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USA: On the Road to End Street Harassment

September 19, 2014 By Correspondent

Katie Bowers, NY, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

Veronica, from Mexico City. “Who gave you the right to bother me?”

Tatyana Fazlalizadeh, creator of the “Stop Telling Women to Smile” public art project, has taken her show on the road.  The campaign features piercing portraits and a quote from women who have shared their stories of street harassment with Fazlalizadeh.  Originally Fazlalizadeh pasted the posters on walls around her Brooklyn neighborhood, but after a successful Kickstarter, she has been traveling across the United States (and some of Mexico) to hear stories about how harassment changes with geography.

It was in New York City that I first thought about how transportation and geographic differences influence street harassment.  I was listening to a coworker describe an unexpected bit of culture shock she encountered when she left Los Angeles for New York.

“When I first got here I was like, ‘What is wrong with men in New York?  These men get in my face and harass me everyday.  That just doesn’t happen to me in California,” my coworker said.  “But then I realized I have to walk a lot more here.  In L.A., we drive everywhere.”

As we talked about what street harassment looks like in a city steeped in car culture versus one built around public transit, lightbulbs lit up as I thought about how harassment has changed with each city, suburb, and rural county that I have lived in.

In L.A., my coworker explained, someone might yell at you from their car, but often the person being harassed is also in a car. I’ve driven down multilane parkways and seen men make obscene gestures or shout degrading comments through closed car windows.  While still rude and uncomfortable, being in my car provides a sense of security and escape that isn’t there when I’ve been harassed on foot.

Growing up, in a small Upstate NY city, I knew in addition to harassing fellow motorists, drivers will also accost pedestrians.  When I am walking I hear a yelped “I’d hit that!” from a car passing by at 30 miles per hour, I roll my eyes.  When I hear about friends being slowly followed home by cars with tinted windows, I get worried.  When a taxi driver suggestively asks, “So, pretty lady, are you married?” I clutch the door handle and grip my phone.  Looking at these scenarios, it is easy to recognize how transportation can deepen the power divide between harasser and harassed.

Perhaps nowhere is this difference more impactful than on public transportation.  Some of the worst harassment that I have experienced has happened on the subway.  Unlike pedestrians, drivers, or cyclists, public transportation riders have no real control of how quickly they can escape an uncomfortable situation.  If you hop on the express train from 59th St, it doesn’t matter if your harasser is leering, commenting, groping or even masturbating – you’re stuck with them for the entire length of Central Park.

As more research is created around sexual harassment, programs and laws are slowly being created to address unique needs in different parts of the country.  Collective Action for Space Spaces launched a strong public awareness campaign in the Washington, D.C. subway system, L.A. has adopted an anti-harassment law for cyclists, and activists in Lancaster, PA have erected anti-harassment billboards near roadways.  This, Fazlalizadeh says, is exactly how it should be.

“It’s important for me,” she says on her Kickstarter page, “to learn about these differences and create work that will resonate better within a particular community.”  Step by step, mile by mile, Fazlalizadeh is shining new light on the age old problem of street harassment – and in some communities, it looks like things are finally starting to change.

Katie is a social worker and community educator interested in ending gender-based violence, working with youth to make the world a better place, and using pop culture as a tool for social change. Check out her writing at the Imagine Better Blog and geek out with her on Twitter, @CornishPixie9.

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Sri Lanka: Behind Serene Smiles: Shame on You!

September 18, 2014 By Correspondent

Menusha Gunasekara, Matale, Sri Lanka, SSH Blog Correspondent

Via The Republic Square

Sri Lanka has been known to many outsides as a land full of natural beauty, serene smiles and helpful people. However, as a Sri Lankan I am not free to explore the beauty easily as a woman.

When it comes to street harassment, we often receive the advice from our parents, aunts, and others that men are men and mind your own way. The Wariyapola incident was an historical turning point in Sri Lanka in showing the power imbalance in the gendered phenomena of street harassment.

Let me draw your attention to the Wariyapola Incident. First, what was happened! A girl who was waiting to take a bus to Colombo was subjected to comments of a man. Briefly, if I listed actions involved in the situations, those were included commenting that her dress has more holes, following her and asking  her phone number, and publicly demonstrating signs of  masturbating  and asking to have sex with him. The result was she slapped him repeatedly and a video was released in the social media that only captured the part where she was slapping. Yes, the video went viral on social media sparking huge amount of comments.

This post is to look at the incident from different views.

First, I identified the focus on the woman provoking the sexist comments by men. Since the video of her slapping was shared, people said the man was “noble enough” to stay silent without hitting back the girl. It’s sad that the reporting on harassment to civil society comes through media in Sri Lanka. Many newspapers, radios shows and online newspapers were reporting the incident based on the portion which was recorded in the video clip. They were insulting the woman without realizing she was the victim first. They were forgetting the responsibility of investigating the truth and reporting it. I was surprised by this sexist journalism and found only few articles that supported the woman’s side.

The next interesting fact was comments about her dress. If she was dressed up appropriately, which means saree, people said she could not subjected to such harassment. Let me analyze this sexist argument. The saree or the Sinhalese Kandiyan Osariya which exposes back of shoulders, neck and waist of the body is much more appropriate than a wearing jean with a long sleeve blouse. The hidden point in so called appropriate dress is the amount body exposure to outside. However, I am quite sure the Sinhalese national dress exposes body more than any other casual dress. On the top of this, please keep in mind that women used to dress topless for many centuries in Sinhala society. So please do not tell me I can wear the national dress 24/7 and it will be the harassment- proof tool.

Next, the action of the victim, the girl, was unappropriated too according to many men and women in this country. If one asked why it was inappropriate, the answer is that she could have handled the situation without drama. She could have complained to the police and remained silent. Really? Should she?

I have been subjected to several incidents of street harassment each and every time I have used public transportation in last two months. I have exercised the minimum power in such situations as directly looking at the person but if I had the same incident that occurred in Wariyapola, I would not be different because I am aware my body and my dress is not for you entertainment and I am a person not a piece of meat or a sex object. What was the problem of hitting the perpetrator? Neither was it violating the law in the country or harming human rights, but the exercise of the power by the woman which is not the expected role in Sinhalese culture.

Looking at the incident as a whole, it is clear that nobody tells men in this country that you should not cat call, verbally harass or comment on dresses, or engage in any other form of harassment. It is illegal, shameful and not an act of real men. This is not taught in schools neither in religious institutions. I firmly believe that unless you identify these activities as illegal and that they really do exist behind the serene smiles of men in the “land like no other,” it will not absorb in to the  general consciousness.

We need to make it visible and show that women are harassed every minute in Sri Lanka regardless of their age, dress code and outlook.

 Menusha is a recent graduate of Asian University for Women, Bangladesh and holds a B.S in Public Health. She is an advocate for Peace and Human Rights, Women Issues and Environmental Protection. She can be reached via LinkedIn.

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“Educate men that street harassment really has no point”

September 18, 2014 By Contributor

I was walking home in broad daylight, on the sidewalk, through my very residential neighborhood, and I sensed a car slowing behind me. I kept walking. The man in the car slowed to talk to me and I thought that he might be asking me for directions. I couldn’t understand what he said initially, so I said, “Where are you trying to get to?” And he laughed and said, “No, I asked where you’re going” with a gross look on his face. I responded, “To my house. Alone.”

I started walking and he paused before driving, and I got out my phone with every intention of calling 911 if necessary.

This made me feel gross, like I must have done something to invite his attention, and a little concerned for my safety, as I was actually near my house and I was worried that he would see which driveway I turned into. I immediately texted my husband to tell him how awful I felt.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Educate men that street harassment really has no point–it’s offensive, it makes women feel like trash, it leads to safety issues, and (if they only care about themselves) it will not lead to a productive conversation or “hook up” with a woman.

– KL

Location: Indianapolis, IN

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International Museum of Women’s Exhibit “Imagining Equality”

September 17, 2014 By HKearl

The International Museum of Women has a new online exhibit, Imagining Equality.

“Violence against women is one of the biggest barriers to gender inequality. But violence is not something men are born to commit, or women are born to be subject to. Violence is a social norm that too many cultures still tolerate or even cultivate. In this just-launched section of Imagining Equality about Violence, we hear from women survivors (and their male allies) around the world who reject victimhood, and instead are bravely confronting and advocating against violence – whether it be in their homes, their communities, or their nations.”

There is a section on #streetharassment.

“What would you say if you had an honest conversation with a street harrasser? Rebecca Audra Smith’s spoken word poem captures everything she’d say to the men who harrass women on the street, from sharing the collective struggle for women’s equality to reminding him of her individual humanity.”

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Will Kansas City Pass An Anti-Harassment Ordinance?

September 17, 2014 By HKearl

Woo, great press this week for our Safe Public Spaces Mentees BikeWalkKC in Kansas City, Missouri, USA.

Via Kansas City Star:

“‘We’re encouraging people to walk and bike more,’ Kansas City Councilman John Sharp said, ‘and they certainly ought to be allowed to do that without harassment.’

Broad anti-harassment ordinances are already on the books in Kansas and Missouri.

But before the end of the month, Sharp, chairman of the council’s public safety and emergency services committee, hopes to pass an ordinance that would outlaw threatening and dangerous behavior to protect “vulnerable road users.” That includes everyone from bikers, walkers and cyclists to people in wheelchairs or waiting at bus stops.

The ordinance is based on similar ones passed in Columbia, St. Louis, Independence and Greenwood, Mo., in the last five years. Sharp and advocacy group BikeWalkKC hope to have Kansas City’s ordinance on the books by Oct. 8.

That’s International Walk to School Day. Fifty years ago, half of American school kids biked or walked to school. Now it’s less than 15 percent at a time when many children are overweight and need more exercise.

But attempts to reverse that trend aren’t going to work, Sharp said, unless parents believe the streets are safe. Nor will anyone other than the bravest cyclists use the new bike lanes the city is striping across town if they’re fearful of being run off the road by aggressive motorists.”

Via KC TV 5:

“The Kansas City Council is considering an ordinance to crack down on harassment and threats for those taking a stroll or riding a bicycle.

The ordinance amendment is sponsored by Councilman John Sharp. He said he hopes to protect anyone from being made to feel uncomfortable…

The council’s public safety committee will discuss the issue on Sept. 25. If it passes out of committee, the full council could take it up as soon as Sept. 26.

The following is the proposed ordinance:

 Sec. 50-205. Harassment of a Bicyclist, Pedestrian or Wheelchair Operator

(a) The following words, terms and phrases, when used in this section, shall have the meanings ascribed to them below, except where the context clearly indicates a different meaning:

Bicycle means any device upon which a person may ride, which is propelled by human power through a system of belts, chains, or gears, and may include an electric assist motor, and has wheels at least 16 inches in diameter and a frame size of at least 13 inches.

Wheelchair means any manual or motorized device designed specifically for use by a physically disabled person for means of conveyance.

(b) No person shall, for the purpose of frightening or injuring any person riding a bicycle, walking, running, or operating a wheelchair:

(1) Throw an object, direct a projectile, or operate a vehicle at or in such person’s direction; or

(2) Threaten such person; or

(3) Sound a horn, shout or otherwise direct loud or unusual sounds toward such person; or

(4) Place such person in apprehension of immediate physical danger; or

(5) Engage in conduct that creates a risk of death or serious physical injury to such person.

(c) Any person convicted of a violation of this chapter shall be punished for that violation by a fine of not less than $50, but not more than $500 or by imprisonment of not more than 180 days or by both such fine and imprisonment.”

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