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Do you feel passionately about ending street harassment and do you like to write? We need YOU!

Stop Street Harassment is one of the top street harassment websites in the world and we’re recruiting new members for our first Blog Correspondents Program cohort of 2015. This is an unpaid, volunteer opportunity. Build your resume and add your voice to the global conversation about this important topic!

Your words will be read: the SSH blog receives up to 30,000 unique readers per month.

Assignment:

From September to December 2015, correspondents in our third cohort must commit to writing one blog post per month about street harassment issues in their community, region or country, for four posts total. The topics could include incidents of street harassment covered in the news, activism to stop it, interviews with street harassment activists, and street harassment in popular culture, traditions or the news. You can also write pieces that tie street harassment to relevant related issues (such as racial profiling/racism, online harassment, and campus rape).

We aim to have geographic diversity among our cohort members. People of all genders, ages, regions are welcome to apply.

Applying:

If you would like to join our final Blog Correspondents cohort of the year, please complete this short application form by August 20. Applicants will be notified by August 22 and the selected cohort will be announced by the end of August.

Note: If you prefer to write in a language other than English, please also indicate what language is most comfortable for you and you can send your writing sample in that language.

Please apply and/or share with others who may be a good fit!

 

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USA: “All it takes is one voice in a crowd of many”

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Liz Merino, Massachusetts, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

Boston anti-harassment transit ads, 2013
Boston transit ads, 2013

According to the Massachusetts Bay Transportation Authority’s 2014 Ridership and Service Statistics, more than one million riders use its urban services every week. This includes the Red and Orange Line, as well as the system’s many buses and trackless trolleys.

I am only one of those riders, and I am a woman. Taking public transit as a woman in the dog days of summer isn’t easy. Let me rephrase that, being a woman on public transit is never easy, but the summer makes it a hell of a lot worse.

“It makes me really uncomfortable how people feel so comfortable with just shouting degrading things to you or things like, ‘Hey, do you want a boyfriend?’ or ‘Where’s that smile?’ It really turns you off from riding public transportation, but with most people, that’s their only option getting to work or wherever they need to go,” said NYC resident Maddie Michalik

The bus stop that I wait at every day to take into the city is on a main stretch of road, busy with the typical morning rush hour found anywhere across the U.S.

I’m sure the harassment I face can be found there too.

Men slow down their cars and yell at me out their window as they pass by. Some I can’t understand, their words garbled by wind, others I find I’m able to tune it out, but then there are other things I hear but for now I won’t repeat.

Others just stare. I know what you’re thinking. What do I mean staring? How can someone staring be harassment, especially from across the street in a car, a bus, a truck a anything?

A stare may not seem like anything but for men that harass and see women as nothing but something to look at and f***, it is. Their eyes are lecherous, undressing me, a once over that lasts as long as a red light but feels like forever leaving me sweating but still wishing I was wearing a parka instead of a skirt and a top.

Fully dressed I seemingly feel completely exposed.

At the bus stop I have nowhere to go, and these men know it. As they continue to stare, I look away, put up my book, stare at the sun and wait for the sidewalk to swallow me whole. Or I did.

I’ve started to stare back. Sometimes I wave like I’m a woman in the circus, a one-lady show hard and fast until they look away. My personal favorite is giving the finger or looking away blatantly as if they are not even there. I told my friend this and she worried for my safety.

A man rebuffed for his advances, unwanted at that, is a scary thing. A man with a grudge and a sense of entitlement to a body that isn’t his, a woman’s worst fear. I stand in the same spot every day.

What if they come back for me?

“I want to be just like every other commuter, pedestrian and jogger in the park. Can women be anonymous, invisible sometimes? Is that too much to ask?” asked Boston resident Lisi when asked about her experience with harassment.

In some aspects, though, it is getting better. The street harassment dialogue, the stories, social media posts and personal accounts are getting louder. Now, they can’t be ignored.

The other day on the Orange Line a man sat in one of the seats reserved for those that are handicap, close to the door and easy accessible. It’s also a spot to see everyone who gets on and off the train.

Standing three seats over, I watched as he tried to talk to a woman with headphones in. She wasn’t interested and shook her head, so he reached out and tried to grab her. Before he made contact, she moved away and the jostle of her body alerted the other passengers, including myself, that something was amiss.

The doors opened and she got off, another woman taking her place. Again the man tried to talk to this new woman, and again she just wanted to ride to her destination and not be bothered, like everyone else. When she didn’t respond to him speaking, he reached out to touch her too, and before my mouth opened, the lips of another parted and what she said made the whole car turn.

“Hey, you don’t touch her, or me or anyone else. If you want something you use your mouth and if someone doesn’t want no part of it, you leave them be. But you respect their personal space, you hear?”

He sat and stared, and two stops later he was gone.

All it takes is one voice in a crowd of many to say what so few can sometimes manager to utter on their own. As a woman, it made me happy to see a fellow woman stick up for someone else, but it made me happier that the whole car was in agreement with what she had said.

It can be easy in situations like this to turn away, it’s uncomfortable and awkward, and sometimes to speak up, it can even be dangerous. But when nothing is said instead, the behavior seems to be accepted as normal. Street harassment, touching someone without consent, yelling and hollering, groping and staring, whistling and whispering isn’t normal.

Speaking up can be hard, but saying something makes a difference even if it’s small or seems insignificant. Saying something means it’s happening, and it’s wrong, but you see it and won’t let it continue. Using your voice, no matter how loud or soft, speaks volumes for those who at the moment cannot find their own.

Liz is a recent graduate of Hofstra University with a Bachelor of Arts Journalism degree. She is currently a staff writer for a marketing agency in Boston. Follow her on Twitter @slizmerino and Instagram @elizabethmerino93.

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Spain: Col·lectiu Punt 6: Shaping public spaces with a gender approach

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Rebecca Smyth, Spain, SSH Blog Correspondent

Espacio vital y equipado delante del Mercado de Santa Caterina_barrio de la Ribera_Barcelona
Espacio vital y equipado delante del Mercado de Santa Caterina_barrio de la Ribera_Barcelona

Tucked away down one of the many labyrinthine streets of Barcelona’s El Born district, Col·lectiu Punt 6 is an organisation formed by and intent on forming the space which it occupies. They very kindly invited me along for a chat on Tuesday to tell me about their origins, development and objectives.

The first seeds were planted in 2004, when the Catalan government of the time passed the so-called ‘Llei de barris’ (Llei 2/2004 de millora de barris, àrees urbanes i viles que requereixen una atenció especial to give it its full title; it roughly translates to ‘law for the improvement of neighbourhoods, urban areas and towns which require special attention’). An ambitious project, the law aimed to improve civic participation and social inclusion through a multi-pronged approach to urban planning and development.

In order to receive funding, any proposed project must include action on eight ‘points’, the sixth of which is the promotion of gender equality in the use of public space and facilities – hence the collective’s name. It began life as a project sponsored by l’Institut Catala de la Dona (Catalan Institute of Women) in collaboration with l’Universitat Politecnic de Catalunya (Polytechnic University of Catalonia) and hasn’t shown any sign of slowing down since.

From 2006 to 2011, the group gained momentum, members and influence. It facilitated workshops with diverse groups and provided formal and informal training. 2011 saw the formalisation of the collective, which operates on a cooperative-type basis.

And goodness are they a formidable bunch: architects, sociologists and activists, often all in one, Punt 6 is a group on a mission. They have an extensive list of publications to their names (available here and here) as well as a strong presence in the vibrant world of Barcelona activism. They organised a Jane’s Walk in May of this year and have collaborated with other feminist organisations in Barcelona in the innumerable marches, festivals and street parties that punctuate daily life in the city.

As if that wasn’t enough for a group of people trying to write their doctoral theses, they also have projects in Málaga, Argentina and Colombia. The link between Punt 6 and Latin America is a strong one, given that one of their founding members, feminist architect and activist Zaida Muxí Martínez, is originally from Argentina.

I had the privilege to meet Blanca Gutiérrez Valdivia, Sara Ortiz Escalante and Roser Casanovas on Tuesday morning, and bombarded them with questions about their experiences thus far.

If there’s one thing that struck me as I sat and chatted away with them, it was just how much can be achieved by a small group of people with a clear idea of what they want to do. I felt and still feel immensely buoyed up by having witnessed first-hand their impressive work.

Having talked about where they’d come from, the conversation moved to where they hope to go and how they want to get there. Ultimately, their goal is to reshape urban space so that it takes into account women’s needs and experiences. This in turn requires an intersectional approach to six key themes: public spaces, facilities, mobility, housing, public participation and safety. This boils down to whether or not women and other minorities not only feel safe passing through public spaces, but also feel welcome to participate in them. They want to make women’s experience of urban space more visible, and also facilitate women’s awareness of urbanism and how to influence it. Along with this grassroots approach, they’ve worked in conjunction with local government initiatives. Like I said, a formidable bunch.

When asked about the wider political and social context here in Barcelona, Catalonia and Spain, all three women were unanimous in their agreement that it has shaped their work. There’s a longstanding tradition of political engagement and activism in this corner of the world, and the impact of the recession has also increased the already-existing desire for a social and political system that protects everyone’s interests and wellbeing. When asked about the interminable independence debate, theirs was a collective shrug. “Whatever happens,” Sara said, “We’ll continue our work.”

** For more information on Col·lectiu Punt 6, visit http://punt6.org/. Sincere thanks to Blanca, Sara and Roser for their time and willingness to share their experiences. **

Rebecca is currently living, working and stumbling through ballet classes in Barcelona. Originally from Kilkenny, she has a degree in European Studies and a Master’s in Gender and Women’s Studies from Trinity College Dublin, and will be doing an LLM in Human Rights Law in Edinburgh this fall.

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USA: The Power of No

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Laura Voth, USA, SSH Blog Correspondent

One of the most powerful actions a woman can take is to say no. Of course, because it is an act of power from a woman, saying no is also tantamount to playing Russian roulette.

As women, we can never be certain of the potential consequences of saying no to men. Saying no can earn us a downcast but respectful concession, or it could mean a bullet in your body. No could result in a demand for a reason, or it could end in a figure following you down the street, showing up at the gym, or repeated texts. No could mean rape threats on your voicemail or nasty language at the water cooler—or it could simply mean an awkward few days around the pal who asked you to dinner.

To avoid the consequences of the word no, we put up armor to protect ourselves. We listen to those who advise us to never walk alone at night and to never drink too much, even though we know that anything will be “too much” if we’re accosted later. We flash our fashionable rings if a man gets too close. We casually mention “my husband” or “my boyfriend” regardless of our relationship status, because we know that they will respect the property of another man more than a woman’s verbal no. We download apps that alert police if they aren’t disabled within a certain amount of time; before the advent of smartphones, we told our friends to raise the alarm if we didn’t contact them before a predetermined hour.

Of course, it never hurts to be safe—but it is now time to ask ourselves why we place the responsibility for women’s safety on women themselves when it was the action of another person that caused a trauma. Why is it that the men who surround us are not held responsible for honoring an explicit or implicit no?

There are those who believe that the potential consequences of no aren’t severe enough to merit the fear that colors most women’s daily routines and interactions. They claim that women are rarely raped, murdered, or harmed at all as a result of rejecting a man. These individuals argue that such cases are sensationalized in headlines and news blurbs; that such actions are rare and are the result of individual prejudice or mental illness (despite the fact that individuals who are seriously mentally ill are far more likely to be the victims of violent crimes than the perpetrators).

However, any woman who has ever felt the cold shock of fear that follows a threatening remark or a particularly insidious glare—let alone the realization that she is being followed or stalked or in any kind of immediate danger—is well aware of the knowledge that she could be next. We wonder, Am I the next headline, the next missing person, the next broken body? Is this it for me; will I be gone in a matter of hours because a man was offended by my rejection?

A public no—or “leave me alone,” or “stop it,” or any explicit or implicit variation of the word—in response to street harassment is particularly powerful, especially when it is vocal and emphatic. Saying “stop” to a man who doesn’t take the word seriously is incredibly brave…and also incredibly dangerous.

We prepare ourselves to do battle every time we leave the house in the morning, secure in the knowledge that we may—and for many of us, will—be harassed and bullied in the streets. We are painfully aware that rejecting a man, even a crude individual on the street, has the potential to end in a hostile way and yet we still find it within ourselves to go about our daily lives. What else can we do?

Laura is an emerging adult-slash-college student studying to enter a healthcare profession. In addition to studying and writing, Laura works at her university’s women’s center where she helps design and implement programs on all things lady. 

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The Netherlands: An Interview with Gaya Branderhorst of Straatintimidatie

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Julka Szymańska, the Netherlands, SSH Blog Correspondent

Gaya Branderhorst, from her website www.gaya.nl/
Gaya Branderhorst, from her website www.gaya.nl/

Street harassment is a global issue and the Netherlands is no exception, but to this date many people treated it as a fact of life, a minor inconvenience for women, who “should just take the compliment”. But street harassment is not a compliment and it can be a very large, scary inconvenience; the Dutch public is, fortunately, starting to wake up to this notion.

To speed up this awareness and fight the problem, the website Straatintimidatie (the Dutch word for street harassment) was created, alongside a citizen’s initiative that calls for penalizing street harassment with fines.

If you’re a Dutch national, you can still sign the initiative here and if you master the Dutch language, please give them a like on Facebook or tweet with #straatintimidatie on Twitter.

I had a conversation with founder Gaya Branderhorst to find out more about this important project:

J: Could you please introduce yourself and tell us a little bit about the team behind the website Straatintimidatie.nl and the accompanied citizens’ initiative against street harassment?

G: My name is Gaya Branderhorst and I’m from the Netherlands, but recently moved to New York for a new job. Before I left — approximately a year ago — I started a project against street harassment, which in this case is a citizens’ initiative requiring 40,000 signatures. This initiative primarily consists of a proposed bill that would punish the sexual harassment of women in public with a fine. At the start of this project I surrounded myself with a small group of supporters, for example: an attorney who wrote the bill itself, a person who manages the social media etc. As well as a well-known Dutch comedian (Soundos el Ahmadi) and an emeritus professor of Human Rights (Cees Flinterman).

J: How did this initiative came about exactly?

G: The team behind the citizen’s initiative against street harassment consists of both women and men, the gender ratio is about 50/50. This was a conscious decision on my part, because street harassment overwhelmingly happens to women, but the harassing is dominantly done by men, so to solve this problem we need men as well. Men should speak up against other men who harass women and tell them to stop this behavior. We also see that almost half of the people who sign the initiative are male. You have to understand that the majority of Dutch men do not condone street harassment, it’s the minority of men who harass the majority of women.

J: I’ve seen a video on YouTube you made in which a group of women turn the tables on random men on the street by catcalling them and asking them how this made them feel afterwards. What a funny, witty action! How did you come up with it?

G: The idea of ‘reverse catcalling’ isn’t entirely new, the Dolle Mina’s (a prominent feminist group during the Second Wave of feminism in the Netherlands) did this too. As I understand it, they did so for different reasons, mainly for laughs, is what a former Dolle Mina told me. But we did it after hearing the commentary of people questioning “if catcalling is really that bad? Isn’t it complimenting women’s beauty in a way?”

So we figured we could turn this around in order to showcase that men don’t find it complimentary to be catcalled either. It turns out we were absolutely right about that: you can see in the video that virtually none of the men are pleased about it, they don’t experience it as a compliment either. And for good reason, because catcalling truly isn’t a compliment at all, it’s a vicious phenomenon that people often don’t see for what it is: harassment. Street harassment is worlds apart from getting a respectful compliment and it honestly surprised me to notice how many people are confused about this. But by reversing the dynamic it suddenly becomes a lot clearer that street harassment is unpleasant. So that’s why we created the video.

J: The Dutch often pride themselves in their liberalism and emancipation of women and minorities, but an initiative again street harassment is clearly still necessary. So, what’s the deal with this country?

G: On one hand the Netherlands are doing relatively well in terms of equality in comparison to some other countries. So in a way that’s true, for example: same sex marriage is finally gaining more ground in the United States (at time of publication we’re happy to report that the supreme court of the USA has decided to lift the ban on same sex marriage last month) and we already had that for quite a while of course. The same goes for women’s right to choose for an abortion, that’s not that big of a deal anymore in the Netherlands either. In a lot of things we are ahead of other countries, even other Western countries, but as a consequence, the danger looms that we as a nation start slacking off. That this so called “tolerant attitude” digresses to a sort of indifference, which is something entirely different than tolerance.

Especially when it comes to the rights of women, this tolerance often turns into a “whatever, been there done that” mindset. And that’s increasingly visible in the realm of women’s rights: there are quite a few things in the Netherlands that are contradictory to the notion that men and women are equals. These things include the wage gap, the amount of women on top of the corporate ladder and the prevalence of domestic- and sexual violence against women and girls to name a few. And of course street harassment, something so many women have experience with. If you take a look at the women in our team, they all have had to deal with street harassment, which is part of the reasons why they’re in our team in the first place. This goes for the women who sign our initiative as well: some of the stories they tell in the comments they leave us are outright shocking.

I don’t understand why –with all out tolerance and progressiveness– street harassment isn’t more of a priority in Holland.

J: What’s in store for the future of this citizen’s initiative against street harassment and the situation surrounding street harassment in the Netherlands in general?

G: Last year I was a guest in the television talkshow Knevel & van den Brink and one of the other guests at the table just happened to be Minister of Social Affairs Lodewijk Asscher, that was a happy coincidence. I was asked if street harassment really is such a significant problem in the Netherlands and my reply was that I think it most definitely is. I told them that every woman I talk to struggles with this sometimes, but that we can’t be 100% certain, because there are no statistics on the matter. Looking at the minister for this paid off, because by now a nation-wide study has been carried out. So even though the proposed bill isn’t far enough in the process yet, we can see that the public debate on street harassment is catching on, something I’m glad about.

On top of that we’re also talking with Member of Parliament Achmed Marcouch about the issue, hopefully this leads to results as well. In our neighboring countries street harassment is a hot topic too, we’re not the only ones in Holland. Belgium for example has already implemented a law against street harassment and France and Egypt are on the same track. Both internationally and nationally things are happening to combat the problem, I think there’s a growing consciousness about street harassment. But if it will be enough? I’m not sure, from my personal, subjective perspective: I don’t see the instances decreasing. There is still plenty of work ahead of us

J: Thank you so much for this interview.

G: You’re very welcome.

 Julka is a 25-year-old feminist activist and soon-to-be Cultural Science student with a generous amount of life experiences -including street harassment – and even more passion for social justice.

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