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Boston and NYC Street Harassment Events

November 8, 2015 By HKearl

On Nov. 4, I had the honor of facilitating a focus group on street harassment with Asian-American women in Boston. I will add a summary of the session to our 2014 national study on street harassment by the end of the month. A common theme among the participants was how often the harassment was racialized as well as sexualized and how often they were treated like geishas or fetishes. Many recall the harassment beginning when they were 9, 10, 11 years old. Also, it was almost never Asian-American men who harassed them, rather men of other races, especially white and black men.

Asian-American focus group in Boston, MAAsian-American focus group in Boston

Many thanks to Sarah Chang for suggesting it and hosting it and thank you to her and the eight other women who bravely shared their stories.

Then on Nov. 5, Bluestockings bookstore in New York City hosted a book event for my new book Stop Global Street Harassment: Growing Activism around the World. I was joined by seven co-presenters. Bisi Alimi is from Nigeria and lives in London; Gaya Branderhorst of Straatintimidatie is from the Netherlands and lives in New York; Alicia Wallace of Hollaback! Bahamas is from the Bahamas and just moved to New York; Ileana Jiménez is a high school teacher in New York City who talks about street harassment with her students; she brought two of her students who shared their stories, Shana and StellaRose; and Brittany Brathwaite is a community organizer for Girls for Gender Equity (GGE) in New York City.

11.5.15 Bluestockings Bookstore talk in NYCBluestockings bookstore, NYC

We discussed what street harassment looks like in our communities, various activism actions underway to address it, and why it is so important to talk to youth about it (because they may already be experiencing it and perpetrating it and because street harassment is learned behavior that can be unlearned — or ideally, never learned). There was a rich Q&A with the audience. Two women documentarians filmed the event and will be sharing the footage with me soon. I’ll post it when I have it.

GGE, Ileana’s and Alicia’s work are all featured in my book.

NYC High School ClassHigh school class, NYC

Lastly, on Nov. 6, I spoke with Ileana’s high school students at Elisabeth Irwin High School in New York City. Many of them are already routinely experiencing street harassment as well as sexual harassment in schools. Many thanks to Ileana for bringing this issue into the classroom and for caring so much about his students.

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“They are a bunch of creeps”

November 6, 2015 By HKearl

My neighbors always hire the same company to do there landscaping. The issue is this specific company happens to be extremely inappropriate. On many occasions me and other neighbors of mine have catcalled by them. My friend who is under age was sitting in her car waiting for the girl she is babysitting to get off the bus and the landscaping guys drove by and beeped the horn. Then they drove by again and were blowing kisses and beeping the horn. Keep in mind these are grown men dealing with an under age girl.

My friend was shaking. She called me and asked what to do. I told her if she was really scared the situation would escalate to call 911. This catcalling incident was probably the worst we have had with that company. However this summer there were many occasions I was running and they would drive by and stick there heads out the windows and yell something at me.

Honestly, I’m so over these perverts and I really hope my neighbors fire them because they are a bunch of creeps.

– Anonymous

Location: New Jersey

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“I just walked away feeling embarrassed and uncomfortable”

November 4, 2015 By Contributor

I was walking home alone after school and a group of men (in their 30’s) had their eyes on me. Luckily there were two boys from my school in front of me so I walked close to them. Then one of the men looked at me and screamed, “WOWZA!”

And I just walked away feeling embarrassed and uncomfortable.

– Anonymous

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“Every time I go for a walk I do get timid”

November 2, 2015 By Contributor

I usually walk my dog at night along the same route. The first time this happened was when I passed this house with my boyfriend beside me. My boyfriend states that he saw three guys at this house. The house was across the street from where I was walking. Once I was directly in the view from their house, one of the men whistled. I ignored it and kept walking. Then, one of them whistled again and all of them started laughing. By this point, I was feeling anger and frustration. It’s been so long since this has happened and the fact that it happened again didn’t make it any better. My boyfriend and I kept walking and I got so fed up by the time I got home.

The second time that this happened was yesterday. Same house and everything. However, this time I was by myself and I only saw one man outside. I was already on the phone with my boyfriend as I came close to the house. Again, once I was in direct view of them, the man whistled, as expected. I ignored it, got frustrated, and told my boyfriend on the phone that he did it again. After the first whistle he decided to call me like I was a freaking dog. He made this sound with his lips, the same sound you would make as if you were trying to call a dog over or just get their attention.

After hearing that sound, I was INFURIATED. I was still on the phone and I decided to tell my boyfriend the address of the house as loud as possible thinking the man would hear. I guess I was trying to “fake report” the situation. As I kept walking, I was so mad at myself for not confronting the man. Honestly, I wanted to go over and just cuss out the guy; but I know that probably wouldn’t be such a good Idea.

Later on, my boyfriend had come by my house to tell me that he actually went to the house and talked to a guy that was sitting outside. I’m not sure if that man he talked to was the guy who whistled at me. My boyfriend had told him that this has been the second time that I was whistled at by the same house and that he and the other men better stop. He told me boyfriend that he “understood” and that he would let the other guys know.

Every time I go for a walk I do get timid and I hope all the time that those men would not be out there when I pass by. However, I’m not going to let that stop me from walking the same route as I always do.

– Ivy

Location: 1821 Paso Real Ave, Rowland Heights, CA 91748

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“Thanks for making Playa Vista a terrible place to be a woman”

October 31, 2015 By Contributor

I work at in Playa Vista, across the street from the Home Depot on Jefferson. Our parking lot is severely overcrowded, so I try to ride my bike in to work when I can. However, when I do have the audacity to ride my bike on a public street, 50% of the time I am catcalled at by day workers who congregate outside of the Home Depot. They whistle, wave, try to say hello, and generally attempt to get my attention. Somehow these men feel entitled to my attention, when all I am trying to do is get in to work.

There’s no alternate route for me to take. I am forced to ignore them, because I know that engaging them could result in threats to my safety or personal harm. This morning I had enough and tried calling the store, I explained the situation politely and was “transferred”, which meant my call was re-routed to an extension that did not exist.

How a company can be so callous about its impact on it’s surrounding community is bewildering to me. Thanks for making Playa Vista a terrible place to be a woman.

– Nicole

Location: Marina Del Rey Home Depot, California

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