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Participate in “Got Stared At”

January 26, 2012 By HKearl

Myth: Street harassment happens because of how we dress.

Truth: No it doesn’t. Street harassment happens to people wearing school uniforms, business suits, workout clothes, hijabs, winter coats, rain coats, saris, summer dresses, and jeans. Street harassment is about power and abuse of power, inconsiderateness, the performance of unhealthy definitions of masculinity, sexism, and sometimes it’s also about homophobia, transphobia, racism, classism, ablism and more.

Action: To help combat the myth that street harassment happens because of how we dress, the amazing activist group Must Bol, based in Delhi, India,  launched a website called “Got Stared At” for International Anti-Street Harassment Week.

They’re inviting people ANYWHERE who’ve been harassed in public to submit a photo of the clothing they were wearing when it happened. You can include a story about what happened or just send the photo.

So….what were you wearing when you got stared at or street harassed?

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Filed Under: anti-street harassment week Tagged With: eve teasing, got stared at, must bol, sexual harassment, stared, street harassment

Freeze the Tease!

October 1, 2011 By HKearl

India is a-buzz with anti-eve teasing (street harassment) activities, especially on college campuses. One of the most recent initiatives is called “Freeze the Tease.”

Six students at St. Andrews College in Mumbai, India, run the campaign—Perma Dsouza, Andrea Fernades, Digi George, Anishka Alvares, Rochelle Barrie and Valeska Reveredo—and they kindly agreed to talk about their work through an e-mail interview.

L to R: Andrea Fernades, Perma Dsouza, Digi George, Rochelle Barrie, Valeska Reveredo, Anishka Alvares

1. Stop Street Harassment (SSH): What is Freeze the Tease?

Freeze the Tease (FTT): It’s an anti-eve teasing initiative. The term “eve-teasing” sounds playful, but it is not teasing it’s harassment and today it has become a daily torment for most of the women. Our campaign asks, “Why be harassed by these lechers .. its time to react and FREEZE THE TEASE!”

2. SSH: What inspired the creation of Freeze the Tease?

FTT: It all started merely as an assignment as part of our curriculum as we are students of mass media, but as time passed we realised that this is a very prevalent problem girls have to undergo in their day- to-day life and a small effort by us can help create awareness.

3. SSH: What kind of activities and work does the project involve? Can you describe the “signature campaign”?

FTT: We started by creating a Facebook page as it was the best medium to  create awareness amongst the masses. Also we started sending SMS texts of tips on how to tackle eve-teasing  with a mere subscription fee of RS.3. In order to build awareness within our campus itself we began with a signature campaign where we motivated and encouraged girls to fight back for their rights  through which students would come and sign on the scroll as a pledge to freeze the tease and not stay silent anymore. They were also given bands with the slogan, “I PLEDGE TO FREEZE THE TEASE” to wear as an indication of their support towards the social cause.

4. SSH: What is the goal of Freeze the Tease? Where do you hope to see Freeze the Tease in a year?

FTT: Our ultimate goal is to put a stop to eve-teasing however, it not as easy as it sounds therefore we hope that with this campaign we can create maximum awareness so that people fight back against this evil in our society. Our aim is also to encourage girls not to be silent and instead freeze the eve-teaser rather than get frozen during such situations. We hope that Freeze the Tease initiative can fulfill these goals. Presently being only in Mumbai, India, we’ d also like if the campaign is started in other parts of the country and around the world.

5. SSH: What has been the reception of the project at St. Andrew’s College and in the community around the college?

FTT: Our college has been supporting us from the very start. Also the community willingly accepts our campaign and shows immense support.

6. SSH: What advice would you give to a different college who may want to do a project around eve teasing issues?

FTT: Encourage and engage as many girls as possible to protect themselves and take a initiative against eve-teasing.

7. SSH: Anything else you’d like to say?

FTT: We are presently organizing some outdoor activities and events to engage women and encourage them to freeze the tease.

Since conducting the interview, Freeze the Tease undertook one of their planned outdoor activities.

Via CoolAge:

“On September 22, 2011 they distributed “Freeze the Tease” bands across the prominent hotspots in Bandra to spread the word among the general public about this social cause and to make girls aware that being a silent victim to such atrocious behavior is not a solution. This outdoor activity proved to be successful as people showed interest in attaining more information about the campaign and their online activity. They went to other public places too as an attempt to bring about widespread recognition and change the mindset of the entire society.”

Great work! You can view photos of their awareness and pledge campaigns on the Facebook page and contact them (FreezetheTease AT Gmail DOT com)  if you’re interested in bringing Freeze the Tease to your campus or community!

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews, street harassment Tagged With: eve teasing, Freeze the Tease, mumbai, street harassment

Street Harassment Snapshot: July 17, 2011

July 17, 2011 By HKearl

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

Street Harassment Stories:

Share your story! You can read new street harassment stories on the Web from the past week at:

Stop Street Harassment Blog

Hollaback

Hollaback Berlin

Holla Back DC!

Hollaback Delhi

Hollaback France

Hollaback Israel

Hollaback London

Hollaback NYC

Hollaback Philly

Street Harassment in the News, on the Blogs:

* The Hairpin, “Snappy Things to Yell Back at Construction Workers“

* India Today, “Bhopal girls organize ‘slut walk‘”

* The Times of India, “Special teams to combat eve-teasing“

* Al Jazeera English, “Afghan women fight back against harassment“

* MSNBC, “Afghan women rally, turning men red-faced with anger“

* Women’s Views on News, “Afghan women march against street harassment – today“

* Relando Thompkins, “It’s Not a Compliment, It’s Harassment“

* Bangalore Mirror, “Mapping city’s mean streets“

* Clutch, “Ladies, Sometimes We All We Got“

* Daijiworld.com, “Students Protest Against Private Bus Operators, Allege Harassment of Girls“

* Tentacles of doom, “Rape, privilege, and stupidity“

* Al Masry Al Youm, “The Sexual Harassment File: Foreign women in Egypt and harassment“

* Al Masry Al Youm, “The Sexual Harassment File: Men overlooked“

* Feministing Community, “What do Slut Walks have to do with street harassment?“

* Feministing, “Afghan women fight for safe streets“

Announcements:

New:

* Do you have a stare that can turn #streetharassers to stone? Then participate in the Medusa Gaze Project! http://tinyurl.com/6fhh3tz

Reminders/On-Going:

* Sign Mend the Gap’s petition to address subway harassment in Delhi, India

* College students, enter the Hollaback essay contest, entries due August 1.

* Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers

* Have an iPhone? Download the Hollaback iPhone app that lets you report street harassers

10 Tweets from the Week:

1. neversent Is today National Street Harassment Day and no one told me?

2. jmcgivering Afghan women just staged first protest against harassment in the street – from insults to sexual assault. Even when wearing burqa.

3. femmeniste Seriously, have ya never seen a pretty lady before? Must you gasp and say “Damn.” GAWD. #StreetHarassment #KeepItToYourself

4. tanyasnarks Creepy dude following me down the street told me he wanted to eat me- in French and English. Double points for dual language harassment?

5. RobynAnnie Prefers White Sox to Cubs based solely on the level of street harassment I’ve incurred from each type of fan.

6. DeeshaPhilyaw Just experienced street harassment while walking w/MiniMe (12). “Mom, is that guy drunk?” “No, he’s just an idiot w/a sense of entitlement.”

7. musingvirtual Does anyone else think it’s weird when people bring God into street compliments and harassment? God didn’t pick out my outfit. #hollaback

8. ryssiebee: I want to write a book about street harassment called “Fuck You” and then…just flash the cover.

9. Leacyyy Whenever guys catcall me I pretend I’m deaf. Not working so well on the car of guys slowly following me. Oh jersey city

10. sassmasterdeane Street harassment is The Worst. I always feel like a sucker if I smile but a bitch if I don’t. #cantwin

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Filed Under: News stories, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up Tagged With: Afghanistan, eve teasing, sexual harassment, slutwalk, street harassment

Indian organization passes resolution against “indecent” clothing

July 8, 2011 By HKearl

The number of reports of street harassment, rape, and murder against women are on the rise in Nagaland, India. In response, the Dimapur chapter of Naga Women’s Hoho has asked women to stop wearing “indecent” clothing so “that they do not attract or provoke crime.”

It feels like I’m reading The Onion. But I’m not. This is real life.

Via Indian Express:

“A resolution passed by the organisation in Dimapur last Sunday said it would take ‘suitable’ action against women seen wearing indecent dresses.

‘This is not just an advisory to young girls but for the attention of all women, young or old. Our resolution has clearly said that it is important to dress modestly and decently. That may not be the ultimate solution to prevent crimes ranging from eve-teasing to molestation, rape and murder, but is definitely one of reducing such crimes,’ Hukheli T Watsa, president of the Naga Women’s Hoho, said over telephone from Dimapur.”

This attitude is exactly why Blank Noise has an I Never Ask for it Campaign through which women show the clothes they were wearing when they faced harassment. The display demonstrates that they are harassed in “modest” clothes, too.

That kind of attitude is also one reason why there are SlutWalks across the world (including India), where women and allies can show that no one “asks” for harassment or assault just by dressing a certain way.

It’s crazy that we have to spend our time and energy noting that it doesn’t matter what we wear.

As long as there are harmful women-hating attitudes, a general disrespect for women, and a culture that doesn’t deter or punish perpetrators of gender-based crimes, those crimes are going to continue regardless of our clothing.

It may be more productive if folks in Nagaland spent their time and energy bringing the Parivartan program to their town instead of policing women’s clothing. The Parivartan program aspires to reduce gender-based violence by working with men and boys through India’s popular sport of cricket.

Let’s work to change gender attitudes, not articles of clothing.

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: eve teasing, Naga women's hoho, street harassment

Man convicted after harassing under-cover female officers

June 30, 2011 By HKearl

A not-so brilliant street harasser who solicited two under cover policewomen during an anti-street harassment sting in New Delhi, India, has been convicted of “outraging the modesty of women,” and may face up to a year in jail, plus a fine. I’m not a fan of the description of the crime (women are not modesty but we do deserve respect, men do, too), but the outcome is refreshing.

Via MSN India:

“Metropolitan Magistrate Shunali Gupta convicted Haryana resident Vinod under Section 509 of the Indian Penal Code (IPC) for outraging the modesty of women, saying, ‘From the evidence led, prosecution has been able to prove the charges against the accused beyond reasonable doubt.’ The court, which convicted Vinod, is yet to pronounce its sentence, which may be up to one year in jail besides the fine.

The eve-teasing incident dates back to September 23, 2005, when Vinod approached the two women head constables, waiting at a bus stand in Mangolpuri police station area. Vinod stopped his scooter near the bus stand and began uttering indecent and obscene words and making vulgar gestures.

“Aaj mausam bada suhana hai, tumme se kaun chal sakti hai, usko main paise de kar khush kar dunga, mere pas jagah bhi hai (Its a nice weather today, who among you can join me for a accompany? I will satisfy you with money. I also have a proper space for the purpose),” Vinod remarked when some cops waiting in plain clothes swooped upon him and arrested him.”

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: convicted, eve teasing, India, street harassment

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