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“I felt violated and I ran into my house”

August 17, 2015 By Contributor

Today I was walking home from my future apartment at 4 p.m. It’s about a 25 minute walk and I was walking at a leisurely Sunday pace with no place to be. I noticed a car turn around and park in an odd spot near the beginning of my walk, took note of it, but I wasn’t feeling unsafe. I cut through the local park where some people were playing softball and kids were on the playground.

I turned on to my street and had about a 1/2 mile walk to go. I was texting my friend and noticed that there was a car parked on the side of the street, again I didn’t think anything of it but it looked similar to the one from the start of my walk. As I was walking past the car the man said something and I turned and looked to see his penis out and masturbating. I quickly averted my eyes and sped up but did not want him to know where I lived and thought it was too risky to turn around and snap a photo of the car.

I heard the car blast by me and up the street fast enough so that I could not take a photo or read the plate numbers. I immediately started crying and running towards my house. I felt violated and I ran into my house an took off my dress, put on gym shorts and a t-shirt and called my sister. For some reason I felt like I needed to take those clothes off to try and wipe my mind clean of the ordeal.

She told me to call the non–emergency line, which I did to report but I didn’t have much information. I hope that if he continues to do this someone will be quicker and take a photo so that this man can be stopped.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

A tip line that people could text reporting street harassment, or a twitter/facebook feed that would alert people within an area of people that are harassing others so that we can be aware or even prepared.

– LB

Location: Brighton, MA

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Meet our 2015 Safe Public Spaces Mentoring Program Teams

August 16, 2015 By HKearl

Meet our 2015 Safe Public Spaces Mentoring Program mentees! They come from four countries, three continents.

Through the end of 2015, we will hold weekly check-ins, offer advice, materials and a small monetary stipend for the projects they proposed. Each team will write at least two blog posts about their projects (mid-way and at the conclusion) so you all will have a chance to hear from them directly.

These are the mentees and their projects!

1. Stop Harcèlement de Rue – Lyon will host an exhibition of drawings against street harassment in a number of locations in Lyon, France, including a high school, city square, and bar. Members of the group will be on hand at various times to discuss street harassment with passersby.

2. In India, the Safe Safar: Safe Streets project will entail gender-sensitization and anti-harassment trainings with auto rickshaw drivers in Uttar Pradesh. The team will also hold monthly awareness campaigns with street plays, signature campaigns, and public dialogue around the issue.

3. FILIA Centre will hold a three workshop series about street harassment at a high school in Bucharest, Romania. The students will have the opportunity to create art, videos, or write an essay on the topic during the process.

4. A high school student-led group Me=You: Sexual Harassment Awareness will engage in a number of actions in Florida, USA, around street harassment, including writing letters to the school board, writing articles for the school newspaper, and holding anti-harassment events for the local libraries’ monthly teen programming.

We are excited about the big impact we know they will each have in their communities.

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NYC Street Harassment Play on Sept. 2, 2015

August 13, 2015 By HKearl

Shaun, via Flux Theatre’s website

Shaun Bennet Fauntleroy is a theatre artist in New York City who is producing an event focused on street harassment in collaboration with Flux Theatre Ensemble. The event is called #SpeakUp: The Street Harassment Plays and it features five monologues written by playwrights who have been asked to reflect on their feelings as victims of street harassment.

Where: Judson Memorial Church’s Assembly Hall, 239 Thompson St, NYC

When: September 2, 2015 at 7:30 p.m.

RSVP here

You can read more about the event here. (The following is an excerpt of that article.)

“Earlier this spring, a man walked up to me on a subway platform, complimented me rather aggressively, and then punched me repeatedly when I didn’t respond favorably. It happened during a rather hectic period in my life so I didn’t have time to dwell much on it. I did, however, have a strong impulse to write my thoughts about the incident down. I shared those thoughts on social media, because that’s what you do these days, and followed it up with a blog post. Doing so was cathartic, not only because I’d purged my thoughts on what happened, but I’d reclaimed my voice, the voice and agency that this unknown man had attempted to silence.

Over the next few months I was both heartbroken and inspired by two separate incidents. First, a friend e-mailed me to tell me that she had just been similarly attacked and was re-reading what I’d written as she processed her own feelings. Not long after that, a different man attacked another woman (whom I didn’t know) on a subway platform after she rejected his advances. I was becoming enraged.

The second thing that occurred was that I had the privilege of witnessing New Black Fest’s HandsUp: 6 Playwrights⎪6 Testaments , which featured six powerful and evocative monologues written by emerging black male playwrights that reflect on being an American black male in a culture of racial profiling (I believe they have plans to remount this, so if you get the chance to see it I highly recommend it. You can read excerpts here. ) HandsUp gave a personal voice to a national ache and I was reeling from what I’d heard/seen.

After my friend’s e-mail I knew that I wanted to do something. Being a thespian, the theatre was the battleground I chose and with HandsUp fresh in my mind I had an urge to create something similar to New Black Fest’s stunning piece: a handful of plays that reflect on the playwright’s feelings of being the targets of street harassment and catcalling.  Almost instinctively, I contacted Gus Schulenburg from Flux Theatre Ensemble and said, “Gus, this just happened. Let’s make some theatre.” Gus shared the vision with the rest of the team and they, being all Fluxy and fabulous, said, “Yes, let’s.” Together we have created #SpeakUp: The Street Harassment Plays. I hope you’ll join us.”

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Participate in Research

August 13, 2015 By HKearl

If you identify as female and are at least 18 years old, you can help out with this street harassment study.

“My name is Jana Menssink, I am a provisionally registered psychologist and am currently completing my second year of the Doctor of Psychology (Health) at Deakin University in Australia. As part of my research project, I am undertaking a study to examine women’s experiences of unwanted sexual behaviour in public spaces (e.g. public transport) and in private spheres (e.g. workplaces). Additionally, the survey assesses women’s psychological wellbeing (including stress, anxiety and body-image) and coping strategies.

The findings of the study will contribute to advancing research on sexual harassment, particularly in raising awareness and developing prevention strategies…

Even if women have not experienced any unwanted sexual behaviour they are still eligible to participate. Please find attached the plain language statement that explains the purpose of the study and the requirements for participants. Participants will be required to complete an online survey available through this link: http://www.deakin.edu.au/psychology/research/jana_menssink/

The study takes approximately 20-40 minutes to complete. The study is completely voluntary and anonymous, and has received ethics approval from the Deakin University – Human Research Ethics Committee (DUHREC).

If you have any further questions regarding the study, please do not hesitate to contact myself or the research supervisors Prof. Ricciardelli (03) 9244 6866 lina.ricciardelli@deakin.edu.au, or Dr. Satyen (03) 5227 8452 lata.satyen@deakin.edu.au.”

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USA: Street Harassment Doesn’t Stop in College

August 13, 2015 By Correspondent

Laura Voth, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

University of Central Florida, 2014
University of Central Florida, 2014

One of the most disheartening aspects of being a woman in this world today is the unpredictability of our environments. Even in spaces that we would expect to be more respectful or tolerant than others (for example, an art gallery compared to a city street), we still encounter threatening situations.

Street harassment on college campuses certainly exists, but it manifests itself in quite a different way than in other spaces. During the day at least it involves much more staring and leering than derogatory comments, and even then it isn’t so prevalent as it is on, say, a city street.

At night, and especially on weekends, the mood shifts. Groups of college boys, already slightly drunk from pregaming, hassle any lone women they spot. Like in any situation, it doesn’t matter what the woman is wearing or how she is acting: they harass indiscriminately. They call out whistles and commentary on their target’s appearance, sometimes even following the woman until she ducks into a well-lit building. The perpetrators will slap each other on the back, hooting and laughing, proud to have asserted their dominance in the presence of their peers.

Shockingly, some of the biggest harassers at my school are actually high school students (at least, that’s the word on the street, and they certainly don’t look any older than sixteen or seventeen). They drive around campus and whistle at the college women, only to floor it when their targets notice them.

This summer, a guy has been using a pseudonym on Facebook to send friend requests to women at my college. He sends messages claiming to be a research student in the psychology department (I’m not even sure what he thought he could possibly mean by “research student”) who is performing a study that would involve a free foot massage.

A close friend of mine alerted the psychology department as well as the Dean of Student Affairs, both of whom have reported back to her saying that there is no individual by that name at the school. They are looking into the situation, but I’m still concerned. Incoming first-year students frequently use Facebook to connect to others at my college, regardless of whether they have met the people they’re “friending” in person. They have questions about everything from life at our school to specific classes and have no reason to be suspicious—and they shouldn’t have to be.

Students frequently forget about the realities of the world while we’re in our little college bubble, especially if we are living in a small, remote town. We pay through the nose not only to get an education but also to fund our safety on campus in the form of better lighting and security, but too frequently we find that those have little impact on our experiences. For women, the facts of what the world is like never really disappear.

What street harassment have you experienced in college?

Laura is an emerging adult-slash-college student studying to enter a healthcare profession. In addition to studying and writing, Laura works at her university’s women’s center where she helps design and implement programs on all things lady. 

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