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New Ads against Harassment on Philly’s Transit System!

April 1, 2014 By HKearl

Cross-posted with permission from HollabackPHILLY

It’s that time of year again! The sun is shining a little bit more, we’re all outside walking around and trying to enjoy the (slightly) warmer weather — and the harassers are back in full force. But they’re not the only ones who are back! HollabackPHILLY, a project of Feminist Public Works, launched a new, expanded transit ad campaign – with more ads in the interior subway cars, ads on the subway platforms, and even ads in bus shelters across the city. Keep an eye out for the ads – show them to your friends, use them to start conversations with potential male allies – and let us know if you see an impact.

And, always remember – we’ve got your back!

To see a full slideshow of the full lineup of 18 ads, visit FeministPublicWorks.org. And please fill out this brief survey to let us know what you think about the ads!

Editor’s Note: Read about the ads they launched last year for International Anti-Street Harassment Week. Big congratulations to them for receiving a grant to let them do an expanded version this year!
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The Experience of Walking Alone

April 1, 2014 By Contributor

Saloni Malhotra

Two months ago I was living in Delhi, India. During my lunch break I decided to visit my doctor for ordering new lenses. The clinic was about 500 meters from the office on a busy road. I finished placing my order and walked out of the clinic. Barely 20 steps ahead a 6 feet tall, well built Afghan man asked me something. I didn’t understand his language, shook my head and kept walking. 20 more steps and I realized he was making a pass and following me. I turned around to go back to the clinic and called my colleagues to pick me up in a car. The man turned back to follow me and minutes later as I got in the car, he was still looking for me.

But this isn’t a story only from Delhi – I have lived in Pune and Chennai in India. I have travelled extensively across the country for work and leisure. But one piece of advise has remained constant – don’t go out alone after 9 p.m., don’t walk alone on the road, if you are driving at night make sure the doors are locked.

Three weeks ago I moved to Sweden for the Social Innovation in the Digital Context course. My first week in Sweden, I was returning from a party and missed the last bus. We knew this might be a possibility and everyone told me it was safe to walk back.

I began walking back and was pleasantly surprised that it was actually safe to walk alone. I reached a street that was not as well lit/ had a feeling of being more isolated than the other and my Indian instinct kicked in. The voice in my head said it wasn’t safe and I heard footsteps behind me. I froze at first but then reminded myself it was safe. The man walking behind me was walking faster than I was and caught up; I just look at him and told him I was afraid to walk alone. He smiled and offered to walk with me till the main road, which was better lit.

Honestly I don’t have adequate words to describe the joy of walking alone and not bothering about what might happen. The incident in Delhi does not stop me from living my life but it is an irritant. And I am tired of pointing fingers at the man who harasses me, the police, the law or whatever else!

I am an optimist and I know for every man who harasses someone, there are 10 others who don’t want this to happen. I want to find the other 10 and with their help clean up our areas to make sure everyone can walk alone on the road peacefully, whenever they want.

Saloni Malhotra is CoFounder of Safecity, a citizen’s initiative to end sexual abuse and harassment in public spaces. Report such incidents on safecity.in with the exact location of the incident. Volunteer with safecity to clean up your specific locality/ area

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To the Man Who Shouted “I Like Pork Fried Rice” at Me on the Street

April 1, 2014 By Contributor

By Franny Choi, cross-posted with permission from the Poetry Foundation (audio version available there)

you want to eat me
out. right. what does it taste like
you want to eat me right out
of these jeans & into something
a little cheaper. more digestible.
more bite-sized. more thank you
come: i am greasy
for you. i slick my hair with msg
every morning. i’m bad for you.
got some red-light district between
your teeth. what does it
taste like: a takeout box
between my legs.
plastic bag lady. flimsy white fork
to snap in half. dispose of me.
taste like dried squid. lips puffy
with salt. lips brimming
with foreign so call me
pork. curly-tailed obscenity
been playing in the mud. dirty meat.
worms in your stomach. give you
a fever. dead meat. butchered girl
chopped up & cradled
in styrofoam. you candid cannibal.
you want me bite-sized
no eyes clogging your throat.
but i’ve been watching
from the slaughterhouse. ever since
you named me edible. tossed in
a cookie at the end. lucky man.
go & take what’s yours.
name yourself archaeologist     but
listen carefully
to the squelches in
your teeth & hear my sow squeal
scream murder between
molars. watch salt awaken
writhe, synapse.
watch me kick
back to life. watch me tentacles
& teeth. watch me
resurrected electric.
what does it
                                    taste like: revenge
squirming alive in your mouth
strangling you quiet
from the inside out.
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Source: Poetry (March 2014).

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Day 2: #EndSHWeek 2014

March 31, 2014 By HKearl

Today was the second day of International Anti-Street Harassment Week!

Here are a few highlights:

A Bitch Media article about the Stop Telling Women to Smile wheat pasting night happening later this week.

Hollaback! Bahamas held a Chalk Talk to engage people in conversation about the sidewalk chalk messages they posted last night. Their Chalk Walk yesterday made the newspaper and there will be another article tomorrow.

Safe City Nepal held a Torch Rally with placards, “We demand street lights for women’s safety”, Bhadrakali-Shahid Gate, Kathmandu.

In Belgium, Hollaback! Gent put up one of the banners they made about street harassment. This one focuses on bystanders and reads, “If mean words stream, you can come in between.”

The #LondonLoves campaign featuring anti-harassment messages at London Landmarks is underway.

In Canada, Women in Cities International held a workshop about street harassment with girls.

In Arizona, Hollaback! Tucson hosted a “Meet Us on the Mall” event at the University of Arizona. They had info about street harassment, feminism, Transgender Day of Awareness, and more + goody bags and picture booths.

The first tweet chat took place today. Four feminist activists co-lead a tweet chat about #streetharassment, especially the young age it starts, how it impacts us, and what we can do about it: @ZerlinaMaxwell @nualacabral @RaquelReichard @Besito86

Community Against Violence in New Mexico was on the Paddy Mac show on 101.9 K-Taos Solar Radio Show and in the Taos News

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See the photo album of events.

Our next Tweet Chat is tomorrow at 2 p.m. ET with SSH, National Sexual Violence Resource Center and PreventConnect as we talk about how street harassment connects to sexual violence and rape culture and what we can do about it. Use #EndSH

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Nepal: ENOUGH!

March 31, 2014 By Contributor

Cross-posted with permission

Enough of being right
Enough of being fair,
Do you even care?

I walk in the nights
Wearing my tights
Wolves around me
With glistening eyes
Ready to pounce
Waiting for a chance

I walk my days through
In my flowery shorts,
Those streets everyday
There, the birds of prey
Gawking like a fool
Hawking through my soul

But you say
That is so fair
I am not to dance,
I’m not to prance,
In my tights and shorts

Tights are too tight for me
Shorts are too short, you see
“Nights are not yours girl,
Days are just fine to be!”

And when I tell you how degraded I feel every time
a stranger calls “Hey Bomb, I wanna F*** you” at me,
You say,
“Maybe you were in the wrong place
at a wrong time
wearing a wrong dress”
You never talk about that wrong person

Then you add,
“Go to your college straight,
go with a friend,
Go to your work straight,
stay quiet, do not fend,
Come back home straight
And that’s the end,
end of your day”

End of your day?
End of My day, you say?

End of my dignity
End of my sanity
End of my capacity
To bear
End of my mobility, my creativity
End of your sensitivity
I say

Dear human being, in what language does no mean yes?
And why don’t you get that I’m a human being too
Just like you
Please don’t make me hate you
‘Coz that means I hate me too!
Dear human being, please understand,
And speak up!!

It’s enough now
Enough of accepting,
Enough of giving in,
The bells of freedom hence ringing
Holding head high
Singing my own song
Of love and life,
Of right and wrong
Flying high in the sky
Swimming deep into the sea
Getting lost in wilderness
Staring into the abyss
Dancing to the tunes of hope

– As I like it!

Enough is enough!!

Smirti RDN works on safe cities efforts in Kathmandu, Nepal.
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