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60 men harass, grope two teenage girls in South Africa

January 4, 2012 By HKearl

2008 Mini-Skirt March in protest of groping - via Siasa Duni's blog

1/5/12 Update: “The two teenagers who were harassed and groped by a group of men near the Noord Street taxi rank last week laid charges of harassment and intimidation at the Johannesburg central police station yesterday.

“The girls said they could remember some of the men who attacked them, so we are hopeful of their prosecution. We don’t need to arrest all the men, we only need a few to make an example,” Matshidiso Mfikoe, a member of the mayoral committee for public safety, said.”

Via IOL News:

“Two teenagers were harassed and groped in public on Friday because one of them wore a miniskirt. The Sowetan newspaper reported on Tuesday that a 17-minute long clip of CCTV footage shows one girl, wearing a black miniskirt, emerging from a shop where a crowd of between 50 and 60 men had gathered. They follow her, groped her and took photos with their cellphones, the Sowetan reported.

She screamed at her tormentors and occasionally tried to punch them as they groped her. When her friend tried to help her she was also abused.

Johannesburg metro police intervened and accompanied the girl in the miniskirt home. A nearby businessman pulled the other into his shop. Metro police arrived a few minutes later and escorted her away.

Gauteng premier Nomvula Mokonyane also condemned the incident.

“We learned with a deep sense of sadness and anger about the abuse of two young women on December 30 last year, because of their clothing,” she said in a statement.

“We condemn in the strongest possible terms the animal-like behaviour of those men involved – some old enough to be the young women’s fathers – where some males went as far as groping the young women.”

Look at this similar story, via a 2008 BBC article:

“Hundreds of South African women have marched to a Johannesburg taxi rank, where a woman was sexually assaulted for wearing a miniskirt. Nwabisa Ngcukana, 25, returned to where she was allegedly attacked by a group of taxi-drivers and street hawkers, who said she was indecently dressed.

“I came here to show the guys that I’m not scared of them – to face my demons,” she told the BBC.

The taxi drivers shouted insults at the women, some of whom wore miniskirts. Some shouted that South African women were being given too many rights….

The authorities have appealed to the taxi-drivers’ association to help find those who allegedly assaulted Ms Ngcukana and other women in recent weeks.

While some South Africans have said it is against local culture for women to wear miniskirts, the National House of Traditional Leaders last week said that women often wore short skirts in traditional ceremonies.”

What chilling behavior and what scary experiences for the young women. The silver lining is the police actually reacted and intervened in the most recent incident, as did a bystander businessman. But what will happen to the harassers and gropers? Do they just get to go on their merry way, ready to harass and grope another young woman the next day? Until there are more prevention efforts and punishments in place, what will change?

And is it time for another miniskirt march?

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Street harassers throw glass bottle, grope on the metro

January 4, 2012 By Contributor

I was talking a walk down the street with a girlfriend one afternoon and a truck with two men slowed down beside us. The passenger yelled out of the window, “Hey baby! Where are you going! Want to come with us?”

We ignored the men and kept walking. After about 30 seconds from when they initially accosted us, the passenger threw a glass bottle at us from the vehicle and shouted expletives before racing away.

Another time, on the metro in DC coming home from high school, I made the mistake of dozing in my seat. I awoke gradually to the feeling of the man sitting next to me groping my leg beneath my school uniform skirt. The train was extremely crowded and I wasn’t able change seats or even move to another area of the car. I was so scared and I didn’t know what to do. He got off the train several minutes later.

– Anonymous

Location: 10th St and Pennsylvania Ave SE, Washington, DC

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First street harassment experience of the year

January 3, 2012 By Contributor

I went to London for New Year’s Eve, and it was on the Tube going back to my friend’s student accommodation that I had my first street harassment experience of the year.

It was very busy, so we were all standing up and in close quarters to each other. I had seen a man to my left but I had ignored him in favour of taking my rucksack [backpack] off and holding onto the pole in the carriage to keep myself from falling over. I heard a voice from that area saying, “Happy New Year,” repeatedly, and I gave a non committal hum before ignoring him and facing my friend.

The talking at me continued, until he felt it was perfectly acceptable to rest his head on my shoulder while the train was moving. He kept on trying to get my attention by asking which stop I was getting off at, and I kept on ignoring him, as this is my preferred method of dealing with idiots trying to harass me.

As the train pulled into the next station, he upped his technique by grabbing my upper arm and squeezing it repeatedly and saying, “Hey, hey, look at me, where are you going? Where are you getting off?”

Honestly, it scared me. It was a very packed train, but no one could hear him as he was being so quiet. My heart pounded and my grip on my bag tightened, I was ready to swing it at him if he persisted, and I turned to him and replied with

“Home. Now leave me alone.”

He opened his mouth to say more, before my friend wheeled round and told him to back off before she punched him in the face. He stopped and we left the Tube two stations early in order to avoid travelling with him further.

I spent the rest of the trip home shaken and outraged, but also frightened in case he had followed us. He hadn’t appeared drunk like so many other revelers. Things could have been very different; instead of backing off he could have followed us. Fortunately he didn’t, but you always go through the “What if?” scenarios in your head.

– Anonymous

Location: London, England

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2011 Anti-Street Harassment Successes – Part 4

December 30, 2011 By HKearl

Reflecting on the number of people and organizations that worked hard to address and end street harassment is inspiring.  This end-of-year list is longer than last year’s list, and that’s a very good thing. Given the length, it’s divided into four posts.

Post 1: Significant successes overall and 8 SSH successes.

Post 2: New anti-street harassment campaigns.

Post 3: New creative anti-street harassment initiatives.

Post 4 (this one): People who stood up to harassers and spoke out about harassment/assault on the streets.

Standing Up, Speaking Out

These are just 20 of the many courageous individuals who did not stay silent in the face of harassment or assault on the streets. They inspire me, as I hope they’ll inspire you.

1. In Egypt, many women at Tahrir Square in Egypt faced sexual harassment and sexual assault, mostly at the hands of the military police. Two high-profile journalists Lara Logan and Mona Eltahawy were among the women sexually assaulted and they both bravely spoke out about their experiences to bring attention to what women face when simply participating in political activism alongside their male peers.

2. Naama Margolese is a second-grader living in Israel who faced sexual harassment from ultra-orthodox Jewish men on her way to school. They called her a “whore” because of the clothes she wore. She’s shared her experience and how it makes her feel on international television, sparking protests and new police attention to the matter of ultra-orthodox Jewish men harassing women.

3. On the ACLU’s blog Robyn Shepherd (USA) recounted how a man whacked her butt when she was walking to work one morning. She ran after him. When she caught up to him she demanded, “You think that shit is funny? You like hitting women, huh? You think that’s the correct way to act? Whatsamatterwithyou?” and he said, “Ma’am I don’t know what you’re talking about.” She retorted with, “”You know goddamn well what I’m talking about. YOU DON’T HIT WOMEN, ASSHOLE.” Robyn ended up calling the police and four officers came to help her though he was gone by the time they arrived. At the end of her story, she notes, “I know what happened to me could have been a lot, lot worse. But someone doesn’t have to be raped to be humiliated, violated and hurt. Sometimes, all it takes is a smack on the ass.”

4. 22-year old college student Shyane DeJesus attacked, berated, and snapped a cell phone picture of a man who groped her on a subway platform in New York City (USA). A few days later she picked him out of a line-up of suspects. She advises women, “Don’t let them scare you. They’re cowards.”

5. “You got great legs baby!” a 43-year-old man told Brittney, a 15-year-old girl, as she waited for the subway on her way to school (USA). In response, she said, “Excuse me, you probably have a daughter older than me.” Unconcerned by that thought he said, “Sorry you just look so sexy in that schoolgirl outfit I couldn’t help it and you do have great legs.” Undeterred, Brittney said, “Sexual harassment is a crime, leave me alone or I will report you,” and the harasser hurried away. At the end of her story she wrote, “I count that as a win for me because I hear things like that all the time and I finally stood up for myself and said something.”

6. In Jakarta, Indonesia, a man was arrested for sexual harassment after a rubbing against another passenger in a sexual way. Another passenger witnessed it and alerted everyone on the bus and the bus driver handed the man over to the police.

7. K. Wilkins in Ontario, Canada, was locking her bike up outside a bank and witnessed three men harass two women walking near them.  She said the women looked so uncomfortable and so she took a deep breath and yelled across the street, “You, stop harassing these women.”  The harassers booed her, but the young women thanked her. She said, “I witness, hear about, and am subjected to this bullshit daily. I am speaking out!!”

8. Luis Enrique Sossa Maltese, a 39-year-old carpenter, was sentenced to four years and six months in prison for groping a 25-year-old woman near Central Park and the Plaza of Social Guarantees in San Jose, Costa Rica. The survivor of this sexual assault came forward and reported him, she said, to seek justice and the ability to to walk through the streets without fearing he will assault her again.

9. RDH in Tennessee (USA) was walking home after dark and a car started creeping behind her. The driver lowered the car window and asked if he could “hollar” at her. RDH was scared, but she still stood up to him. She asked him how he would like it if his mother or sister was walking and some random stranger came creeping up behind them. She ended up getting an apology.

10. LH in Lyon, France, advised women to give harassers “an angry look, a loud ” no!” or just a hiss; every reaction helps. They will never understand if we don’t express ourselves.”

11. After years of street harassment experiences, when a man groped Kate Spencer on a subway platform in New York City (USA), she wrote, “Without thinking I turned around and hit him as hard as I possibly could. I didn’t even stop walking, nor did I say anything. I did turn around to look at him as I hit him, and his face was one of shock but not of surprise. He knew why I had hit him; he just couldn’t believe he hadn’t gotten away with it.”

12. Noticing a group of construction workers harassing women passing by, a man in Sydney, Australia, took out his cell phone and pretended to film them with it. When the men noticed what he was doing, they scattered and stopped bothering passersby.

13. Two construction workers in the United Kingdom were suspended from work for harassing a woman walking by their work site at Fish Hill Square. After the husband of a harassed woman issued a complaint, the managing director Thomas O’Mahony said, ‘We acted within half-an-hour of being alerted to the complaint. It’s company policy to immediately suspend anyone who is made the subject of a complaint by the public. ‘We don’t tolerate wolf-whistling or any form of sexual harassment. It’s unacceptable – we are in the public eye and our image is important.”

14. Jane was tired of construction workers congregating on her street leering at women walking by. She emailed the construction company and after that the men no longer stood around on the street leering at women.

15. Anonymous in Washington, D.C. (USA), said, “Stop harassing women” to a man who was harassing every woman walking by him as he stood outside Union Station. Her directive silenced him.

16. Two male university students in Delhi, India, stopped a group of street harassers from bothering a female student simply by joining her as she was walking and chatting with her about classes. The harassers quickly left her alone once she was no longer alone and an easy target.

17. After facing lots of harassment from construction workers near her house, a woman in Sydney, Australia, wrote a letter of complaint to the development company. Two days later, when the foreman saw her, he politely let her know that he would speak to the men and that if the harassment happened again to seek him out or contact the company again.

18. Anne was at a McDonald’s in Vermont (USA) with a friend when she noticed a young man two tables over was leering at them. Then she noticed he was masturbating. She said, “Stop that right now! That is not okay!” He denied doing anything so she notified the manager on duty, and called the police.

19. Tired of dealing with street harassers, anonymous in North Carolina (USA) decided to retort back when a man sitting on a bench outside the library told her she was “So Beautiful.” She turned and looked into his eyes and told him, “You’re not.” She wrote, “Commenting on a strange woman’s physical appearance is rude and insensitive – it is ugly. I don’t care if people look at me, but no one has the right to speak to me, touch me or approach me.”

20. Allison in Massachusetts (USA) confronted a street harasser for the first time. A man said, “Smile beautiful,” as she waited for a bus. After freezing initially, she followed him and said, “Just so you know, it doesn’t make women feel good when you tell them to smile. Sometimes people have shitty days and they don’t feel like smiling. It’s offensive to just tell them to smile.”  He apologized.

 

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: Lara Logan, Mona Eltahawy, Naama Margolese, Robyn Shepherd, Shyane DeJesus, Tahrir Square

2011 Anti-Street Harassment Successes – Part 3

December 30, 2011 By HKearl

Reflecting on the number of people and organizations that worked hard to address and end street harassment is inspiring.  This end-of-year list is longer than last year’s list, and that’s a very good thing. Given the length, it’s divided into four posts.

Post 1: Significant successes overall and 8 SSH successes.

Post 2: New anti-street harassment campaigns.

Post 3 (this post): New creative anti-street harassment initiatives.

Post 4: People who stood up to harassers.

Creative Initiatives:

These are 22 of the actions that individuals or small groups of people took to creatively address street harassment.

1.  Artist Meredith Gran made a comic strip called White Winter Catcall

2. For a school assignment at University of Southern California, graduate student Lani Shotlow Rincon created an action plan and campaign to address street harassment comprehensively in the USC campus area. One component includes a “Hello My Name Is Not Hey Baby” graphic.

3. Designer Answer Ejiasi created this graphic for a design class project when she was a student at the University of Iowa.

4. The Catcaller Form was created by The Riot’s Great Big Patriarchy-Smashing Activity Book! and published on The Riot.

5. Autumn, a fourteen-year old trans woman and feminist who lives in New Jersey created an anti-street harassment flier project.

6. Niz (@NotASquib), a 21-year-old British university student studying French wrote a poem about street harassment called Simplified.

Window Sex Project performance. Shoccara Marcus: "Revealing Authentic Self"

7. Hannah Price took photos of some of her street harassers and they were included in an exhibit at the Philadelphia Museum of Art

8. Sydnie Mosely’s created The Window Sex Project, a dance performance which addresses and tackles how women are “window shopped,” or forced to hear unsolicited harassment from men in the streets. The Window Sex Project restores agency to women by celebrating their bodies in a public artwork informed by members of the Harlem community, for the Harlem community.

9. Artist Collective Seeking Kali created The Medusa Gaze Project to rage against street harassment of women. They collected stories and videos of women expressing their reproval and their determination not to be intimidated with their “Medusa Gaze.”

10. Several college students wrote op-eds on street harassment, including Brittany Patterson,“Catcalling should not be acceptable in our society,” for the Spartan Daily;  Kate Ryrie, “Street Harassment – The Daily Battle,” for The University of Leeds’ paper; and Tyler Brown, “Catcalling obnoxious, harmful to both genders,” for the Kansas State Collegian.

11. Kuber Sharma and the rest of the team at Must Bol held a flash mob on the Delhi subway in India to raise awareness about the sexual harassment that occurs there. They also created a companion “Mend the Gap” petition and “Men Who Say No” Blogathon.

12. Two Tumblrs launched to address street harassment.  How Many Women Find Street Harassment Flattering? Tumblr posts street harassment story submissions and Street Harassment Tumblr “is just a running commentary on the normal street harassment that [the author] experience day to day.”

13. Filmmaker Pascale Neuschäfer in Cape Town, South Africa, created a short film about street harassment.

14. The Safe Horizon Safe Harbor Student Leaders in New York City (USA) spoke about their right to feel safe on the streets.

15. The Migrant Workers Task Force created a video about street harassment in Beirut, Lebanon.

16. Volunteers from Initi8 at Nottingham Trent University (UK) researched, designed, scripted, filmed, directed and edited a short film about street harassment.

17. Safiya Washington and Kai Davis of the Philly Youth Poetry Movement performed their poem “Stares” in Philadelphia (USA)

18. Must bol in India is a call to young people to examine violence in their lives and speak out against it and this year they produced two anti-street harassment videos. 1 | 2

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19. Kara Lieff, a sophomore studying Film & Media Arts and Women’s Studies at Temple University (USA), created a PSA about street harassment for a class project.

20. High school students at the Little Red School House & Elisabeth Irwin High School (LREI) in New York City, created video PSA about street harassment.

21. Funny-lady Lucé Tomlin-Brenner does a great comedy set on street harassment in New York City (USA).

22. Washington, DC-based (USA) writer Soraya Chemlay created a 2-minute cartoon about street harassment.

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