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Comments about breast size in Berlin

April 25, 2011 By Contributor

Ich verließ das Haus in dem ich wohne. Eine Gruppe männlicher Jugendlicher lief an mir vorbei und einer von ihnen rief mir “Du hast nicht besonders große Brüste.” hinterher.

Ich habe ihm gesagt, dass er das lassen soll. Dass er Frauen mit Respekt behandeln soll. Die Gruppe Jungen sagte mir, dass das nicht stimmt und dass sie die Meinungsfreiheit haben mir zu sagen, dass meine Brüste wie auch immer seien. Dann sagten sie mir, ich sei hässlich. Ich wiedersprach ihnen und rief ihnen “Fickt euch” hinterher.

– Anonymous

Location: Berlin, Germany

Using Google Translate:

I left the house in which I live. A group of male youths ran past me and one of them called me, “You do not have particularly large breasts.” Afterwards, I told him that he should let it be. That he should treat women with respect. The group of boys told me that this is not true and that they have the freedom to tell me about my breasts. Then they told me I was ugly. I again spoke to them and said to them “Fuck you” afterwards.

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Street harassment snapshot: April 24, 2011

April 24, 2011 By HKearl

After a short hiatus during a hectic travel/speaking month for me, I’m back with this weekly series. Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past week and find relevant announcements and upcoming street harassment events.

Street Harassment Stories:

I accept street harassment submissions from anywhere in the world. Share your story!

You can read new street harassment stories on the Web from the past week at:

  • Stop Street Harassment Blog
  • Hollaback
  • Hollaback Alberta
  • Hollaback Atlanta
  • Hollaback Baltimore
  • Hollaback Berlin
  • Hollaback Buenos Aires
  • Hollaback Columbia, MO
  • Hollaback Croatia
  • Holla Back DC!
  • Hollaback Dortmund
  • Hollaback El Paso
  • Hollaback France
  • Hollaback Israel
  • Hollaback Mexico DF
  • Hollaback NYC
  • Hollaback Ottawa
  • Hollaback Philly

Street Harassment in the News, on the Blogs:

  • The Christian Science Monitor, “Street harassment of women: It’s a bigger problem than you think;” syndicated on Yahoo News
  • ACLU BLog, “Just A Smack On The Ass: A Tale Of Sexual Assault, Vengeance And Nervous Swearing;” syndicated on Alternet.org and Daily Kos
  • Bitchmedia, “Takin’ it to the Streets: Is France’s Niqab Ban Street Harassment?”
  • ShoutOut! JMU, “I Like the Way Your Tits Bounce”: Why Street Harassment Isn’t Okay and What You Can Do to Help“
  • Gender News, ““Smashing the Masher:” The early women’s movement against street harassment in America“
  • AAUW Dialog, “Volunteers Audit Safety of D.C. Streets“
  • Gender Across Borders, “Anti-Street Harassment and the DC Community Safety Audit“
  • Ms Blog, “A How-To on Youth Activism“
  • Jezebel, “France has an Image Problem“
  • OC Weekly Blog, “Artists in Santa Ana Artists Village Cover Up for One of Their Own, Accused of Sexually Harassing Minors“
  • Maine Civil Liberties Union, “Good Game”? Not Always So Good.“
  • Gizmodo, “Pervert Alert: This Camera Can See Through Clothes“
  • The Korea Herald, “Judge resigns over subway sexual harassment“
  • Metro New York, “Subway sexual harassment: Help Metro find this pervert“
  • Gizmodo, “Sketchy “Street Photographers” Descend On Boston’s Downtown Crossing“
  • The Hindu, “Fighting sexual violence against women online“
  • Calcutta Tube, “WOMEN HARASSMENT: TECHNOLOGY TO THE RESCUE“

Announcements:

New:

  • Help fund the Hey, Shorty! on the road book tour to end gender-based violence in schools and on the streets.
  • Check out a new website, How Many Women Find Street Harassment Flattering?
  • College students, enter the Hollaback essay contest, entries due August 1.

On-going:

  • Are you in Egypt? Use HarassMap to report your street harassers
  • Have an iPhone? Download the Hollaback iPhone app that lets you report street harassers

10 Tweets from the Week:

  • LouLaRoche #streetharassment Got whistled at on way home from park with my 5yo son. Annoyed already, I yelled “Hollaback, asshole!” and felt better.
  • always_already More #streetharassment on way to work: white van slowed down to shout at me and car behind it almost crashed into back of it. Nice
  • FatBlackDiva So, Mr. Random Man, you say you like my hair. Ok, but shld yr nxt move be to ask if I’m married? Feh. #streetharassment #foolishness
  • nawwarah82 can’t cross the street or walk anywhere for fear of harassment #SaudiFail
  • scatx That street harassment made me feel so good and so sexy today. I love it! #NationalOppositeDay
  • BeachBumMIA Street harassment is a means of control used by men who are otherwise powerless #streetharassment
  • always_already Lorry just went past, blared its horn at me + a girl behind who looks bout 14. Am wearing massive coat and baggy trousers #streetharassment
  • hollabackatlWhoop whoop. I got the term “street harassment” published on Urban Dictionary today. Next stop, Merriam-Webster. Holla!
  • huckapoo21  @hkearl @Happy_Sai I’m a guy in the U.S. and agree w u. Be a real man step up and have a discussion and cut the cat calls.
  • Happy_Sai Street harassment is not flattering, it’s disturbing and scary.
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Filed Under: hollaback, News stories, Stories, street harassment, weekly round up Tagged With: catcalls, sexual harassment, street harassment

Harasser uses loudspeaker in a grocery store parking lot

April 24, 2011 By Contributor

When I got out of my car I heard someone on a loud speaker say, “Have a nice day,” which has never happened before. Some new gimmick? At 10pm? No.

Walking from my car to the store, the voice starts to address me…”Looking good ma’am, with those silver shoes. I see you rockin’ them silver shoes.”

I realized the voice was coming from a cluster of three automobiles, one of which was an old van with tinted windows. Nice. I sped up and ignored whatever else he said. As I entered the store, I heard him calling out some other hapless patron. ‘What a wack-job,’ I thought. I told the cashier, who said she was leaving soon, so she’d tell the on duty cop. I was relieved.

As I left, I was more curious than anything, so as soon as I heard the voice, I looked for the speaker’s silhouette. This must have encouraged him, because he really locked onto me. Now he was talking about the “Girl with the striped shirt, with the brown pants, in them striped silver shoes, I see you looking good. Damn. Can I have your number?”

I felt completely exposed. It was so creepy. I wanted to do something to shut him up but I also felt like getting away as quick as I could, so I calmly drove away. I didn’t want to give him any more reason to take interest in me. What if he followed me home? Doesn’t he just sound like a Junior Serial Killer, playing a little cat and mouse game of voyeur?

So, now I don’t feel safe while making a run to the local grocery store on a Thursday night. That’s pretty ridiculous.

– Snackrun

Location: The Kroger grocery store down the hill from our town.

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How much street harassment can a person deal with across 3 miles?!

April 22, 2011 By Contributor

I had two errands to do at lunch today: Mail a package at the post office next to the Alamo, then grab a shared-bicycle at the corner of Houston and Alamo, ride down Houston street, park the bike near a bus stop, and walk two blocks to a county office for new license plates.

Two skeezed-out looking guys at the bus stop outright grunted and howled at me for 5 minutes straight until I disappeared around the corner, and threw out obscene suggestions, too.

Though the two dudes on the bench on Houston and Alamo when I was waiting to cross to the post office had a nicer tactic (“Hey beautiful. Man you have a beautiful smile. Mmm mmmm what a smile”), it is still embarassing as hell. Especially when I got the bike 10 minutes later and got out into the lane and they hollered after me, “Hey hey there Miss America!” (it’s 90 degree out already in April in Texas, and my tattoo is showing in my tank top).

Riding down Houston Street on the way to the bus stop where I kept my head low and made eye contact with no one, a man leaned out his the open window of his truck and honked and said, “Ay-chihahau!”

All in a 3 mile roundtrip to the post office and a county office.

– Anonymous

Location: San Antonio, Texas

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A history of “aggressive male street flirts, or ‘mashers'” in the U.S.

April 20, 2011 By HKearl

Via Stanford University, this image is from 1906

An article on a Stanford University blog about the research of historian Estelle Freedman, the Edgar E. Robinson Professor in U.S. History at Stanford University, brings to light the long history of women’s resistance to street harassment. I include an excerpt below and bold some of the parts I found the most fascinating.

“Aggressive male street flirts, or “mashers,” were a widespread and vexatious problem for American urban women in the pre-suffrage era. [Freedman] recently encountered the term in old newspaper articles and editorial cartoons, while doing research for a book on the history of sexual violence in America. Unlike the stereotypical black rapist in the white press and in the 1915 film, The Birth of a Nation, mashers usually were depicted as well-dressed white men whose behavior was more irritating or comical than menacing. In this way, Freedman explained, the masher scare minimized the sexual threat of white men while leaving intact dominant fears of black men as violent rapists.”

“In America the term ‘masher’ initially applied to married men who approached women in public, or who frequented brothels. By the 1880s more sinister representations of mashers appeared. Cartoons showed them ogling women ominously in public spaces like Coney Island, which were becoming popular.”

The rise of the masher phenomenon reflected changes in American demographics. As industry supplanted agriculture, more single men were leaving their families for work in the cities. At the same time, more women were entering the public sphere on their own as shoppers, students and wage earners “Matrons ventured downtown to go to the new department stores, where they would encounter an increasingly young female sales force,” Freedman noted. “En route downtown, both shoppers and shopgirls might encounter the masher.”

One of the most interesting things about the masher problem, Freedman said, was the evolving public response to it. At first newspapers urged respectable men to play a stronger role in protecting women from ogling and catcalls. Gradually though, women began taking matters into their own hands. One of the masher cartoons shows an outraged shopper beating her tormentor with an umbrella.

When a crime wave terrorized Chicago in 1905, the Tribune helpfully reprinted stories from around the country about women who had fought back successfully. “One told of a Philadelphia stenographer who took boxing lessons from her brother and then knocked out the man who was forcing his attentions on her,” Freedman said. “Another told of a Japanese visitor to New York who used jujitsu against an electrician who tried to speak to her on the street.”

The masher threat also impelled more women to exercise in city parks not to improve their health or looks or even to provide the brute strength to fend off an attack, said Freedman, but to give them a “keener intuition of what her assailant” might be planning, noted the Tribune article.

On an institutional level, cities from New York to Los Angeles began hiring female police officers specifically to protect young women. “By 1920,” Freedman noted, “almost 300 women were serving on police forces in over 200 cities, many of them acting as quasi social workers.” Victims of street harassment also were encouraged to prosecute men who had tormented them, despite the notoriety a public court appearance might bring.

Interestingly, public outrage over mashers seemed to decline significantly after women got the vote in 1920. As Freedman observed, “In the new sexual era taking shape, public flirtation ceased to be as offensive as it had once been.” Movies popularized the adventurous flapper, while radio stations filled the airwaves with titillating songs about flirting. At the same time, “a more aggressive ideal of manhood was replacing the chivalrous protector and the respectful gentleman of the late Victorian era,” she said. “Guardians of street morality seemed outdated . . . The street pickup became comic and normative.”

It wasn’t until the women’s liberation movement of the 1960s and ’70s that mashing again became a matter of public interest – only by this time the behavior had a new name: street harassment. As with the anti-masher movement, outrage over street harassment emerged at a time when more women were venturing into historically male spaces. And just as at the turn of the century, “Fighting back physically and legally represented a forum of female resistance to sexual threats,” Freedman said, “and insistence on full economic and political citizenship.”

I love learning about our predecessor resistors. It’s kinda depressing though to think about how long women have been putting up with and fighting street harassment. But let’s keep on going. A better future depends on our work.

Social Class Matters

I also want to note that when I think about history and street harassment, I always think about how street harassment is something lower class women have always had to deal with because they are the ones who’ve had to leave their homes to work, to go to the market, to run errands, etc, both for their families and perhaps for middle and upper class women’s families.

During different time periods, including ours today, whenever large numbers of upper and middle class women (and in the US, this often means white women) leave their homes unaccompanied by men to go places like work, school, and stores, they encounter street harassment, too. That’s when suddenly (some) people care about street harassment (but not enough). Class privilege. This was apparent to me in the Standford blog post and you can see it in articles like:

  • Patricia Cline Coehn’s “Safety and Danger: Women on American Public Transport, 1750-1850.” In Gendered Domains: Rethinking Public and Private in Women’s History
  • Susan Drucker and Gary Gumpert’s “Shopping Women, and Public Space.” In Voices in the Street: Explorations in Gender, Media, and Public Space.
  • Judith R. Walkowitz’s “Going Public: Shopping, Street Harassment, and Streetwalking in Late Victorian London.”
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