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A social experiment

May 13, 2011 By HKearl

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Today I received a powerful email from a regular Stop Street Harassment reader and she agreed to let me post it:

“I loved today’s posting on the website detailing exactly how and why street harassment limits women’s peace of mind and restricts their freedom.

I am CONSTANTLY trying to explain to people (admittedly, mostly males) exactly why it’s not just a matter of passing, inappropriate comments that we should just ignore or let roll off our backs.  So many people don’t seem to understand that the effects of street harassment are multiple, permeate many layers of a woman’s psyche, make her uncomfortable enough (for a variety of reasons) to change her lifestyle and live in a constant state of mild discomfort.

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Are the D.C. Streets Safe for Women at Night?

May 12, 2011 By HKearl

[Note, this is cross-posted with permission from AAUW Dialog. Learn how you can conduct a community safety audit.]

To mark the first International Anti-Street Harassment Day, I took part in the Washington, D.C., Community Safety Audit on March 20. Then just last week on May 5, I stepped in as a team leader to conduct another survey of the same neighborhood at night.

350z33 at en.wikipediaMy experiences during this audit were somewhat similar to those I wrote about during the March daytime audit. There were fewer families, some dark places where streetlights could be added for safety, and more escalators working in the Metro station (kudos, Metro!), but generally, the route seemed pretty safe. There was some speculation among my group that we would see more rowdiness, possibly even more harassment, since the audit happened to be the evening of Cinco de Mayo, a popular night to spend at the bars. Fortunately, no one on my team saw any questionable behavior.

I wonder if our experiences in this area would have been any different if we had chosen to go off the beaten path to some side streets. Or would we have had different experiences if we had looked less conspicuous with our clipboards and note-taking? Or perhaps we were there at the “right” time that night to not see any street harassment or unsafe activity. We did see some police officers — perhaps their presence on the street deterred harassing behavior.

I had an interesting audit group: I had one of the few men taking part in the nighttime safety audit on my team, and I had some age diversity, too. Before we got started, I was talking briefly about street harassment and what we’d be doing on the audit, and one of the older women on my team mentioned that it had been a long time since she had been catcalled on the street. That comment caught me off guard, because I am so accustomed to street harassment. It made me curious to know what women of all ages were feeling about the possibility of being street harassed and what their perceptions of harassment would be.

I look forward to hearing about the experiences and recommendations of the teams from the other wards. Together, we can continue to improve the safety and accessibility of D.C.’s public spaces.

This blog will be cross posted at Gender across Borders.

– By Katherine Broendel

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Website Re-launch!

May 11, 2011 By HKearl

This month is the three year anniversary of Stop Street Harassment and commemorate it, I’m excited to announce the launch of the redesigned Stop Street Harassment website + blog + logo! Since the old site and the old blog are redirecting to the new site, so you’re on it now 🙂 Please update your bookmarks accordingly.

I’m still ironing out a few kinks (and let me know if you see broken links), but overall, I’m thrilled by the upgrade and I’m relieved to be done after four months of work!

I hope you’ll take a look around and explore what the new site has to offer. Some of my favorite parts include:

* Snazzy new homepage features

* Graphs for the street harassment statistics

* Statistics illustrating how street harassment is an issue of equality & why it needs to end

* Examples of success stories people have shared regarding responding to or reporting harassers (see the links on the right sidebar or click within each section first)

* More and better illustrated ideas for taking individual action and community action to end street harassment

* A more engaging male allies section

* A Stop Street Harassment store! (I already ordered myself a mousepad, mug, and button)

Please keep sharing your stories for the blog and for the google map to help track and illustrate this pervasive problem.

What do you think?

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“I’m pretty positive he did it on purpose.”

May 10, 2011 By Contributor

This morning I stopped by the post office to mail a number of post cards to California state legislators for a nonprofit I volunteer with. As I was putting the stamps on the post cards (there were a lot of them, so I was standing at the counter for a while), a man brushed up against me and his hand rubbed against my ass.

At first I shrugged it off because I figured he was just trying to squeeze by me, but when I turned around I realized there was a good 4 feet of space between the counter where I was standing and the wall behind it that he could have easily walked through… so now I’m pretty positive he did it on purpose.

I was angry, but also frustrated that the way he did it was sneaky enough to make me doubt myself and hesitate, so he was gone before I was able to confront him.

– Sara

Location: Santa Cruz, CA

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What’s being done about street harassment in Belfast?

May 9, 2011 By Contributor

I was walking homeward along a busy road (end of the day, commuters were returning home) just round the corner from my house when my shopping trolley malfunctioned. As I stopped and turned to examine it, I heard a loud roar from a car next to me – it actually sounded exactly like a dog, so when I looked up and saw that it was a man hanging out of the car window doing the roaring, I was really shocked.

It happened very fast, and the traffic column was both moving his car away from me and obscuring his number plate, so I just walked on, not realising how upset I was until I turned into my street and my way was briefly obstructed (not that they did it purposely) by election canvassers. They were for the party I support and when I saw one who was female and about my age I stopped her and asked about the party’s policy on fighting street harassment.

I got very upset at that point; it all just hit me. She was really great, and I ended up talking to her and her older female colleague for ages – I explained how my partner and I had been violently assaulted in our street a year ago and that incidents like the one with the guy in the car brought it back. We talked quite a bit about crime victims’ experiences with the policing and justice system (ours had been bad), about local crime etc., and while I was very shaken by what happened, I felt glad that I’d raised the issue with them and it’s made me think about ways there might be of bringing people together locally to highlight the issue of street harassment and the fact that it shouldn’t be tolerated.

– Anonymous

Location: Belfast, Northern Ireland

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