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“Hey babe, come and join me in my bed tonight”

November 20, 2017 By Contributor

Via Hollaback! Bahamas

I’ve been sexually harassed three times in the past month, just on the street. Honestly, I don’t even know if it’s sexual harassment or not, but it makes me feel really intimated and scared to walk on streets even just to go to the shop.

I’m only 15 years old, so for this to be happening to someone at such a young age, really shocks me.

The first time it happened was when I was going to meet a friend. I dressed up nicely, in large trousers and a top, put on light makeup. This was around 1 p.m. when it happened. I was walking around the corner of the road I lived on and this boy, maybe three years older than me, said, “Oi babe, you’re so peng.” And walks off.

The next time it happened was when I was taking my mum’s washing to dry at the laundrette. I had no makeup on, and I wasn’t wearing anything special, yet while I was walking past a group of boys, maybe again three years older than me, they stopped me and one guy said, “Please can I see your panties?” Then when I walked off, they started wolf whistling and then said, “Oh, you play hard to get”.

The third time happened when I was in my school uniform. I was walking past a guy, maybe of around 40 years of age, and said, “Hey babe, come and join me in my bed tonight.” I wanted to cry.

The fact that I can’t even feel safe in my own area, let alone somewhere else, and to be able to walk freely at such a young age disgusts me.

– Anonymous

Location: London

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“You look as hot as I feel”

August 19, 2016 By Contributor

I am 14 years old, and a middle aged man — most likely 50+ years of age — mowing the lawn said, “You look as hot as I feel.”

I was walking alone for 100 yards, it was about a 45 second walk. I don’t live in a city, and have never heard of this happening to anyone in my town. This happened today, and I am left feeling lost and confused about what to do, and since I was wearing an old t-shirt, I feel afraid to wear anything flattering. I feel ashamed and terrified about the fact it could’ve easily been worse.

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Schools should take action and inform boys and girls in middle school about what sexual harassment is, how to combat catcalling, how to be an upstander if they see someone being catcalled, and how and when to respectfully and appropriately compliment someone.

– Anonymous

Location: Downtown Hershey, PA

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“I wish everyone could be treated equally”

May 27, 2016 By Contributor

I am thirteen years old. I was cat-called for the first time today. I had heard about cat-calling happening before, in America and all that, but I didn’t think it would happen in Ireland, or to someone so young like me.

I was walking home from school. There was a girl in front of me who was about a year older than me and a large group of boys in front of me. No, this story is not where you think it is going. It was not the group of boys that cat called me. A man (who looked about 25) was getting into his car with his friend. Next, I see the window rolling down and the man says, “Hey, ladies.”

I was mortified but I ignored him and kept looking down. He was laughing as the car drove off. The girl in front of me seemed to be ignoring the man also. I saw the group of boys looking behind them multiple times, smiling as they did it. Even if I did look older, (which I don’t – I have a flat chest and backside, I’m average height and I don’t wear make-up during school days) I believe it is still completely unacceptable to be cat-called, no matter what you look like or how old you are. I wish everyone could be treated equally. It’s horrible that so many women and young girls like me have to face these situations.

– Anonymous

Location: Ireland

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“I definitely didn’t like it at all.”

December 31, 2015 By Contributor

I’m 13 years old and yesterday at night I went grocery shopping with my dad. My dad had forgotten something, so I went ahead. While I waited for him, a car passed by and the guy in the passenger seat said, “Hey baby girl.” The guy stayed there for like about 30 seconds just checking me out. I didn’t say anything because this guy was like more than 20 years old . I felt weird. Idk. I definitely didn’t like it at all.

– Anonymous

Location: California

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