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Weekly Round Up: August 15, 2010

August 15, 2010 By HKearl

Story Submissions Recap:

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  • Stop Street Harassment Blog: 3 stories from a woman in Edmonton, Canada, 1 from a woman in Virginia, and 1 from a woman in California
  • HollaBack DC!: 5 new stories
  • HollaBack NYC: 7 new stories
  • HollaBack UK: 7 new stories

In the News, On the Blogs:

  • CNN, “Twitter photo helps nab suspected flasher“
  • WPIX, “Cops search for suspect in Astoria sexual assault“
  • Jezebel, “What were you wearing when you were sexually harassed?” and the poll results
  • Real Zest, “Street Harassment: Why Don’t Guys Understand It?“
  • Frisky, “How do you handle a pervert?“

Events:

  • Sept. 2: Stop Street Harassment Book Release Event in Washington, D.C.
  • Sept 10: Stop Street Harassment Book Release Event in NYC
  • Sept. 16: “Hey, You, Can I Get a Smile?” One-Woman Show, NYC

Announcements:

  • Vote for HollaBack DC! in the Pepsi Refresh Challenge
  • Vote for HollaBack NYC in the Paperless Choice Digital Fundraising Challenge
  • HollaBack NYC is looking for interns
  • Call for Artists: Women and Mobility in the City Exhibition (via Jagori)
  • RightRides is looking for volunteers in NYC
  • The book Stop Street Harassment is out in August. Pre-order it today!

10 Street Harassment Tweets from the Week:

  • peterdaou The fight for gay rights, women’s rights, human rights: if one person is oppressed, we’re all oppressed. #lgbt #women
  • jennpozner No, 19yrold douchebag following me home at 1:30 am, I am not going to invite you back to my apt. #MoveItAlong #StreetHarassment
  • WenJoMath srsly, what do you think yelling “hoochi” at me from across the street is going to get you? #streetharassment
  • Lvn2SrvHim Thank you Mr. Construction Guy. Your catcall as I walked by definitely made me feel like a puppy…a cheap one.
  • gabriellle Loves when guys in cars whistle/catcall while nearly plowing her down on the sidewalk. Nothing turns me on like you almost taking my life.
  • sararoxyoursox My rant about street harassment when I’m running. http://savemywetlands.blogspot.com/2010/08/open-letter.html
  • hkearl: when it comes 2 #streetharassment why do we have 2 spend so much time saying women don’t “ask for it” or like it? http://tinyurl.com/37s3vlt
  • piathabia Sometimes, I really hate men. #streetharassment
  • ABookishBeemer Don’t care what your excuse is. Think you have a right to talk to a woman on the street? No. You don’t. Not sorry. #streetharassment
  • Hello_Ladies I was only in NYC 10 minutes when I witnessed street harassment. Amazing.

Resource of the Week:

Men’s Anti-Violence Council

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Filed Under: Events, hollaback, Stories, weekly round up Tagged With: can i get a smile, catcalls, groping, hollaback, sexual harassment, stop street harassment book, street harassment

Bicycling stalker in Alberta

August 13, 2010 By Contributor

I was walking downtown to meet a friend when a guy on a bike started following me and trying to talk to me. I asked him to leave me alone and he persisted, driving his bike in increasingly tight circles around me and getting really aggressive. I pulled out my cell phone and told him I would call the police if he didn`t leave me alone.

– Anonymous

Location: Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: alberta canada, stalking, street harassment

Famous photograph captures street harassment

August 12, 2010 By HKearl

Last week I was on vacation in Wyoming. When I walked into a diner for lunch, I looked on the wall and exclaimed to my partner, “That’s street harassment!” Then I snapped the following picture of the poster, which clearly shows men ogling and harassing a woman who has a look of discomfort on her face.

You can see a better version on ArtDaily.com:

"American Girl in Italy," Via ArtDaily.com

Why did a random diner have street harassment on display? Today I looked up the photograph and found out it’s very famous and and the best known image by photographer Ruth Orkin. So I  guess they were just displaying art…?

ArtDaily.com explains the photograph:

“In Florence, [Italy], Orkin had met Ninalee “Jinx” Allen Craig, an art student and fellow American who became the model for a series Orkin originally titled Don’t Be Afraid to Travel Alone, based on their joint experience as women traveling alone in Europe in the 1950s. Orkin photographed Craig shopping in the markets, crossing traffic, riding a carriage and flirting at a cafe.

By chance the two came upon the now famous pack of men. Orkin turned around and photographed Craig behind her. ‘I clutched my shawl to me because that sheaths the body,’ says Craig. ‘It was my protection, my shield. I was walking through a sea of men.’ Craig today admits, ‘I was enjoying every minute of it. They were Italian and I love Italians.’ Orkin asked Craig to walk through again, and with that she captured the famous image.”

First – I love that Orkin was traveling male companion-less during the 1950s and became famous for showing what it’s like to be a woman traveling alone, street harassment and all! Street harassment is still a part of many women’s experiences when they travel alone or with a female companion (and even sometimes when they travel with a male companion or their family) and it prevents women from having the same freedom to explore the world as men. And that’s a shame. I’m also intrigued that despite the obvious experience of street harassment, Orkin was encouraging women to not be afraid to travel alone.

Second – I am perturbed by the quotes from Craig. She was loving every moment of being harassed? Her expression in the photograph suggests otherwise, as does and the fact that she said she needed to use her shawl as protection, as a shield from the men.

And third – I wonder what people generally think when they see the photograph. If they think it’s quaint, funny, or interesting, and not the least problematic or offensive, then what is it accomplishing besides documentation? Not that she probably had an agenda for it besides documentation and making art. But I do have an agenda, and so for me, I wonder if this photograph helps or hinders or does neither for the movement to end street harassment.

So I leave you with three questions:

  • What do you make of Craig’s seemingly contradictory statements about the experience?
  • Do you think this photograph helps or hinders our movement to end street harassment?
  • What do you think about a diner displaying this photograph of street harassment the way they would display a photograph of say, a landscape?
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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: American Girl in Italy, Don't be afraid to travel alone, Ninalee Allen Craig, photography, photography of street harassment, Ruth Orkin, street harassment

Since when do restaurant lines = “beauty” contests?

August 11, 2010 By Contributor

I was waiting in line to get into a restaurant with some friends when a group of guys walked over and started evaluating us on our looks.

They decided I was attractive enough to merit their attentions (my friends were dismissed as ‘too tall’, ‘too fat,’ and ‘fugly’ but me, o lucky me I ‘could stay’). They got really close and started mocking me when I asked them to leave me alone.

They stayed until we got in to the restaurant and got our own table. Nobody else in line spoke up.

– Anonymous

Location: Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: alberta canada, beauty contest, restaurant line, sexual harassment, street harassment

Open letter from a runner who is tired of harassment

August 11, 2010 By Contributor

Dear Men:

It may come as quite a surprise to you to hear this.  It may even sting a little.  It shouldn’t.

There are some places where I fully expect to be hit on (for example, at the bar).  I put up with it.  Sometimes, I may even enjoy it.  I consider the free drinks you buy me payment for the annoyance I deal with.  I will (almost) always accept a free drink.  Your efforts, while usually not reciprocated, have not gone unnoticed.

However, putting up with getting hit on at a bar is quite different from being harassed in other places.  You should be aware that just because I’m female and have boobs doesn’t mean that you are allowed to harass me and annoy the fuck out of me wherever I am, and no matter what I am doing.  There are some things that should remain sacred.

I know it may be difficult to resist making comments to me while I’m running.  I’m sure there’s just something about a young woman drenched from head to toe in sweat, hair dripping, breathing heavily and with a face the color of a ripe tomato that you find irresistible.  I can only imagine how hard it is for you to hold back when you see me running past in an over-sized sweat stained t-shirt.  I sympathize.  I really do.

Please, men.  I put up with your shit at work.  I put up with it at school.  I put up with it when I’m driving, and when I’m eating, and when I buy my coffee.  I have learned to be prepared when I go to the bar to be approached at least once, usually more.  At this point, I pretty much expect it.  All women do.  But for the LOVE OF GOD, please leave me the fuck alone when I’m running.

Love,
Me

P.S.  The next guy who harasses me when I’m running is getting kicked in the balls.  Consider that your warning.

– sararoxyoursox

Location: Santa Cruz, CA (and Washington, DC)

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Filed Under: Stories, street harassment Tagged With: runner, runner harassment, saraoxyoursox, sexual harassment, street harassment

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