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“I felt so helpless and uncomfortable”

July 10, 2017 By Contributor

I was eating a donut by the window of a donut shop, and a guy stopped in front of me, pointed to me, pointed to his mouth, pointed to his crotch, and showed me a ten dollar bill. I had no idea what to do, so I just tried to avoid looking at him, but he wouldn’t go away. Luckily, there was a person next to me who shook his head no. I felt so helpless and uncomfortable.

– EK

Location: Buckeye Donuts in Columbus, OH, USA

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“He said things like we were cute and he had secret games”

July 7, 2017 By Contributor

Wow, I was 10 and was at the park. I was playing with a friend and the park seemed empty so we were climbing on the monkey bars and sliding down the slides. I had a sun dress on and my friend had on shorts. Anyway like I said we didn’t see anyone around or I wouldn’t have been climbing around in a dress. We were hanging upside down on the monkey bar when I heard his voice. He said, “Hi” and “Are you girls wanting some fun?”

I freaked and attempted to keep my dress pushed up covering my panties as I was stuck in front of him hanging on the monkey bars. My friend who was 12 climbed down and held my dress in place as I got down from the hanging position. He kept talking and we started to walk away. He said things like we were cute and he had secret games. We left and were afraid to come back to the park all summer.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Not sure as a girl it has happened a few times. Guess people just need to stay aware. People say it doesn’t hurt anyone but if freaked me out.

– HY

Location: Oblong Illinois City Park

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Brazil: Female solidarity and cyberfeminism: collectivist measures against street harassment

July 4, 2017 By Correspondent

Yasmin Curzi, Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, SSH Blog Correspondent

In philosophy, the concept of “disrespect” describes situations of injustices that marginalized groups and minorities suffer in a society. In my thesis “My name isn’t pssst!”: Street harassment and feminisms’ struggle towards legal recognition”[1], I explain that street harassment, itself, expresses disrespect in two different ways:

  1. As a form of legal disrespect because it deprives women from exercising fundamental rights – basically, freedom, in its many forms, and equality in the uses of the city.
  2. As a form of social disrespect because it devaluates women socially, inhibiting the full development of their self-esteem, provoking trauma, stress, feelings of self-depreciation, anger and disgust of their own bodies, as several investigations[2] pointed out.

As Axel Honneth says in “The struggle for recognition” (1992), experiences of disrespect fuel social movements. It drives them to engage in fights to put an end to these situations of injustice. In brief, what Honneth says is that what makes individuals commit to the same cause is sharing the same situations of disrespect. In other words, disrespect generates negative emotional reactions that, in turn, when shared by others, provokes the union of these individuals in order to combat it. This bond that emerges from experiencing situations of similar sufferings can be defined as “solidarity”.

“Solidarity” expresses the true interest in the well-being of another individual. It evokes fights for a social coexistence free of experiences of injustice, that is to say, not troubled by disrespect. Thus, sharing stories and personal narratives are fundamental to identify others with the same suffering or even to raise consciousness of an interaction as a form of violence.

Social media platforms have provided a revolution in the feminist movements by creating new spaces where collective action can be organized and information can be shared. With social networks as their main tool, women began to articulate what was conceptualized as cyberfeminism by Donna Haraway in the book “The Cyborg Manifesto” in 1985.

As Holly Kearl[3] shows, significantly, these new spaces have served to mobilize women’s activism to cope with street harassment – especially by allowing the realization of surveys and by creating the possibility to women of sharing their narratives, in various parts of the globe, that are otherwise made invisible.

Also, in Brazil, in face of the scenario of structural inequality and absence of public policy for women[4], some important initiatives have been developed in the scope of civil society.

There is the campaign “Fiu Fiu Enough” (“Chega de Fiu Fiu”) of the NGO Think Olga and the movement “Women go together” (“Vamos juntas?”). The NGO Think Olga is now producing a documentary, with crowdfunding resources, that intends to expand the debate over sexual harassment in public places. The second action was idealized by the journalist Babi Souza, from Porto Alegre city, and it’s a call to women to get united with other women (strangers or not), when they’re alone in the streets. Also, there’s multiple groups in Facebook where women can arrange to go together to the same place or direction. In a partnership with “99 Taxis” (a taxi ordering app), this organization promoted workshops of non-sexist behaviors directed to the taxi-drivers associated with the app.

A third action, idealized in 2015 by the student Catharina Doria, is the app “Back Off!” (“Sai Pra Lá!”). It enables women to record where and when they were harassed and what was done to them. The purpose is to create a “harassmap” in order to alert which are risky places and also to pressure the public to assume the responsibility of assuring women’s safety.

Cyberfeminism has been, therefore, fundamental to the confrontation of street harassment as it enables resistance actions, led by women. But collectivist measures, in the scope of civil society, can’t be addressed, by material reasons, to the whole country. There should be no opposition to collectivist measures in the civil society scope, and in the elaboration of public policy toward women’s rights. Public authorities should, instead, be working along with these organized groups in order to eradicate violence against women.

Endnotes:

[1] To be published in the next year.

[2] GARDNER, Carol. Passing by: gender and public harassment, 1980. Also BOWMAN, C. Street Harassment and the Informal Ghettoization of Women, 1993.

[3]         KEARL Holly. Stop Global Street Harassment: Growing Activism Around the World, 2015.

[4]         See my first article for the SSH Blog: https://stopstreetharassment.org/2017/05/public-policy-women/

Yasmin is a Research Assistant at the Center for Research on Law and Economics at FGV-Rio. She has a BA in Social Sciences from FGV-Rio and a Master Degree in Social Sciences from PUC-Rio, where she wrote her thesis on street harassment and feminists’ struggles for recognition.

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End of June News Round-Up

July 1, 2017 By HKearl

Here are highlights of other news from around the world this month:

“My body doesn’t belong to you“

“9 types of street harassment you’ve probably experienced if you’re a woman”

“12 moms share gross stories of getting catcalled while with their kids”

Global: What it’s like to cycle as a woman in various parts of the world.

A new study in the MENA region reveals WHY men street harasser! (Many report doing it “for fun!”)

A Canadian man who secretly took hundreds of photos of women’s body parts was caught and charged.

A surgeon in Colombia helps women who have experienced acid attacks at the hands of street harassers or loved ones.

A new study of boys in Mumbai (India) shows they think “good girls” don’t experience street harassment.

In India, a female brigade helps women catch their harassers.

Street harassers in Indonesia.

A new cartoon character in Japan demonstrates how to report sexual harassment.

Street harassment became a crime in Rotterdam, the Netherlands.

A Turkish man assaulted a woman for wearing shorts during Ramadan, but he was set free after saying she “provoked” him.

A high percentage of women patrons of bars in Missoula, Montana (USA) experience harassment.

After a mid-run attack, this woman is using her story and voice to help others. (USA)

 

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National Speech & Debate Tournament Piece on Street Harassment

June 30, 2017 By HKearl

Congratulations to Emma Warnecke who won 3rd place in the National Speech & Debate Tournament for a piece on street harassment, specifically harassment on public transit! She won 5th place nationally last year for another piece on street harassment and in it, she incorporated excerpts from my street harassment books! Cool.

Way to bring national attention to this important topic, Emma!

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