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“The veil would never protect anybody from getting harassed, not even niqab. As long as they [men] know that under that niqab or under that veil, there is a woman, they will sexually harass you”

April 22, 2012 By HKearl

Via Tunisia Live

This is a really great, thorough article about street harassment in Tunisia. I’m including an excerpt and encourage you to read it in its entirety.

Via Tunisia Live:

“…With a progressive Code of Personal Status, Tunisia is commonly regarded as the Arab world’s most advanced country in terms of women’s rights. Yet sexual harassment exists in Tunisia, too. Unlike in Egypt, sexual harassment has not entered the arena of public discourse in Tunisia, and is often dismissed as a non-issue.

A recent survey conducted by the Tunisian National Office of Population and Family (ONFP) found that physical violence against women was most commonplace, followed by psychological violence, sexual violence and last, economic violence. While the survey found that violence against women was most common in the private sphere, it also revealed that violence against women in the public sphere is sexual in 21.3% of cases, psychological in 14.8%, and physical in 9.8%.

Sexual harassment is not just physical – but includes gestural, and even verbal, harassment. According to UN Women, sexual harassment can be, “making sexual gestures with hands or through body movements,” “hanging around a person,” “sexual comments,” or “unwanted sexual looks or gestures” – not to mention rape, pressure for sexual favors, etc.

For Meriem Manar (whose name has been changed to protect her identity), a student of business and English in Tunis, sexual harassment is a daily reality. “You cannot avoid it. Men are in the street with you, and you have to go to school, you have to go to work. Because it is in our daily life, because it is our every day experience, we end up accepting it. You leave your house mentally prepared. You just deal with it,” she said.

But this comes at a certain price to her liberty. “There are places that I cannot go alone, like parks…because I know I might be not just sexually harassed, but even raped…If you walk on Avenue Habib Bourguiba at night, you will not find a single female on the street. If you are alone at night and walking in the street, and somebody sees you, they will have the idea that you are going to a nightclub, or that you are meeting your boyfriend…that you are doing something your family would not be proud of.”

For Meriem, taking public transportation can often become unbearable. The everyday hassle of public transport turns into a nightmare for women in Tunis – regardless of their age, and their dress. “The veil would never protect anybody from getting harassed, not even niqab. As long as they [men] know that under that niqab or under that veil, there is a woman, they will sexually harass you,” says Manar. While no statistics exist for Tunisia, a study conducted by the Egyptian Center for Women’s Rights, in conjunction with the United Nations Population Fund and the European Commission, found that in Egypt, 72.5% of surveyed victims of sexual harassment were veiled.

Meriem yearns for a car reserved for women, like in the Cairo metro. But according to Chiao, segregation is not the answer. “I ride in the women’s car. But I think that as a policy or a solution, it establishes very bad norms. It promotes this idea that if a woman is riding in the men’s car, then she is looking for harassment, or that she brought it unto herself.”

The Legislation

Since 2004, sexual harassment has been punishable by law in Tunisia – with one year in prison and a fee of 3,000 dinars. Halima Jouini, a founding-member of the Tunisian Association of Democratic Women (ATFD) and a volunteer at the Center for Listening and Orientation of Women Victims of Violence, qualified this law as “limited” and “incriminating” for women.

“We launched this law in 2003…it was the ATFD that led the campaign. It was relatively successful – for the first time, sexual harassment was recognized as a crime. But still we are not satisfied – the law does not protect women,” she said.

At the time of the interview, Jouini was just returning from the tribunal in Tunis, where she had been defending the case of a rape victim. The woman in question was a housekeeper, who had been raped – sodomized, in fact – repetitively by her male boss. Upon confessing this to his wife, the housekeeper agreed to film the crime as evidence to take the man to court. But once this evidence was obtained, the wife pressed charges against both her husband and the housekeeper for adultery. The man, who possessed a Canadian passport, fled the country, leaving the housekeeper in prison – where she had been held for a month as of late March.

According to Jouini, the 2004 law’s definition of sexual harassment is limited in scope – as it delimits sexual harassment as strictly a repeated action. It is currently defined as “persistence in the harassment of the other by repetition of actions, words or gestures.” Citing the case of a woman who quit her job after she was harassed once in the workplace, Jouini pointed out that some women do not put up with the harassment, and choose to put an end to it after the very first occurrence. Jouini further explained that this makes it harder to collect evidence – as it is not always easy to prove that the harassment was repetitive.

The law further provides no protection to the plaintiff and witnesses, but instead explicitly states that if a case is declared nolle prosequi, or if the defendant is acquitted, then the defendant can ask for reparation, and sue the plaintiff for defamation.

Jouini questioned why this was recalled in the body of the law – when this principle underlies all laws included in the Penal Code. “This principle exists for the whole Penal Code, but to recall it in this very article is a way to say, ‘be careful women’…it is incriminating for the plaintiff.”

The Tunisian Association of Democratic Women (ATFD) calls for a comprehensive law on sexual harassment – one that would not only be included in the Penal Code, but also in the Tunisian Labor Code. Jouini pointed out that this was already the case in Morocco. The ATFD is also lobbying to include an article against discrimination and violence in the new Constitution – Jouini added that this has happened in several countries that underwent recent transitions, like South Africa and some Latin American countries.

Last but not least, the law against sexual harassment is couched in a moralizing rhetoric – it claims to discourage the “infringement of good mores and sexual harassment.” According to Jouini, sexual harassment is “a patriarchal discriminatory practice…You can’t justify this by good mores, or the lack of….”

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Snapshot of street harassment stories, news, announcements & tweets: April 22, 2012

April 22, 2012 By HKearl

via Post Noon

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past few weeks.

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Street Harassment Stories:

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HarassMap in Egypt

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Name and Shame in Pakistan

Safe Streets in Yemen

Many of the Hollaback sites

In the News, on the Blogs:

* The Times of India, “Child rights panel takes up cases of sex abuse of street children“

* Tunisia Live, “Talk is Cheap: Addressing Sexual Harassment in Tunisia“

* Mama Mia, “Is wolf whistling sexual harassment?“

* Deccan Herald, “Woman power hits back with ‘girlcott’“

* Sunday’s Zaman, “Is harassment cultural?“

* Jeddah Mind Trick, “Walking While Covered“

* RH Reality Check, “Dispatches from AWID 2012: Arab Spring Becomes a Chill for Women, But The Organizing Continues“

* The Washington Examiner, “D.C. bill targets gropers and flashers on Metro“

* Nieuwsblad Brussels, “Met stoepkrijt ten strijde tegen seksueel geweld“

* BBC 4 Radio, “My Name is Not ‘Hey Baby’“

* Chicago Tribune, “Neighbor thwarts assault on woman“

* The Times of India, “Hounded by eve-teasers, girl ends life“

* Rookie, “All Locked Up“

* Bell Bajao, “Do we dare to wear what we want?“

* Washington Post, “Man sexually assaulted near National Gallery of Art“

* Times of India, “Male passengers forcibly occupy women coaches in mainline electrical multiple unit trains“

* Bougie Black Girl, “My and probably your experience with Street Harassment.“

* Reston Patch, “It’s Trail Season – Be Careful Out There” | My response blog post.

Activism Announcements:

New:

* Siobhan Benita is an Independent candidate for Mayor of London and she put street harassment on her campaign agenda

* In Washington, DC, Ward 4 City Council Member Muriel Bowser introduced legislation that will make it easier to prosecute people who expose themselves in public (e.g. public masturbators and flashers)

* @fluffmuffin10 I’m looking for interviewees for street harassment research. Email me for further info! emma.lovell10@googlemail.com

* Submit art about street harassment for the VoiceTool Product exhibit in San Francisco, CA

* Report #streetharassment in Pakistan at @NameAndShamePk, email nameandshame@ryse.pk, SMS 0314-800-35-68 or online at http://www.nameandshame.pk

Reminders:

* If you’re in the New York City area, take this survey about harassment on public transportation.

* Gay and bisexual men, take this survey about street harassment (you can be in any location).

* The Adventures of Salwa campaign has a hotline for sexual harassment cases in Lebanon: 76-676862.

* In Bangalore, India, there is a helpline for street harassment 080 – 22943225 / 22864023

20 Tweets from the Week:

1. @bianchisoul Walking down street, 2 guys lean out of car and subject me to unprovoked, vile and sustained barrage of verbal sexual harassment #feminist

2. @garnethenderson Had a man try to touch my leg on the subway and got catcalled on my walk home all in one night. #streetharassment

3. @pilotbacon Some guy just yelled “get in my car” at me & I got insulted that he didn’t compliment me first. C’mon bro, that’s a command, not a catcall.

4.  @ThisIsBlueKid What if everytime I get a catcall or an ‘aye mami’ I licked that person’s face? Best/worst social experiment ever?

5. @Make_it_nASHty “The street harassment needs to stop” #whoisthisdude

6. @LDRphotography The amount of street harassment we women have to put up with in this town is outrageous. Worse place I’ve ever lived

7. @DracoDoza #Street #harassment makes me want to punch people in the face. Repeatedly. Because I endure it, repeatedly.

8. @RidiculousMegan First street harassment incident of my move to #Toronto so not cool.

9. @EFLI_LiFe Safe street campaign: “Let’s change social acceptability of sexual harassment!” why is it ok? Babies say: don’t harass my mom! #awidforum

10.  @sarahofaoh Street harassment is a daily thing for me whenever I’m in cities. Ugh. So happy I have headphones.

11. @chaneldubofsky what if everyone who saw the #street #harassment called the person out on doing it? instead of ignoring it? #accountability

12. @sparksf Egypt: take blame away from women- her dress, the time of day she is on street- there is now a sticker for anti-harassment biz #awidforum

13. @enf_2 walking home alone at 11:20 pm, some guy yells out his truck window, “you’re —-ing smoking hot.” #leavemealone #streetharassment

14.  @blasianallie #YouKnowWhatAnnoysMe? #streetharassment.

15.  @lucyswope Over-the-shoulder finger to “damn, boo, look at the hips on that.” #streetharassment

16. @thleenzo Told @gallo_extreme that #streetharassment is the #1 reason I don’t wear revealing clothing. Now he wants to know how he can help stop it.

17. @vanillawindz Just being a women walking on the street regardless of whether in Sari or shorts invites sick comments from cheapsters #streetharassment

18. @Melissa_Higgs On TFL Northern line: man deliberately walking into women walking on the left towards him to get a grope, then grinning #streetharassment

19. @iHollaback “No means no means no. In the bar, a bedroom, and the STREET.” Biden on VAWA. Think he knows about hollaback?

20. @thekateblack Police are looking for this L train masturbator for targeting me and a gradeschool aged girl. http://pic.twitter.com/G5X6MekW

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Young woman in India commits suicide because of harassers

April 21, 2012 By HKearl

This is tragic.

Deeksha Sharma, a 21-year-old student at Mahatma Gandhi College in India committed suicide this week. In the suicide note, she said it was because of the constant sexual harassment she faced by four men near her college. She’d complained about them across several years. It wasn’t completely clear from the article, but I gather nothing was done to stop them or help her.

Via Times of India:

“We have arrested all the four accused. We are investigating their role to find if they could also be implicated for outraging the modesty of the girl,” said Satyaveer Singh, superintendent of police.

Sadly, the belated actions of the police won’t help this young woman. But maybe they will prevent other young women from facing harassment by these young men. So that’s something.

Rest in peace, Deeksha Sharma.

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“No one should be subjected to that type of verbal abuse.”

April 20, 2012 By HKearl

I was heading outside for lunch, and was looking forward to being able to breathe fresh air and get over the bad day I was having.

I walk past this homeless man who politely asks if I have any change to spare. I reply, “No, sorry.” A normal interaction, right? Nope! This man’s behavior gets ugly, and he says, “Well, I don’t expect a crack whore like you to have any.” Who to the what now?! Nothing I said warranted being called a “crack whore.”

As I mentioned above, I was already having an off day and didn’t have the energy to respond to that in a mature way. He got a, “Whatever, loser” from me, to which he ended the exchange with, “Stupid whore!”

Included is a photo of him, and come to think of it I think I’ve seen this guy’s photo on Collective Action for Safe Spaces in the past. If this is the same guy, then he has mental issues that need to be addressed and he needs to be taken off the streets.

No one should be subjected to that type of verbal abuse.

– Anonymous

Location: I Street NW & 15th Street NW, Washington, DC

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It’s time for new advice

April 19, 2012 By HKearl

Reston Paths

I was really irritated to read an article on my hometown’s Patch website (Reston Patch) with the headline “It’s Trail Season – Be Careful Out There.”

Fairfax County, where I live, is one of the safest in the country, but it’s still not safe enough. The article tells us:

“A woman told police a man walked up behind her and grabbed her bottom in the 11400 block of Waterview Cluster on April 1 at 6:30 p.m. The man fled in the opposite direction and has not been found or charged.

Police said a woman reported she was grabbed by a man on a wooded trail near Danbury Forest Drive in Springfield on Saturday. The woman yelled and fled.

The man was described as Hispanic, between 5’6” -5’9” feet tall and around 150-170 pounds. He was professionally attired in a white, buttoned shirt and a dark vest, black slacks and black shoes.

Around 12:30 p.m. on Saturday, a man whistled at a jogger in an area near Sully Park and Truitt Farm Drive. When she looked over, he was exposing himself and masturbating.

This incident may be another in a series of similar incidents in the Sully Police District in recent months. The woman yelled and saw him run down a paved path. She described him as olive-skinned with a protruding gut, green shirt and blue jeans. He was between 5’3” – 5’7” feet tall.”

Pretty disturbing stuff, right?

The article then lists advice from the police department:

* Try not to go out alone; if you do, make sure someone knows where you will be and when you expect to return.
* If possible, avoid using trails after dark.
* Do not use headphones at a high volume; make sure you can hear what’s going on around you.
*Always look ahead and see what or who is around you.

How is this helpful? All of the women were harassed and attacked during daylight hours, so the advice to not go out after dark is not applicable. There’s no indication that they were wearing headphones. It sounds like all of them were alert to what was going on around them and they were all able to get away from the creeps. The one thing they didn’t do was go out with a buddy.

Guess what, that ain’t happening. It’s impractical. It’s undesirable. It’s unequal.

Except in a war-torn area or high crime area, can you imagine telling grown men to not go places alone?  (And I know the advice was gender neutral, but really, after listing all those stories about women being harassed, it’s clear who the advice is for.) Why do we accept that it’s okay to tell this to women?

In the context of street harassment and sexual assault in public places, it’s pretty common to hear the words “stay safe” and “be careful” or admonitions to not go places alone or after dark. It’s funny since in general, women have been trained from a young age to be careful and we already limit our lives in ways we think, we hope, will keep us safe. We usually  already follow that advice when it’s practical. And we’re still harassed and assaulted. So isn’t it time for new advice?

While the police did share information on how to report harassers/assaulters, I would love to see information spread about other assertive responses people can have. I would love to see information listed about what bystanders can do. And maybe some kind of community outreach on this topic (..and as I write this, I recall how this is MY community so now I’m brainstorming what I can do offline to help with this issue…maybe I can collaborate with the division that manages the trails and we can post info every few miles about how to respond to harassers/assaulters and how to be good bystanders and post alerts about known perps.)

And of course, broadly, I’d love to see more focus placed on the potential perpetrators, not just on the potential victims/survivors, as a prevention tactic.

What are your thoughts, ideas, and suggestions?

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