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Man stops sexual assault of 21-year-old woman by cab driver

April 16, 2012 By HKearl

Here’s a Monday morning story that illustrates some of the worst and the best characteristics of humans.

First, the worst: A 21-year-old woman was walking home from a bar early Sunday morning, listening to music with headphones, when 27-year-old cab driver Admon Shasho saw her and decided to attack her. He parked his cab and followed her into an alley in the 4500 block of North Oakley Avenue in Chicago, IL. He first tried to rob her of her purse and phone and then pulled her to the ground and sexually assaulted her. The cab driver told her he had a knife and that he would kill her if he screamed.

Then, the best: The cab driver and young woman were loud enough that a woman in nearby home heard them and woke up her husband, Ron Psenka. He told his wife to call 911 and then he grabbed a shovel and ran out the door, barefoot and in his pajamas.

Via ABC News:

“As a parent, certainly, the first thing that might cross your mind is, hey, that could be my own child under there,” said Psenka…

“Another human being doing that to another human being is not something anybody ever wants to see,” said Psenka. “This person was more than twice her weight and was easily manhandling her, and that’s not right.”

Barefoot and in his pajamas, Psenka chased the suspect away from the alley, the three blocks from his house to Wells Park on Western Avenue, which is where he was able to flag down a squad car. The police then pursued Shasho and apprehended him.

“I think I did what anybody else probably would do in this situation and that is try and stop him,” said Psenka. “I maybe went a little further, but at this point, to stop him and to make sure that she was OK.”

The cab driver is charged with attempted robbery and criminal sexual assault. He is being held at Cook County Jail on $700,000 bond.

The victim has already stopped by twice to thank Psenka. He said that Sunday morning that, she and her mom came by with flowers.”

Thanks to Ron and his wife for doing the right thing and helping out someone in need. I hope we can all do the same when we’re in similar situations.

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Filed Under: male perspective, News stories Tagged With: Admon Shasho, Ron Psenka, sexual assault, street harassment

Snapshot of street harassment stories, news, announcements & tweets: April 15, 2012

April 15, 2012 By HKearl

By a student at Carelton College

Read stories, news articles, blog posts, and tweets about street harassment from the past few weeks.

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Street Harassment Stories:

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HarassMap in Egypt

Resist Harassment in Lebanon

Ramallah Street Watch in Palestine

Safe Streets in Yemen

Many of the Hollaback sites

In the News, on the Blogs:

* Awesome Women of Twitter, “Street harassment & racism“

* Knots & Crosses, “Sexual Harassment in Egypt, A Perfectionist Ideal?“

* Better off with Ken, “Ken unveils new measures to make Londoners safer in his crime manifesto“

* MSNBC, “‘Where is justice?’ Afghans march to protest violence against women“

* Julianabrit, “Manifesto To That Guy On the Street“

* Delicious Kaek, “Street harassment in Providence“

* NY Daily News, “Manhattan groper on the loose after 4 incidents, cops say“

* Empty Nest Expat, “Breaking the Silence on Street Harassment in Istanbul“

* The Blind Hem, “Hey Girl, Hey!“

* The world according to nouns (She’s a carnival), “Adventures in street harassment“

Activism Announcements:

New:

* Activists in London have successfully pressured Mayor of London candidate Ken Livingstone to propose a campaign against street harassment

* Check out Isobel Williams’ amazing design project to address street harassment

* Men in San Jose, California, share their bystander intervention retorts for when other men street harass women.

Reminders:

* If you’re in the New York City area, take this survey about harassment on public transportation.

* Gay and bisexual men, take this survey about street harassment (you can be in any location).

* The Adventures of Salwa campaign has a hotline for sexual harassment cases in Lebanon: 76-676862.

* In Bangalore, India, there is a helpline for street harassment 080 – 22943225 / 22864023

20 Tweets from the Week:

1. @utoledoUTURN Friend working @ mtn resort, followed by drunk tourist guys yelling I hope u have pepper spray–ur gonna need it. #streetharassment #endSH

2.@HollabackBXL #ThingsThatFrustrateMe being harassed 3 times in about 10 min in the centre of #Brussels #Bruxelles #Brussel. #endSH

3. @evaholland Street harassment levels in Yellowknife are at least 2x the already irritating Whitehorse volume. This is not an endearing trait in a city.

4. @chaneldubofsky on #facebook, someone suggests that the recipient of #street #harassment take it as compliment. head exploding. @StopStHarassmnt

5. @subculturestuff #realmendont catcall women in the streets. #streetharrassment

6. @GiuliaRozzi “Damn girl, if we got together I’d love the shit outta dat ass” – catcall/new urban marketing campaign for laxatives.

7. @jennepenne Tis the season where undergrads catcall women walking down the street with their kids.

8.  @gottofly I’m NOT a CAT, I dont respond to “hisst” or anyother catcall. If you’re NOT my kid dont call me MOMMA. Ladies want MEN, NOT DOGS, or KIDS.

9.  @TheNewAnnHirsch whats worse, men who catcall you on the street or men who r trying to sell u something on the street? both r SOO ANNOYING

10. @BoozyBlondBetch I don’t know why men in the city think it’s perfectly acceptable to #catcall women #ThingsThatFrustrateMe #AreYouKiddingMe

11.‏ @marlsgastrock Excuse me, do not catcall me on west mall to try and get me to join your organization.. Definitely WILL NOT work. #degrading #rude

12.  @clairesgould Alright, seriously DC? #Streetharassment twice in one day, on the same street?! #notok #ew

13. @hollabackWY On other side of the road, just saw three 10yo boys whistle and make meow noises at a 10yo girl. She looked mortified #streetharassment

14. @RapeCrisisSth Reflecting on hustings last night – why is the response to street harassment from all mayor candidates about surveillance? #ldnsafe4women

15. @t_wit99 #WhatWeTellGirls: laugh off street harassment & take it as a ‘compliment’. #IsThisReal?

16. @cockdestroyer Tips for avoiding street harassment: Travel by jetpack.

17. @_thejam_walk to turner field complete with street harassment, Oh Happy Day Mama

18. @DoYourWarDance FUCK STREET HARASSMENT. It was an EVERYDAY thing when I worked in the Regions Bank building, walking around downtown.

19. @PoppyCollinson Be nice to see this many police in central #Bristol on a weekend evening when we are basically just left to face the street harassment

20. @sarahmerra My beautiful day is getting ruined by street harassment. Men need to be taught that there are limits, and their intrusions permanently hurt.

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Filed Under: News stories, Resources, street harassment, weekly round up

Summer Street Harassment poem

April 14, 2012 By Contributor

I’ve had enough of the same old shit. It’s dull. It is time for harassers to come to terms with the fact that we will no longer tolerate their threatening/degrading/patronising bullshit!

Here’s a little Summer Street Harassment poem I knocked out for the pleasure of my sisters 🙂 xx

Dear Workmen,

This summer, I’d appreciate it

if you didn’t refer to me as “that” or “it.”

Please forgive that I find it derogatory

that you feel my hair colour is what defines me.

Please don’t tell me to smile. You don’t own my mouth

and you’re giving me nothing to smile about!

Don’t call me “baby”. I’m 30 years old.

I’m not your “love” either and no, I’m not cold.

If I was cold, I would put a coat on,

so why bother asking that stupid question?

And if there are eight of you and one of me,

well, what do you think the meaning of “bully” to be??

And regardless of any way I choose to dress,

my tits sure as hell ain’t your fucking business.

And no, it isn’t a compliment

that you think I exist for your entertainment.

Women have hearts and souls and humanity.

Stop reading the tabloids! Come back to reality!!

Perhaps it’s just me. Maybe I’m being thick.

Maybe there’s a good reason why you’re such a prick.

Like fear. Is equality really that scary??

Get over yourself. Get a life.

Love Mary 🙂

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“I’m proud that I didn’t just look away and walk past.”

April 13, 2012 By HKearl

As a teenage girl I am used to street harassment on a small scale; catcalls, whistles, even sleazy chat-up lines. But last night I experienced something I never thought I’d have to deal with. I was walking along a dark road with two friends on the way to a club, we were walking arm in arm, chatting. This road has a short, wide tunnel and as we entered it a man walked into the other end. Being wary of anyone at that time of night I kept an eye on him. As soon as he noticed us he unbuckled his belt, dropped his trousers and started masturbating. I was really creeped out, but also angry. As we passed him on the pavement I looked him in the eye and said, ‘Seriously? You are ridiculous.’

He didn’t reply, but kept walking.

As my friends hadn’t noticed what had been going on I then proceeded to take the opportunity to tell them how pathetic (and also illegal) that is as we walked away. I emphasized each word so that it would echo in the tunnel.

I can’t believe anyone would do something like that. Being a regular reader of this site I know that many women have had much worse experiences, but one of my friends was quite disturbed by it. Something about the way the man acted was really sinister. I’m proud that I didn’t just look away and walk past. He deserved to know that what he was doing was disgusting.

– FT

Location: Edinburgh, Scotland

 

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“It is always disturbing to hear that kind of misogyny.”

April 12, 2012 By Contributor

I was on the train, on my way home. I guy around 17 years of age was being very loud, talking non stop about a girl from school – how he didn’t like her looks and that she was very dumb. It was very offensive and made me feel uncomfortable and angry. I decided to tell him to shut up and that he was being very loud. It only shut him up for about a minute, then he continued. It is always disturbing to hear that kind of misogyny.

– NS

Location: On the train

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