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“I feel uncomfortable around grown men”

October 30, 2018 By Contributor

I’m 12 years old, and I’ve been catcalled numerous times, but this one is the first time it happened to me; I was in Taksim, a popular place for tourists in Turkey with my older cousin. A man was walking behind us, but it was daytime, crowded and everyone was walking at the same direction. So, I didn’t think much of it. I didn’t even notice him.

Then, I saw an interesting event so I turned around to record it. As I grabbed my phone, the guy (presumably in his 20s) whistled and winked at me. I’ve never been catcalled before, so I felt really scared, vulnerable, and small. Really, really small. I’m a strong, athletic girl, even compared to some adults I know, but when I was going through that, I felt so vulnerable. I’m only 12! What if he pulled out a knife? What if he drugged me? He continued to follow us for 10 minutes straight.

I didn’t show that I was scared, but it really struck me. I knew he couldn’t do anything, there were too many people around, but I couldn’t help but feel threatened. I was paranoid he was going to drug me since he was walking behind me. Since he followed me inside a few shops, I knew this wasn’t just an ordinary catcall. This guy was up to something, so I spoke out, “Can you leave me alone?” I said (in Turkish).

He laughed, blew me a kiss and left. I was so anxious the rest of the day. I didn’t make eye contact with anyone. Even though it wasn’t physical, it still affects me to this day. I’m still getting honked, barked at by guys in cars passing by at night. I really feel small and vulnerable, I might be strong compared to my peers, maybe I might be able to run away or defend myself, but it still gets me shaking whenever it happens.

Everything about rape, violence, kidnapping that I’ve seen or read just comes to my mind. What if I become the victim? What will they do to me? I can’t walk comfortably at night (or day) anymore and fyi, my clothing wasn’t even revealing. Maybe it showed my curves a little, but that still leaves them no right to commit these predatory actions.

I feel a little better when I see women fighting back against street harassment, it really helps me. But still, I feel uncomfortable around grown men.

– Anonymous

Location: Taksim, Turkey

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Woman Killed in U.S., Women Migrants Targeted Abroad

January 7, 2016 By HKearl

Trigger Warning

Here are two upsetting stories for the new year so far (in addition to the attacks on women in Germany). We have so much more work to do.

First, I am sorry to share the news of another senseless death that started as a benign conversation, escalated to street harassment and then to gunshots!! Our thoughts are with Sara’s friends & family.

Sara Mutschlechner, image via Pix11.com
Sara Mutschlechner, image via Pix11.com

Via CNN:

“Sara Mutschlechner was driving through the Dallas suburb with three passengers around 2 a.m. (3 a.m. ET) Friday when a gray Honda Pilot with five to six males inside pulled up next to them, Kizer said at a Tuesday afternoon press conference.

“It was an amicable conversation to begin with, but quickly went downhill and some derogatory statements were made toward the female occupants of that vehicle,” the Denton Police spokesman told reporters.

Kizer described those “very derogatory” remarks as being of a “sexual nature,” adding that a male inside Mutschlechner’s vehicle responded by calling them out as offensive.

“Some comments were made back towards him, even a couple of threats were thrown,” the police spokesman said. “About that time, they were driving through the intersection … when several shots were fired.”

One of those shots struck Mutschlechner in the head, according to Denton Police.

She quickly lost control of her car, which first hit another vehicle leaving a nearby parking lot before veering into an electrical pole.

The Honda Pilot, meanwhile, fled.

Mutschlechner, a University of North Texas student and member of the Zeta Tau Alpha sorority, died after being transported to an area hospital. She was a designated driver that night and had not been drinking, witnesses said.”

The second story comes from the New York Times and is about men targeting migrant women from countries like Syria for sexual abuse.

“Interviews with dozens of migrants, social workers and psychologists caring for traumatized new arrivals across Germany suggest that the current mass migration has been accompanied by a surge of violence against women. From forced marriages and sex trafficking to domestic abuse, women report violence from fellow refugees, smugglers, male family members and even European police officers. There are no reliable statistics for sexual and other abuse of female refugees….

As some women painted their hands with henna and others traded frustrations about the time it was taking to get refugee status, Samar, a 35-year-old former employee of the Syrian Finance Ministry, opened up about the particular stress of being a woman on the move. Bombed out of her home in Darayya, a suburb of Damascus that early in the civil war became known for antigovernment protests, Samar spent 14 months on the road alone with her three daughters, ages 2, 8 and 13.

“I did not leave them out of my sight for one minute,” she said in Arabic, speaking through an interpreter. She and other single mothers slept in shifts along the way, watching over their daughters and one another.

But in Izmir, Turkey, about to board a boat to Greece, Samar was robbed and left with no money to pay the smuggler. A stocky man who called himself Omar, he offered to take her for free, but only if she had sex with him. Samar had heard him before, at night, in the hostel where she and other refugee women were staying, “going to this room and that.”

“Everybody knows there are two ways of paying the smugglers,” she said. “With money or with your body.”

But she refused, and Omar became angry. That night he burst into Samar’s room, threatening her and her daughters before her screaming chased him away. Samar stayed in Turkey for almost a year to work and save up the 4,000 euros needed for the remainder of the journey.

Sitting with her youngest daughter curled on her lap, Samar concluded: “Almost all men in the world are bad.”

Across town, in west Berlin, Ms. Höhne sympathized, but had a more nuanced view. There are no easy solutions, she said. Female-only shelters are not an option because most families want to stay together. Some women rely on men for protection. And, she added, “We mustn’t forget many of the men are traumatized, too.”

“There is no black and white, good and evil,” she said. “If we want to help the women, we need to help the men, too.”

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UN Conference on Ending Violence Against Women

December 13, 2015 By HKearl

Global conference on ending violence against womenFrom December 9-10, 2015, around 300 people from 70 countries came together in Istanbul, Turkey for the Ending Violence against Women: Building on Progress to Accelerate Change conference. It overlapped with the final days of the global 16 Days of Activism to end Violence against Women.

It has been 20 years since the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action – Violence against Women, was adopted by 189 countries in 1995. One of the meeting objectives was to review our progress and our challenges since the Beijing Declaration. Also, with the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) adopted by world leaders in September 2015, another meeting objective was to hear government leaders commit to ending violence against women.

The conference brought together high-level government ministers from Turkey (including the Prime Minister Ahmet Davutoğlu) and 16 other countries, along with practitioners, experts and civil society to assess progress, share data and good practices, and identify challenges.

As a UN summary of the conference says, “Calling for zero tolerance and immediate action to end the global epidemic of violence against women, officials urged that existing laws protecting women be vigorously enforced, and emphasized prevention, survivor services, the need for reliable data, and the importance of engaging men and boys to stop violence against women and girls.”

Safe Cities Panel
Safe Cities Panel

I was part of a breakout session panel on safe cities. Laura Capobianco, policy specialist for safe public spaces, UN Women, talked about the Global Safe Cities Initiative that launched in five cities in 2010 and is now in 23 cities. Suneeta Dhar, the director of Jagori in India talked about their awareness-raising work to address sexual harassment in public spaces. I spoke as a UN consultant about the Microsoft-funded project I worked on regarding women’s access to mobile phones and how the phones may be used to prevent, document or respond to sexual harassment and related forms of sexual violence in urban public spaces.

I took a lot of notes throughout the conference. Here are some of the highlights, broken out by session or panel. **Most of what I write is paraphrasing what the speaker said unless there are quotation marks.**

 

A Sampling of Statements from UN Leaders:

Ban Ki-Moon, Secretary-General of the UN (The UN director in Turkey read his statement):

He’s been working to rally men through the #HeforShe campaign, UNiTE campaign, and his male network. But he says we must all do more to stop all forms of abuse.

He is very upset about extremist violence against women, like the Taliban shooting Malala in Pakistan, the kidnapping of school girls in Nigeria, and the systematic rape of women in Syria by ISIS members. Women are more than victims however, they are agents of change.

The Sustainable Development Goals can only be achieved if we end VAW.

 

Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, UN Under-Secretary-General and Executive Director of UN Women

“Violence against women and girls remains one of the most widespread and tolerated violations of human rights — but it is not inevitable, and we can prevent it. We are here today to say that this is enough. Now is the moment for coherently executed, decisive action to eliminate violence against women and girls for good.”

She also talked about how 135 laws on domestic violence and rape were passed in countries since Beijing, but we need to make sure the laws are enforced. She said we need to change the norms as beliefs go deep. We need to emphasize prevention efforts and focus on changing attitudes. We need zero tolerance of VAW from our leaders.

She also said that girls need our special attention. They are the bridge to the future, but currently are bearing the brunt of violence. And lastly, she talked about how VAW is at the center of the Sustainable Development Goals and it is an obstacle to achieving them. We need boys and men rallied to help end VAW.

 

Dr. Babatunde Osotimehin, Executive Director of UNFPA:

He talked about women and girls he’s met: the girls who are harassed and grabbed on their way to the public toilet; girls married off at age 13; young women raped on university campuses; and the 800 women who needlessly die each day from childbirth, which he also sees as a form of VAW because they are denied proper medical attention.

“There is no country where there is not violence. Women and girls can’t change it alone. We need men and boys to stand up and say no….There are around 59 million 10-year-old girls in the world. What can we achieve if they all can go to school, earn a living, and live free from violation and violence?”

Twenty-five percent of countries’ budgets go to defense, but who are they defending if the people are facing violence at home? Governments need to allocate more money in their budgets to address issues affecting women. The best asset of a country is its people, especially women and girls. Their needs must be prioritized.

 

A Sampling of Statements from National Leaders:

Turkish Prime Minister Ahmet Davutoğlu

“We will take all the measures to prevent the violence against women. This is our duty as we are the law makers, but laws are not the only and precise solution against violence. It’s very important how we position ourselves as human beings. The mentality is the key point. The way of removing violence from life is to close the ways that goes to violence from the start.”

[Read an article about his speech.]

 

Turkey: Dr. Sema Ramazanoğlu, Minister for Family and Social Policies

“Violence against women is a barrier to sustainable human development. Governments should have zero tolerance for violence against women and girls.”

 

Japan: Miki Yamada, Parliamentary Vice Minister for Foreign Affairs

They are promoting comprehensive measures to address VAW, such as recently increasing the counseling centers for domestic violence from 73 to 261. They have a national action plan around VAW and they donate money for other anti-VAW efforts, such as in the DRC.

 

Georgia: Tea Tsulukiani, Minister of Justice

Many people in Georgia feel that domestic violence should be kept as a family matter. The government is trying to change that attitude. Another challenge is ending forced early marriages. They’ve increased the penalty against parents who force girls to marry young but it’s hard to enforce it. Girls may already have children by the time something is done and then that complicates things. Thus the implementation of laws is a challenge. Impunity and implementation can only be effective if there’s a cultural shift.

 

Republic of Moldova: Nighina Azizov, Deputy Minister of Labour, Social Protections and Family

They adopted a domestic violence law in 2008. They are working on ways to encourage more victims to seek help. Right now, domestic violence is a silent problem. They have a law that promotes a 40% leadership quota for women as it’s crucial to have more women in politics. If there were an equal number of women and men as leaders, they believe it would be a more human society.

 

Ukraine: Serhiy Ustymenko, Deputy Minister of Social Policies

They are trying to design real mechanisms to address VAW. They’re trying to do gender-oriented budgeting. They expect there will be an increase in domestic violence rates as soldiers come home with PTSD and other baggage that may make them more violent. Thus, domestic violence will be a focus of the government.

 

Indonesia: Yohana Yembise, Minister of Women Empowerment and Child Protection

They have a VAW law and eight female ministers, but still there is a lot of domestic violence. In looking at mapping and data, there are a lot of incidents of sexual abuse across the country. It’s hard to change mindsets.

 

Albania: Bardhylka Kospiri, Deputy Minister of Social Welfare

They have increased the number of women leaders in government, including the Minister of Defense. They have a commitment to end domestic violence and support the empowerment of women’s rights. “We must involve all partners if we want to see results.”

 

India: Lalitha Kumaramangalam, Chair of the National Commission on Women

At the local village government level, there is a 33% quota for women leaders. At first these women were family and relatives of male leaders but now, more than 50% are women and many are leaders in their own right. They are more focused than men on issues like sanitation, water supply, education and other projects that will help communities. Health issues used to be last on the list but now as there are more women leaders, it’s becoming a priority. Also, six women are senior leaders at the national level, including the minister of finance.

 

Costa Rica: Alejandra Mora Mora, Minister of Women’s Affairs

There are more laws on VAW and quotas for women in leadership, but they haven’t seen much progress in the implementation of the laws. No matter how much the laws have changed, it does not mean an improvement on social issues. These are cultural, deeply rooted norms. We have to reach out to men. Some progress has been achieved but more needs to be done. We need to talk to young men and women in schools.

 

Democratic Republic of Congo: Jeannine Mabunda, Personal Rep of the DRC Head of State on Sexual Violence in Conflict and Child Recruitment and Member of Parliament

The conflict in the country that ended in 2013 had a lot of collateral damage, including the rape of women. Congo was depicted in the media as complacent about VAW, but they changed that tone at the highest level. They pushed for the application of laws and she personally sat in courts across the country to set the tone that this was important. The message to the military was that they would be held accountable for raping women. In 2013 they signed an action plan with the UN on addressing VAW in the military. It’s important to change the tone in a country and address VAW at the highest level.

 

Afghanistan: Simar Samar, Chair of the Afghanistan Independent Human Rights Commission

Fifteen years ago women were imprisoned in Afghanistan but now a lot has changed. They have a right to equality under the law and there is a 25% quota for women in parliament. They ratified CEDAW in 2003. They have special prosecutors on VAW in some provinces. They’re in a training phase. After 38 years of war, she feels optimistic.

 

Liberia: ??

Addressing female genital mutilation (FGM) is a challenge. They tried including it in a 2011 Children’s Law that prohibited all forms of violence against children but didn’t specific FGM. Now they’re trying to add it to a domestic violence bill because FGM is done by family members.

They’re trying to be strategic in how they ban FGM.

 

The State of Palestine: Daoud El Deek, Deputy Assistant, Ministry of Social Affairs

They are under Israeli occupation and try to demand full protection for all citizens. They have a national strategy for combatting VAW. They are developing a social protection system, building up forensic evidence and efforts to prosecute VAW and increasing data collection on VAW.

 

Sudan: Mashaier Al Dawalab, Federal Minister of Welfare and Social Security

They have a five year strategy plan on good governance and the rule of law. After the Darfur conflict, the government had a committee to declare zero tolerance on VAW. They’re developing a nation plan of action coordinated with UN agencies.

 

PANELS AND ROUNDTABLES WITH EXPERTS:

Global Trends and Practices on Ending VAW –
Where have we come since Beijing and what do we need to do?

Dr. Hijran Huseynova, Chair, State Commission for Family, Women and Children Affairs, Azerbaijan

After the Beijing conference, she helped create the national department on women and children affairs to address issues raised at the conference. By 2005, they had adopted national laws against domestic violence, for gender equality, and raised the legal age of marriage up from 12 years to 16 years. They have special trainings for judges and at universities to try to help the laws be enforced properly.

When the moderator asked her specifically about forced early marriages, she said that parents who arrange them often do so to secure a “good fate” for their children. So to disrupt that cultural norm, they show them that early marriages create problems instead of solve them, such as unhealthy babies born to girls too young to be having them. There are many NGOs across the country working on changing these cultural norms.

 

Dr. Joy Ngozi Ezeilo, Faculty of Law, University of Nigeria and Executive Director, Women’s Aid Collective

In her country, the Beijing conference helped move women to a place of having a voice. Laws began to address gender equality issues, such as revising inheritance laws to be fair to women. For the first time women had a voice in the constitution. In Nigeria there is backlash against women’s progress, however, including kidnappings, rapes, and sexual slavery of female students by Boko Haram. So they are working on making schools safe for girls because “the girl child’s education is essential.”

 

Suneeta Dhar, Director of JAGORI, India

The 2012 Delhi gang rape brought about more consciousness about VAW because of the activism by students and ordinary people. While a lot had happened in the country since Beijing, it had not addressed all types of VAW, such as acid throwing, stalking and sexual harassment in public spaces, which are everyday experiences of women and girls. We need to recognize the continuum of violence: in the home, on the streets, in schools and the workplaces, in refugee camps, etc.

While we work to change mindsets, we need the highest political commitment on VAW. We need to improve access to justice.

The moderator asked the panelists about whether or not cultural norms were a barrier to seeing a shift.

Ezeilo: Yes, there is reluctancy over modernization. Some people say women’s rights is a form of Western values being focused in African countries. And not all leaders help, with some committing or condoning VAW.

Huseynova: Yes, women are the main people who raise boys and girls and they are instilling the culture. Women need to respect ourselves and stand up. In families where women are educated and have their own income, they have authority, dignity and their sons are more likely to respect women. We need to have equal rights in families. Many girls are thriving in schools and universities but struggle in their professions because if they have a family, the roles are still unequal.

Suneeta; We need more discourse on bodily integrity. We need types of masculinity that is healthy. This is everyone’s issue and we all have a role to play.

 

Panel on the Prevention of VAW

Ashufta Alam, VAW and Girls Team Leader, Inclusive Societies Department, Policy Division (UK/DFID):

DFID has increased their investment in ending VAW by 60% over the past two years. DFID has committed to building an evidence base. A “What works to prevent VAW” project is well funded and interventions are being tested at the community and family level.

 

Lara Fergus, Director of Policy and Evaluation “Our Watch,” Australia

Their work focuses on improving responses to VAW. Over the last 20 years, despite the efforts in place, Australia has the same high prevalence of violence. So we “need to turn off the tap. We need to change the practices and attitudes that allow it to happen.”

Over the past five years, they’ve run pilots and pulled together the results to look at policies on how to prevent men’s violence and better understand what attitudes drive VAW. There is information in the new report “A Framework to Underpin Action to Prevent VAW.”

Ultimately, VAW is drive by gender inequality. Attitudes that women are inferior lead to an increase in VAW. We can’t just do awareness raising. It’s not enough. We need to shift deeply held attitudes by shifting structures. Women’s economic empowerment is crucial. We can’t do any single, short-term projects. We need to collaborate across governments, schools, sports groups, and faith-based organizations in long-term ways with outcomes we can measure.

You can find more information at www.ourwatch.org.au.

 

Natsnet Ghebrebrhan, Raising Voices, Uganda

Raising Voices has a toolkit on how to prevent VAW and HIV/AIDS. There are four phases to the kit: start, awareness, support and action (SASA). SASA is effective because its process focuses on bringing behavior changes by exposing communities to new ideas and attitudes and then they can decide to change. Power imbalances cause VAW. SASA helps everyone know they have the power to change.

SASA engages in local activism, media messaging and advocacy, publications and trainings. They help community members create their own change and help women and men engage in peer-to-peer leadership and influencing.

Raising Voices studied people who were exposed to SASA compared to a control group, both in Kampala. The study found SASA was very effective, including by reducing the acceptance of intimate partner violence (76% said it was unacceptable versus 26% of the control group). SASA helped reduce levels of intimate partner violence by 52% in the previous year.

The research gave them hope that violence can be prevented within a single generation.

SASA is now used in 20 countries by 60 organizations. It takes three years to go through the four phases of the program so there is a need for long-term commitment from donors and others to seeing it work.

 

Nguyen Thi Nga, Ministry of Labor, Invalids and Social Affairs, Vietnam

VAW is a serious issue, but there is not much national data. After the Beijing meeting, laws were passed, such as a Gender Equality Law (2006), Domestic Violence Law (2007) and a law on human trafficking (2011). There are many groups and agencies working on these issues in various ways, including policy dialogues, street music and flash mobs so they can reach a range of audiences. They have a project called Safety School, Friendly and Gender Equality. It’s at 10 secondary and 10 high schools in Hanoi. “VAW can be ended if we have collaborations.”

 

Panel on VAW – Data and Evidence

Dr. Rashidah Shuib, Centre for Research on Women and Gender, University of Science, Malaysia:

She said we need to conduct mapping and a better understanding of what’s going on with VAW. The 1995 Beijing platform called for evidence. It took many countries a long time to do anything about it, including in Malaysia. Her research department collected data on VAW for the first time.

 

Dr. Claudia Garcia Moreno Esteva, Team Lead for Sexual Health, Gender, Reproductive Health and Research, World Health Organization (WHO), Switzerland:

WHO developed methodology that’s a gold standard for research on VAW.

Before the Beijing meeting, she personally saw VAW as a women’s health issue and she faced backlash for having that viewpoint. At Beijing, there was a section on health that included VAW, which caused an important change. 1996 was the first WHO meeting on VAW and they discussed the health links.

One recommendation from the meetings was to find scientifically sound data that could confirm what women’s groups were saying about VAW. WHO set up a multi-country study on domestic violence and related issues. They had no money and it took two years to raise the funds to implement the study. They began it in 1999 and published the results in 2005. They set out to develop and test new instruments to strengthen the link between women’s organizations and policy makers.

They created the first ethical and safety recommendations for researchers working on these topics, recommendations which are widely used today.

Their latest 2013 report includes 81 countries and territories. The number of studies on VAW prevalence has increased since the mid-2000s and now 100+ countries have data on domestic violence and some forms of sexual violence but not other forms. There are still gaps.

“Getting data is instrumental in getting countries to acknowledge these issues. We need all countries to generate the data.”

 

Dr. Ilknur Yuksel Kaptanoglu, Project Director “Research on Domestic Violence against Women in Turkey,” Institute of Population Studies, Hacettepe University, Turkey

Her department oversaw two large nationally representative studies on domestic violence in 2008 and 2014, using the same questions and methodology, though the 2014 study included stalking. They followed the WHO survey, adapting it for Turkey. They trained nearly 200 interviewers. In 2008 they surveyed 24k households and 15k in 2014. About half of all participants were female. They used complex samples to gather accurate data for policy makers. They had financial support from the ministry of family and social affairs for the 2014 study. The steering committee includes government groups, NGOs, and academics.

Both studies showed that 4 out of 10 women had experienced interpersonal violence. They found that women knowing their rights and the laws doesn’t increase the change they will access services. The bureaucratic procedure appears as an obstacle in combatting VAW and gender-related norms and beliefs justify male authority and VAW.

Her advice is if you do multiple studies, spread them across 10 or more years to see if policies have helped.

 

Francesca Grum, Chief, Social and Housing Statistics Section, UN Statistics Commission (UNSC)

UNSC has been involved in measuring and monitoring VAW since 2006. They have developed indicators to assist countries in measuring the breadth of VAW. In 2008 UNSC created indicators and adopted them in 2009. In 2015, an inter-agency group worked on the sustainable development goals and they will be presented to the statistics community in 2015 to review and agree on.

The sustainable development goals include 17 goals, 169 targets, with 28 member states working together since June 2015. Two plenary meetings and various online discussions have taken place. The current list has 220 indicators and 160 are green, and have full agreement from 28 states, and 60 are gray and are still under review. The SDG indicators related to VAW will have prevalence questions about violence by an intimate partner and sexual violence by a non-intimate partner. There are new questions proposed, including ones about physical and sexual harassment by perpetrator and place (e.g. streets by strangers! School by classmates!), human trafficking, homicides, and young people 18-24 who experienced sexual violence by age 18. The SDGs will be finalized in March 2016.

 

Panel on Challenges and Emerging Issues for the 2030 Development Framework

Ramiz Alakabarov, Programmed Director at UNFPA

After the 2010 earthquake in Haiti, he went into a maternity ward and found it destroyed and full of acts of violence. Groups of men were raping women in the maternity ward, stealing food from the mothers and babies. UNFPA brought in security and vans to take women to other health services. They offered them legal help (even if they were illiterate). Women were identifying gang members and then in retaliation gang members murdered some of them. He realized ending VAW would require a cross-collaboration.

This panel focused on Goal 5 of the sustainable development goal (SDG) and the 9 targets. Full implementation matters. We must address structural barriers and aim to end VAW and discrimination in all sectors. Agenda 2030 is global and we can’t leave any women behind. We must act now to achieve lasting gender equality. We must recall our accountability and UNFPA is committed to monitoring and closely supporting countries as they implement the SDGs.

 

Purna Sen, Director of Policy Division, UN Women:

Today is Human Rights Day and the 16th day of the 16 Days of Activism. Violence is ubiquitous across the world. We are endlessly creative in how we abuse women. That’s the concern that brings us together.

 

Karima Bennoune, Special Rappourteur in the field of cultural rights, Women Living Under Muslim Laws

Her father was from Algeria and he was a university professor who spoke out against extremism. What was happening in the 1990s in Algeria is similar to what is happening now with ISIS, including sexual slavery and rape. What if the world had listened to women’s rights activists then in Algeria and Afghanistan? But now extremism has spread. We now must learn from other countries.

This extremist violence (abduction, rape, sexual slavery, the murder of women’s rights activists) is the implementation of fundamentalist dogma. If we’re to end violence we must tackle the disease itself and the underlying issues. We need a human rights strategy in accordance with human rights laws. Women must be at the core of ending extremism. We need to listen to and empower women, especially those fighting at the front lines. Women’s rights defenders are too often left out of the bargaining. They should not be added on but should be a core of the fight.

Human rights are central to the SDGs. We need all countries to be part of it. It’s about all forms of VAW. We must think about those left behind and put them first. Think about the most unwanted and stigmatized, the women who are locked at home, women who are marginalized by disability, race, caste, etc, and put them first.

The biggest risk factor to vulnerability is being born female. It’s in our collective efforts that we make progress.

Human Rights law says neither culture nor religion justifies VAW. Culture can be a tool of empowerment for women and we can frame the message as women are taking back their right to culture. Extremists claim to be the only ones who can dictate culture but we need to let women decide what culture they want to support.

 

Yohana Yembise, Minister of Women Empowerment and Child Projection, Indonesia

The president has committed to supporting SDGs. They are launching the #HeforShe campaign on December 22, which is Mother’s Day in their country. They have some laws but need to find the root of the problem. They need more research on why there is VAW. Why is it hard to stop, to change people’s mindsets? “We can’t let culture hold us back.”

Peter Mladenov, International Coordinator in Charge of Advocacy and Partnerships, Youth Peer Education Network, Bulgaria

He became a peer educator at 14 years old and he saw what the empowerment of people means. He works to promote reproductive health and rights and to engage young people on the grassroots level. SDGs are the first time grassroots, on the ground people are having their voice heard. We must recognize the importance of youth participation, which means listening to them and hearing their needs and what they want to achieve. SDGs 3, 4, and 5 all affect young people. Gender equality is crucial for the development of society.

 

Olivier Adam, Deputy Regional Director for Europe and the CIS, UNDP

How do we create momentum to enforce the SDGs? We need more and better coordination among groups. We need less money for war and more money for empowerment. We must bring in new financing sources and collect national data in every country. The commitment should be to leave no one behind.

[[During the Q&A, one audience member suggested that if Superheroes are being created by ISIS etc as recruitment tools, we need to create our own Superheroes, including women.]]

 

Panel on Engaging Men and Boys to End VAW

Edouard Munyamaliza, Executive Secretary, Rwanda Men Resource Center, Rwanda:

More than one-fourth of the country suffers from PTSD after the genocide. They have to work to overcome gender and social norms regarding VAW. “Men are compassionate human beings, why are they mean to those whom they love the most?”

 

Erkin Latipov, Vice President, Tajikistan’s Taekwando and Kick-boxing Federation, Tajikistan

They use sports to empower girls and change gender norms for boys and girls.

 

Nodar Andguladze, Georgian Rugby Union, Georgia

He’s a former professional rugby player and he and other players have a Men Against Violence effort and hold discussions with men across the country. Men must help build a better future for our kids. Men commit most violence against women and men. “It’s time to speak out and speak loud and alongside women’s organizations and others who are not always heard.”

 

Sophie Dataushvilli, Co-Founder, We Care, Georgia:

In Georgia, it’s a patriarchal society and women are seen as subservient in the family. She and a friend began an organization to encourage fathers to be involved with their children. They had campaigns like “Dad, Read me a Book” and recorded videos with famous fathers in the country. They did Fathers for Fathers with famous men photographed holding messages to other fathers to be involved with their children. They asked famous fathers to write letters and created a book of them. UNDP gave them funds and they created “reality tv” series where a famous dad has to take care of his kids all day one day to show viewers that men can do all aspects of the childcare. All of their campaigns have been popular.

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16 Days: Human Rights Day (Day 16)

December 10, 2015 By HKearl

Today is Human Rights Day and also the final day of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence. That’s because violence against women IS a human rights violation. Everyone should live lives from from violence.

Ministers and Deputy Ministers from 17 countries talk talk about violence against women in their country and what they will do about it.
Ministers and Deputy Ministers from 17 countries talk talk about violence against women in their country and what they will do about it.

For the last two days, I’ve had the honor to attend — and today present at — a global conference on ending violence against women (VAW) in Istanbul, Turkey, organized by UN agencies and the government of Turkey and timed to fall within the end of the 16 Days (there’s been lots of orange everywhere!).

Via UN Women’s website:

“The two-day meeting will be held 20 years after the landmark Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action – Violence against Women, was adopted by 189 countries in 1995. Turkey, being the host of the international meeting, echoes the leading role the country has played as the first government to ratify the Istanbul Convention, which sets legally binding standards to prevent violence against women and girls, protect victims and punish perpetrators.

Meeting objectives include reviewing progress and challenges since the Beijing Declaration; sharing the latest data and good practices to prevent and respond to violence against women and girls; and, importantly in light of the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) adopted by world leaders in September 2015, to get fresh political commitments from Governments to end violence against women.”

UN estimates 300 people from around 70 countries attended. Ministers and deputy ministers of 17 countries attended and made statements of commitment to ending VAW.  We heard from the Prime Minister of Turkey yesterday and tonight at the closing reception, we heard from the mayor of Istanbul.

I took a lot of notes and will write about the highlights during my long flight home tomorrow. In the meantime, here is a UN write-up about the first day, yesterday, which includes this message:

Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, UN Under-Secretary-General and Executive Director of UN Women
Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, UN Under-Secretary-General and Executive Director of UN Women

“Violence against women and girls remains one of the most widespread and tolerated violations of human rights – but it is not inevitable, and we can prevent it. We are here today to say that this is enough. Now is the moment for coherently executed, decisive action to eliminate violence against women and girls for good,” said Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, UN Under-Secretary-General and Executive Director of UN Women, at the opening session.

This evening at the closing reception, she said, “In the 19th century, the world abolished slavery. In the 20th century, we ended colonialism. Now, in the 21st century, we will end violence against women. It is an idea whose time has come.”

Yes, it has!

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Today’s Events – April 18

April 18, 2015 By BPurdy

Bangladesh

It’s the last day of International Anti-Street Harassment Week! Here are some of the actions taking place.

International:

Bangladesh: AUW Speak Up Club members will go out to streets of Chittagong with flyers and message boards to raise awareness about street harassment, to ask people to share their messages, to raise their voice, and to join the campaign.

Canada (Alberta): Hollaback! Alberta is holding “Street Harassment Happens Here,” where they will be walking through the high traffic areas of Whyte avenue, stopping every 5 minutes, and providing chalk & support to those who wish to participate. Participants are welcome to use sidewalk chalk to describe their experiences and/or feelings regarding street harassment on the sidewalk. It can be specific incidences that have occurred on Whyte Ave, or they can be general statements. Chalking can be a powerful way to share your experiences, reclaim spaces that are made to feel unsafe, and support those who are silenced by street harassment. [April 18, 1-5pm on Whyte Avenue in Edmonton between Gateway Blvd and 109th Street.]

Chile: OCAC Chile will host an event in a local park with performances and art [April 18]

Colombia: OCAC Colombia is hosting a an event in Bogota: SATURDAY 18 APRIL – 7PM: We will closure the week dancing, so you are invited to a pro-fund International Week Against Street Harassment spree. See you at la Redada, Carrera 19 No 33A-26 | SÁBADO 18 DE ABRIL – 9PM. Cerraremos la semana bailando e invitándoles a una farra pro-fondos Semana Internacional Contra el Acoso Callejero. Nos vemos en el Rehuso, en la Carrera 19 No 33A-26

France: Stop Harcelement de Rue Lyon will be holding a chalk walk [April 18 – 3 pm. Location: Montée de la Grande Côte]

France: Stop Harcelement de Rue Lille is holding a wall of shame: post-its are made available for passers-by to write insults and catcalls they were subjected to. The post-its are then glued to a giant board (this is the second wall of shame as the first one took place on International Women’s Day). [April 18 – 2 pm]

Nepal: The Nepal Mahila Ekata Samaj (Nepal Women Unity Society) will be chalk writing on street and bridge – Write the slogan and demand on street and bridge inform the public and masses abou the issue. [April 18]

Romania: FILIA: Centre for Curriculum Development and Gender Studies: is hold a public action in park to raise awareness and to share fliers with information about street harassment and also write chalk messages, discussing with people and ending the activity with a flashmob about the importance of bystander intervention and avoiding victim-blaming attitudes.

Serbia: Equity Youth Association will be hosting a week long campaign to educate locals about what street harassment is. This will include flyering and handing out graphics and info across the city with information from their recently conducted survey, and hosting a chalk walk with local university students in a city park that is notorious for being  a high-harassment area [Flyering April 12-18, Chalk Walk April 17th]

Turkey: Hollaback! Izmir will be hosting several events through the week, including a street harassment forum [April 12, 2-3pm at Caffenol Bistro], a banner-making workshop [April 12, 3:30-4:30pm] and panels and street activity [April 18, 2-6pm] Find more info here. 

United Kingdom: Hollaback! York will be holding their launch event during #EndSHWeek! Join them to share stories and learn more about their new community survey. [April 18, 1:30-3pm Fishergate Room the in the Priory Street Centre]

 

USA Events:

Maryland: STREETWISE is hosting a Basics of Self Defense Class. This 4-hour hands-on workshop will give you the confidence, knowledge and strength to feel empowered in a life-threatening situation. You will learn basic defense techniques on how to recognize, react to and survive an attack! [Saturday, April 18, 2015 @ 10:00am – 2:00pm  at Fitness Craze – 223-D Brierhill Drive, Bel Air, MD 21015] INFO

Nevada: Hollaback! Las Vegas is hosting a Self-Defense Workshop with Israeli Martial Arts. The workshop is FREE but spaces are limited. To register, email gabrielle@RCCLV.org with the subject line “self defense workshop” [Saturday, April 18th 11am to 1pm]

New York: dianINQUE will be hosting community outreach via chalk walks and flyering on April 18 and 19.

North Carolina: SSH campaign manager Britnae will be hosting a charity yoga class at Durham Yoga Company. Street harassment takes a toll on our mental well-being. Take some time to recenter and focus on self-love during this yoga class! We’ll be giving out SSH-themed gift bags! Class is free, but 100% of proceeds will go back to Stop Street Harassment.  [Saturday, April 18, 6-7:30pm]

Massachusetts: Guerilla Feminism Boston will be hosting Reclaim Our Spaces: A Chalk Walk for Black Women, WOC, Queer, and Trans Women. Join them while they use chalk to share our stories, tell our truths and stand in solidarity for those we have lost to street harassment & gender based violence. Allies are welcome as long as they are active in their support of the communities mentioned above. [April 18, 3:30-5:30pm at the Mass Ave T Stop on the Orange Line, Boston]

Washington, DC: SSH, CASS and Batala! will host street action at U Street and 14th Street, 2-4 p.m.[April 18]

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