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“He said I should fill the world with babies”

May 19, 2014 By Contributor

I was stuck next to a man on a crowded bus for 10 minutes who kept making comments about my appearance. He said I should fill the world with babies. “I will, sir, and I’ll fire them out of my vagina like a t-shirt cannon,” I thought. I very briskly walked back to my apartment when we both got off at the same stop. Ick.

– Anonymous

Location: Seattle, WA

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“Now I tend to wear my sunglasses more often”

May 19, 2014 By Contributor

It was the first time I felt truly independent, walking around the streets of NYC all by myself for the first time. I was walking around 59th St, looking for what boutique to go in next when suddenly a guy wearing baggy clothes and a cap (seemed to be almost all white) (he looked around his late teens), his eyes suddenly “met” mine as I was scanning the stores, I had a delicious smoothie on hand and as he was walking opposite me, he went closer and said, “Can I get a sip” in the most smug and disturbing way possible.

It annoyed me so much, I just walked straight passed him with a disgusted look on my face. I enjoy NYC so much every time I visit and this had to happen… Regardless, I tried not to let it stop me but now I tend to wear my sunglasses more often as I don’t want my eyes to cross paths again with somebody like him…

– Anonymous

Location: 59th Street near Lexington Avenue near Zara

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Stories about being #Grabbed trended on Twitter

May 18, 2014 By HKearl

Last week, The Everyday Sexism Project started a conversation on Twitter about being #grabbed against one’s will (sexual assault). You can read the Storify.

Everyday Sexism founder Laura Bates wrote about it for the Guardian, saying:

“These are just a tiny selection of the thousands of stories that poured in when I started the hashtag #Grabbed on Twitter to document experiences of being touched, grabbed and groped without consent.

Within a few hours, according to the International Business Times, the hashtag had been used more than 6,000 times. By that evening it was the top trending topic in the UK.

As suggested by the overwhelming number of personal testimonies that flooded in, the experience of being touched in a sexual way without your consent is devastatingly common.”

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“He doesn’t like it when women with bodies like mine ruin it by eating junk food”

May 18, 2014 By Contributor

Today I was on a 15 minute break from work and decided to grab some coffee. A food kiosk worker was giving out food samples and handed me some kettle chips… I was munching on them when some man who had to be at least 65 told me that I should throw them away, because he doesn’t like it when women with bodies like mine ruin it by eating junk food and getting fat. I went around the building so I could take a different elevator; 4 guys followed me across the parking lot, through the building and down the back corridor singing Baby Got Back. Thankfully, we have security guards and doors and they couldn’t follow me in.

– Anonymous

Location: In the parking lot of the building where I work.

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“I want to keep an eye on this guy trying to look up my daughter’s skirt”

May 18, 2014 By Contributor

I’m 14 years old. My story has two parts.

Recently, I had been at the mall with one of my friends, picking out a gift. We had finished choosing gifts, and were waiting for my parents to pick us up. It was a nice, warm day, and we decided to wait outside the food court. Out comes this MAYBE college age boy, an he begins to rap along with his iPod. I don’t think much of it until I hear someone of the things he had just said. “I wanna see your booty bumping ‘gainst my dick while I’m buzzing.”

What?

We head inside and wait, because that’s really weird. Pretty creepy.  He follows us inside, and we stand behind a large sign so he doesn’t see us. We see him again 30 minutes later, this time with my friend’s sister outside with us. When my parents arrive, he stops rapping.

After that, my friend had left with her sister, and my parents and I had sat down in the food court to eat. My dad joins us, and he sits next to me, oddly. My mom gives him an odd look and says, “What, you don’t want to sit by me?” He replies, “Not that, I want to keep an eye on this guy trying to look up my daughter’s skirt.”

A middle aged man had been trying to look up my skirt.

I am 14, and this man had a wife and little girl. He looked over at me several times during the period we had been eating.

I was scared to walk by him, which I had to do to get to the door.

– T

Location: Nebraska

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