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“Song for the Man”: Beastie Boys’ Anti-Street Harassment Anthem

May 9, 2012 By HKearl

To mark the passing of Adam Yauch from the Beastie Boys,  Jessica Valenti wrote a piece for The Nation called, “MCA’s Feminist Legacy.”

Even though I’ve heard many of their songs, I didn’t know anything about the Beastie Boys or Adam. I was intrigued to learn that they evolved into feminists with overtly anti-rape messages at award shows and pro-respect for women messages in songs. One of their songs, “Song for the Man,” was inspired by street harassment.

Info about the song —

“I don’t really know where to start with this one. Sexism is so deeply rooted in our history and society that waking up and stepping outside of it is like I’m watching Night of the Living Dead Pt. II” all day, every day. Listening to the lyrics of this song, one might say that the Beastie Boy ‘Fight for Your Right to Party’ guy is a hypocrite. Well, maybe; but in this fucked up world all you can hope for is change, and I’d rather be a hypocrite to you than a zombie forever.

One summer I kept taking the 1 train (my personal favorite) and guaranteed on my way to the station I’d see some guy saying some stupid shit to a woman; you know like, “Hey you’re so pretty, don’t be sad; you should smile.”

Anyway, on my way to meet a friend one day this guy was on the train with his buddy. He was making these like, snapping sounds with his teeth at this lady. I think it was his pick-up line. She tried to just ignore them and get off at her stop, which she did. After she left and the doors closed, the guy and his buddy started to rate her on a scale of one to ten. This song is for them.”


Here are the lyrics:

“I don’t like your attitude boy.

What makes you feel
And why you gotta be?
Like you got the right
To look her up and down?

What makes this world
So sick and evil?
I know you don’t know.

What makes you feel
Like you got miracle whip appeal?
Who made you the judge and jury?
Ain’t you never heard of privacy?

What makes this world
So sick and evil?
You figure it out.”

Thank you, Beastie Boys. I wish more people with influence over potential harassers spoke out like this. It makes a difference.

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Filed Under: male perspective, street harassment Tagged With: Beastie Boys, jessica valenti, song for the man, street harassment, the nation

New York City Safety Audit a Success

May 8, 2012 By HKearl

Cross-posted with permission from New York City Council Member Julissa Ferreras’ Facebook page:

“Council Member Julissa Ferreras and the nonprofit organization Hollaback! led an historic community safety audit on Saturday, May 5th in Queens from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Community members met at The Transfiguration Of Christ Greek Orthodox Church, 3805 98th Street, Corona, New York for training. Afterwards they surveyed blocks in their neighborhood where residents expressed safety concerns and developed a concrete plan to address those concerns.

“This audit focused on women’s safety is a key step in the crime prevention effort in my district. We hope to develop a better understanding of the community’s needs and concerns to help reduce the risk of crime against women in the future and I am proud to collaborate with Hollaback! in this effort,” stated Council Member Julissa Ferreras.

The audit gathered important information from the community including the ratio of men to women, how public space is being utilized and details on how well roads, parks and public transit stops are lit at nighttime. In addition, audit participants answered questions on how safe they feel when occupying public spaces.

“It takes a community to make communities safer. Block by block, we’re going to work together with community members, organizations, and government to develop concrete improvements for how we can make Queens safer,” says Hollaback! Executive Director Emily May.

Community safety audits are a UN-identified best practice to address street harassment in communities across the world….

Following an assessment of the audit data, recommendations to create safer spaces for women in Queens will be submitted to the city agencies. Council Member Ferreras and Hollaback! have already discussed plans to paint over graffiti, increase street lighting, create harassment-free zones around public schools and install an anti-harassment PSA campaign in public spaces such as parks and bus stops.

Audit participants received lunch a free T-shirt. Representatives from NYC agencies attended including NYPD, NYC Department of Transportation, and the Mayor’s Community Affairs Unit. Collaborating community organizations include Elmcor Senior Services, Dominican American Society (DAS), Ecuadorian Civic Committee, Make the Road New York, and Community Board 3 members This event was generously supported by: Health First, Dominicana Radio Dispatcher, Mama’s Leo’s Latticini, Transfiguration of Christ Greek Orthodox Church, and SD Printing.”

Congratulations to the organizations in NYC that made this possible and I look forward to reading/reporting on updates on what else they do.

METRAC based in Toronto, Canada, launched the safety audit model in the 1980s and have led audits throughout Canada since then. The United Nations uses the audit system to evaluate communities worldwide. It’s a great model to use to get a sense for how safe people feel in their communities.

In Washington, DC, where I’m based, Holla Back DC/Collective Action for Safe Spaces and I led 50 people in 10 teams across the city to do safety audits. A daytime audit took place on March 20, 2011, and an evening one on May 5, 2011. Our efforts were covered by the Washington Post.

All of us who led the audits have full time jobs and volunteered our time to organize it. We were not able to organize it as thoroughly and get the kind of diversity of participants as we wanted. And perhaps we were too ambitious to audit the whole city instead of just one or two neighborhoods. For these reasons, we have not yet used our results to advocate for specific changes the way the audit leaders in NYC will. I love the nonprofit + government partnership NYC followed and I hope that the next time we do audits in DC, we will be able to have that kind of partnership.

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Filed Under: hollaback, street harassment Tagged With: community safety audits, Julissa Ferreras, METRAC, nyc council, street harassment

Help Fund Proposed Film “Turn Around”

May 7, 2012 By HKearl

“One stalking man is enough to cause fear in a woman. But how many women are needed to cause fear in a man?”

This is a question that award-winning filmmaker Aćim Vasic, who is located in Paris, France, will address in his short film “Turn Around.”

He needs YOUR help to fund it. Visit his Indiegogo webpage to learn more about the film and to donate!!

“We’re making this film in order to raise the awareness about street harassment, that is a major issue across the world and affects many, many women. Many men don’t realize how it is to be a woman walking alone, especially in the night, turning around, feeling unsafe, the feeling of being hunted, listening to whistles and calls and hearing fallowing steps.”

“Turn Around” reflects on this problem in a metaphorical and hyperbolic way, trying to create awareness and consciousness in one man (the main character), and cause him to reconsider his attitude towards women as equal human beings and not sexual objects. And I hope that this film will help in creating this awareness in men all around the world.”

Hooray for male allies! I’m thrilled he’s not only taking on this issue but I appreciate how he wants to use his film-making talents to bring other men’s attention to this pervasive problem.

Again, if you can, please donate ($10 or more) to help him create this important film.

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Filed Under: male perspective, Resources, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: Aćim Vasic, film, indiegogo, street harassment

Win a signed copy of the book Stop Street Harassment + SSH Swag

May 1, 2012 By HKearl

There are several ways to submit your entry or entries:

1 – Share it in the comments

2 – Send to stopstreetharassment @ yahoo.com

3 – Post it on the Stop Street Harassment Facebook page

4 – Tweet it with #SSHcontest

Be sure to include an email address or some way to get in touch with you should your name be drawn.

Four names will be drawn tomorrow afternoon to celebrate the 4 years of Stop Street Harassment! Each person will also receive a Stop Street Harassment pin and stickers with their signed book.

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: books, contest, responses, street harassment

EVAW’s efforts to make London the safest city for women in the world

April 30, 2012 By HKearl

Will London become the safest city in the world for women?

Maybe!

This is the goal of the Ending Violence Against Women (EVAW) Coalition in London and they’re working hard to make it happen.

And of course, the absence of street harassment and public sexual assault is a requirement for any safe city.

I recently chatted via skype with the EVAW director Holly Dustin and found out that they are working to address street harassment/harassment on public transportation and while these are relatively new issues for them, already they’re having a lot of success because it is such a big problem for women in London.

To gather data (we always need more research!!), they conducted a YouGov poll about harassment on the London public transportation system.

They write that the poll: “revealed that more than a quarter of women in London do not always feel safe while using public transport. Many survey respondents said they wanted action on station staffing, lighting and policing. Feeling unsafe puts many more women than men off using the buses and trains at certain times, or in certain places, and urgently needs addressing by the transport authorities and as such by the mayor. We received wide London media coverage for our findings which seemed to strike a chord.”

It even struck a chord with the candidates for Mayor of London. EVAW has successfully lobbied each one to pledge to improve women’s safety if elected, including by addressing sexual harassment and assault on public transportation. Here are the manifestos by candidates Siobhan Benita, Boris Johnson Ken Livingstone and Brian Paddick. Elections are this week.

This is the 10-point plan EVAW suggests the new Mayor will need to take on in order to make London the safest city for women.

Additionally, the 2012 Summer Olympics will be held in London and EVAW is working hard on a campaign to make sure the city IS safe for everyone during it.

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Filed Under: News stories, Resources, Stories, street harassment Tagged With: EVAW, holly dustin, mayor of london, street harassment

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