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Street Harassment Snapshot: July 17, 2011

July 17, 2011 By HKearl

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

Street Harassment Stories:

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Hollaback

Hollaback Berlin

Holla Back DC!

Hollaback Delhi

Hollaback France

Hollaback Israel

Hollaback London

Hollaback NYC

Hollaback Philly

Street Harassment in the News, on the Blogs:

* The Hairpin, “Snappy Things to Yell Back at Construction Workers“

* India Today, “Bhopal girls organize ‘slut walk‘”

* The Times of India, “Special teams to combat eve-teasing“

* Al Jazeera English, “Afghan women fight back against harassment“

* MSNBC, “Afghan women rally, turning men red-faced with anger“

* Women’s Views on News, “Afghan women march against street harassment – today“

* Relando Thompkins, “It’s Not a Compliment, It’s Harassment“

* Bangalore Mirror, “Mapping city’s mean streets“

* Clutch, “Ladies, Sometimes We All We Got“

* Daijiworld.com, “Students Protest Against Private Bus Operators, Allege Harassment of Girls“

* Tentacles of doom, “Rape, privilege, and stupidity“

* Al Masry Al Youm, “The Sexual Harassment File: Foreign women in Egypt and harassment“

* Al Masry Al Youm, “The Sexual Harassment File: Men overlooked“

* Feministing Community, “What do Slut Walks have to do with street harassment?“

* Feministing, “Afghan women fight for safe streets“

Announcements:

New:

* Do you have a stare that can turn #streetharassers to stone? Then participate in the Medusa Gaze Project! http://tinyurl.com/6fhh3tz

Reminders/On-Going:

* Sign Mend the Gap’s petition to address subway harassment in Delhi, India

* College students, enter the Hollaback essay contest, entries due August 1.

* Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers

* Have an iPhone? Download the Hollaback iPhone app that lets you report street harassers

10 Tweets from the Week:

1. neversent Is today National Street Harassment Day and no one told me?

2. jmcgivering Afghan women just staged first protest against harassment in the street – from insults to sexual assault. Even when wearing burqa.

3. femmeniste Seriously, have ya never seen a pretty lady before? Must you gasp and say “Damn.” GAWD. #StreetHarassment #KeepItToYourself

4. tanyasnarks Creepy dude following me down the street told me he wanted to eat me- in French and English. Double points for dual language harassment?

5. RobynAnnie Prefers White Sox to Cubs based solely on the level of street harassment I’ve incurred from each type of fan.

6. DeeshaPhilyaw Just experienced street harassment while walking w/MiniMe (12). “Mom, is that guy drunk?” “No, he’s just an idiot w/a sense of entitlement.”

7. musingvirtual Does anyone else think it’s weird when people bring God into street compliments and harassment? God didn’t pick out my outfit. #hollaback

8. ryssiebee: I want to write a book about street harassment called “Fuck You” and then…just flash the cover.

9. Leacyyy Whenever guys catcall me I pretend I’m deaf. Not working so well on the car of guys slowly following me. Oh jersey city

10. sassmasterdeane Street harassment is The Worst. I always feel like a sucker if I smile but a bitch if I don’t. #cantwin

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Filed Under: News stories, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up Tagged With: Afghanistan, eve teasing, sexual harassment, slutwalk, street harassment

“I FINALLY DID IT!!!!!”

July 6, 2011 By Contributor

I FINALLY DID IT!!!!!

My whole adult life I have been offended and annoyed by entitled-ass men telling me to smile. It gets me so worked up every time, but I’m usually not thinking quickly enough, or in a position to confront the guy. I have serious staircase wit when it comes to this scenario.

Today I was standing inside Sullivan Station waiting for my bus, when a guy brushed past me, saying, “Smile, beautiful.”

My bus was already one minute late, so I froze, trying to decide if it was worth it for me to potentially miss my bus by confronting this guy. After a few seconds of hesitation I realized I would be kicking myself all night if I didn’t, so I grabbed my T-pass and ran after him, catching up with him on the subway platform.

I went up to him and said, “Just so you know, it doesn’t make women feel good when you tell them to smile. Sometimes people have shitty days and they don’t feel like smiling. It’s offensive to just tell them to smile.”

He started apologizing and saying he didn’t mean it like that, then said, “But you’re beautiful, and you would be more beautiful if you smiled.”

“Whatever. You know what? It’s not my job to look nice for you. I’m out living my life, and I could have had something really bad happen to me today, I could have had someone die, you don’t know, and you telling me to smile is just disrespectful.” (side note, today was in fact the anniversary of a sad personal event).

He apologized some more and said he didn’t intend for it to come out like that, and he was truly sorry if I had lost a loved one. Not the most heartfelt apology I’ve ever heard (I’m not sure he truly grasped the reason for my outrage), but it was something.

“Okay,” I told him, “that’s all, I just need you to know that it is not cool.”

As I turned to leave, he said, “You spent $1.70 to tell me that?”

“Nah, I have a monthly pass.”

And then I caught my bus.

– Allison

Location: 1 Cambridge St, Charlestown, MA 02129

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: sexual harassment, street harassment

June 20: Lebanese Day of Blogging against Sexual Harassment

June 17, 2011 By HKearl

Mark your calendars for Monday, June 20!

Info via Facebook:

“بالتزامن مع الحملة التي أطلقها ناشطون وناشطات في مصر، ندعو الى يوم للتدوين ضد التحرش الجنسي والعنف القائم على النوع الإجتماعي في لبنان. وذلك يوم 20 حزيران.

في 20 حزيران سأخرج عن صمتي

في 20 حزيران سأرفع صوتي لأقول لا للتحرش الجنسي
……
في 20 حزيران سأدون ضد التحرش والعنف

في 20 حزيران سأكتب لأتعلم أن أواجه وليتعلم الآخرون مني

في هذا اليوم سنتشارك مقالاتنا، آراءنا، قصصنا، شعرنا…على مدوناتنا وصفحات الفايسبوك وعلى موقع http://qawemeharassment.com/

DON’T FORGET: USE HASHTAG #EndSH

In parallel to the campaign launched by activists in Egypt, we call for a day to blog against sexual harassment and gender based violence in Lebanon, on June 20.

On June 20th I’ll put an end to my silence

On June 20 I will raise my voice to say no to sexual harassment
On June 20 I will blog against harassment and violence
On June 20th I will write to learn and to make others learn

On this day we will be blogging each on his/her blog or website or Facebook page and sharing our stories, thoughts, poetry, articles, here: http://qawemeharassment.com/

Don’t forget to share your stories and blogs and post the links on this site!”

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Filed Under: Events Tagged With: lebanon, sexual harassment, street harassment

Men who victim-blame women are more likely to be harassers

June 10, 2011 By HKearl

Researchers at the University of Tennessee, Martin, found that men who blame women for being sexually harassed are more likely to be harassers themselves.

As we in the anti-street harassment movement are all too familiar with, the study found that the victim-blaming usually focused on what the person was wearing and what they were doing.

So how was the research conducted?

The researchers of the study wanted to test a theory called “defensive attribution” which suggests that people will try to protect themselves from blame in a given situation. Using this theory, the researched hypothesized that victim-blaming men would be the ones who were most likely actual or potential harassers.

To test the theory, researchers asked 119 college men, ranging in age from 18 to 28, to take a survey measuring how likely men are to sexually harass women.

Via Live Science:

“The survey doesn’t ask men directly whether they harass women, but rather asks about attitudes associated with harassment, such as whether women use sex to their advantage or are flattered by sexual advances…

Next, the men read eight short vignettes about instances of sexual harassment. In one, a male restaurant server tells his female coworker that her tips would be higher if she’d show more skin. The study participants were then asked how likely it was that they would be in the shoes of the man in each vignette and how much the fictional men and their victims were to blame for the harassment.

Unsurprisingly, the men with a high proclivity toward sexual harassment, as rated from the initial survey, said they felt more similar to the fictional harassers. They were also less likely to blame the harasser for his behaviors and more likely to blame the victim, [fitting with the self-protection theory].

The men’s attitude seemed to be, ‘I might do that kind of thing and I don’t want to get in trouble.'”

The researchers noted that their study only focused on college-aged men and focused on sexual harassment in a workplace setting, so more research is necessary.

But it doesn’t seem like much of a stretch to think that men who are okay with engaging in sexual harassment in the workplace (and blame women for it) would act the same way about sexual harassment of women in public places (street harassment).

As study researcher Colin Key said,

“The current research should provide some comfort — and an early warning — to women who have been sexually harassed and encountered victim-blaming….[They can think], As a woman, when I get blamed, maybe I shouldn’t give a crap about what that guy thinks because maybe he’s the kind of guy who would do this to me, too.”

So remember that – if someone blames you for the harassment based on what they’re wearing, there’s a good chance they’re a harasser or would-be harasser or a harasser-sympathizer! So call them out on it.

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: Colin Key, sexual harassment, street harassment, victim blaming, who is a harasser?

Harassment on Islamabad transportation is “rife”

May 28, 2011 By HKearl

Let’s add another city to the list of places where a study shows harassment on public transportation is a big problem, shall we? It’s Islamabad, Pakistan.

The Social Research and Development Organisation (SRDO) surveyed 75 women commuters in Islamabad, aged 19 to 45, to find out more about women’s experiences with sexual harassment during their commute, particularly on “public transport wagons and buses.”

In the survey, the women “disclosed that inappropriate touching, making sexual comments and staring by male passengers is overwhelmingly rife. The respondents, however, made it clear that the incidents of harassment are far lesser in rickshaws and taxis.”

Via The International News:

“Farhana Hussain, a women rights activist, said, ‘We should not see the issue, harassment of women in public transport, in isolation as it is an open fact that harassment and violence against women inside four walls and on the streets is just one feature of our male dominated structure that always put blame on victims instead of helping them.’

She said successive governments have taken very positive steps and introduced specific legislation to curb violence and harassment against women in houses, at workplace and in public transport, but its implementation mechanism has made it difficult to provide any relief. A large majority of respondents, 59 per cent, informed that insufficient space for women passengers in buses and wagons is a major problem for them.

A nineteen-year girl student told the survey team that due to repeated incidents of harassment at the bus, she and her friend have started commuting in rickshaw. ‘Though travelling in rickshaw is quite expensive for us, we feel quite secure in it,’ she said, adding, ‘In my opinion the government should introduce women-only buses in big cities to tackle the issue of harassment of women passengers. ”

Women-only public transportation can provide much needed relief for women facing frequent harassment, but it doesn’t challenge or end the harassment! The harassment continues elsewhere. For example, in a recent study of more than 200 youth in Gujranwala, Pakistan, 96 percent of the girls experienced street harassment. So, do we need women-only streets, too?! No, we need comprehensive and multi-layered action to address and end the pervasiveness of public harassment.

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Filed Under: News stories, street harassment Tagged With: Islamabad, Pakistan, public transportation, sexual harassment

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