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Late April 2016 News Round-Up

April 25, 2016 By HKearl

Here are relevant news articles from the past few weeks.

Montreal Gazette, “Montreal police urge transit users to report sexual predators, help victims“

“Police in the Montreal region launched a campaign to encourage transit users to report incidents of sexual harassment on the métro, buses and trains. Many victims of sexual touching talk about their experience on social media or report it to transit authorities, but are reluctant to file a police report, said Inspector Carole Lalonde of the Montreal police’s métro division.”

Chicago Reader, “Could woman-only el cars prevent sexual harassment on the CTA?”

“The agency is addressing the problem through a new informational campaign. ‘If It’s Unwanted, It’s Harassment’ warns would-be offenders that abusive behavior will not be tolerated.

CTA anti-Harassment Ad April 2016

The centerpiece of the campaign is a new line of rail and bus advertisements encouraging riders who see a fellow passenger being hassled to speak up, contact CTA personnel via an onboard intercom, or call 911 if there’s an immediate safety threat.

But some of the credit for the new initiative should go to the Courage Campaign, a grassroots organization launched in 2014 by Uptown resident Kara Crutcher to fight harassment on the CTA. Last year the group successfully lobbied the agency to shift its focus from simply asking victims to report incidents to preventing abusive behavior by raising awareness of the problem.

‘We’re happy to see a couple of CTA ads up regarding harassment,’ Crutcher said. ‘It is definitely a step in the right direction. . . . Personally, I hope that we can work with them to produce more educational ads, but we shall see.’

As for female-only cars, while Crutcher says these could provide a safe space for women suffering from post-harassment PTSD, she argues they’re a Band-Aid solution that doesn’t get to the root of the problem.

‘A cultural shift must occur,’ she says. ‘We must recognize and respect each other everywhere, but especially in these public spaces. . . . Putting men in a train car separate from me will not stop them from harassing me when we exit the train. But education, antistreet harassment advocacy, and courage might.””

Guardian, “‘I cried all the way back’: sexual harassment on public transport“

“How does it feel to be subject to unwanted sexual attention on your morning commute? Or on your way to school? We asked readers to tell us their stories of sexual harassment on public transport … Some told us about being followed off trains. Others told us about men trying to sneak a feel of their breasts between shopping bags. Then there were those who witnessed public masturbation, or were just teenagers when they were first subject to unwanted sexual attention. These experiences were not limited to those living within the jurisdiction of Transport for London.”

Nepal Republic Media, “Public transport is living hell for young women“

“Many young women and girls in Kathmandu Valley don’t like to use public transport because of sexual harassment, which is rife despite several attempts by the authorities to tackle the problem.

Soyana Nyachhon, an 18-year-old student, says she has encountered harassment many times while using public transport vehicles in the city. ‘I was traveling in a micro-bus in the Maitighar area recently and a man of around 25 to 30 came close to my seat deliberately. It made me feel really uncomfortable,’ she said.
‘I asked him to move away a little but he didn’t respond. So I kept quiet and prayed that my stop would come soon,’ she added. She further said it was not the first time she had faced such situations while using public transport.”
Via Liverpool Echo
Via Liverpool Echo

Liverpool Echo, “Women took to the streets of Liverpool to Reclaim the Night“

“It was the fourth year in a row that Liverpool has hosted the event, a campaign to raise awareness of womens’ right to walk free from abuse and assault on the streets.

Around 100 campaigners met outside Liverpool Town Hall and then marched past the bombed out church to the Liverpool Guild of Students for a rally…

Kate Menear, RTN Liverpool communications officer, said: ‘We’re basically just demonstrating that women have the right to walk freely at night without fear of violence. We’re campaigning against street harassment and gender violence in all its forms.’

Reclaim the night began in Leeds in 1977 inspired by Take Back the Night marches which took place in Germany the same year.”

Daily News, “Taxi and Limousine Commission puts sexual harassment rules for cabbies on hold“

“The Taxi and Limousine Commission slammed the brakes on explicit new definitions for sexual harassment on Thursday in the face of outrage from the industry.

The rule would have put specific definitions of sexual contact and sexual harassment on the books, plus a bigger $2,000 penalty for violations.

Under the new definition, hacks would have to steer clear of “any conversation related to sexual acts and sexual contact” and remarks about appearance, gender, sexual conduct or “desire to enter into any type of relationship with another person.”

But commissioners agreed to withdraw the proposed rule in order to fine tune it for next month’s meeting.

Opponents in the taxi industry argued there were too few sexual harassment or assault complaints to justify specific rules telling cabbies to keep creepy conversation to themselves.

They also feared that drivers would fall victim to false allegations.”

The Huffington Post, “14 Perfect Responses To People Who Want Harriet Tubman To Smile“

“It was announced that Harriet Tubman, an iconic “conductor” on the Underground Railroad who helped lead hundreds of other slaves to freedom, would replace former President Andrew Jackson on the front of the $20 bill. Though it’s been reported that the change may not go into effect until 2030, the idea of having a woman, especially a woman of color, on the bill sparked celebration for many people. But others weren’t so happy with — wait for it — the way Tubman’s face looked.

A quick scan on Facebook or Twitter turns up several posts from people who want Tubman to look more cheerful on the $20 bill and to smile (you know, because women should smile all the time).”

The Guardian, “Right to the city: can this growing social movement win over city officials?“

“‘We need a multitude of perspectives in participation to ensure we are building inclusive, resilient cities with social cohesion,’ says Kathryn Travers, director of Women in Cities International, who have partnered with Plan International and UN-Habitat on the programme. Enabling these girls to have a say in shaping better public spaces is critical in a context where women around the world continue to face harassment and violence in the urban realm: of the girls that the programme have worked with, 24% of them said that they never feel safe in public places. ‘It’s crucial that women and girls are consulted,’ Travers adds. ‘Gender gaps in cities lead to exclusion in public spaces. In some cities, upwards of 90% of women experience daily sexual harassment in public space.'”

The Fiji Times, “Street Harassment“

“She said constant sexist remarks such as uro, chrabi, sexy, chalega, and gandu was increasing day by day.

“The callings out from a passing vehicle, the slight passing of men’s hands on your body or the grabbing of the buttocks or breasts were forms of street harassment,” Ms Naidu said.

She said masturbating to women in public spaces, whistling and singing was also common.

“These unsolicited comments, unwanted grabbing, leering and gestures of sexual nature is something that women and girls experience daily.

“These are experienced by some as young as 14 years and boys as young as 12 years carry out such acts of street harassment.”

She said through the One Billion Rising Fiji and Take Back the Streets Fiji, advocacy and awareness campaigns had been carried out targeting this everyday form of violation of women.”

Daily Life, “Where is the line between normal behaviour and harassment?”

“Street harassment begins to look a lot more like a part of the routine objectification, oppression and social exclusion of women, LGBTIQ people, people of colour and people living with disabilities. It’s not a compliment. It is a form of violence and abuse with serious consequences. It has to stop.”

Mashable, “Comedian Jen Kirkman takes on street harassment with powerful retweets“

“Comedian Jen Kirkman turned her Twitter account into a platform for women to share their harrowing stories about street harassment on Tuesday.

Kirkman, who has 175,000 followers, has been performing in Melbourne, Australia, and said she encountered a group of men at 11 p.m. who called her a “bitch” for not answering when they said she was wearing a nice coat.

Melbourne men. When I walk alone &.4 of you yell “nice coat” I’m not a “bitch” not answering.Yell that at a dude. See if he doesn’t beat you

— Jen Kirkman (@JenKirkman) April 3, 2016

Her tweet about the incident garnered sexist responses from some men, but many women shared their sympathy and snippets of past similar experiences. It wasn’t long before Kirkman began retweeting those stories, which collectively demonstrate how street and sexual harassment are pervasive and insidious.

I will now RT every woman who had experienced street harassment even in broad daylight by “normal men”. Dudes. Don’t mute this. Begin!

— Jen Kirkman (@JenKirkman) April 4, 2016″

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50,000 People Use #WhenIwas to Share Experiences of Sexism, Harassment and Abuse

April 25, 2016 By HKearl

Last week, more than 50,000 people used the Twitter hashtag #WhenIwas to share their first experiences of sexism, harassment and assault. They show how huge the problem is and how young it starts.

Laura Bates, founder of the Everday Sexism Project, started the hashtag and wrote about why in a recent article for The Telegraph:

“I started it because I wanted people to recognise that sexism, harassment, discrimination and abuse can begin from a shockingly young age.

When you talk about women being shouted at in the street, or fielding unwanted sexual advances in the workplace – as we do daily on the Everyday Sexism Project, which I founded – a common response is: ‘It’s just a bit of fun – can’t you take a harmless compliment?’

One of the most effective ways to counter that argument is to reveal the fact that this ‘harmless fun’ starts when girls are under the age of 10-years-old. That we’re talking about schoolgirls in their uniform being groped on public transport, or hearing grown men shout at them in language so sexually explicit they sometimes don’t even understand what it means.

What kind of ‘compliment’ is that? The idea that sexual harassment is just gentle flattery completely fails to acknowledge the fact that it sets up a power dynamic. This is about preying on women, asserting power and control over them. Nothing about that is flattering.”

I agree and always mention the young age that street harassment begins in media interviews and speeches that I give. If we can’t all agree that grown women shouldn’t have to face sexual harassment and abuse, surely we can all agree that girls shouldn’t, right??

Bates concludes her article by saying:

“The #WhenIwas hashtag makes difficult reading, but it is important, especially for those who want to believe that these things are ‘one off’ incidents. While many men have tweeted their shock at the stories being shared, many women remarked that they could identify with almost every single one.

It’s sad that this is what it takes for people to recognise the problem. That an individual woman’s word isn’t enough for people to believe her until 50,000 others come forward and say that the same thing has happened to them, too. That even when we provide reams of examples, people continue to doubt the systemic nature of the problem.

I hope that movements like the one I started last week help those who might have been made to feel ashamed – or even responsible for what happened to them – to realise that it was never their fault, and that they’re not alone.”

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“It’s sad that two five year old girls had to learn about sex like that.”

April 25, 2016 By Contributor

When I was about four or five, I was riding my bike with my sister who was the same age.

Well, at one point my sister had ridden up the road but hadn’t come back, so I went up to find her. I found her with two guys about high school age. The guys asked me if I wanted to suck their d****. I had no idea what they meant, clearly, so then they offered me money to do it.

Well, I immediately went home and told my mom, who then went and got my sister. She took us to the library to give us a crash course on sex education.

It’s sad that two five year old girls had to learn about sex like that.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Better education. People need to learn that this isn’t ok and that it shouldn’t be tolerated

– Anonymous

Location: By my house

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Survey about African American Women’s Experiences in Public Spaces

April 24, 2016 By HKearl

4/29/16 UPDATED: Women ages 18-40 may take the survey.

Attention African American women ages 18-35 years old, female African American researchers at Yale University are studying YOUR experiences in public spaces and would love to hear from you.  The survey will take 22-25 minutes of your time. The researchers believe that everyone has a unique story to tell, and they would like to help tell your story. Get updates via the Sidewalk Culture Facebook page.

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“Rock the boat. Raise a fuss. Things won’t change otherwise”

April 24, 2016 By Contributor

Growing up, I lived in a not so great part of town. It didn’t bother me much. My family knew there were some not so great things happening around us, but we had very few if any horror stories. We lived in a nice quaint house, near a park, and my parents were honest, hard working people. It was practically normal.

Once I hit adolescence, my mom was diagnosed with cancer. It was really hard on me, so how did I cope? I went out walking. First it was to the park nearby, then I branched out further into the neighborhood. The first time I got honked at, I wondered if I violated some traffic rule. I couldn’t think of anything, but I was all of 11. Who knows.

But then it kept up. And it wasn’t just honking (which still in my mind could be anything). It was yelling. Middle fingers. Lewd remarks. 11…12…13…14… My childlike body (I grew while everyone else developed, then they grew and I filled out) was being objectified and sexualized. I was proud of myself for not throwing myself at the first guy I met, like so many of my peers did, and that was being challenged and defiled every time some numb skull had to yell some obscenity at me. I couldn’t take my time to myself, collect my thoughts, and grieve the loss of my mother, without having a back up contingency of what to scream back when (not if) someone yelled at me on the streets.

It got better in high school, I was largely left alone. I moved neighborhoods, and wasn’t out as much as I had been due to the environment change. But when I was outside, it wasn’t so bad. College, it got weird again. I would go to work, and get hit on relentlessly. Men would stare me down, not let me leave situations, try to get my information, you name it. It was disgusting, and violating. I was at work, doing a job, not looking for my next hook up or boyfriend.

It got to the point where I dreaded going to work, because I got tired of fending off horny perverts in the middle of my shift. I did a year abroad in France for school, and it was terrible. I almost took one case with obscene texts to the local police. Even an American male friend of mine said he gave up trying to honestly meet a girl, because French girls had to put up so many barriers and he got tired of being treated like another jerk. I will defend this friend and say his motives were most likely in the right place, and he would have been a gentleman.

Getting married hasn’t even entirely warded it off. A wedding ring is seen as a challenge, where a “no” means try harder, and comments like “what my husband doesn’t know won’t hurt him.” I get tired of people checking my left hand to make sure it’s “safe.” There are certain communities my husband and I are part of, and I can’t even have the common courtesy of being respected there. Granted, sex and sexual practices are a big part of it, but people seem to think because of that, they’re entitled to your time, attention, and favors. There is no respect for boundaries, or what a person’s goals are for their activity in the community.

I’ve never considered myself particularly attractive, though I know my husband and several others would disagree, but I think now as an adult, part of it comes from those first experiences as a kid, walking in my neighborhood. Being yelled at on the street didn’t make me feel attractive, sexy, or desirable. It made me feel violated, and unsafe. It made me want to retract, and hide any part of my physical appearance I could. The less attractive I made myself, the less it would happen. Being “cat called” never made me feel pretty. It made me feel like trash. And there is a resounding impact on my self image today, because of the lessons street harassment taught me.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

We have to start teaching our children better. We need to teach our sons that it’s never acceptable to treat a woman that way, and that women have a right to their own personal space and autonomy, just as boys do. We need to teach our daughters to stand up for themselves, and not take crap. You can’t always fire back at the person who has violated you. If they’re in a car moving at 40 mph and you’re walking, it just isn’t gonna happen.

We need to teach our girls they don’t have to apologize to anyone for having a backbone and standing up to whoever is belittling them. We’re taught that we should endure anything and everything, so long as it makes the world around us pleasant for others. This needs to stop. Rock the boat. Raise a fuss. Things won’t change otherwise.

– Erika S

Location: My neighborhood, workplace

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