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"Wolf-whistle" Contest in Ireland

July 24, 2009 By HKearl

Winner of the wolf whistle competition, via BBC
Winner of the wolf whistle competition, via BBC

The loud, long-drawn out “wolf whistle” seems to come up the most when there are discussions about “street harassment” or “catcalling.” Maybe this is because it seems to be the form of street harassment most often used in commercials or cartoons (Tom & Jerry, Anamaniacs, for example) and it seems to be forever tied to construction workers standing around not doing their job but instead whistling at women walking by.

Whether because it’s seen so much in popular culture or because it’s so easy to do, I’ve also found it to be the most common street harassment experience of women. Last fall, when I conducted my informal, anonymous online survey, nearly 94 percent of the more than 800 female respondents said they had been the target of whistling at least once and nearly 38 percent said it occurred to them on a monthly to daily basis. And my respondents came from all over the world! I conclude that getting whistled at by men is a near universal experience for women.

While whistling isn’t usually as scary or degrading or invasive as more severe forms of street harassment – like sexually explicit comments, groping, masturbating, and stalking – many women still find it degrading, annoying, and infuriating. People whistle for dogs to come to them and, while I love dogs, I think it’s demeaning for women to be called to or called for in the same way. And besides, what gives men the right to think they can just whistle at whatever woman they want whenever they want? Oh yeah, sexism and patriarchy.

So now that my stance on wolf whistling is clear, check out this article, via BBC News, and you can guess my feelings about it:

“On Wednesday Irvinestown played host to Ireland’s first ever wolf-whistling championships, complete with scaffolding, hard hats, and plenty of women.

The men of the town were more than eager to show their appreciation of the fairer sex, eagerly donning hard hats and lining up along the pavement to demonstrate their whistling skills.

“We’re all here for the good-looking women,” joked Jimmy McKenna. “It just comes naturally.” …

The politically incorrect competition was the work of festival organiser, and whistling devotee, Joe Mahon.

“It was all good fun, and we didn’t get too many complaints at all – people just enjoyed the day.

“That’s how I met met my wife originally, I met Marie 23 years ago.

“I whistled at her and I’m stuck to her since, as they say.”

Joe’s years of experience stood him in good stead when asked to pick a winner out of the fine whistles in competition in Irvinestown.

“I’m a good judge of a whistle, because it got me the right woman in the end.

“Stephen did a great job, and he’s a worthy champion wolf-whistler.”

For local butcher Stephen Millar, it was years of practice that clinched the title.

“I’m 28 years old, and I’ve been whistling at any young thing since I was 16.”

Oh ha-ha, it’s all good and fun to dehumanize, sexualize, and whistle at “pretty” and “young” girls in a world with high rates of gender-based violence and assault. Chuckle chuckle laugh laugh. But really, I think it’s not.

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Man Gropes Woman Holding Baby in Philly

July 24, 2009 By HKearl

Stories don’t get much more messed up than this one…

Yesterday morning, a young woman was riding the El train in Philadelphia, PA, and she was holding her infant on her lap. A man sat beside her, threatened her and groped her at knife point. No one else in the car realized what was happening. He got off at Eighth and Market Streets and the woman got off there too, to call the police.  Via the Philadelphia Inquirer:

Groper on the El Train in Philadelphia“The man was described as 30 to 40 years old, about 5-foot-3, and 150 to 160 pounds. He had slicked-back blond hair, wore a black shirt and pants, and his left ring finger was bandaged and in a splint, police said. Anyone with information was asked to contact the Special Victims Unit at 215-685-3251.”

What is wrong with people?!

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Filed Under: News stories Tagged With: eighth and market streets, el train, groper, infant, philadelphia, philadelphia inquirer, sexual assault, sexual harassment, street harassment

Good News!

July 23, 2009 By HKearl

I have good news!

For the last several months, I’ve been researching and working on a book about street harassment and sending out proposals to different publishers. Today I got offered a book contract! I am so very excited 🙂

People’s stories are central to my book, so if you have a street harassment story you haven’t shared yet and you would like to have considered for inclusion, please email it to me at stopstreetharassmentATyahooDOTcom or you can also submit your story anonymously (also to be included on the blog) via an online form.

If you are an activist on this issue and we haven’t spoken before, please contact me! I’m also highlighting the work of activists in one of my chapters.

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Anti-Street Harassment Summer Camp in IL

July 23, 2009 By HKearl

CTADATE: Saturday August 1st
TIME:
11 a.m. to 5 p.m.
LOCATION:
University of Illinois at Chicago Forum, 725 W. Roosevelt Road, Chicago, IL
MORE:
This event is FREE and open to youth and adults.  Registration is REQUIRED.  RSVP to rpywat@hotmail.com.

Anti-Harassment Summer Camp Program

Understanding Street Harassment
11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. — Street Harassment 101

Dealing with Street Harassment
12:45-2:00 p.m. — How to Launch Your Own Anti-Street Harassment Campaign in your Community.

2:15-3:15 p.m. — Self-Defense Workshop by Impact Chicago

3:30-5:00 p.m. — Design a Citywide Anti-Street Harassment Public Education Campaign (including PSAs, Posters, etc….).

If you are an artist, photographer, videographer, graphic designer, etc… we could use your help on August 1st. Please contact Lillian at 773-759-1634. For more information about YWAT, visit www.youngwomensactionteam.org.
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Coincidence or Stalker? HELP!

July 22, 2009 By Contributor

I’ve had run-ins with truckers on the interstate here in Ohio before, with them honking their horns and smiling. I just blow it off, it’s not a big deal.

But on my way to work one morning, I was driving down the interstate minding my own business and a man comes up in his SUV and is in the right lane while I’m in the left lane. I always look at the person who is driving next to me, it’s a habit. Who doesn’t? Anyway, he began waving, smiling and starting to flirt with me. I sped up and got off the interstate, that’s when I read his license plate (which is very easy to remember) and he waved “goodbye” while I exited the highway. I thought it was a weird experience, but forgot about it and went on.

Just today, I was headed the opposite way from my work to my boyfriend’s house, driving the speed limit, passing slow drivers if i had too, then all of a sudden I look over and see a man looking at me. I didn’t think much of it, sped up and continued down the interstate. Then the car gets behind me. I look up and see a man waving at me in my rear view mirror. I had my sunglasses on so he couldn’t have seen me looking. Anyways… he was getting into the left lane and was trying to be side by side me to get my attention, I didn’t look until the backside of his car was in front of me. I looked at the license plate and realized it is the same exact guy from a couple of weeks ago!

He began trying to get in front of me, beside me, behind me and on the other side and I just kept speeding up or slowing down and changing lanes as much as possible to avoid him. Finally he stayed behind me for at least 1 /2 mile and then he began waving at me again, pointing and flashing his lights, telling me to get off at the exit he was getting off at!

I could not believe what I was seeing. I watched the guy until he got off the highway and called my boyfriend. He doesn’t think much about it, but my parents do. If I see the man again I’m afraid he will follow me or worse, so the police will receive a call. Tonight I put a knife under my bed just in case!

If you have any advice, please say so! thanks!!!

-anonymous

Location: Ohio

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