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I Was 12

April 14, 2015 By Contributor

Guest Blog Post for International Anti-Street Harassment Week 2015

“Hey baby,” leered the greasy man on the public street in broad daylight

I am 12

Why is no one stopping him?

I walk

“I’m talking to you, bitch” he progressed

There are people around

I am 12

I walk, feeling his gaze imagining what’s underneath my clothing

Six and a half out of ten and I am one of them

I am 12

I faced my first harasser

I felt his gaze linger

I felt the sweat droplets roll down my face. It was hot. It was summer.

I was taught to dress modest though it is 100 degrees

I am 12

I am being sexualized

I am being called a slut and a whore and a cunt for ignoring these greasy men

I am “asking for this attention” and this “attention is a compliment” and “how are men supposed to meet women if they can’t yell obscenities at them from the street?”

How is a 12 year old supposed to walk down a street alone?

Why am I expected to carry pepper spray with me at 12?

Why was it that I got pepper spray for Christmas when I was 15?

Why do I have to change my habits to accommodate these grown greasy men?

Why is this happening to 11 and 12 and 13 and 25 year olds?

Why is it that our walk has to be commented on?

Why is our body being treated like a public display?

Why are girls constantly sexualized unwillingly?

What is appealing about lack of consent?

Why am I being sexualized at 12?

“Hey baby” is a phrase that haunts many women

“Hey baby” perpetuates the culture that shames women’s natural bodies while simultaneously sexualizing them

“Hey baby” has been said to roughly 65% of women

“Hey baby” is not my name

I was 12

I am 17 and I’ve been harassed ever since.

 

Chloe Parker, from @rebel.grrrl

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Filed Under: anti-street harassment week, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: @rebel.grrrl, #EndSHWeek, adolescent, EndSH, harassment, poem, slam poetry, teenage

Egypt: Year One, HarassMap Report

November 27, 2012 By Contributor

I grew up in Cairo learning how to strategize my life to avoid sexual harassment. I would make sure to run my errands during a football match when men and boys in the neighborhood are busy watching, not before or after. I knew which routes to take to school, and that I can only go to cafes to meet my friends, but never to public parks.

I always took sexual harassment as a fact of life that I need to deal with. It never struck me as a plaguing problem until, as a 25-year old professional, I realized that I spend a significant portion of my income on a “precaution budget” against sexual harassment. For example, I had to go out at expensive restaurants but not the more affordable “men-only” cafes or free public parks, and I had to resort to private taxi rides over public buses. I even turned down jobs because they had no accessible parking, which will take me back to the dreadful public bus. And even with all these precautions, I was still harassed in the few minutes that I have to walk every day between my parked car and any building.

I felt very lonely in this shameful experience. But when I talked to one friend after another, I found that it happened to every other woman I know, and that it was not my fault. So I decided that the first step in building up resistance against this shameful behavior, is to create awareness, and tell other women that it is not their fault, and they should not let sexual harassment go unpunished.

Through common friends, I met Rebecca, Engy, and Amel, and we established Harassmap: an open online mapping tool to end the social tolerance of sexual harassment. We help victims, like us, speak out and access support services, and contribute to changing the environment in our streets to no longer tolerate harassers. Our initiative has three prongs: online crowdsourcing of harassment reports, offline street campaigns in target locations, and referral to psychological/legal support services.

Our first year of work was a learning experience for us first and foremost. The reports we received on our portal (540 in the first year) showed that there is no typical harasser or victim. The demographic features of the former ranged across teenagers, university professors, medical doctors –and children in 83 cases; whereas the victims were young and old, women and men, veiled, face-veiled and not.

This insight was a strong foundation for our offline campaigns. It was important to feel confident as we debunked the justifications of harassers to violate women’s safety as such. “Look how she’s dressed”, “It’s her fault for going out so late”, “men are sexually frustrated” are all too common excuses. Conversely, knee-jerk condemnation or patronizing media discourse were evidently ineffective, we had to speak grassroots language and immerse within the grassroots. Now, more than 500 HarassMap volunteers go out once per month to ask shop owners, police, doormen and others with a presence in the street to send the message: harassment will not be tolerated!

In 2012-2013 we are working on strengthening our efforts on the ground. Public order enforcement by community figures (mainly doormen) is very evident in Egypt and it is important to win it on our side. Therefore we aim to strengthen community outreach teams to become more independent as they interact with respective communities. On the other hand, we hope to expand our intervention beyond street harassment, to include workplace, school and university. Finally, we are encouraging the Egyptian police to work together and use our reporting system to target enforcement areas.

Sawsan Gad is a GIS Analyst and the co-founder of HarassMap.

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews Tagged With: Egypt, EndSH, HarassMap, sawsan gad, sexual harassment, street harassment

Patrols Against Harassment in Egypt

August 22, 2012 By HKearl

Harassers Via Egypt Independent

Eid-ul-Fitr, or Eid, is the holiday at the end of the Islamic holy month of Ramadan and in Egypt, it’s sadly become synonymous with sexual harassment.

This year, there have been volunteers organized by the Imprint Movement patrolling the streets and subway stations, watching out for harassers. They’ve helped police arrest several harassers each day.

The Egypt Independent reported on the problem and published numerous photos of harassers and harassment.

“The sexual harassment wave continued in Downtown Cairo and other places during Eid. This comes as government officials and activists have asked for clear solutions to the problem that continues to be one of Egypt’s overwhelming distress.

Several anti-harassment campaigns collecting reports said that the highest numbers of cases were reported near Maspero, Talaat Harb Street. 26 July Street, the Sadat, Ataba and Shuhada metro stations and the neighborhoods of Mohandiseen, Moqattam, Heliopolis and Nasr City.”

Via the Imprint Movement

Nihal Zaghloul ‏(@NihalSaad) is one of the main organizers and wrote about what happened  (Day 1 | Day 2 | Day 3).

“I am personally happy about it and we are looking into organizing more patrols but we still dont know when. Those patrols are not the solution for harassment it is a pain killer as a result we must try to find that solution. I am still unsure of what is a grass root solution but for now i think filing reports and having them pay fines will perhaps make the harassment less.

I urge every girl who got harassed to file a report and not to leave it or ignore, it is OUR RIGHT as women to walk in the streets safely and NO ONE will give us this right we must take it ourselves.”

Visit the event Facebook page to see an album of the patrollers in action.

While there have been campaigns against harassment before over Eid, I like that this one was offline, in the streets, and visibly showed that harassment is not okay and that there are a lot of people willing to volunteer their time to try to stop it.

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June 13 #EndSH Day

June 13, 2012 By HKearl

Join the day of online action against street harassment and sexual harassment, organized by activists in Egypt. If you’re on twitter, follow and/or use the hashtag #EndSH to see the conversation and help bring attention to this issue. Blog, write Facebook updates.

Egypt Independent is tracking the online conversation live on their blog.

USA Today published a great article today about anti-street harassment activism in Egypt, Lebanon, Yemen, and Saudi Arabia. I even get a quote in there.

“In Yemen, where most women are fully covered from head to toe, harassment can be just as likely as in Lebanon, where it is not unusual to see women wearing skin-revealing clothing. This has prompted initiatives in both countries, such as the Safe Streets Campaign in Yemen, which maps reports of harassment.

“As a woman in Yemen, harassment is almost a given on the streets and on public transportation. It doesn’t matter how you dress or behave — simply being a woman is reason enough to be targeted,” said Sara Ishaq, a Yemeni filmmaker.

Nawal Saadawi, an Egyptian feminist author once jailed for writings that include criticisms of Islamic customs regarding women, said the Arab Spring has handed women an opportunity.

“Women are taking part in all the revolutions because they want to change patriarchy, to change history and to change the whole system,” she said.

In May, a woman in Saudi Arabia challenged police who tried to throw her out of a shopping mall for wearing nail polish. “It’s none of your business,” she yelled in a confrontation filmed by camera phone and posted on YouTube. The video was viewed 1 million times in a few days.

By fighting back, women in the region hope that they not only can walk free from harassment but that such a change will usher in more rights and opportunities.

“I get sexually harassed because it’s an issue of power,” said Hobeissi of Nasawiya in Lebanon, “but women in leadership positions will transform how society perceives women in general.”

And there’s a new bystander video about what men can say to men who harass women on the streets, via HarassMap in Egypt:

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Egyptian Women Refuse to be Silent

June 11, 2012 By HKearl

I’m cross-posting an article I wrote for Ms. Magazine’s Blog.

Violence against women demonstrators in Egypt erupted again on Tuesday when a frenzied mob of 200 men sexually assaulted a female protester in Tahrir Square. Then, during a rally on Friday to protest the incident, about 50 women and their male allies were themselves brutalized and chased away by another mob.

Journalist Ghazala Irshad, who was on the scene Friday, says that just as the small anti-harassment protest was gathering steam, the atmosphere shifted. “A few guys were like, ‘Why are you talking about this, there are more important issues to talk about?’ [Then] some guys started saying the women protesting were whores.”

Next, a phalanx of outside men overwhelmed the protective circle of male allies and cornered and groped the women. Rally organizer Sally Zohney says, “[The violence] started with individual cases of assaults against women in the march [and] then turned into beating and chasing everyone involved. Even men were badly beaten and attacked. It was very brutal.”

Participants were forced to flee for their safety.

Sadly, the violent scene is just the latest of many. Since the military took power last February, countless women–including journalists Lara Logan, Mona Eltahawy and Caroline Sinz, Egyptian actor Sherihan and the “woman in the blue bra“–have been groped and sexually assaulted by men in Tahrir Square. Hundreds, perhaps thousands, of other women have experienced verbal sexual harassment in a place that is supposed to symbolize freedom.

The lack of safety for women in the square symbolizes, instead, just how little women have benefited from the revolution they helped create. While pre-revolutionary Egypt was notorious for street harassment–a 2008 study by the Egyptian Centre for Women’s Rights (ECWR) found that over 80 percent of Egyptian women had experienced it–the 18-day uprising in January and February 2011 was an unprecedented moment in which women could move freely in public space. Women seized the chance to become key players in the protests. “In 3 weeks of revolution we experienced no sexual harassment by men,” one woman told the Israeli paper Haaretz. “What civilization emerged! What culture!”

But that swiftly changed. Marchers in an International International Women’s Day 2011 demonstration in Tahrir Square were violently attacked. Months of assaults on women protesters followed. Some of the perpetrators have worn civilian clothes; others have been uniformed military police. During the violent government crackdown on pro-democracy protests this fall, which claimed more than 80 lives, over 100 women report being subjected to invasive “virginity tests” by the military.

Zohney believes that the attacks are systematic and fueled by unknown organized groups–whether by the military regime or others, she isn’t certain. She sees them as an attempt to discourage protests by intimidating revolutionaries and painting them in a bad light. Many of her friends have been attacked. Yet, she says, no serious security measures have been taken to stop the assaults. As a result, many women have avoided Tahrir Square, losing the opportunity to be full participants in the political process.

On the other hand, some women have spoken out against the violence. Logan, Eltahawy and others told their stories to the media. Women regularly share their harassment stories online. But, unfortunately, as on Friday, they, too, experience backlash and harassment.

If broad attempts to curb harassment in Egypt succeed, Tahrir Square may become safer for women protesters. Rebecca Ciao, a co-founder of Egyptian safe-streets organization HarassMap, says her group plans to continue conducting community outreach, spotlighting stories of harassment and allowing people to easily report incidents on an online map. Groups such as HarassMap, ECWR and the United Nations’ Safe Cities Programme have long spearheaded anti-harassment actions such as online story sharing, community safety audits, meetings, rallies, radio ads and, last month, a human chain against street harassment.

The attacks on women are also sparking anger among regular citizens. The “woman in the blue bra” became a national martyr, drawing thousands to march in solidarity in December.

No matter how many attacks they face, these brave women and men plan to speak out. Zohney and others are planning a multipronged response to Friday’s attacks that will include a larger, more organized march, as well as online testimonials by Friday’s victims and calls for more security in Tahrir Square. Activist Leil Zahra Mortada wrote in a Facebook post accompanying a photo album from the Friday march:

No matter how deep the wounds are, no matter how many times we get attacked or will be attacked, this will not stop nor silence us. More actions are planned, more noise will be made, and more proactive steps will be taken. We will see the end of sexual harassment and assault, both state-organized and individual! We will take down patriarchy, sexism and every form of violence based on gender or sexuality!

Brava. It is clear Egypt’s revolution will be incomplete until women win the streets.

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Filed Under: News stories, street harassment Tagged With: Egypt, EndSH, sexual assault, sexual violence, street harassment, Tahrir Square

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