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Participate in “Got Stared At”

January 26, 2012 By HKearl

Myth: Street harassment happens because of how we dress.

Truth: No it doesn’t. Street harassment happens to people wearing school uniforms, business suits, workout clothes, hijabs, winter coats, rain coats, saris, summer dresses, and jeans. Street harassment is about power and abuse of power, inconsiderateness, the performance of unhealthy definitions of masculinity, sexism, and sometimes it’s also about homophobia, transphobia, racism, classism, ablism and more.

Action: To help combat the myth that street harassment happens because of how we dress, the amazing activist group Must Bol, based in Delhi, India,  launched a website called “Got Stared At” for International Anti-Street Harassment Week.

They’re inviting people ANYWHERE who’ve been harassed in public to submit a photo of the clothing they were wearing when it happened. You can include a story about what happened or just send the photo.

So….what were you wearing when you got stared at or street harassed?

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Filed Under: anti-street harassment week Tagged With: eve teasing, got stared at, must bol, sexual harassment, stared, street harassment

Malawian women march to protest attacks

January 25, 2012 By HKearl

Women protest...Via Taipei Times

Last week groups of street vendors in the African country of Malawi harassed and attacked women, groping and stripping them naked if they were wearing pants or short skirts instead of a traditional dress.

There used to be a 30-year ban against women wearing pants or mini-skirts in Malawi, but it ended in 1994. Some men apparently think there should still be a ban and last week’s attack is just one example of their treatment of women in the capital Lilongwe and other towns like Mzuzu and Blantyre.

Via CNN:

“They beat them up and stripped them naked, claiming they did not follow the tradition,” said Seodi White, a rights activist and protest organizer. “Attacking women in trousers is an outrage. We are a democracy, they’re taking us back to the dark ages.”…

“Women have a right to wear what they want,” White said… “This is an embarrassment to our nation and an outright contempt for women.”

On Friday, hundreds of women and some men gathered to protest the attacks, wearing pants, miniskirts and leggings in a show of solidarity. Some women wore white T-shirts that said, “Real men don’t harass women,” and “Today we buy your merchandize, tomorrow you strip us naked!” since the most recent attacks were by store vendors. They chanted, “we are strong, we are strong,” and demanded an end to the attacks.

“Some of us have spent our entire life fighting for the freedom of women,” Malawian Vice President Joyce Banda told the protesters. “It is shocking some men want to take us back to bondage.”

Their protest drew the attention of President Bingu wa Mutharika and he warned the perpetrators to stop the attacks, saying women have a right to wear what they want: “I will not allow anyone to wake up and go on the streets and start undressing women and girls wearing trousers because that is criminal.”

He also ordered police to arrest anyone attacking women over their clothing and 15 men have already been arrested.

Street harassment and violence is often a mechanism for social control and that motive is clear in these attacks: men want to control how women dress. But sorry men, the women aren’t going to stand for it and neither is the president!

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Filed Under: News stories, street harassment Tagged With: Bingu wa Mutharika, Malawi, sexual assault, street harassment, trousers

Free op-ed writing conference call on Jan. 25

January 21, 2012 By HKearl

There are many ways to get involved with International Anti-Street Harassment Week, and one of them is by writing an article or opinion editorial (op-ed) about street harassment that gets published that week. If you’re not sure how to write one or do you want some advice, you’re in luck!

You are invited to participate in a free conference call about op-ed writing on Wednesday, January 25, 8:15 p.m. EST with journalist Elizabeth Mendez Berry, pictured on the right. Her 2010 op-ed partially led to the first-ever city council hearing on street harassment in New York City and she testified at the hearing. I will also offer advice on the call as I’ve authored several op-eds on street harassment.

RSVP to MeetUsontheStreet@gmail.com by Jan. 24 to receive the phone number.

And check out the fabulous resources on the Op-Ed Project’s website.

Here’s another great resource for people who want to get a group involved in the week. Request a free DVD copy of the award-winning four-minute film “Walking Home” as well as a Discussion Guide, created by the filmmaker Nuala Cabral. Use both to generate a conversation about the issue with a class or group. Ask attendees to create their own 1 minute video about their vision of a safe community and upload it to our YouTube Channel. Send requests for materials to Lauren Domino, lauren@artsengine.net

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Filed Under: anti-street harassment week, Resources, street harassment Tagged With: anti-street harassment week, elizabeth mendez berry, meet us on the steet, op-ed, street harassment

“You feel like you’re a piece of meat” – New PSA

January 18, 2012 By HKearl

“In societies across the world, women are still openly harassed on the streets and in other public spaces. Leering, lecherous ogling. Unsolicited physical, or non-physical sexual contact. The world is watching. Join the movement and stop street harassment.” – Pascale Neuschäfer

Last year, South African filmmaker Pascale Neuschäfer created a powerful short film about street harassment in her community.You can read a Q&A with her about it.

Now she’s working on an anti-street harassment campaign. As part of it, she just launched a new PSA against street harassment. It was filmed during the SlutWalk in Capetown last year.

To get more of a feel for street harassment in Cape Town, here’s a story that was submitted to the blog past year.

Even more alarming, a few weeks ago, a mob of 50 to 60 men harassed and groped two teenage girls who were wearing short skirts.

When I mentioned this incident to Pascale, she said, “last year at that very same taxi rank, a young woman came to an even harsher fate, when she was stripped of her mini skirt (all recorded on CCTV cameras). Converse to this news stories: women in rural areas often face the same fate when they wear pants!”

Terrible. And those are just some of the many reasons why a campaign against street harassment is necessary.

Keep up the great work, Pascale! We support you.

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews Tagged With: Pascale Neuschäfer, slutwalk cape town, south africa, street harassment

Baltimore college student writes thesis on street harassment

January 18, 2012 By Contributor

This guest blog post is by Laurel Long, who recently wrote her college thesis on street harassment at Goucher College in Baltimore, Maryland. She wrote a different blog post about it for Hollaback Bmore last month.

I began research into street harassment because I felt I had no other choice. I have been taking public transportation by myself since I was a teenager. Almost every time I go out, I experience sexual harassment. The harassment I experience is both day and night and frankly, causes me to hesitate to travel. One of my goals with this project is to debunk myths regarding street harassment: that it is something perpetuated by men of color on white women; that it only happens to women who dress provocatively (needless to say, how a woman dresses is not an excuse for harassment); that women are making a big deal out of nothing. In the experiences of myself and the women I know, none of these conceptions hold up. While doing research for my thesis, I loved reading the few books and articles available on the subject of street harassment as well as the many blog entries. However, the comments, mainly from men, were infuriating to read. The myths discussed above and others (e.g., lower class men are the main harassers), were repeated ad nauseum by blog commenters.

For my thesis, in addition to researching the subject via scholarly and non-scholarly means, I conducted focus groups, all with women, almost all from Goucher. To my surprise, most women participating in my focus groups considered street harassment to be a problem in their lives. This may well be because it was not an average sampling of women attending Goucher; rather the ones who participated wanted to be there. However, I was not surprised to find that my participants overwhelmingly respond to harassers in non-confrontational ways; for example, they cross the street or get off the bus rather than tell the harasser to stop. It is worth noting the admiration women expressed for one of my participants who is very assertive with men. There seems to be a gap between how women want to act and the way they actually do express themselves (I include myself within this group).

One of the more interesting things I found is that the women I surveyed generally did not see the law as practical for use in combating street harassment. Reasons varied, but part of the problem with use of the law against street harassment is that there is no standard definition of street harassment; it’s subjective. This was also a common theme brought up by men on the blogs I visited. Yet, there are laws against sexual and racial harassment in schools and workplaces. My guess is the reason there are no laws against street harassment, is that it is typically not a problem those in positions of authority face, being mostly straight, white men, and by nature of being in positions of authority, people with privilege. While I don’t know if law is the most effective route to use in solving this problem, I do know that it is a societal problem. Women are not the ones responsible for creating the situation of fear on the streets, nor should we be the only ones responsible for resolving it.

Long studies sociology and women’s studies at Goucher College. She will receive her B.A. in May 2012. Her other interests include practicing Spanish, writing creative non-fiction, and reading mysteries.

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews, street harassment Tagged With: Goucher College, laurel long, street harassment

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