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Masturbators on NYC subway, lewd commenters on buses in Chennai

November 11, 2010 By HKearl

In two weeks I’ll be presenting on the harassment of women on public transportation at the 3rd International Conference on Women’s Safety in India (and today I’m in Denver at the National Women’s Studies Association Conference to present on making campuses safer).

Harassment on public transportation is a HUGE problem, as shown by countless stories and news stories on here over the years, and today, by two of the stories that came through in my google alert for “sexual harassment.”

In the first, New York Times reporter Karen Zraick wrote about her experiences with men masturbating at her on the subways of New York and she said she didn’t report any of those instances. She has opened up the thread asking readers, “Have you encountered unwanted harassment, groping or flashing? How have you dealt with it?”

It’s a big deal that she shared her stories when so many women feel silenced and that she used her powerful New York Times platform to put this issue out there into public discourse in a way that, say, my blog cannot. Certainly go over there and share your stories and show the general public how many women deal with this!

And I also wanted to note a story from The Times of India. Harassment of women on buses is a big deal throughout India and this article focuses on the problem in Chennai. Police and transit authorities have identified seven bus routes that many women take as the ones where the harassment is the worse. In response, they are sending out undercover police officers to the bus stops and on the bus lines to help crack down on it.Via The Times of India:

“Men of all ages indulge in harassment of women. Some are teenagers, others elderly men. It is a daily ordeal,” said Radhika Kumar, a college student who travels by 29 C. She said MTC should have its own force to deal with such people.

Since such incidents happen in crowded buses, many women said that plying more buses on the identified routes would help. “Route 27H needs many more buses as hundreds of working women and college students take this route,” said Prathibha Francis, a college lecturer.

The police will deploy more personnel at bus stops on these routes, including personnel in plainclothes. “Once the MTC gives us details of the routes, we will deploy more personnel,” said Shakeel Akhter, additional commissioner of police (law and order).

In other places in India, authorities have resorted to creating women-only buses, trains, or even lines for buses, so this is an interesting, new tactic. I hope that penalties for harassment will help prevent it.

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Filed Under: News stories, street harassment Tagged With: chennai, karen zraick, sexual harassment MTc, street harassment

“Some guy said he would let me fart in his mouth and hold it in until I told him to let it out”

November 10, 2010 By Contributor

I’m glad I found this site. I feel more in control knowing there are actions I can take instead of feeling angry and helpless.

A few days prior, this was my story.

When stepping off the trolley, before my foot even hit the pavement, “Bitch nice glasses” was hollered at me. I was caught off guard and didn’t say anything, but am sure I made an angry, uncomfortable face.

When he didn’t get the response he was looking for he attempted to demand my attention by yelling, “Anyone ever do this to you?” and licked in between his fingers, motioning that he was going down on a woman. I hate that gesture, when has that ever been sexy? It’s gross and infuriates me. I flicked him off, told him he was rude and to f* off. Then he calls me a cunt cause I wasn’t excited about it. I apologized to a mother and child for swearing in front of them and the dude started at it again.

I was so angry, I called him an ignorant pig, shook my textbook at him and said I should beat him with it. He then dropped his pants and smacked his bare ass as he walked away. It made me so mad I cried in the bus stop. It happens so fast. I’m glad he left when he did.

His intention was to get a rise out of me and he was successful. The only thing worse than that feeling, is knowing the other person is getting away with it and will do it again. I’m glad to now know strategies to detour that behavior.

This isn’t the first time. I’ve been followed for blocks, crossed the street only for them to cross with me. I’ve been told my tattoo on my chest is “begging for his head to be shoved between my tits.”

“Does the carpet match the drapes?” & “Can I get your number?” are common introduction sentences.

I’ve been told all the dirty things someone would want to do to me while in a gas station. Some guy said he would let me fart in his mouth and hold it in until I told him to let it out. I didn’t even know people did that. Another guy asked me, “What I could do with 9 inches.”

Seriously? That is not something you ask/tell a stranger. It is disrespectful, disgusting and made me feel 100% uncomfortable.

I don’t dress provocatively, I rarely wear makeup. I am a 5’9″ nerd. Not someone “begging for it” (sarcasm, an outfit does not justify harassment). People would say I am nice. I’m not one to yell fuck you at a bus stop, but there I was doing it.

For someone to make another human being feel this uncomfortable and unsafe, only because they are different, is immoral.

– Anonymous

Location: Cleveland, OH

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: disrespectful behavior, sexism, sexual harassment, street harassment

“As soon as they saw me they started making sexual comments”

November 8, 2010 By Contributor

This is a story i want to share which happened a while ago. I was at my house waiting for my boyfriend to come around. When i looked out of my window to see if he was walking up the road, i did see him – being hassled by a group of lads. I quickly ran to the door to see what the commotion was and ready to defend my man.

When i stood by the door, i could hear the boys teasing him and asking him if he would do this ‘beat box’ sound. Now you’re probably wondering what i mean by that. The beat box is like a beating noise rappers do, pretty difficult to explain really. Me and my boyfriend had been harassed before over it. Anyway, i yelled at the idiots to leave him alone as my boyfriend came up my path.

As soon as they saw me (a woman) of course they started making sexual comments to me and laughing together. I was furious. I told them to fuck off while my boyfriend threatened to call the police and slammed the door. We didn’t call the cops in the end because they left but i was mad. It ruined my night.

– Clarice

Location: Wales, UK

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: public harassment, sexual harassment, sexual intimidation

Weekly Round Up: November 7, 2010

November 7, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

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  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: new stories from people in New York City and two in California
  • HollaBack DC!: 5 new stories
  • HollaBack LDN: 2 new stories
  • HollaBack NYC: 4 new stories
  • HollaBack San Jose: 1 new story

In the News, On the Blogs:

    Protesters, Image via BBC
  • CNN, “Why is sexual harassment in Egypt so rampant?“
  • BBC, “Bangladesh ‘Eve Teasing’ protest draws students“
  • MSNBC, “NYC considers lewd behavior ban“
  • The Carolinian, “Street harassment and catcalling an unnoticed problem ingrained in society“
  • Times & Transcript, “On-street harassment is a form of bullying“
  • The Daily Campus (UConn), “Editorial: Anti-street assault education beneficial“
  • Global Tolerance, “I am tole-ranting about … street harassment“
  • Columbia Spectator, “Stop the catcalls“
  • HollaBack DC!, “When street harassment leads to murder“
  • F to the third power, “The Start of a New New York: Street Harassment Must End“
  • Feministing, “RightRides Needs Your Support“
  • The Sangfroid, “Stop Street Harassment“
  • Dash of Reality, “Street harassment is NOT a rite of passage“

Announcements:

  • Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers
  • Have an iPhone? Download a new iPhone app that lets you report street harassers!
  • Take a street harassment survey for a Toronto-based group working to address this problem with an iPhone app
  • Via Change.org: Tell New York City Council to Fund Anti-Street Harassment Advocacy & Services
  • View/read testimonies from most of the people who testified last week at the first-ever city council hearing on street harassment in NYC

Upcoming Events:

  • Nov. 8: RightRides fundraiser – whiskey tasting, 6 p.m., NYC
  • Nov. 8: Everyday Sexism talk at Oxford Gender Equity Festival (Vicky Simister from the UK Anti-Street Harassment Campaign is speaking), 7 p.m., Oxford, UK
  • Nov. 9: Rally to take rape seriously, noon, NYC
  • Nov. 11: I’m co-presenting with SAFER about making campuses safer for everyone at the National Women’s Studies Association Conference, 10:45 a.m., Denver, CO
  • Nov. 13: Stop Street Harassment book signing at the National Women’s Studies Association Conference, 12:15 p.m., Denver, CO,
  • Nov. 14: Intro to self defense with Defend Yourself (ages 16+), 1:30 p.m., Bethesda, MD

10 Tweets from the Week:

  • harassmap G’Morning! if u experienced sexual harassment today on your way to work, school or university, report the incident on http://harassmap.org/
  • ricafrankel ‘Catcall’ I just got: “You’re pretty. You Jewish? Your nose is huuuuge.”
  • meredithnudo As much as I love living in @downtownhouston, there is a SERIOUS #streetharassment problem here. It makes running errands uncomfortable.
  • lorriehearts On my way home from leaf-stomping. Some street harassment from the bin men threatened to ruin my walk, but no, let http://twitpic.com/341jd2
  • BLANK_NOISE hurray to #tokyo #actionheroes !!! http://twitpic.com/33u6bg
  • fleuredeflorida Excited I got through to the @kaneshow during their catcall segment so I could give a shoutout to @hollabackdc
  • MONTAakaQUEEN Never can understand… when walking down the street why do men harass women???
  • BatfishLD Apparently it’s “catcall a white girl on Mission” day. In other news, there’s a lot of new graffiti in the hood!
  • newsaboutwomen: Anti-street harassment campaign HollaBack reaches Israel – http://ow.ly/1rn6w1 // (follow them, @hollaback_il)
  • RedFeminist @Mmmeg The majority do not have good intentions. Women’s bodies are not public property. Men need to realize that we won’t put up with it.
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Filed Under: Events, hollaback, News stories, street harassment Tagged With: eve teasing, HarassMap, hollaback, sexual harassment, street harassment

“Lift those legs soldier. What sexy legs you have.”

November 6, 2010 By Contributor

[Editor’s Note: While most stories on this blog are from women, occasionally I post ones from men. One of my high school cross country and track teammates – who is a big supporter of my street harassment work – sent me this story via email this week and he gave me permission to post it.  No one should have to be subjected to or have to put up with unwanted sexualized comments and harassment from strangers!]

I was running in my neighborhood today around 5:30; I got stuck at a stop light for about 30 seconds and there was an old lady with what appeared to be her daughter at the light. As I was approaching the light, I hear her say: “Raise those legs soldier.” Then I stop at the light and try to move as far away from her as possible at the corner, that’s when she says, “You have sexy legs. those are wonderful thighs.” As soon as the light turns, I take off.  On my way home, she is about a block from where I saw her, just sitting blocking the entire sidewalk.  I run into the street about 200 feet before her. As I pass, once again “Lift those legs soldier. what sexy legs you have.”

I felt uncomfortable; as I always do when I get harassed while running.  I’ve had whistles from guys and girls–typically the guys are latino construction workers in their cars and the girls are high school age in their cars–I assume most of the whistling is a mocking whistle and never appreciate it.

When I was stopped at the light, I tried to avoid eye-contact and keep some distance.  Just thinking in my mind when is this light going to turn.  On the way back, I was frustrated to see her again–as soon as I saw her from over 100 yards away I was already dreading running by her again.

In the past I have changed my running habits to try to avoid this as much as possible and even sometimes discouraged from running at all.  This sucks that this was on one of my major running loops–from new apartment there isn’t too much to change; I already modified the course to avoid the liquor store and two medicinal marijuana dispensaries where the homeless have harassed me.

– JR

Location: West Los Angeles, CA

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: raise those legs soldier, sexual harassment, sexy legs, street harassment

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