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Pardon Cecily McMillan and no more NYPD policy to confiscate condoms

May 15, 2014 By HKearl

There’s been good and bad news this week relating to police and justice and harassment in public spaces in New York City:

The bad first –

Via The Nation:

“On Monday, May 5, Occupy Wall Street protester Cecily McMillan was found guilty of assaulting NYPD Officer Grantley Bovell at the OWS anniversary protest on March 17, 2012. She now faces two to seven years in prison, with the possibility of probation.

Her conviction was a terrible miscarriage of justice. Abundant evidence of McMillan’s abuse at the hands of police—photos of bruises on her breast and arms, testimony that she suffered a seizure once handcuffed—were questioned in the spirit of what we’ve come to call rape culture: maybe, the prosecutor suggested, she faked it. Maybe she inflicted the bruises herself. Reports of NYPD misconduct during the Occupy protests were deemed inadmissible as evidence in court, as were the more violent parts of Officer Bovell’s record. In the absence of substantive background, the jurors came to their verdict based on a grainy video.

Upon hearing the terms of sentencing—which were, somehow, unknown to members of the jury—Charles Woodward (Juror #2) wrote a letter on behalf of nine of the twelve jurors asking Judge Zweibel for leniency in sentencing. They expressed remorse. One anonymous juror told Jon Swaine of The Guardian, “Most just wanted her to do probation, maybe some community service. But now what I’m hearing is seven years in jail? That’s ludicrous. Even a year in jail is ridiculous.”

You can sign a Change.org petition calling for a pardon.

Now the good, via USA Today:

“The New York Police Department will no longer confiscate unused condoms as evidence of prostitution by people suspected of being sex industry workers, abolishing a practice criticized by civil rights groups for undermining efforts to combat AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections, Mayor Bill de Blasio said Monday.

Advocates for sex workers and civil rights groups had long pushed for the policy change, noting that the city spends more than $1 million every year to distribute free condoms.

For decades, police in New York and elsewhere had confiscated condoms from sex work suspects ostensibly for them to be used as evidence in criminal trials, even though the overwhelming majority of prostitution cases never go to trial.”

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“You flying around your creep drone is really creepy.”

May 14, 2014 By Contributor

Posted on Reddit:

“Today, my mother and I went to the beach. I’m a 20-some woman and she’s a fairly hot lady herself, no lie. Obviously this means we were around other girls in bikinis, par for the course. I was lying face down on a blanket and my mother was lying face up, just enjoying the weather.

We heard this whirring noise above us and I looked up and saw a remote-controlled plane–one of the square ones that can move really articulately in all directions. No big deal. I turned back down and napped more.

Then I noticed: a. It was getting really close to women. Like, straight up in their asses close, flying really low, staying there for probably three minutes at a time, and b. it had a camera on it.

It then decided to target my mother and I and hovered over us. I got mad and decided that, fuck this, I was going to throw a water bottle at it and take it down (not the best choice, sure, yeah, I know) and it immediately backed up when I advanced on it. So I knew the operator was nearby. Sure enough, there were two men up on the dunes nearby holding the remote, so I put on all my clothes first and then ran up to them. The person holding the remote was probably sixteen; the other was what I can only assume was his father. He was around forty-some. He was also giving the younger kid directions.

So I walked up to the older man and said “That is seriously creepy.”

“What?”

“You flying around your creep drone is really fucking creepy.”

“It isn’t going to hurt you.” He sort of laughed at me now, and I saw red here.

“I’m not worried about my PERSONAL SAFETY, though I am now worried a bit for YOURS. Your drone is creepy and violating. You need to take it out of the air, or I will.”

“Fine, it won’t go near you”

“No, I need it out of the sky. Now. You are violating every woman on this beach. Get it out of the sky.”

He actually got the kid to call it back and packed it up. Even so, I left. I am so mad that I was violated in that way–and the potentials for anyone else being violated that way.”

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“I hope wherever she is she doesn’t have to get used to that kinda thing”

May 14, 2014 By Contributor

I was walking to class one morning and an attractive young woman walked past myself and another man. Immediately, he started to shout suggestive lines at her (she ignored him and kept walking) and then he began to shout very offensive things toward her and I had heard enough of it! I turned to him and asked, “What in the world is wrong with you?! That could be my sister!”

He saw I was angry and apologized. I ran and caught up to the young lady and told her that I was sorry she went through that on behalf of my gender. She said, “Its okay” as if it was something she endures everyday. I said, “No it’s not okay” I wanted to keep chatting with her, but I had to get to class. I hope wherever she is she doesn’t have to get used to that kinda thing.

What can we do create more street respect?

I think you have to reach out to men more. The only people that can make the creeps stop is the good men out there. The only problem is a good man doesn’t himself know for certain what is and is not appropriate. He feels it in his gut, but no one ever says anything so rarely do they intervene and are more likely to keep quite when those males around them act creepy.

Honestly, I would suggest holding workshops on appropriate ways of addressing women (Something never taught in schools).

– Richard S.

Location: Outside of the Brooklyn College Campus, NY

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2014 Anti-Street Harassment Week Report

May 13, 2014 By HKearl

All around the world, people are taking a STAND against street harassment! Tens of thousands of us came together to hold rallies, workshops, wheat pasting, sidewalk chalking, and tweet chats from March 30 – April 5, 2014 for International Anti-Street Harassment Week.

This is the brand new wrap-up report about it. Check it out. THANK YOU to everyone who participated. You’re making a difference!

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“He knew my gender, that was all”

May 13, 2014 By Contributor

I was walking by a local park at 9.30 on a Sunday morning with my hood up (as it was drizzling), when a man crossed the road and began walking quickly behind me. I got the impression he was following me, so I veered to the right to pause and look at my phone, while noticing out of my periphery him turning to see what I looked like as he walked by. I remained where I was until he walked on. I then carried on walking but slowed my pace and shortly after, about ten metres ahead of me, he turned around, walked towards me and said, “Hey, I’ll lick your pussy every night, every night,” to which I instinctively responded “Get away!” and he carried on walking past.

This could have gone very differently I realised afterwards. He was about 15 years my senior and rather built, but I am tall for a girl, but what this indicates is the context is irrelevant, the objective blatant. His pursuit was already in motion before even catching a glimpse of me, aside from my outline. He knew my gender, that was all. There have been countless occasions in which I have been cat-called on the street (not as confrontational as this instance, but it is the same).

Do you have any suggestions for dealing with harassers and/or ending street harassment in general?

Until the persistently objectifying media stops dehumanizing women, until men stop dehumanising women, the only thing you can do is walk away, speak up, raise awareness and challenge the naturalisation of harassment. Most importantly, tell men this is never acceptable.

– MW

Location: Albert Park in Middlesbrough, UK

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