youtube accounts. The time commitment will be about two hours/week, generally spread across a few days, lasting at least through the end of December 2012.

Interested? Please email stopstreetharassment AT yahoo.com with a short résumé, three examples of your work (e.g. a link to your social media account), and a few sentences about why you care about ending street harassment.

2. Graphic design:

Messages spread fast online when they’re in the form of a visually interesting graphic. Are you creative and artsy? Can you create compelling, informative and entertaining graphics? Are you interested in volunteering your time and expertise to create a few graphics for the Stop Street Harassment website and social media accounts? The time commitment is flexible and can be project-based, but ideally, it would be 3-4 hours per month.

Please email stopstreetharassment AT yahoo.com with your short résumé,  three examples of your work, and a few sentences about why you care about ending street harassment.

3. Fund-raising:

Do you have experience with nonprofit fundraising and grant writing? Are you willing to volunteer a few hours of your time and share your expertise? The time commitment is flexible, but ideally would be 3-4 hours per month.

Please email stopstreetharassment AT yahoo.com with your short résumé, two examples of fundraising or grant writing experiences you’ve had, and a few sentences about why you care about ending street harassment.

4. Other:

Do you have another talent you’d be willing to volunteer your time doing to help spread awareness about street harassment? Pitch it to me, Holly Kearl, stopstreetharassment AT yahoo.com

Note: You can live anywhere and have any type of background/identity to apply. Applicants just need to be willing to share their talents and care about ending street harassment!

Deadlines: October 17, 2012

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“I’m old enough to be his mother”

October 9, 2012 By Contributor

I’m driving home and had to stop at 4-way stop sign. A man about my son’s age is crossing the street at crosswalk in front of me. I think I may have glanced at him before I took off, and that’s when I heard him say, “Hey Babe.”
I said, “Yeah right,” out my window, which was rolled down but I’m not sure if he heard me….I’m old enough to be his mother, and I was dressed like a schlub, so what did his remark really mean? It embarrassed me if anything.

– Anonymous

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