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Egyptian man sentenced to jail for taking inappropriate photo

June 22, 2014 By HKearl

The anti-sexual harassment law in Egypt is being used.

Via Reuters —

“A Cairo court sentenced a man to one year in jail on Saturday for harassing a woman, the swiftest such ruling since Egypt introduced a new law in early June to combat sexual harassment.

Abdel Lattif Abdel Fattah, a 39-year-old electrician, was arrested only three days ago, judicial sources said. He was accused of taking pictures with his mobile telephone of a woman passenger on a public bus while she was sleeping.

Abdel Fattah was dragged to the nearest police station by other passengers on the bus, who also testified against him, the source said. He was sentenced to hard labor during his imprisonment and fined 3,000 Egyptian pounds ($420).”

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“Looking at my legs and crotch all the time”

June 22, 2014 By Contributor

Groups of older guys cornering me on public transport, looking at my legs and crotch all the time while talking to me, implying that the ‘weather is hot’ while still looking at my crotch.

– Anonymous

Location: Germany

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Belgium: “You get so used to being looked at that you stop looking back”

June 20, 2014 By Correspondent

Dearbhla Quinn, Dublin Ireland/Brussels, Belgium, SSH Blog Correspondent

Game of Thrones star Jack Gleeson has slammed celebrity culture and endorsements in a speech at the Oxford Union | HER

I have never aspired to be famous, the trade off between status and privacy has always marred the fantasy in my eyes. This resolve was strengthened today as I was scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed and I came across a video of Jack Gleeson, best known for the role of King Joffrey in Game of Thrones, discussing the insidious nature of celebrity culture. He described how he preferred the anonymity of blending in rather than ‘teetering on  pedestal on inch above the ground’ and discussed the origins and scholarly analysis of this modern cult.

Much of what he said echoed my own misgivings with celebrity culture, but I was struck by the relevance to street harassment, of one particular sentence; “You get so used to being looked at that you stop looking back”. This statement was used to define a particular celebrity affliction termed “acquired situational narcissism” and perhaps you may accuse me of the final word in that term for this comparison; however it reminded me of my own experience last month.  I had a particularly unyielding week of often quite intimidating street harassment, here in Brussels, and for a while; I responded by walking the streets with my head bowed, avoiding eye-contact with other passersby, for fear of inspiring some unwelcome interaction.

While the experience of a celebrity being intruded upon by fans, bears some similarity to that of people (such as women or LGBTQ people) being harassed in the streets there is, I would argue, one key differentiator. This is that in the case of the celebrity this harassment is inspired by a deferential form of admiration, whereas in the case of sexualised street harassment, the harasser is anything but deferential, in fact their behaviour is often quite menacing.

While the celebrity may feel in that moment at the mercy of the whims of their public, they are in wider context empowered and privileged by the status in which they are held in society, a society of which they are both leaders and victims. I am reminded of Caitlin Moran’s assertion that she was not a royalist, not because she dislikes the British royal family but rather, because she sees them as caged animals that she wants desperately to release. They are endowed with every privilege, but privacy. However neither  harassed woman (or members of the LGBTQ community etc) or the celebrity are being recognised as complex human beings, and this is a significant similarity. A recent series of sex abuse scandals in the Youtube ‘Vlogging’ community has prompted a discussion on sexual consent, but also of the reduction of ‘vloggers’ to their glorified online personas and the power that they glean from this endowment.

As Jack Gleeson spoke, in the familiar Trinity-esque style, and articulated ideas that echoed my own inclinations, I pondered the fact that I had chosen to watch this video of him talk; simply because he was paid ‘to pretend to be mean’ on TV. I was falling prey to the very cultural feature I so vehemently malign. Until recently I had very little exposure to this content through availing of, the filtered nature of, my own twitter feed as a news source. However, I have recently become frustrated by the escalating tendency of so many of the news and commentary outlets, I choose to follow, exposing me to a vitriol of inane celebrity gossip, the nature of  which I had previously managed remain ignorant. This was an insulation I sought, not because of intellectual snobbery; but because of my own moral discomfort with the worrying culture of voyeurism that I believe such gossip fosters.

I find it particularly disturbing when feminist news outlets, which I continue to follow almost out of a habitual loyalty to their founding values, increasingly bow to the doctrine of ‘click counting’ and obediently tabloid-ise their content. It seems ironic that media outlets founded in part to critique the commodification and objectification of the female body, become, complicit in furthering its insidious bedfellow; the commodification of personality. When you reduce an individual to a media persona, constructed solely out of slogan-style values and airbrushed features; you contribute to this culture of dehumanisation. A culture in which women can be reduced to their bodies, and celebrities to the output of their marketing team; and you unwittingly further the notion, that a person can be public property.

 

Dearbhla graduated from BESS (Business and Sociology), in Trinity College Dublin, last year. She currently lives in Brussels, Belgium, where she has a think-tank internship working in the areas of gender, equality, and employment. Follow her on Twitter @imoshedinheels and her blogs.

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“We told them no multiple times”

June 20, 2014 By Contributor

Two guys cornering me and my female friend, in public, asking us to have a drink with them. We decline. they don’t stop asking as, trying to persuade us. We told them no multiple times. Then we implied that my friend and I were dating, and not interested in men, then they got angry insulted us as dirty lesbians, throwing other slurs at us and leaving.

‘Funny’ how harassers never seem to understand a ‘no’ but only a ‘claim on a women by another person’ and then they insult them.

– Anonymous

Location: Germany

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Street Respect: “You have a great night!”

June 20, 2014 By Contributor

Last night, I – along with most residents of my city – watched our team win the NBA championship for the 5th time! Afterward, I was pumped up enough to go for a short run through my neighborhood. All around, people were celebrating with fireworks, honking and cheering out their car windows. As I ran down the street, I approached a man walking in the opposite direction, presumably heading home from a nearby sports bar. When he opened his mouth to address me, I wasn’t sure what would come out. To my surprise he simply said, “You have a great night!” and continued along. I can say, that is the first time I’ve ever passed a man while running and received that type of comment. Obviously, it was a night of good feelings and camaraderie among my fellow San Antonians.

The experience made me feel great…how amazing would it be if this were always the type of commentary we shared with strangers on the street!

What can we do create more street respect?

Keep that neighborly spirit alive! Treat each other as friends and neighbors, not as subjects for rudeness, jokes or crass commentary. Brighten someone’s day rather than dampen it. Set a good example for your friends and bystanders by treating passersby with courtesy and respect.

– Sarah

Location: San Antonio, Texas

This is part of the series “Street Respect. “Street respect” is the term for respectful, polite, and consensual interactions that happen between strangers in public spaces. It’s the opposite of “street harassment.” Share your street respect story and show the kind of interactions you’d like to have in public in place of street harassment.

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